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July 30th, 2014
Can't cum off of BJ's
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Charles David

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Make that 5 guys...
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Sheen

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I don't even like it :S I don't know why, maybe I'm weird.
Hahaha but handjob is better, or just fuck her
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El Fuerte

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Steev wrote:
If it's a good blowjob you should be able to cum.
I've had awesome blowjobs and I've had poor ones.
The good ones can make me cum sooner than I would like, and I've
had ones so poor that I wouldn't be able to cum in a million years.
(Not had a good one for 7-8 years)
But I would prefer a good bj than intercourse any day of the week
because I've never been able to cum during intercourse.
I think that's due to never experiencing a tight enough pussy.


I didn't want to say this, but I'm getting porn star like BJs, I have never in my life had BJs this good, I've come close, but never there, only after fucking the pussy, then finishing off w the mouth does it do it for me. And although I enjoy them a lot, I just can't get it to blow by itself. I can't do the freaky shit like in a BR or blow me in my car while driving. I'll let her go down but not cumming is just kinda disappointing.
I ask what sets u guys off while she's down on u, like what makes it fucking arousing and irristible to have that keeps u wanna keep fucking her mouth, because maybe it's something I've overlooked or haven't had a perspective on it that could help me.

...the problems we have these days..
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NastyMick

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You just want to relax and enjoy it man
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Trig

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I never cum from getting a blowjob.  A lot of guys don't it's not that uncommon.  I still love getting blowjobs. 
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El Fuerte

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xsoapradio wrote:
OP I'm similar to you in that getting her off helps get me off. Because of that I like eating her out while she's going down on me. Also I've noticed that if I tense my PC muscles a bit while she's going down it helps me get closer to coming (PC muscles are are at the base of the penis; they're the muscles you use to stop peeing).


NIIIIIICE..

I'll try this for sure.

On another note, being the introspective dudes that we are, why do u think we get aroused off of getting her off? I've tried to understand this but it's only on a emotional and physiological level. I just feel it.

Thoughts?
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Dude if she's really good at it I don't see the problem.  Your dick  doesn't know the difference.  Seems like it must be mental.  I know I went through a period where it was taking like 30-40 minutes.  She was tired as fuck, and was probably developing a jaw problem.  But I realized one day that I kept worrying about it taking too long and of course that made it take long.  If you imagine cumming, the cosmos will provide it.
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El Fuerte

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Shai wrote:
Dude if she's really good at it I don't see the problem.  Your dick  doesn't know the difference.  Seems like it must be mental.  I know I went through a period where it was taking like 30-40 minutes.  She was tired as fuck, and was probably developing a jaw problem.  But I realized one day that I kept worrying about it taking too long and of course that made it take long.  If you imagine cumming, the cosmos will provide it.



Def mental. Truth be told, I used to be very self-conscious about my dick, so BJs were not really appealing. Weird. I'm super comfortable now, I guess it's just like a block there I'm trying to blast through. I'm wanting it more and more, and according to her..that's all I need..

Definitely laying back and just enjoying will be key, which I hadn't considered due to pressure to want to cum.
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El Fuerte wrote:

I wanna know cuz my GF loves to give them and I wanna be able to cum when she's down there. It's not her abilities, I promise you this.

It is you AND her abilities.

Seriously, for YEARS I thougth I couldn't cum from BJs. I was in a long relationship and my girl was very passionate about giving them and after that I had many other girls giving me BJs. Some of them were very good. They all were surprised that I didn't came, but thats the thing, some guys are hard to satisfy this way. I was convinced I just couldn't come by BJs until I met one girl that really had it in her.  You don't know whats possible until you meet a true expert ;)

@ El Fuerte
for me it wasn't mental (hmm except that everything about sex is mental - but u know what i mean..l)
I was totally relaxed and fine with them blowing me. I love it. I just don't cum unless they are extremely good.
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