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December 9th, 2016
CAvemanning in the modern world: Chris's LAy Reports
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CAvemanChris

CAvemanChris

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Join Date: 12/20/2008 | Posts: 49

FR backstory:
My first night back from Vegas
Tuesday Night 3/10: Lima
JSC and I meet up at Lima. I am feeling anxiety. I feel unprepared and uncalibrated. I'm thinking of getting a drink at the bar, but I decide to stick to my no drinking in field rule. After all, you can't rely on alcohol when your teaching a bunch of students. This is a habit I need to get rid of immediately. JSC opens up a chick close to the bar on the top floor. Her friend soon arrives and I banter with her. She is hot and into to me so I am super aggressive. I tease her, run a few routines, a couple of cold reads and transition into comfort. After about 30 minutes we bounce downstairs. For the rest of the night, I danced with her and ran comfort on her until an eventual make out on the dance floor. She had to go eventually so I numbered closed her and she left. More on her later.



Friday Night 3/27: Day 4 With Chick from Lima LR


I'm not going to create a detailed lay report in this instance for my own safety. This is a girl I really like and respect so I'm going to spare the really intricate details. I hope you can still learn something from this.

So I had been playfully bantering with the chick I met at Lima 3/10 pretty much everyday. We hung out a couple times since that time. I've had her at my place 2 times without closing but did have really heavy make out sessions and small amounts of foreplay. Friday we met up for a quick Dinner out and came back to my place and kind of just goofed off. We watched Youtube videos, danced to music videos and watched a little TV. I also revealed a little more about my identity to her by showing my musical talents. It was pretty much a comfort building night. I tried escalating on her randomly over several hours with no success. I believe the LMR killer was allowing her to take control at the end. I had been pretty dominant the whole night and ever since I met her I've constantly Kinoed and escalated with her. I believe it kind of made her uncomfortable since she wasn't ready. She told me she wasn't ready. She told me that although she felt REALLY comfortable with me, she hadn't reached the level of comfort that would enable herself to have sex with me. She told me we were NOT having sex. Well we made out heavily, this time with her on top and we began kind of dry humping. She started feeling on my junk and I pulled my shorts and boxers off to give her REAL access. She stroked me briefly and then hopped back on me to dry hump me, this time, she let me pull the shorts that I gave her(PJ FUJI!) off. So she started grinding on my bare junk with her panties on. I believe this made her really horny and It gave her just enough control to make the decision on her own that she was comfortable to have sex. I was no longer pressuring her. She let me pull her panties panties off without resistance and allowed me to enter her.

So I have about 5 chicks in my rotation who are somewhat into me. This is the first that I've met that is GF material. I'm very attracted to her and she has a beautiful personality. So I'm kind of experiencing a high quality problem. I like her and care for her but the timing is obviously bad. I have just began my PUA journey and have no intention of delaying it to be in a relationship. She is a great girl and I feel bad that I will most likely have to lie to her about my "extracurricular" activities. I know most PUA's would tell me to just be honest and upfront with her. I can't. I still operate from a scarcity mentality and this is not a girl that I'm willing to lose right now. I need to have someone like her in my life right now. I haven't experienced emotions close to love in a real long time. I believe I can honestly care deeply for her while seeing other women. It's the way it has to be right now.

Lessons learned:
- Always be escalating
- Build as much comfort as possible
- Don't be afraid to relinquish control. Calibrate based on the situation and the girl's personality type.
- Dry humping makes girls horny
- Let her feel your junk!
- Tight text game does most of the work for you!
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CAvemanChris

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Join Date: 12/20/2008 | Posts: 49

Hey This is an old one guys. Just posted in to give some value to the community

I orginally posted this on my lair forum so it may come off a little different as If I just wrote up for this thread.

LR: Getting out of the friend zone and 4 hour plowing
Friday I was given a special assignment to sarge alone. It was absolutely nerve wrecking. I started @ Front Page in Dupont and after 5 minutes of anxiety I began opening sets. I opened 5 sets of 3-4 girls. Everything hooked(not attracted by me but receptive) but I was only really feeling one of the sets. Hot red head, phat ass, and tongue ring...oh it's on. I start gaming the set...it hooks well..I start running attraction material and I try my main bit on her...she is pulled away by her cock blocking fat GF. I began attracting another girl in the same set..she was also a hot redhead...@ some point my previous target steals me from the current one and heavy kino ensues...she starts dancing with me and we get into some fake salsa and shit like that. A couple minutes later Fat GF cock blocks me again...she was loud and obnoxious about me talking so fucking much even though her girl was kind of feeling me...I should have isolated so this didn't happen but I was bullshitting. I left...opened another set and then rolled to Big Hunt, Cafe citron. I opened a couple more sets for practice( no real hotties there). I met up with JSC and his non PUA buddies for a breather. Than we headed some venue next to the Camelot. Opened any HB's I could find. Nothing stuck too solid. Walked back up the street to Front Page. Re-opened the Red head...who was alone temporarily...teased her and her friend for a while until they were leaving and number closed her. Dropped JSC off and decided to hit up a girl that was lived close to him. I went to visit her....she had a smokin' hot body in tight little pants and a tank top...no way I wasn't getting laid. So we went to her room and I playfully bantered with her for a while...we started wrestling after I teased her to the point of physical contact and I just went for the kiss...she accepted my invitation and a heavy makeout session ensued....I started fondling her breast and she became highly aroused when I started sucking on them. It took me forever to get her pants off...but it seemed that the more I massaged, kissed, and licked her erogenous zones the less control she had over the interaction...it was as if she was intoxicated by the good feelings within her body and she was losing control.. I finally got her pants off..then it took forever to get her thong off...oh boy! I just continued a pattern of erogenous zone stimulation... while pinning her hand behind her back so she could only "battle" me with one hand until I finally got her bottom off. She kept her legs closed as to keep my hands and fingers from touching in between. More stimulation ensues...it is a semi predictable pattern...Neck..breast...torso...inner thighs...until I finally gave her a kiss/suck from behind..she moaned...allowed me to spread her legs and I went to town orally...game over...after about 10-15 minutes she nodded to my next request and I "beat it up".

This is huge victory for me because we had hung out once before and I got very little compliane/IOI's. I thought for sure I would be in the friend zone. This just proves that taking big risks are worthwhile. My subcoms were strong...therefore she had no choice..basically...I am a man..I get what I want..I am unaffected emotionally by rejection seemed to get the job done. I plowed and plowed until she had no choice...and we both ended up getting what we wanted. I think the important thing to realize is that females want you to escalate sexually...they just don't want to feel like a slut...so they often have to display some measure of "token resistance". If I questioned her about turning me down during several escalation attempts I would have engaged her logical mind and would never had been able to go the distance...just like the first time we met and I tried to escalate. It is important to stay non-reactive when she denies a denies a request or directive. I also IOD'ed her by turning away or becoming "occupied with something" several times throughout the night. Keep in mind it took me about 3 hours to get the lay from the point of make-out until the point of penetration...most guys probably would have given up...this proves there is a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow as long as your willing to do what ever it takes. Take the risks, don't be concerned with the outcome or with losing the girl. This Lay also taught me a thing or too about IOI's. They are not all that important...some girls are just hard to read and don't really display their emotions. I virtually got no IOI's from this girl but it didn't matter because I subcomed attractive qualities. You are the man...so YOU lead the interaction.

Also, I recommend some of you sarge alone sometime...it was a complete shift in consciousness...my AA that had returned is now almost completely gone..2009 is going to be a BIG year for me....the girlies are in trouble.
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CAvemanChris

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Join Date: 12/20/2008 | Posts: 49

Also, an even older one

LR: Chi Cha's to FULL CLOSE
ok. Imma make this brief...I am willing to tell this story in depth to my close PUA friends...I don't really want to put to much info out there...I really like this girl.

Anyways, Went to Chi Cha's...Met up with De Agua, Dare, Horizon, Morpheus, JSC, Deline, Fearless, and eventually met Ignite(cool dude). Engaged the waitress who was pretty cute..flirted with her a while...really was going to pull her @ the end of the night but things got complicated.

First off, I owe this night to JSC.

JSC opened a set about 20 feet from our table...I smoked the Hooka...waited for the place to start filling up..flirted with the waitres..I observed..and observed....JSC is fully locked in on a 2 set.....she won't let him leave pulling him in....then eventually a full out makeout session..AMAZING.....her friend is smoking the hooka and is laughing...perfect opportunity....I move in talk to the other friend..."SO(As JSC is making out)..I SEe you have met my friend D***...She laughs.."I extend my hand.."Let's go talk"...she accepts...I pull her to my sofa 20 feet away. I build comfort and attraction....we are kindred souls literally...I have never met someone with so much in common in my entire life..I'm not making this up...anywayz...We enjoy our time...heavy Kino continues...JSC merges his set with mine...we have 2 hookas now...the rest of the time there we are biting, kissing, comfort kissing, dancing in the lounge...overall having an amazing time...while the waitress that I opened is extremely jelous basically trying to make us as uncomfortable as possible..over pouring my drink onto my girls leg, dropping ceviche on her leg, pretending that their out of charcoal for the hookah, and many other things but that's a completely different story....Me, JSC and the two girls eventually bounce to her beautiful condo...we continue having a good time...I perform oral on her in her bedroom with her door wide open..;0)...she performs oral on me and her friend walks in with my girls mouth full..lol lol lol...anywayz...after hours of caressing and love making(I never stop rubbing/kissing her the whole 6 hours we are at her house..;0) great)...she drops me and JSC off @ my car @ approximately 6 Am...I go to work @ 8 AM.

2nd high quality problem...what do I do with this girl?? I like her A LOT but my life has just began. This is very difficult.
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