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November 24th, 2014
Can't cum off of BJ's
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#11
El Fuerte

El Fuerte

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Join Date: 04/06/2009 | Posts: 36

Steev wrote:
If it's a good blowjob you should be able to cum.
I've had awesome blowjobs and I've had poor ones.
The good ones can make me cum sooner than I would like, and I've
had ones so poor that I wouldn't be able to cum in a million years.
(Not had a good one for 7-8 years)
But I would prefer a good bj than intercourse any day of the week
because I've never been able to cum during intercourse.
I think that's due to never experiencing a tight enough pussy.


I didn't want to say this, but I'm getting porn star like BJs, I have never in my life had BJs this good, I've come close, but never there, only after fucking the pussy, then finishing off w the mouth does it do it for me. And although I enjoy them a lot, I just can't get it to blow by itself. I can't do the freaky shit like in a BR or blow me in my car while driving. I'll let her go down but not cumming is just kinda disappointing.
I ask what sets u guys off while she's down on u, like what makes it fucking arousing and irristible to have that keeps u wanna keep fucking her mouth, because maybe it's something I've overlooked or haven't had a perspective on it that could help me.

...the problems we have these days..
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NastyMick

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You just want to relax and enjoy it man
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#13
Trig

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I never cum from getting a blowjob.  A lot of guys don't it's not that uncommon.  I still love getting blowjobs. 
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Join Date: 11/07/2008 | Posts: 4

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El Fuerte

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xsoapradio wrote:
OP I'm similar to you in that getting her off helps get me off. Because of that I like eating her out while she's going down on me. Also I've noticed that if I tense my PC muscles a bit while she's going down it helps me get closer to coming (PC muscles are are at the base of the penis; they're the muscles you use to stop peeing).


NIIIIIICE..

I'll try this for sure.

On another note, being the introspective dudes that we are, why do u think we get aroused off of getting her off? I've tried to understand this but it's only on a emotional and physiological level. I just feel it.

Thoughts?
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Shai!

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Join Date: 03/25/2009 | Posts: 181

Dude if she's really good at it I don't see the problem.  Your dick  doesn't know the difference.  Seems like it must be mental.  I know I went through a period where it was taking like 30-40 minutes.  She was tired as fuck, and was probably developing a jaw problem.  But I realized one day that I kept worrying about it taking too long and of course that made it take long.  If you imagine cumming, the cosmos will provide it.
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El Fuerte

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Shai wrote:
Dude if she's really good at it I don't see the problem.  Your dick  doesn't know the difference.  Seems like it must be mental.  I know I went through a period where it was taking like 30-40 minutes.  She was tired as fuck, and was probably developing a jaw problem.  But I realized one day that I kept worrying about it taking too long and of course that made it take long.  If you imagine cumming, the cosmos will provide it.



Def mental. Truth be told, I used to be very self-conscious about my dick, so BJs were not really appealing. Weird. I'm super comfortable now, I guess it's just like a block there I'm trying to blast through. I'm wanting it more and more, and according to her..that's all I need..

Definitely laying back and just enjoying will be key, which I hadn't considered due to pressure to want to cum.
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#18
Dinosaur

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 For me a blowjob is just the warm up for sex. I can't get an errection from it, but it feels fucking goooood. Also turns me on as hell when I look down there and see the girl sucking lol. I suppose I could come from a blowjob if I had a girl who was really good at giving them.
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RagaTanha

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 I don't cum during BJ's either, I feel kinda bad when I look down and the girl is trying really hard but It just doesn't seem to work. 
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