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#31
ValentineS

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Lazybones wrote:
Friday 17 July

Didn't open the sets I desired got in a pretty baad mood. Couldn't really get stuff done.
I couldn't for the life of me approach this one blonde with a nice bod and lots of cleavage. This fucked with my head the whole night.


- THIS IS THE KEY


Thoughts:
- A man on his path is a happy man. A strong man. A confident man. Win or lose, as long as you follow your core you'll feel like a winner


- AND THIS IS YOUR ANSWER :)
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#32
Lazybones

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Saturday:

Last night I was a man on my path. I didn’t open all the sets I wanted to, but I did open most of them.

I wanted to cut the shit so I decided that I’m gonna start warming up before we hit the club. So I ”open” this 3 set on our way to the club.

Me: Hey, where you going

Her: Tiger

Aand gaahn. I didn’t think much of this set, but it was good I did this because I later reopened them and instantly got a good reaction.

We get into the club and I guess we did some random stuff. Then the King of Australia decides to get a VIP card and a bottle of the cheapest house wine.

Now we’re really living it up so whilst the other guys are looking for a table I decide that we need some female beauty to join us in this celebration.

Fortunately I spot two pretty blondes and open them with something like

”You guys look cool. You should join us we’re living it up and we just got a bottle. However we need some female beauty/energy to really top it off. I can’t guarantee you any drinks, but come anyways. The king is a very funny man. You’ll enjoy it guaranteed.”

Then I pretty much pushed them to our table and they go sit next to King and I accidentally got some rock honors going on.

Since King was getting all the girls at the table me and Valentine decided to go find some more.

We’re standing on the balcony and some woman comes and asks me if I can take their picture. Of course. Val tells me I shouldn’t do it, but I know I have it covered. I take the picture and start joking around that they should now pay me 5 € because I’m a professional photographer. I relent under pressure though and do it pro bono this time.

They’re intrigued by the fact that I speak English and find it hard to believe that I’m Finnish as I at first refuse to speak Finnish. Anyway we bring them to our table and I hit it off with the cutest of them. Older chick. Not sure how old, but I left her at some point and later in the night I return to her whilst adventuring with the King. We’re talking about cameras and I tell her that I need to get a camera. Then me and her could make a sex tape. Then she tells me that she doesn’t do ONS, after which I lose interest in her. I could probably have plowed through it, but didn’t really care for it so we left not long after that.

Leopard girl from last Saturday came to the club at some point and it would have been a certain lay. However I felt the need to adventure so she saw me gaming some other girl and kinda punched me in the back. It would have been interesting to go and try some damage control at the end of the night just to see what would happen, but she had a friend with a serious attitude problem. Her friend actually found a guy, but I guess it was a no go as we saw the dude later on in town alone. Because I’m an evil person I’m glad leopard girl’s negative friend didn’t get any action due to cockblocking leopard girl.

My blonde of desire: This was all about me manning up. There was this cute blonde. That I wanted to open but just couldn’t do it. At the end of the the night she was standing alone so I manned up and went to her.

” Hey, you’re a dream. I shouldn’t even be talking to you because I think this one girl will come and punch me in the back for this. I just had to come talk to you cos you’re so pretty.”

I ask her to come with me. She tells me she can’t, she’s going with a friend so I number close her. I just texted her so we’ll see what happens.

Then of course my night wouldn’t be complete if I didn’t try to get it on with my BarGirl. This damn girl always fucks me up with her presence alone. I can’t seem to get to her so I think I’m just going to forget her.

Then we hit the streets for some fun.

Thoughts:
- Going direct. Great.
- Being true to yourself. Cutting the bullshit, just going for the sets you desire despite the outcome = good state

Also as the King of Australia proved last night by approaching this one chick he desired. She had a boyfriend, but this also meant that KOA didn't have to go around wondering. What if? This gave him new purpose and allowed him to get his head back in the game.
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#33
Lazybones

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Sunday July 20



Great Odin’s Raven!

I’m at a loss. Six nights out, one D2 and no pull. No glory times for me.
Here’s the FR for today though.

We get to the club KOA is feeling half dead so we get some energy drinks. Takes a long time, it’s a good crowd out tonight though so it’s cool.

We drink our drinks in peace sitting down, scoping the chicks that are out tonight.

KOA hit it off with a cute brunette real well so I thought I’d go find me a girl. I walk around until I finally open a two set of fairly hot blondes. I’m not even gonna go into the details of this set atm because it was soo FUBAR.

I open some sets, nothing hooks. Until quite late in the evening I see two cute brunettes on the dancefloor. I go for the taller with nice boobs. Probably taller than me or about the same height.

I WANT.

I walk up to her and go really direct.

”You’re just so damn cute I had to come talk to you.”

Yadda yadda, do Ryan’s spin thing. Her friend evaporates about a minute after I first talk to the girl.

Keep talking, dance some. Just hugging her and keeping strong EC. Embracing her gave me a boner, it was nice. The music is so loud that I decide to pull her away from the dancefloor to somewhere quiet.

We talk for maybe 10 minutes until she informs me that she has to leave with her friends. I tell her that she should stay and come with me. She tells me she can’t so I say. Oh I’ll come with you then. No go either. Take her number and kiss her goodbye.

Thoughts:

Going through a transition phase or just not quite there yet. I can’t seem to SNL hotties.

Now I need some advice on D2s because I don’t want to rely on club pulls anymore. I’ve never really done D2s mostly just pulling from clubs.

My main concern is that I have two flatmates and no real door, but rather just a curtain for a door. However now that I logically think this over it’s not really an issue since one flatmate works evenings/nights and the other is in his room.

Here’s my outline for an ideal D2 on a weekday
- Meet at my place 5-6 pm
- Activity ( something fun that allows me to kino and is cheap, so no dinner or movies) 7-9 pm
- Go back to my place for movie or something. Dessert? Guitar Hero :D 8-9 pm
- Up the escalation with a frame that if she comes back to my apartment she’s DTF
- CLOSE
- Done by 11-12 pm so she can still go home/get to work the next day and I can hit the clubs if I want to.

PS. I need to read Brad’s article on pulling/D2s
I feel optimistic. If start turning my numbers into lays I’ll reach a whole new level of pootang.

PPS. Anchorman is a sweet movie
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#34

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By the beard of Zeus!

D2's? Yeah, this thread was and is my holy guidance for those: http://www.rsdnation.com/node/76601

I usually took them for a walk, none of that dating shit teeth. Keyword: hang out. Got physical the minute we met up (the claw) and then took them for a spontaneous adventure. Rarely pre-planned what we were going to do. And if I did it was not uncommon that I then decided to do something entirely different. Making it an adventure was fun for me and naturally she would enjoy it. My D2's fucking rocked, man shades It's all about getting to know each other, as obvious that might sound. So the focus is always on you two, never on the activity.

Always an adventure. If we saw something cool like a museum or a church etc, we just went in. I'd do slow dance with them on the street and shit.

By the way, Kinopalatsi 1 & 2 have sofa seats. If you take a girl to the movies that's the place to go.
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#35
Lazybones

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Allright, I set up a D2 with the brunette from sunday for tuesday. We'll see what happens.
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#36
Lazybones

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My Brunette of desire flaked our D2 today. All seemed well yesterday, we were gonna go on an adventure. I may have pushed it too agressively today though. Here’s the messages for today.

Me: 17:30 (Location)

Her: Nice of you to decide, but I can’t make it to half past five because I get off work at four and I need to go home first ^^

Me: 18 then or tell me some time that’s good for you

Her: I don’t know how long it’ll take at home but I’ll let you know at what time

Her: Unfortunately I can’t make it to save the world with you today :S but maybe some other day?

Now she wants to wrestle with me though so I guess I'll set up another day.

I'll have to go out tonight then.
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#37
Lazybones

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LR: Tuesday July 21

Well, since my D2 flaked I of course had to go out and I'm glad I did.

Me and KOA go to Butterfly, pretty much the only club open on a Tuesday in Helsinki.

Get opened a few times during the night and there were many girls I knew there so I had good state overall.

I end up spending most of the night with this blonde girl (miss professional) I knew from before. I did have a desire to just go approach sets, but I decided I'd rather take the lay.

Pretty standard she pretty much gamed me, talking all the time the I just kept looking at her and said something every once in a awhile. Somehow her stories bored me. I like my crazy Batman / Robin stories more.

Kissed her at some point.

Danced some.

Seeded the pull by asking her about her next day/plans for the rest of the night. Then just told her let's go when it got late.

She had a orbiter chode when we met her. The dude eventually said that he was leaving and disappeared, but at the end of the night he was waiting outside the club and some drama ensued after which he stormed off. Apparently he had called the 35 times; she didn't have her cell on her.

Doctor prescribes abundance for everyone.

She also invited me to an ice cream party on friday. Free ice cream and drinks! Plus I can put my friends on the list.

Thoughts:
One thing I liked very much and which allowed for some really sexual kino as well as future projection was when me and miss professional end up in front of a big window. We decide to do some sexy poses in the style of Calvin Klein or American apparel commercials.

" I make you look good"
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Lazybones

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Thursday

D2 with vest blonde hottie from last Saturday. Spoke to this girl for maybe 5-10 mins last Saturday, been txting her since Sunday. Didn’t exactly remember what she looks like.

Meet her in Helsinki centre. Hug her immediately. Then tell her that we have to go drop off my bag because I just came from the gym. This was part of my plan.

Go to my place then leave for some walking around.

We walk around my hood talk about stuff, I claw her every once in a while. Just hold my hand on her shoulder. Nice kino.

At some point she wants to go sit. I suggest we go to my place, she says no. Here I could have tried just leading her to my place saying ”ok, this way”. Anyway we go sit on a bench and after awhile it gets chilly so I suggest we go to my place. Still no. Ok McDonalds it is.

I wanted a McFlurry so we go to McD and sit there vibing.

Eventually she tells me she has to go sleep early as she has work tomorrow.

No problem, hug her bye. She will be mine devil

Gonna hit the field tonight.
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Lazybones

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Wednesday

Ah Wednesday what to say. Kaivo, it was packed. Some reeaaal fine chicas there.

Night started nicely with me opening a set straight off the bat in the tram on the way to the club. Unfortunately it turned out we had met the previous weekend but I didn’t remember them at all. That’s the it is girls, can’t remember you all.

I had a couple of ”stalker girls”, which sort of fucked up my night as I couldn’t bring myself to approach sets when they were around as they made me uncomfortable. Just have to learn to start pushing through it not giving a fuck. I'm not there to apologize for following my path.

Stalker one was the girl from Tuesday. Had to contend with her every once in a while for the whole night. However it seems she left with some guy so I think I’m safe from future stalkering.

Stalker two was a friend of the girl I half-heartedly tried to pull last Wednesday. She just came up to me with her sister all happy and opened me. At first I had no idea who she was when she introduced herself, but having learnt from the set I opened earlier in the tram, I was smart enough to play along. Eventually did remember her... friend.

She was super into me, but I just didn’t feel anything for her so I eventually ditched her with ” I’m gonna go adventure, cya later.”

I couldn’t approach any sets after this which really bugged me because there was this glorious blonde girl in a two set just sitting there waiting for me to come and swoop her straight into my bed and ravage her.
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Thursday

Nice night. All objectives completed.



Karaoke – Check

Open the one deluxe set in the club – Check

In many ways this was a very good night. Me and KOA. We don’t chode around for long, KOA opens a 2 set straigth off by lifting one of the girls and dragging her to the dancefloor. He sticks there for a while, but then comes back to me. I open a standing 2 set with something random.

We actually ended up spending a lot of time divided between these two sets using them as home bases of sorts.

At some point me and KOA decide that it’s time to break the chode and do some karaoke. Waiting for our turn was nerve wracking, but afterwards it felt pretty good. Not the I’m king of the world good, but good nonetheless.

After embarrasing ourselves with karaoke how hard could it be talking to them girlies.
I open a 2 set of hot blondes and I hit it off pretty good with one of them. I was getting really physical with her until her friend dragged her off.

We still had one 3 set of deluxe girls that both of us wanted to open for the whole night. When the opportunity arised with one of the girls standing at the bar next to KOA it had to be taken of course. Thinking that KOA had actually opened her before I just came from behind and clawed her:

”So how do you know this guy? I’m Mikey btw.”

Aand in I was. Chatted some with her whilst she was waiting for her drink. Clawing her every once in a while. I think she pushed my arm off a couple of times, but I kept putting it back. It was reflex I swear.

As she’s leaving she tells me she has a boyfriend to which I respond that I respect that and I won’t be hitting on her anymore this night. No need when I can go for her friends.

We wait for our drinks and KOA tells me to go to the deluxe set as there’s two of them now. So of course I go in there. Introduce myself to the other girl and start chatting away, with the usual crazy stories. Batman’s a pimp etc.

This was quite late in the night and we ended up spending the rest of the night with them.
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