THE FORUMS
Well I had been listening to a lot of abraham on youtube and feeling good and doing focus wheels. Then I got into bashar again and had loads of massive a-ha moments and started to understand how reality and the LOA works on a deeper level. I started looking at my beliefs and writing them down. Like so:
There aren't many hot women where I live
How does this benefit me?
Girls don't like me
How does this benfit me?
If I stand out I will get into trouble
How does this benefit me?
If you realise and have experience that you create your own reality than you can swap a belief with another belief. You will automatically move away from pain towards pleasure. So you have to look at your beliefs and ask yourself. "What would I have to believe to experience this?" Find the belief and then choose your preferred belief. If you find yourself slipping back then you need to have more experience with creating your reality.
As soon as you believe that inner peace and changing to inner peace is truely more pleasurable than what you are experiencing right now, you will change in an instant!! -Bashar
What you are calling evidence is only what the physical reality reflects what you believe to be true. Do not forget: your belief of what you believe to be true is what creates physical evidence – not the other way around. Belief creates physical reality, which then may reinforce the original belief. And that is what you think of as evidence. -Bashar
What would you do if you could create your reality? What about having every man as a friend/brother? What about having a reality comprised of mainly hot girls, and these hot girls feel you are the sexiest man alive? Unrealistic? How can it be? There is no reality. Once you truly, deeply know that there is no outside. Then you can change your beleifs and the outside will change. Because why would you believe that hot girls don't like you? Why would you choose that when you can create your own reality?
Why would you choose a lack of women when you can create your reality? You have beliefs that say that it is "unrealistic" or "I don't deserve hot women", or "change takes time". But When you truely know that you create your reality, then you can easily change your beliefs FAST. You can change a belief in seconds and it sticks, because you automatically move away from pain to pleasure. Once you find a belief that isn't you, that you don't prefer, you can decide on a new belief AND IT AUTOMATICALLY CHANGES.
Ok, lets take your 2 examples and I'll drill down into them and you can see if I'm close or not. I may be far off or I may be close, but ultimately you will have to do this.
"I have a fear of telling girls I want to have sex with them"
"They may reject me"
"I will reject myself"
"I am unworthy of existing"
So in this example you can remind yourself that because you exist you deserve to exist. Regardless of behaviour or morals. If you didn't deserve to exist, you wouldn't be here. Because there is no room in existence for non-existence.
"I have a fear of physical confrontation from boyfriends if I was to voice my desire for their girlfriend in front of them"
"I can get hurt"
I've had a lot of success with this. I realised I had already created a good reality from my chi kung practise. So I just started to take it further by feeling "safe". By feeling that awesome feeling of being untouchable and safe. And now my life is very smooth and safe.
I'll probably write the 2 field reports a bit later.
There aren't many hot women where I live
How does this benefit me?
Girls don't like me
How does this benfit me?
If I stand out I will get into trouble
How does this benefit me?
If you realise and have experience that you create your own reality than you can swap a belief with another belief. You will automatically move away from pain towards pleasure. So you have to look at your beliefs and ask yourself. "What would I have to believe to experience this?" Find the belief and then choose your preferred belief. If you find yourself slipping back then you need to have more experience with creating your reality.
As soon as you believe that inner peace and changing to inner peace is truely more pleasurable than what you are experiencing right now, you will change in an instant!! -Bashar
What you are calling evidence is only what the physical reality reflects what you believe to be true. Do not forget: your belief of what you believe to be true is what creates physical evidence – not the other way around. Belief creates physical reality, which then may reinforce the original belief. And that is what you think of as evidence. -Bashar
What would you do if you could create your reality? What about having every man as a friend/brother? What about having a reality comprised of mainly hot girls, and these hot girls feel you are the sexiest man alive? Unrealistic? How can it be? There is no reality. Once you truly, deeply know that there is no outside. Then you can change your beleifs and the outside will change. Because why would you believe that hot girls don't like you? Why would you choose that when you can create your own reality?
Why would you choose a lack of women when you can create your reality? You have beliefs that say that it is "unrealistic" or "I don't deserve hot women", or "change takes time". But When you truely know that you create your reality, then you can easily change your beliefs FAST. You can change a belief in seconds and it sticks, because you automatically move away from pain to pleasure. Once you find a belief that isn't you, that you don't prefer, you can decide on a new belief AND IT AUTOMATICALLY CHANGES.
Ok, lets take your 2 examples and I'll drill down into them and you can see if I'm close or not. I may be far off or I may be close, but ultimately you will have to do this.
"I have a fear of telling girls I want to have sex with them"
"They may reject me"
"I will reject myself"
"I am unworthy of existing"
So in this example you can remind yourself that because you exist you deserve to exist. Regardless of behaviour or morals. If you didn't deserve to exist, you wouldn't be here. Because there is no room in existence for non-existence.
"I have a fear of physical confrontation from boyfriends if I was to voice my desire for their girlfriend in front of them"
"I can get hurt"
I've had a lot of success with this. I realised I had already created a good reality from my chi kung practise. So I just started to take it further by feeling "safe". By feeling that awesome feeling of being untouchable and safe. And now my life is very smooth and safe.
I'll probably write the 2 field reports a bit later.
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Hey guys! I've been seeing a girl for a year and haven't been going out. But it ended recently. I went out to a club and I spent a few hours with the first girl I approached. I was self amusing as much as I could but I was still pretty bored. I think as you accept the fact that you are equal, the fact that you are with a girl is not entertaining in itself. You have to make the entertainment. When you are in an environment where you perceive yourself to be less, then it is quite stimulating. I tried getting her out of there but she kept saying she was just leaving with her friend.
I think I'm just gonna do daygame from now on because I don't find the club that exciting. I just spend the time dancing or sitting with her but it's kind of boring. But I'm going to the miami bootcamp in february so maybe I'll find out how to make it fun anyway.
I think I'm just gonna do daygame from now on because I don't find the club that exciting. I just spend the time dancing or sitting with her but it's kind of boring. But I'm going to the miami bootcamp in february so maybe I'll find out how to make it fun anyway.
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abraham ok, but there so many people teaching woo woo stuff that is not true..... beware of massive self-help guru scam and dont waste your time, and energy on material that wasnt suggested to u by successful people... u can belive all u want but the reality will stay reality and people will not change
Well I had been listening to a lot of abraham on youtube and feeling good and doing focus wheels. Then I got into bashar again and had loads of massive a-ha moments and started to understand how reality and the LOA works on a deeper level. I started looking at my beliefs and writing them down. Like so:
There aren't many hot women where I live
How does this benefit me?
Girls don't like me
How does this benfit me?
If I stand out I will get into trouble
How does this benefit me?
If you realise and have experience that you create your own reality than you can swap a belief with another belief. You will automatically move away from pain towards pleasure. So you have to look at your beliefs and ask yourself. "What would I have to believe to experience this?" Find the belief and then choose your preferred belief. If you find yourself slipping back then you need to have more experience with creating your reality.
As soon as you believe that inner peace and changing to inner peace is truely more pleasurable than what you are experiencing right now, you will change in an instant!! -Bashar
What you are calling evidence is only what the physical reality reflects what you believe to be true. Do not forget: your belief of what you believe to be true is what creates physical evidence – not the other way around. Belief creates physical reality, which then may reinforce the original belief. And that is what you think of as evidence. -Bashar
What would you do if you could create your reality? What about having every man as a friend/brother? What about having a reality comprised of mainly hot girls, and these hot girls feel you are the sexiest man alive? Unrealistic? How can it be? There is no reality. Once you truly, deeply know that there is no outside. Then you can change your beleifs and the outside will change. Because why would you believe that hot girls don't like you? Why would you choose that when you can create your own reality?
Why would you choose a lack of women when you can create your reality? You have beliefs that say that it is "unrealistic" or "I don't deserve hot women", or "change takes time". But When you truely know that you create your reality, then you can easily change your beliefs FAST. You can change a belief in seconds and it sticks, because you automatically move away from pain to pleasure. Once you find a belief that isn't you, that you don't prefer, you can decide on a new belief AND IT AUTOMATICALLY CHANGES.
Ok, lets take your 2 examples and I'll drill down into them and you can see if I'm close or not. I may be far off or I may be close, but ultimately you will have to do this.
"I have a fear of telling girls I want to have sex with them"
"They may reject me"
"I will reject myself"
"I am unworthy of existing"
So in this example you can remind yourself that because you exist you deserve to exist. Regardless of behaviour or morals. If you didn't deserve to exist, you wouldn't be here. Because there is no room in existence for non-existence.
"I have a fear of physical confrontation from boyfriends if I was to voice my desire for their girlfriend in front of them"
"I can get hurt"
I've had a lot of success with this. I realised I had already created a good reality from my chi kung practise. So I just started to take it further by feeling "safe". By feeling that awesome feeling of being untouchable and safe. And now my life is very smooth and safe.
I'll probably write the 2 field reports a bit later.
There aren't many hot women where I live
How does this benefit me?
Girls don't like me
How does this benfit me?
If I stand out I will get into trouble
How does this benefit me?
If you realise and have experience that you create your own reality than you can swap a belief with another belief. You will automatically move away from pain towards pleasure. So you have to look at your beliefs and ask yourself. "What would I have to believe to experience this?" Find the belief and then choose your preferred belief. If you find yourself slipping back then you need to have more experience with creating your reality.
As soon as you believe that inner peace and changing to inner peace is truely more pleasurable than what you are experiencing right now, you will change in an instant!! -Bashar
What you are calling evidence is only what the physical reality reflects what you believe to be true. Do not forget: your belief of what you believe to be true is what creates physical evidence – not the other way around. Belief creates physical reality, which then may reinforce the original belief. And that is what you think of as evidence. -Bashar
What would you do if you could create your reality? What about having every man as a friend/brother? What about having a reality comprised of mainly hot girls, and these hot girls feel you are the sexiest man alive? Unrealistic? How can it be? There is no reality. Once you truly, deeply know that there is no outside. Then you can change your beleifs and the outside will change. Because why would you believe that hot girls don't like you? Why would you choose that when you can create your own reality?
Why would you choose a lack of women when you can create your reality? You have beliefs that say that it is "unrealistic" or "I don't deserve hot women", or "change takes time". But When you truely know that you create your reality, then you can easily change your beliefs FAST. You can change a belief in seconds and it sticks, because you automatically move away from pain to pleasure. Once you find a belief that isn't you, that you don't prefer, you can decide on a new belief AND IT AUTOMATICALLY CHANGES.
Ok, lets take your 2 examples and I'll drill down into them and you can see if I'm close or not. I may be far off or I may be close, but ultimately you will have to do this.
"I have a fear of telling girls I want to have sex with them"
"They may reject me"
"I will reject myself"
"I am unworthy of existing"
So in this example you can remind yourself that because you exist you deserve to exist. Regardless of behaviour or morals. If you didn't deserve to exist, you wouldn't be here. Because there is no room in existence for non-existence.
"I have a fear of physical confrontation from boyfriends if I was to voice my desire for their girlfriend in front of them"
"I can get hurt"
I've had a lot of success with this. I realised I had already created a good reality from my chi kung practise. So I just started to take it further by feeling "safe". By feeling that awesome feeling of being untouchable and safe. And now my life is very smooth and safe.
I'll probably write the 2 field reports a bit later.
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SexyArabMan
Junior Member
Join Date: 12/09/2011 | Posts: 5
What was the belief you changed that was your sticking point? Was it the change in that belief that helped you with those 2 lays? I've already come across the law of attraction, tolle, meditation and doing the whole analysing myself to death thing, so i guess i'm doing things a bit differently compared to you. It's all been theory up until now but I need to get out there and implement this shit. Was thinking of going on Ozzies bootcamp but i think i'll go out for 6 months and then see how i go.
I was thinking to myself the other night about some of my sticking points and i realised two things. 1) I have a fear of telling girls I want to have sex with them and 2) I have a fear of physical confrontation from boyfriends if I was to voice my desire for their girlfriend in front of them (with no intention of trying to hook up with their girlfriend)
I think if i can overcome these sticking points i'll feel a lot more comfortable socially and automatically the social pressure of not being able to tell a girl "i want to have sex with you" will be lifted, allowing me to gain state more quickly. I find it it odd how society perceives honesty as taboo--it creates a lot of unnecessary problems.
Do a report on the 2 girls you last hooked up with. Would like to see it.