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#21
ValentineS

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Lazybones wrote:
LR: Saturday July 12

Creepy tan girl:
 I told her that she looked creepy and I guess she took it personally cos she left not long after this. That’s what I get for being honest.

Ouch .. I felt so bad for her at that moment .. literally wanted to give her a hug .. fuck, I thought she was going to cry or something (she was a nice and happy girl, not some uptight angry you can "fuck" with, she did nothing wrong to you).. tough shit mate, you gotta be carefull with that .. girls are very fragile, the consiquence for her psyche can be massive .. but hey, yeah we are human beings and we make mistakes from time to time .. so no problem, but if I were you I would genuinly apologize .. do it next time when you see her, you will make her day .. and I actually saw you how you felt about it, even though you tried to hide it ;)

Hey, I actually apologized at the bartender I pissed off earlier, he was damn cool about it, payed me a lot of respect for doing that.
Gotta learn to genuinly say "excuse me" when you fuck up. It liberates. And people genuinely forgive.



Putty face blonde(2 set): This was a blonde girl that looked soo damn fine from a few meters away. I wanted to approach her, but couldn’t bring myself to do it. Luckily King of Australia was there and he put my ever useful pen to good use.

King just walked up to the girls and held my pen above their heads, so I walk up and he opens them. The fact that he had the pen over their heads created a sort of strange dynamic straight off the bat. 


Ha ha .. I saw that, thought the pen thing was hillarious, especially how he was holding the pen above their heads and talking to you .. like "Yeah, we opened those girls, but we are still talking" :)


Leopard girl
Valentine and the King leave at some point and me and blondie are in our own little bubble pretty much ignoring her friend so she leaves eventually as well.


We've been watching you tho from time to time, just to make sure you're fine .. I actually saw the brunette girl, she literally ran away of the club :)


I was about to give up, but after some encouragement from the King of Australia himself I decided that it ain’t over till it’s over.


BIG PROPS TO KING ONCE AGAIN! This guy is awesome .. I was actually thinking that at some point there was just a "hug goodbye" between you and the girl and couldn't do anything about it .. but King fricken rocks .. his winging skills are truly impressive!

-V-
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#22
Lazybones

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Tuesday July 14

Yet another fun night.

I noticed to my horror that I had only been out on two nights last week so of course I have to make up for it this week. Normally I don’t like to go out alone, but yesterday I had no choice.

I go to Butterfly, pretty much the only place in Helsinki with people on a Tuesday.

Beginning of the night I was hanging out with some girls I know just trying to get into that social outgoing vibe, maybe get some social proof as well. Failing.

After hanging out with two girls I know and them leaving me I decided it was time to man up and start approaching.

But first I had to go to the toilet.

On the way there I come across this beauty (Teacher) I had been playfully making eyecontact with earlier. So I stop her and go with the usual ”Hey, who are you?”.

I knew it was on, so straight up I get really close to her pulling her closer so I don’t have to shout. The claw is a lifestyle. This was a really short, but sweet interaction as she had to go find her friends.

2 Blondes: These girls I meet sometime later I’m coming out of the toilet and there’s two hot blondes both with these tight white dresses just standing there. So I approach them with my tongue out. Walk up to them. Double claw. ”Hey, who are you guys?”. This set just exploded open. I had one of them tell me that I’m hers tonight and lifting up her dress showing a tattoo that she had on her stomach.

Double claw them and we move onwards. I guess I couldn’t keep their attention long enough because we stop after walking maybe 15m and I talk some to one of the girls and then I see the other one making out with some dude. Shortly thereafter I decide the set wasn’t going where I wanted and left them. I met them later on, but didn’t go anywhere for me. Val had a shot with one of them though.

After this I meet Valentine who’s come in for some quick fun as his bus was leaving in an hour. Of course I had to try and persuade Val to stay.

Val’s girl: This girl I pretty much grabbed when she was walking alone. I told her I needed her help to persuade Val to stay. So I just messed around with her telling her to touch my pen and ninja pirate raccoon, which I had drawn on my left hand earlier in the evening with some girls. For me this was just trying to cheer Val up.

Hook up with friends girls: This was a funny set. Either Val or me open this blonde and talk something really irrelevant with her. Then her friends start showing up. Couple of hot ones too.
Anyway funniest thing ever, they start trying to hook me up with their friend who isn’t even there. Telling me how their friend thinks I’m superhot etc. How she looks like Beyonce and so on. So hopefully I’ll meet this Beyonce look-a-like when we go out tonight.

Teacher again: Still standing with the hookup girls teacher comes up to me. Turns out she’s going to be teacher and has been teaching 15 yo kids. I make a joke about her being a hot teacher. I lift up my hand to show my little Raccoon drawing and just spout some random shit. Then we talk something random and I go into my ”I’m an artist” thing. Which gives me the perfect reason to just run my hands all over her body especially just imagining what I’d draw on her chest : ) running my fingers all over her chest. Really sexual. She wants to give me her number just in case I don’t meet her anymore so I take it and she leaves.

Last call girl: This interaction was great proof of the power of preselection and that it’s never too late to get a girl.

I’t 10 minutes before last call. I’m standing with two girls, one I met tonight and a friend of mine. They’re both really close to me on my both sides because some creepy guy is hitting on them. I’m leaning against the bar and they’re leaning against me. I look to my left and see a cute brunette. I smile to her and nod, wink or whatever. She touches me as she walks past me, but I fail to grab her since I’m surrounded by two girls.

Next time I see her is outside the club so I go up to her and say hello. She’s all over me. Wants me to come with her to an afterparty. Keeps telling me how hot I am. I try to get her to come with me, but it was a half-hearted attempt so of course it failed. Anyway I take her number and leave with Valentine. Didn’t want to go with her incase she wasn’t DTF after all.


I texted Teacher and Last call today with the good old:

”Hey it was nice meeting you hope you had a nice night.”

Good responses from both so far. Teacher wants to meet up this weekend.
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Lazybones wrote:

Val’s girl: This girl I pretty much grabbed when she was walking alone. I told her I needed her help to persuade Val to stay. So I just messed around with her telling her to touch my pen and ninja pirate raccoon, which I had drawn on my left hand earlier in the evening with some girls. For me this was just trying to cheer Val up.
No go mate, this felt kinda lame. Gaming a girl in front of me will not help .. Next time if you wanna break me out of my head, make me choose a set (or choose yourself if I'm still acting like a and making excuses) and push me in there .. so I open it myself.

Hey, but thanx for trying and doing things to cheer me up .. appreciate that A LOT ;)

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Wednesday July 16

Last night was bad. Not the usual chode nights from before when I opened one or two sets, but bad because I wasn’t true to myself.

I opened a bunch of sets, but none of them had girls I really desired.

There was even one girl that I had met some weeks ago and she kept coming back to me. I just didn’t feel the burning desire of passion so I basically avoided her most of the night and at the when I couldn’t get anyone else I sort of settled for her. Thus when it was time to pull I failed.

Didn’t deserve to get laid last night though.

It’s time to Man the fuck UP!

Gonna hit the gym today. Just reconnect with myself and the burning desire lurking below the surface.

Also had a day 2 with a chick I met a couple months ago, but since I’ve been going out so much I haven’t had the energy to do anything about her previously. I’m not that into D2s and this was actually my first this year. It’s time for me to stop relying on SNLs and pulling from clubs.

Went for a beeer with her before going out. Just chilling talking about stuff. Didn’t really kino her much, but she likes me so it’s just a matter of sort out the logistics.
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Thursday:

I wasn’t in that good of a mood, but retrospectively this turned out to be a good night in the sense that I actually followed my desires and opened some sets I really wanted to. This was a good night due to a Britney concert earlier alot of hotties were out partying.

I tried Ryan’s verbal spin game with some mixed results. It sort of failed because I’d go into a massive SOI and then didn’t pull back enough. I also don’t really have clear idea about the girls reaction because I usually clawed them in and had them in a hug whilst rambling on. I reckon I got the initial attraction, but then failed to move past it.

My blonde of glory(2set): Nothing special here except I tried the over the top approach (flash game?) by waving her over, instantly clawing her in and starting with ”Where have you been all night? I love you, you are the light of my life...” Don’t think her sister liked me much so she left me. However each time I bumped into her I’d go hug her and playfully ask her wehere she’s been. How’re the kids etc.

Big tits(2 set): This was a cute lil blonde with huge tits. Opened with the usual ”Hi, who are you?”. Then asked where they’re from or something like that. Quickly clawed her in and I start talking into her ear saying that I wanna whisper nasty stuff to her. I didn’t though. I suck at dirty talk :P

We went to sit and this set fizzled out partially because her friend was cold as ice and I couldn’t get anywhere with big tits.

Super cute brunette deluxe(2 set): This girl was one of the hottest chicks in the whole club. Dayum, awesome body and really cute face. I wanted her.

It was sort of a mutual open on the dance floor at the end of the night. I tried opening them verbally (Next time I go straight in like a man). They wouldn’t have none of it, but kept dancing closer. Then I think both girls came up to me and said that I’m hot/cute so of course I double claw the into a sort of weird dance.

This was the last song of the night before closing. After they stopped playing music I talked with deluxe for awhile, took her number. Unfortunately she’s a different city and she hasn’t answered my texts so I think it’s not gonna go anywhere.
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These always pump me up.

It's time to cut the flashy shit I've been doing lately and just be me.
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Paris Boum Boum

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How are you planning to cut the flashy shit ? I am curious about that.

As I am writing this, I am realizing that when I drop off the flash game and just don' t say anything if I dont feel like it, I am still subconsciously waiting for a good reaction from her ("Hey I am myself now, luv me plizzz"). Should we go in, totally low key and not even wait for a good reaction ? Seems like "fun", Creepy man Ultimate inner game ! I am gonna try it.

Lazybones Go go go!!
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Paris Boum Boum wrote:
How are you planning to cut the flashy shit ? I am curious about that.

As I am writing this, I am realizing that when I drop off the flash game and just don' t say anything if I dont feel like it, I am still subconsciously waiting for a good reaction from her ("Hey I am myself now, luv me plizzz"). Should we go in, totally low key and not even wait for a good reaction ? Seems like "fun", Creepy man Ultimate inner game ! I am gonna try it.

Lazybones Go go go!!


Yeah, I probably have a really twisted sense of what's flashy. Lately I've been doing this; strong eye contact and just go in and grab the girl and tell her:

"Baby you are the light of my life, where have you been all night? I love you."

I'm experimenting with Ryan's verbal game. I have to admit that it appeals to me as I like to go all theatrical and nonsensical.

Also last night I had this whole:

"I'm american, I have a license to be obnoxious!"

I can pull it off though because I apparently both look and sound like one. Plus when I introduce myself as Mikey people usually ask where I'm from.


What I need to do is stop speaking English or Finnish in sets. I think I'll drop Finnish.

Thing is, for all my pulls lately I've been fairly genuine and laid back. Not caring what she thinks about me. Just saying whatever pops in my head first.
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Paris Boum Boum

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Lol. 

"I am American, I have a driving license!"
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Friday 17 July

Didn't open the sets I desired got in a pretty baad mood. Couldn't really get stuff done.

I had however one pretty awesome 1 on 1 with this blonde who I tried Ryan's whole SPIN thing on. Dunno if it went that well with her, but she didn't leave at least smile Also I'm starting to get better at it, so it's just a matter of time before I actually get results with it or notice that it's not for me.

I couldn't for the life of me approach this one blonde with a nice bod and lots of cleavage. This fucked with my head the whole night.

Anyway, as per usual we hit the streets cos' it ain't over till it's over.

Go to McD some hotties there (3 set, 1 guy 2 grrls). Despite some EC they didn't want to stay and chat with me. 

King of Australia stops a two set and I wing the fatty just amusing myself speaking english. Telling her stories of my day. She actually thought I was american.

Thoughts:
- A man on his path is a happy man. A strong man. A confident man. Win or lose, as long as you follow your core you'll feel like a winner
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