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December 9th, 2016
CAvemanning in the modern world: Chris's progress and FR's
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CAvemanChris

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Join Date: 12/20/2008 | Posts: 49

Hey Guys I know I just bombarded the forum which a bunch of threads. The reason being is that I have searched far and wide in the seduction community and I can honestly say this is the best forum out there. It has the most value on a daily basis and seems to be filled with ton's of people who are dedicated and getting real results. I also believe that the sheer number of people posting on here will give me the best opportunity to get valuable feedback on the progress I am making within the community. So basically, thanks for being so awesome. I also posted a lot to give value to the community here at RSD so I hope you can learn something positive that can be applied to your game from my TR's or LR's that I posted.

A little bit about me:

I'm 26. I come from a pretty AFC backround. I lost my virginity at 14 and was in a 2.5 year relationship with that girl. I got out of that relationship and entered another one a year later and remained in it for about 3 years on and off. After this, I gained a bunch of weight and only approached 1 girl in a 2 year period. I banged her a couple times but was layless for another 6 months after we broke it off. All in all, I had about 5-6 lays pre-community which were mainly due to good luck and good looks. I had no real social skills and I believe my time in long-term relationships was really the cause of that. Since then, I lost the weight, joined the local lair, and have been sarging pretty consistently since August 2008. I did take about a 3 month break due to lack of motivation but I'm back like crack baby!

With this thread I would like to track my progress to PUA greatness. I hope you guys tune it, your feedback is always appreciated. Thanks.
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CAvemanChris

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Friday May 1St, 2009:

Didn't Go out. I've pretty much took the week off regarding pick-up. I did go to Karaoke on Thursday night, but it was with a girl that I'm seeing and two of her friends so it didn't count. One interesting thing that I did do was actually perform Karaoke. I had never done it before because I was way too shy. They put pressure on me too perform and I knew I had to stop being  a so I just chose "Give it to me" by Jay-z and performed on stage with the girls as my hoes. It was fun. I am happy that I pushed myself a little outside of my comfort zone. I feel a little growth from pushing myself  and would definetely would do it again. It wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. I actually got complimented by the hot bartender when I went to the bar to get a drink after and I flirted with her a little bit telling her she popped my Karaoke cherry and now I could never get it back."  Couldn't go too far with her though since I had "my girl" with me. Anyways, haven't decided if I am going out or not tonight(Sat). I am feeling very unmotivated and tired due to all the packing and ebay stuff I did preparing for my move at the end of the month. I realize that I am just making excuses but I feel powerless and paralyzed by my laziness right now so I am going to do what my buddy JSC would do and just accept this feeling and release the emotion.
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Saturday May 2, 2009:

Didn't go out.....lame. I have been pretty tired and all I wanted to do was sleep. I don't understand it.

Sunday May 3, 3009:

- Listened to Brain Tracy's Phoenix Seminar CD. Had some very interesting things to say regarding success. I think this stuff is very useful for pick-up. I will post the notes later as I will continuely be studying this program for my self development.

- Got on Dj Fuji conference call

- Got on Enlightenment Dating conference call with "E"

Goals for Monday:

- "I love myself" exercise from Brian Tracy and "Something wonderful is going to happen to me today."

- 1 random approach during the work day
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Monday May 4, 2009

Amazing. So today is a work day. I work 12 hour shifts on Monday and Tuesdays so I don't go out on Mondays. Anyways, I have been doing my affirmations from Brain Tracy's Phoenix seminar all day long even though they felt gay. All day internally and sometimes externally saying " I like" or "I love myself" and also " Something wonderful is going to happen to me today". So towards the end of my shift I continue to say it and I rationalize to myself " well, I'm about to get off and I'll probablly go to sleep right when I get home and nothing wonderful has really happened to me today". So, I get in my car and and The Phoenix seminar is on and it's like right at the affirmation part again and I decide what the hell, I'll continue to say them... " I like myself....something wonderful is going to happen to me today, tommorow, next week, this year.....something wonderful is going to happen to me today". So I get home and check my mailbox and have two letters. One from my credit union and one from Arlington county. I'm like "ohh shit, I'm in trouble...it's probablly some car bullshit about me owing money...or....could this be the something wonderful that was supposed to happen?" SO I open the mail....fucking $65 refund from Arlington County....holly shit. Not a shit ton of money but....it was such a coincedence. This is the law of expectency in action.....I am in tune with the universe

Goal Progress For Monday:

- Completed "I love myself" exercise from Brian Tracy and "Something wonderful is going to happen to me today" and was rewarded

- I did not do my random approach for the day

Goals for Tuesday:

- "I love myself" exercise from Brian Tracy and "Something wonderful is going to happen to me today."

- 1 random approach during the work day

- Go out to Lima and " Run Game"
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Tuesday May 5, 2009

Awesome day. I feel great. I feel great about myself and great about the future that I am manifesting for myself. So I get to work and continue to do my Brian Tracy exercises. IT is becoming second nature now instead of feeling like a chore...it is almost if my mind is assisting me with my affirmations....it wants me to be successful. So I go throughout the day and I'm telling my good buddy who is really into self help about the story that happened to me yesterday. He exchanges a couple of stories of his own regarding the law of attraction and how it has affected him...his are creepy but inspiring due to their surrealness. I then mention how I am waiting for the next great thing to happen to me and realize.....oh....wait...I forgot ..It already did. That morning when I woke up I received a Paypal payment in the amount of like $550 for sneakers I sold on ebay. The auction ended on Sunday with the Buy now option and I was hoping that it was not from a dead beat bidder. I had e-mailed him on Monday to ask when he would send payment and I checked my E-mail Tuesday morning before work to discover the $550 payment. I thought it was pretty comical that that I had been rewarded and had forgotten all about it. Law of Expectation once again in action.

Another great thing that happened was that I made my first pick-up attempt at work in a long time. So towards the end of the day I was hanging outside with a co-worker when I saw a gril who was attractive and my "type" across the street. I imagined that If she was walking past me she is totally somebody I would be interested in. So as I'm imagining that she walks across the street and asked me If I knew where such and such was...LoL...Fucking awesome...I intterupt her and I say some idiotic thing trying to like go direct on something about she seems really cool and I would really like to hang out with her(Real chode game) and she kind of blows me off talking about how she in a rush...I understood..plus it was kind of raining so no biggie....I'm just really proud of myself for making the attempt....I am magnetizing chicks to me lol

Goal Progress For Tuesday:

- 1 Random approach during work day completed

- "I love myself" exercise from Brian Tracy and "Something wonderful is going to happen to me today."- And Rewarded

- I did not go to Lima. It was kind of rainy and I figured it would be pretty empty. This is still an excuse and I realize I should have went anyway. I ended up falling asleep as soon as I got home for work. I will try to go out on a Tuesday night next week.

Overall 2/3

Goals For Wednesday:


- "I love myself" exercise from Brian Tracy and "Something wonderful is going to happen to me today."

- 1 random approach during the work day
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Wednesday MAy 6, 2009


So today was really cool for a number of reasons. I continued to do my afiirmations. Now they play in the backround even if I've stopped saying them. They have become my mental noise and that's a good thing. I can feel my confidence growing and it has made noticable effects on my posture, energy, and ability to hold eye contact. I anticipate that awesome things will continue to occur in my life. Some cool things that happened today:

- So I walk into the Golds Gym while @ work to ask general information about membership. The guy immediately notices my DOD badge and tells me about the discount I get for having one....Sweeeeet...I would have never even thought about that...sign me up. I get to save about $17/month on the membership now. So I signed up and will now be able to work out immediately after work during the week...NO EXCUSES.

- I get home and check my e-mail. I notice I have an e-mail from my Real Estate investment mentor. She offers me a buyout on my membership. I basically had 3 months left of $250/month and she offered $550 total if I payed now. I settled out, saved $250 and in addition to that she extended my membership all the way through December meaning I get an addtional 4 months valued at $1000 for free. I am sooooooo excited about this because I had been thinking about how my membership was about to end yesterday and how I haven't given it my all...this is supposed to be my bread and butter...now with this free extension,  I save money and am granted a new opportunity at success. I am not going to fuck it up this time. I got 8 solid months to make a couple deals and have my mentor assist me in the process.

- Got laid by my new LTR...and it was all about me tonight...I wasn't worried about making her cum...I enjoyed myself and made sure I was pleased for once....sometimes you have to be a little selfish ;0)


Goal Progress For Wednesday:

- "I love myself" exercise from Brian Tracy and "Something wonderful is going to happen to me today."- Completed and I am continuing to get rewarded

- 1 random approach during the work day- Done it...kind of. I complemented a random chick walking on the street about her scarf in passing. She lit up and smiled but didn't say anything. I'm happy with the result...I would have normally let her pass without a word.





Goals for Thursday May 7, 2009

- 1 Random approach during the day

- "I love myself" exercise from Brian Tracy and "Something wonderful is going to happen to me today."

- Sarge and do at least 10 sets

- Work on eliminating any negative habit patterns. Neutralize blame with " I Am Responsible" - realize I cannot advance in life except to the degreee that I leave my negative emotions behind. Utilize the law of substitution.

- Work on taking responsibility- I am in charge of the quality of my thinking.

- Work on riding myself of the victim mentality , victim language , and destructive self criticism.-  Catch myself when I use words like "I can't , I wish, I'll try , But" etc.

- Work on Forgivness- It is the key determinent to my happiness and success in life, eliminating guilt, and single most important determinent to whether or not I am a fully integrated, fully functioning human being. " I forgive ______ for Everything"

- No F.E.A.R- Fantasized Experiences Appearing Real-  When we make decisions, we do away with worry which is a sustained form of fear caused by indecision
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Friday May 8, 2009 - Monday May 11, 2009

Chilled with my LTR on Friday I believe. It was hard getting myself to go out these 2 weeks especially when you can have on a consistent basis. I have decided I have to distance myself from my LTR a little...after all, this is kind of how I became AFC in the first place....becoming attached to a female and losing the motivation to go out an be social. I can't  allow myself to be sucked in that vortex once again. I will resume going out again on Tuesday.

On another note, I have been pretty consistent with my goal setting and my affirmations. The Brian Tracy program has helped me immensly. I will continue to listen to the CD's over and over again until I feel I have internalized all of his teachings. IT's taking foreever because he is constantly giving value so I end up rewinding the CD's every couple of seconds to take proper notes.


Goals for Tuesday May 12, 2009

- Go To Lima

- 1 Random approach during the day

- "I love myself" exercise from Brian Tracy and "Something wonderful is going to happen to me today."

- Sarge and do at least 10 sets

- Work on eliminating any negative habit patterns. Neutralize blame with " I Am Responsible" - realize I cannot advance in life except to the degreee that I leave my negative emotions behind. Utilize the law of substitution.

- Work on taking responsibility- I am in charge of the quality of my thinking.

- Work on riding myself of the victim mentality , victim language , and destructive self criticism.- Catch myself when I use words like "I can't , I wish, I'll try , But" etc.

- Work on Forgivness- It is the key determinent to my happiness and success in life, eliminating guilt, and single most important determinent to whether or not I am a fully integrated, fully functioning human being. " I forgive ______ for Everything"

- No F.E.A.R- Fantasized Experiences Appearing Real- When we make decisions, we do away with worry which is a sustained form of fear caused by indecision
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Tuesday May 12, 2009

Field Report: Lima And The Suicide Girl Prostitute

Cool...So I finally got myself out on a Tuesday. I ended up going to Lima to meet up with JSC who was back from his Hawaii trip. I was a little nervous upon arriving @ Lima. This is a normal feeling for me when I haven't been out in a long while. I immediately go down stairs and grab a beer at the bar. I decide to open the mature lady right next to me. We begin conversating and I can feel my nervousness effect my facial expressions...it's weird. I wonder if others can pick up on these subcoms. Anywho, she ended up being pretty cool. She was down for a Car Dealer conference with her husband who was also there. They own a Ford Dealership in New York state. Talking to them improved my state...and so did the 5 drinks I had that hour. I've been trying to not drink in field but sometimes it is a necessity. After a while, JSC showed up. I was in Mega State at this point and began opening antyhing within proximity of me. I maintained a super fun , playful vibe and the sets opened easily. I stayed in attraction with most of my sets since my only goal for the night was really to get rid of any AA I had returning to the field. I might have been a little to hyper though...I ended up chipping JSC's tooth by accident(oops). I had two really good sets that I feel I could have escalated well with. HBHipHop( A cute spanish girl with slashed in her eyebrow) seemed to be feeling me pretty heavily  and towards the end of the night I re-opened her. Somebody bought her a rose and I tried to take credit for it even though I obviosuly didn't buy it.....het BT was spiked by my "Assholeness". Anyway, the rosebuyer ( ahem...Chode) returned to her and his friends came along so it was like 3 on 1 i couldn't really compete with all this introduction shit...but I'm kind of dissapointed I didn't even try.  JSC was occupying her friend to the left of me and I was trying to Seed for the bounce. Before it was too late they were stolen by those 3 guys to head out to Tysons Corner somewhere. We had better logistics, how did we fuck this up??  My other good set was with a decent Asian chick. She was feeling me pretty hard core. I evolution phase shifted her and she began biting my neck. I tried an almost kiss and just as I was about to lay it on her...her friend comes and cockblocks me and pulls her away. Damn! She's all like " That's my friend!" I didn't even try to handle her...I just sorted stood there and choded out as she took her from me. I was too drunk to really care. So upond leaving, I see her once again outside and she's extremely happy to see me...talking about how she's been looking for me all over. I tell her she owed me an almost kiss and she's all rubbing all on my talking about she's "Cold". I told her she just wanted rub her body on me and we begin making out. She had some of the softest lips I have ever encountered. She was also a very good kisser. Everything felt right. We were in our "love bubble" or "conversion threshold" what ever you like to call it. Either way, any time I have ever had this feeling of genuiness and Love I have always ended up laying the girl and here it was. She felt oh so good with her body next to mine. I was beginning to seed the bounce. " Do you work tommorow".... she answers yes. I'm about to invite her to JSC's place anyway and she's talking about how her friend has her keys. DAMN COCKBLOCK! So at this point I am thiking of inviting her anyways and suggesting I drop her off later. We begin making out again and her friend comes in again and seperates us. Dammit!!! Once again I have no handler for this...I mean I do but I just stood there like a chode and let her steal my girl away. I'm always getting fucked with logistics. Lesson learned....next time...doing something is better than nothing....even if I have to pick my girl up and run with her over my shoulder..hehe. So Imma kind of too drunk to be pissed. David points out a hot 2 set walking down the street. I walk right between them and seperate them. I have one of them wrapped in each arm and I'm running some attraction game. So I ask about the clubs they just came from. They didn't come from any. I'm like "HUh, then what are you girls doing out here?"....The hot one says "Working". I'm like "working...ok..doing what?" She someone talks about her being a suicide girl and me being the perv that I am,  I have run across the suicide girls on the web. I never checked them out but I know of their existence. They are basically tatooed or Emo looking chicks on the web who do nude modeling. I thought this was pretty cool. Since we were leaving I try to seed the bounce for them to come to JSC's for drinks. She's asking if I want to party and I'm like hell yea. I then kinda of realize that she's a prostitute...we talk about this for a while...and she say that it will be $100. Oh Shit. Lol. So, at this point it has been a pretty tight night and I'm actually considering entertaining the offer....so is JSC. I figure, hey why not get a little oral tonight from a naked Sucide girl to cap off a good night. I'm actually excited about the possibility. I have actually always wanted to have paid meaningless sex with a prostitute...this is part of my bucket list (Along with sleeping w/a pornstar) so I'm like what the heck. We get to my car and as I'm about to pull off......a cop pulls right behind me....OH shit...I can hear my heart pounding in my chest....random thoughts start to impress upon my mind....I could lose my job, my liscence, bcome a registered sex offender all in one fatal swoop...I'm starting to believe this chick set me up....could she though...I let her feel my Johnson...we remain calm and the chicks start accusing us of being cops....she gets on the phone with her "Pimp"? Could she be speaking code? So the cop never actually put his lights on he just sounded of his siren briefly. He's been behind us for like 10 minutes. He eventually just takes of and stops at the red light right beside us. The light turns green and he hesitates, I think he wants to see how I'm going to drive off. I take and immediate right and he's gone......pheeeewwww. I drop these chicks right off at the corner and me and JSC talk conspiracy theory the whole ride home. Crazy night.

Goal Progress For Tuesday:
- Went out
- Stayed in set 85% of the time
- Kiss close
- Decent number of solid sets
- Completed more than 10 sets


Goals For Wednesday

- Go out

- 1 Random approach during the day

- "I love myself" exercise from Brian Tracy and "Something wonderful is going to happen to me today."

- Sarge and do at least 10 sets

- Work on eliminating any negative habit patterns. Neutralize blame with " I Am Responsible" - realize I cannot advance in life except to the degreee that I leave my negative emotions behind. Utilize the law of substitution.

- Work on taking responsibility- I am in charge of the quality of my thinking.

- Work on riding myself of the victim mentality , victim language , and destructive self criticism.- Catch myself when I use words like "I can't , I wish, I'll try , But" etc.

- Work on Forgivness- It is the key determinent to my happiness and success in life, eliminating guilt, and single most important determinent to whether or not I am a fully integrated, fully functioning human being. " I forgive ______ for Everything"

- No F.E.A.R- Fantasized Experiences Appearing Real- When we make decisions, we do away with worry which is a sustained form of fear caused by indecision

Lessons learned:

- We are PUA's..we don't pay for pleasure..lol.....never doing that again

Also, My and JSC started a 7 day challenge. We will go out 7 days straight and I will evaluate how it affect the rest of my life(Work, other goals, Sleep, etc.) and if all is gravy we will try to do a month straight.
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Wednesday MAy 13, 2009


Went to 18th St. Lounge with JSC. MEt up with Clorox, Dare, Archangel. Had a decent night. Nothing that impressed me too much. Had an ok number of sets. Had 1 sets with a turbo hottie but she was stolen by her friend. Kissed some girl that kissed Clorox and Dare which means I had 85 makeouts. Sweeeeet.


Goal Progress For Wednesday May 13, 2009:

- Went Out (Day 2/7)
- Opened sets
- Maintained a relatively upbeat and playful attitude



Goals For Thursday May 14, 2009

- Go out

- 1 Random approach during the day

- "I love myself" exercise from Brian Tracy and "Something wonderful is going to happen to me today."

- Sarge and do at least 10 sets

- Work on eliminating any negative habit patterns. Neutralize blame with " I Am Responsible" - realize I cannot advance in life except to the degreee that I leave my negative emotions behind. Utilize the law of substitution.

- Work on taking responsibility- I am in charge of the quality of my thinking.

- Work on riding myself of the victim mentality , victim language , and destructive self criticism.- Catch myself when I use words like "I can't , I wish, I'll try , But" etc.

- Work on Forgivness- It is the key determinent to my happiness and success in life, eliminating guilt, and single most important determinent to whether or not I am a fully integrated, fully functioning human being. " I forgive ______ for Everything"

- No F.E.A.R- Fantasized Experiences Appearing Real- When we make decisions, we do away with worry which is a sustained form of fear caused by indecision
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Thursday May 14, 2009

Went to Front Page after passing by Ultrabar and determining it wasn't the type of crowd we wanted to sarge. I pretty much choded tonight only opening a couple a sets. There were some attractive women there but too many PUA's. No sweat, I'll pick up the pace tommorow.

Goal Progress:
- Went Out (Day 3 of 7 complete)
- Affirming regularly
- Wrote down my life goals for 4 consecutive days now and practiced some visualization.



Goals For Friday May 15, 2009:


- Go out

- Affirm "I love myself" exercise from Brian Tracy and "Something wonderful is going to happen to me today."

- at least 10 sets

- Work on eliminating any negative habit patterns. Neutralize blame with " I Am Responsible" - realize I cannot advance in life except to the degreee that I leave my negative emotions behind. Utilize the law of substitution.

- Work on taking responsibility- I am in charge of the quality of my thinking.

- Work on riding myself of the victim mentality , victim language , and destructive self criticism.- Catch myself when I use words like "I can't , I wish, I'll try , But" etc.

- Work on Forgivness- It is the key determinent to my happiness and success in life, eliminating guilt, and single most important determinent to whether or not I am a fully integrated, fully functioning human being. " I forgive ______ for Everything"

- No F.E.A.R- Fantasized Experiences Appearing Real- When we make decisions, we do away with worry which is a sustained form of fear caused by indecision
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Friday May 15, 2009

Day 4 out of 7 of the 7 day challenge

Met up with JSC, Clorox, Sonic, and Colt45 at Grand Central in Adams Morgans. Felt kind of nervous so I got the usual 3 drinks at the bar. I opened a hot two set nearby. I began buidling attraction momentum with the girl and I was interrupted by the bouncer who told us to move since we were kind of blocking the walk path. That kind of ruined the momentum so I bounced on her. Me and Clorox hit the dance floor. I Cycloned into a couple groups and built some attraction but I wasn't really interested in any of the girls. The facial reactions you get from girls after doing the Cyclone is classic...if I were to put it into words it's like " Who the fuck does this guy think he is" lol lol. Bounced upstaris. Reluctantly winged JSC after I saw him in a two set. His target was decent...the obstacle was a blob.....I occupied the Blob until JSC ejected out of the set. Cycloned into a 3 set and immediately isolated with one of the chicks...some heavy kino ensues but she is super drunk...I don't  believe I can improve my game by gaming a drunk chick so I eject after about 5 minutes. I open maybe 2-3 more sets and we bounce to the Reef. I get there open like 2 sets and then immediately sit down with a seated 3 seat. I start talking to my target....she starts talking to me like she knows me. She is under the impression that I'm some chicks brother..haha...so I play the part and run some attraction on the group. They aren't that receptive. Their friend returns and they find out I'm not her brother..lol...she sits down and I'm completely locked into the group. We talk somemore and then I stop adding value so I can't stay relevant in the conversation. I have the chick to my left move so I can eject. I walk around for a while and then sit down with a chick who was alone. I run some attraction, set some sexual frames and she is receptive...for some reason I didn't push the interaction in the direction I would have liked. I feel it's going nowhere so I eject. We go upstairs and it's weak. We sit down and smoke. I see a hot two set talking to two guys. My intuition tells me that they don't know eachother. I HAVE to find out. I immediately go into the set with higher energy. I completely come right in between 1 of the guys to get to my target. He is now blocked off as I'm running attraction. I install some sexual frames as well as run strawberry fields. She is very receptive sexually. I amp up the kino and she is very complient. I ask her how good of a kisser she is on a scale from 1-10. She says 15...lets find out. Makeout. She is a decent kisser. I start running a little comfort. I tell her we're about to bounce to Tom Tom's and that she should come. She agrees but says she has to see about her friend. Her friend is still talking to one of the dudes. I could have really used a wing to occupy the other girl. So I number close and eject. We bounce to Tom Tom's which is dead. We bounce to Madams Organs which is also dead. At this point it's close to closing so we just hang out outside next to Grand Central. All in all a pretty decent night.
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Goal Progress:
- Went Out (Day 4 of 7 complete)
- Affirming regularly
- Wrote down my life goals for 5 consecutive days now and practiced some visualization.
- 10 sets


Goals For Saturday May 16, 2009:


- Go out

- Affirmations

- Work the new stack

- at least 10 sets
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