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December 5th, 2016
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Poppa was a Playa

Poppa was a Playa

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Join Date: 01/21/2009 | Posts: 172

Went out bar hopping and hit it off with a cute blonde. She was pretty into me, asking the interview questions, etc., we make out a little bit, danced and had a good time. It was a very sexual interaction I told her that I was celibate and she said something like "you better not be." Im moving in a few days so it was either going down with her that night or not at all. Further, I cant pull her back to my place so we would have had to go back to hers. So I decided that I would pull her back to her place, and that was the direction that I would move the interaction. After about twenty minutes i ask, "what are you doing later?" I did not hear what she said but she returned the question, I said "getting food."
After more dancing and whatnot I tell her that I was hungry and wanted to get some food. She asks "are you leaving me?" and I told her "we are going together." She didnt outright agree, but said that she had to go pee first. She insisted that I not leave without her and then went to bathroom. When she came back she decided that she didnt want to go "get food." I kept repeating, "lets go! lets go!" and she responds "I cant leave here with you" and "Im not leaving with you." After about 10 minutes of this I was tired of trying to convince her and actually hungry so I told her that I was leaving. She says, "Youre not even gonna ask me for my number?" I respond, "you can take my number." She took my number, kissed goodbye.

I want to improve screening women to determine right away which girls are DTF and which will punk out at the end of the night. What are some ways that you do this? What is youre attitude/thought process that you use to approach same night pulls?

Advice much appreciated.
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Rawl

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good post. bump.
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TheNimbus

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i think that girl woulda gone home with you... you shouldnt get upset at her when she says im not goin with you... i think what she was really sayin was not yet... I give you credit for not bein needy and sayin fukit im hungry im out... but i personaly woulda got her number... and continue on a different night... i think ur ego may have gotten in the way there 

change her mood not her mind sorta thing... GET her state pumped up...  say some funny shit ,get her laughin , and then say agaain  alright lets go... well be back in 10 min... just down the corner.. . i think when she went to the washroom she got in side her head and lost state...
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sirex

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Just wondering if people even READ the post before giving us their opinion. WHY WOULD HE GET HER NUMBER WHEN HE JUST SAID THIS:

"Im moving in a few days so it was either going down with her that night or not at all."


Get it?
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TheNimbus

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I know! dont you fuckin hate that..  teeth


ok i would go eat then come back and take her home then :)
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Poppa was a Playa

Poppa was a Playa

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rushers wrote:
Check out Captain Jack's blog and some Vin D1c@rlo qualification and screening posts.  They have very throughout "method" to screen girls for SNL or girlfriend material (whatever kind of girl you want her to be)
Thanks, where can i find that stuff?
btw, I LOVE your picture, Im a huge Nate fan.
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TheNimbus

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where do u find that rushers? 
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dman

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I agree, she probably wasn't saying "no" but instead "not yet"

where you proposing the bounce when BT was hitting a new spike?
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Maybe this bit was a test?  How long did she take lol.

When she said she insisted that you don't leave without her say "I'm going in 5 minutes, meet me at <foodplace>" or "I'll wait outside for 5 mins if you're not there I'm going" as if you want her there but you're rushing off.

I remember I was going toilet and I wanted the girl to come with me and I said "I'll meet you at foodplace" and she genuinely had to go and couldn't wait but I ran off to the toilet and I said "I'll see you at foodplace" and she met me there.  It's like *I want you to come but I'm going anyway*
Poppa was a Playa wrote:
She didnt outright agree, but said that she had to go pee first. She insisted that I not leave without her and then went to bathroom. 
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Xavier

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Poppa was a Playa wrote:
She says, "Youre not even gonna ask me for my number?" I respond, "you can take my number." She took my number, kissed goodbye.
I like this a lot, especially in light of this thread: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/117433
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Poppa was a Playa

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Joe Fo Sho wrote:

I like this a lot, especially in light of this thread: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/117433
I like that thread a lot too. In fact, that was why I was looking for some advice from guys who are bad ass at qualification and naturally give off that prescreening vibe.

I have given some thought to this here is what I have come up with:
Logistics:
-Oversell the next venue change (Credit to Jeffy). "You HAVE to come with me to this pizza place they have the best slices in WHOLE city and they are entirely staffed by midgets. Lets go."

Lead her there:
-Establish positive dominace physically and emotionally right off the bat. Move her around the bar and get her saying "yes" frequently, "hey lets go dance over there" "come with me to the bar to get a beer" "now lets go dance over there" "come meet my friend." After you have established this frame of you leading and her following it is more likely that she will let you lead her to the next place.

Make her feel that she is special:
-You are a special guy, and you have choosen her, so she is a special girl. Tell her this. Use conversation and the atmosphere of music and dancing to express yourself to her, show her who you are and what you are about and she will reciprocate. Qualify her. High value women will not hook up with you if you are the type who has no standrads and will take whatever he can get. Express your value to her by screening her to see if she fits your standards.

Those are just brainstorming thoughts and that list is largely incomplete, please add.
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