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Hank_Of_Sweden

Hank_Of_Sweden

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Join Date: 12/06/2008 | Posts: 156

Hey!

I need a journal, for keeping track on my progress.

In start of 2008 i made a commision to go out as much as possible and went out 3-4 nights a week for 51 straight weeks. It was awesome.
I have grown so much this past year and much is also thanks to you guys, whose stories and articles really inspired me to keep on pushing towards my goals.

I've been into this seriously for about two years now and are now doing this blog to help myself
complete the circle and reach Congruence, Consistency and Core Confidence. Be the attractive man.

I think critics is the best way to grow, so feel free to give me some brutally honest feedback.
So let's jump on this journey, updates will come right after this weekend.

Stay Tune!
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Hank_Of_Sweden

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Before posting my FR's from this upcoming weekend, I'll write about the girl I'm currently dating.

Lets call her "Sweetblonde".

Day 1 - The pickup

Out clubbing 2 weeks ago.
Awesome state, hanging with my friends at the bar. Very posh club.
Afterwork and not so much people there yet. Warming up.
Talking and joking with the bartenders.

Self Amusement.

A beautiful brunette gets up beside me ordering drinks..
I open her over my shoulder, some random nonsense.

KABOOOM!!

Puppy eyes. Conversation just floating, deep eye contact.
Its still early, she's heading back to her seats, she is there with three other girls,
so we say goodbye for now, maybe talk more later.

5 minutes after my wing Oz suggest we head down to their table because there's room
for more people and all of us don't have barstools.

We got up, crashing their sofa next beside them, my girl I talked to is on the edge so it's naturally my place to get and start chatting her up again.
We all introduce us (3 guys) to the 3 girls, and start some random conversation, joking and having a fun vibe. My girl is still very responsive and laughs at everything I say.. it's ON.

She has to go to the bathroom and meanwhile I'm chatting up her blonde friend (Sweetblonde) who sat next to her, and she also cracks up, giving me puppy-eyes, laughs and everything. Brunette returns and instead of taking her original place in between us, she's sitting down behind her in the middle of the sofa. What?!

Maybe she had a boyfriend or didn't want to interrupt us but now she is sitting with her hand and legs crossed, stone faced and every attempt I do to warm her up fails.
So I went on with the blonde, now doing some kino and suddenly some guy who seems to know the girls shows up. Amog times...

He takes the place on the other side of the blonde and immediately starts dragging her arm, craving for attention. It becomes a frame struggle where the girl's been pushed from and back between us and she seems to enjoy it a bit and gives attention to the one who's talking most loud and dragging her arm.
No good situation at all. She's telling me he's only a friend, a very interested friend I tell her and she's trying to convince me that there is nothing going on between them.

Rightoo!!

Maybe he's the jealous LJBF guy who's been struggling for her all his life, I dont know.
I feel like something has to been done, so I tell her I need to go to the bathroom ( I really had to go anyways but didn't want to leave them) But I asked her if she wanted to join (It's a big unisex restroom) and she complies.

I take her hand and have to really drag her away from him, heading to the toilets.
When we get there I really need to pee, so I head in immediately.

Afterwards I'm cleaning my hands, doing this quite slowing, waiting for her to come out.
She comes out, and stands next to me.. she takes my hands under the water.. eye contact..

Makeout.

I slam her against the wall and then we get into one of the bathrooms. Kissing and touching each other she says

Sweetblonde -"noo we can't do that in here"
Me -"i know" (classic)
Sweetblonde -"noo lets get out"

So I had to unlock the door and get out. There's a girl waiting for a free restroom.
I'm smiling and greets her with a hello, dragging out my girl from the bathroom.
Her face was priceless.

We get back to our places in the sofa... and the struggle starts again. (Damn we should of course got other places in the sofa far away from the dude, lession learned.
She says she needs to go home later on, dude is not giving up and my friends wants to bounce so I facebook-close her, (she had some issue about heading out numbers) and I got her to qualify with some easy questions.

Me -"you won't remember me, you're too drunk" (she wasn't barely drunk at all)
Sweetblonde - "Nooo I will remember you..I promise!!!"

Good enough.

We got up from the table and left, heading to next club.

For new adventures~
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Mathias!

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Welcome here man!!! This place is the shit. I'll jump right in and give you a little something to get you started smile

Pretty quick moving from the battle in the sofa there to the close in the bathroom, and early in the night? Probably would have worked better if you'd cut it off after the slam and given her a little time to let her absorb all that escalation. Also, I've found that social circle is kinda mined water for girls and she must trust your discression before allowing closing in field. And trying to get the number after an aborted close attempt is risky of course and will get you resistance, since she knows that complying means she agrees to fuck you without much plausability. So basically, you kinda went from zero to close, no push really - not all girls can keep up with that.

Perhaps some thought to sexual pacing on your terms could help you, like allowing your escalation to come in tidal surges - each time stronger but YOU slow it down and bring it back - just before she gets the impulse to intervene, so she can absorb etc. Not really teasing, rather just ... pacing. But I know, if it works it is full glory so it's one of those judgement calls where you have to trust your gut in a micro second.

Other than that it is obvious you have some solid field experience and probably won't need too much feedback since you probably know all your mistakes anyway. Whatever, some random thoughts for what it's worth...

ps. I think I know which bar this is, downtown hotel lounge bar? ;)
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Hank_Of_Sweden

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Thanx mate!!!

The Swedish forces are growing fast here on RSDn and soon hopefully we get our own language section.. FTW!! wink

Yes it was a quick escalation, but i had massive attraction so I felt that I had to do something to change the current situation, win the girl
and loose the guy. (At least it was my plan)

I really think your advice in pacing is KEY and I will think of that next time im out. (Tomorrow of course) Thank you VERY much!

It's just that in this case this other guy fucked up the dynamics and he had so much intent that every pause in my storytelling, he dragged her over and started talking.

It's a downstairs club on the mainstreet of Gothenburg ;)

Tomorrow I will post my Day2 with this girl. :)

Stay Tune!
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Hank_Of_Sweden

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So i Facebook closed Sweetblonde and left last time, and then found her and sent her a message on FB. I sent a very short message, something like "Hey, what's up? "
She responded with a long message wondering if I had a great night and so on.
Then we sent mails back and forth for the whole week, messages growing longer and longer and finally she told me she was going to Club-S and wondering if I was heading there to.
I respond no, but I'm going to ClubX and here is my phone number if you want to reach me.

Day2 Nightclub

Me and my wing Snowwhite is having a awesome night, giving each other challenges and so on.
We have a fun game, that when you can go around inside a club in a circle, we start in each side and start open sets and somewhere in the middle we use to meet up or see the other one hooked up and then start to wing him if it's necessary.

So I'm in there first set, the blond girl (BlondCute) is jumping with joy and her friend is giving her girls code to leave and is totally off. After about two minutes of plowing she also cracks up and is now my best friend. We talks for a while and then they goes over to the dancefloor and I'm heading away with my wings. I should have numberclosed BlondCute then and there, that had been more solid game.

But in the start of the night I like to just to warm up, vibe and chat up girls that I can meet later on that night.

Im running around, chatting up girls to left and right, I've got a huge social circle so I usually meet lots of friends in the clubs and having a great time. It gets me outside my head and in a really good state.
Sweetblonde sends me a text and tells me she is heading to ClubX with some friends.

What an coincidence ;-)

I'm now getting the groove on the dancefloor, I've found the set I earlier opened and dancing with them, my 3 wings and some other girls.
Then she arrived with a really hot blonde friend. She introduce her as a newly single- girl and asks if I could hook her up with a guy.

I see my wings over her shoulder and tell them to give me just one second. I go get two of the guys and introduce them for the girls. Sadly none of the guys took action/hooked and they return to their original spot, dancing.

She tells me that they are going away for a smoke and that I should join them.
Why not?

I used to see everything like this as shit tests before, but nowadays I don't feel that I'm loosing value when I comply for moving around the club with girls, it's just natural, I try often to take the lead though, and we continue the conversation.

However my target disappears and I'm left alone with her hot blonde friend. We went out smoking and had a really great conversation/vibe. I need to get her on my side, If I'm going to close her friend.

After a while we return to the dancefloor and there my target stands with some other girl she knew. She had stuck there went we went. We start to dance with them again and now BlondCute from my first set earlier dances up to me and starts pinging for attention.

Sweetblonde and now the two girls says they are heading to the bar getting some drinks and I say that we meet up later instead.
I spend some time dancing with the BlondCute who's now alone, her friends left her there with me and me thinking that I play to win and have nothing to lose (and she was really hot)

I decide try the apocalypse on her.
- So, what do you do later?
- Not much
- Do you wanna come to my place?
She holds it for 30 damn long seconds.....
.......
.......
naaa...I have to get up early I have to attend a birthday celebration.

Damn.

Numberclose.

All right.. no worries.. we continue to dance and talk for a bit and then I asks my wing if he could take care of her while I go look for Sweetblonde.

I find them sitting in big armchairs in a lounge part of the club. All tight up in a corner with a huge table in the middle and my girl in the corner very hard to reach with a chode in another chair talking to her.
I greet everyone standing at the table, then start chatting up the girl next to her, the one I hadn't talked to yet. Maybe I should have climbed in to my girl, lift her up, take her chair and have her sitting on my lap, but that didn't strike me until the day after.

I talk for a while and then return to the dancefloor.

I dance a little bit with blonde again but now she is non-responsive so I decide to go to the bar, brining my wings with me. Two of my wings decide to go home and me and the other wing meet a really awesome natural friend of him.

Me and the natural hooked up immediately because my wing had his girlfriend with him. He also got an girlfriend but we decided he would play single but not close so we could have a great time.

We open some sets joking around and it's really awesome watch him do his thing, great player!

We found my girl Sweetblonde and her pretty single blonde and I introduce my natural friend, It's BAM hook between them right away. Good Job!

Now were placed in a sofa talking, me and my girl and he and she on the other end. I makeout some, tease some, talk about life and we had a really great connection.
Then some friend of the natural comes up and wants to introduce some girls he found on the dancefloor. Yep, it's BlondCute with her friend. LOL

Some quick greeting and I'm back in my set with Sweetblonde.
Maybe BlondCute won't call me tomorrow then. Haha.

She is pounding me with complements and she really seems to place me in a much higher value than herself. I try to reduce the gap with making her qualify and doing some connection work with my threads.

We do some makeout again, she's getting really amped up and warm so I suggest we head home
- Im not going home with you!
- Eehm oki!

Keep on talking and touching her leg that she put up on mine, and lots of heavy makeouts.
But she is really determined that it won't be any poontang tonight.

After an hour she tells me she is heading home, by herself and I suggest that we should split a cab because I live quite close to her in the same direction. She looks at me with her eyes that tells me how much she wants to sleep with me.. then she also says verbally that she will sleep with me but not tonight and that she will not split a cab because then she won't resist me.

Excellent! Lets split a cab then!

Nope, she is concrete determined, we kiss goodbye and she and her friend left the club.
I think I should have used the fury, the intent and just gone with them to the cab but she was REALLY convinced that it won't happen tonight.

End of Day 2 Nightclub.

Day 2 At @ my place, will post soon.

Until then, feedback thanx!
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Awesome man! We've already talked about the night so I wont give any specific comments. However, I want to reiterate my poor judgement when you fetched me and Tutan for the girls on the dancefloor. That was just bad. Spin, vibe, isolate, BAM!, winging of glory.

Anyways, listening to Bon Jovi and totally psyched. Tonight will be awesome. As always. tounge

Kisses,

SnowWhite
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Hank_Of_Sweden

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The rapport from this weekend will be posted later this week.

I got RSD Papa, doing his Free Workshop tour crashing my couch tonight.

Fun times.

Cheers!
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Hank_Of_Sweden

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Day 3 Home

The story about the Sweetblonde.

At the club we decided that we should hook up for a
evening in her place and that she will make some
scones for me. Awesome deal!.

We texted each other for a couple of days about our
meet-up and suddenly she's starting to get hard.

Text messages

Her: - I think we should meet at a bar instead.. yada yada

Me: - Okay, if I can decide which bar

Her: - Deal!


And I had a backup plan that we go to a bar in the nearby
so I have some logistic advantages later if her BT is
getting high. But that was only my secondary plan.

She called me when she got to the bus stop close to me
and I replied that I was just out from the shower so she
had to come by me before we got out.

Excellent plan.

She came in and we kissed a little bit, intense eye contact
and she is very submissive, giving me puppy eyes.

I suggest we go for some grocery shopping and come by my place
and cook some food, watching some movie.

She thinks it's a excellent plan.

We go to the store.
We get back.
We cook.
We eat.

Makeout.

Clothes off.

Epic LMR.

BJ.

Epic LMR.

Fingering.

Epic LMR. Wtf?!

and finally a BJ.


Happy times :-)


...one week ago and were still in contact, she wants to hook up tonight.


Cheers!
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Cool stuff, bro. Keep it up. I enjoyed watching your video at your crib too. >>thanks for hosting me in >goteborg.
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Cool stuff, bro. Keep it up. I enjoyed watching your video at your crib too. >>thanks for hosting me in >goteborg.
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Hank_Of_Sweden

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Wednesday

I went to a premiere party with lots of hot chicks.

This night was so awesome because I have almost never had a girl asking me to talk about sex, and tonight it happened three times!

Started to chat up a girl over my shoulder in the bar right away. Was alone cause I haven't found my friends yet.
Teased her a bit cause she was ordering water when it was a free bar.

Met a guy that I know for some time back and the girl I opened at the bar open up us with her
friend. I think her friend knew him already.

I got eyecontact with the girl from the bar, and it's ON!

She clawed me in and asked if I want to hear something really sexy.

When she leaned in to tell me what it was, her friend starts to grind me on the side of my leg
and she got pissed of, drags her away and leaves.

Open up a mixed set with two guys and one hot model.

I extracted/isolated the model to the bar while the guys were too busy talking to each other. Things got really hot and we are heavy kinoing each other, eyecontact of doom
but after a while things cooled down and she starts to look for something else. Maybe because I didn't continued my escalation with some isolation and makeouts.
So I thought that I should try one thing before she leaves;
- Hey! let me do the best pickup trick in the world
She stops and smile
- Sure thing!
Im standing all still and just looks into her eyes with a serious face for about 1 long minute.
-That's it, im done! ive got nothing!
She cracks up laughing and then puts her hand on my neck.. her lips is so close to mine that they almost touches and holding intense eyecontact..
- This is how I pick up guys...
And put her other hand on my cock.

Makeout.

I was so suprised by her action, a reality brake. So I didn't really know what to do. So we talked for a while before she went back to her friends. I should have put her on my shoulder and walked home. Or isolated. Or even numberclosed. Lession learned. New reality.

Then ill mostly hang out with female friends, pawns and potential targets, one also
asked me if I wanted to talk about sex. WTF?!

Accually one of the first time this happens to me. Specially this obvious and three
times the same night. I guess reading Manwhore and Kimball last week have flipped
some hidden sexual-frame switch inside of me.

Me likey!
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