THE FORUMS
Ok so I went to Chelmsford for daygame. This is my FIRST TIME doing daygame without Ozzie telling me what to do. I was walking around for about 1 hour choding around. Then I decided to call my good buddy Ivan who I met on the bootcamp 2 days ago.
Me:Im choding out man
Ivan: I was doing daygame this morning, you need to pysch yourself up.
Me: Ok thanks
So I walked around for about 10 mins. I saw a girl walking the opposite way on the other side of the street. I was thinking about it... then I ran! I ran for like 15 seconds which helped unstifle me.
Me: Hey, you're cute
Girl: Thanks (she started to walk on)
Me: Hey wait up
Girl: Sorry I'm engaged (showing her ring)
I saw a girl smoking outside phones4u. I walked up to her boldly
Me: Hey
Her: Hey
Me: Hey you're cute
Her: Thanks
Me: Are you taking a smoke break?
Her: Yeah
Me: Oh so you work for phones4U?
Her: nah A guy is just doing a deal on a phone
Her: what are you up to?
Me: Chatting up girls
Her: Thought so
Me: Are you single
Her: No
Me: Ahh that's a shame (I was about to walk off, but I thought I should burn it to the ground)
Me: Nice guy?
Her: Yeah, he's from Essex. I have to keep him in line sometimes.
Me: Did that hurt? ( she had a lip piercing)
Her: Nah I have a high pain threshold.
Me: :)
We talked a bit more, then she had to go becuase she finished her cig.
Me: Nice talking to you
Her: Nice talking to you
Me: Hey
Her: Hey
Me: You're cute
Her: Thanks (she was very shy, quiest and talking fast)
Me: What's your name
Her: Bedwyn
Me: Bedwyn? :S
Her: yeah
Me How old are you?
Her: 16
Me: Ahhh too young for me
I approached about 12 girls in total. They all seemed to be in a rush except the smoking girl, I'm slowly building up my skills in stopping them from walking off after every sentence. Every encounter I learn a bit more. Man I'm so proud of myself for doing this on my own. And I'd like to thank Ivan for helping me out. I give myself 10 out of 10 for doing this. Man I'm so proud of myself it's unreal. My greatest fear was that I wouldn't be able to carry this through without Ozzie. I was almost crying yesterday because of that fear.
Things to work on:
More statements
Say Hey, wait for them to stop, then say your cute
Me:Im choding out man
Ivan: I was doing daygame this morning, you need to pysch yourself up.
Me: Ok thanks
So I walked around for about 10 mins. I saw a girl walking the opposite way on the other side of the street. I was thinking about it... then I ran! I ran for like 15 seconds which helped unstifle me.
Me: Hey, you're cute
Girl: Thanks (she started to walk on)
Me: Hey wait up
Girl: Sorry I'm engaged (showing her ring)
I saw a girl smoking outside phones4u. I walked up to her boldly
Me: Hey
Her: Hey
Me: Hey you're cute
Her: Thanks
Me: Are you taking a smoke break?
Her: Yeah
Me: Oh so you work for phones4U?
Her: nah A guy is just doing a deal on a phone
Her: what are you up to?
Me: Chatting up girls
Her: Thought so
Me: Are you single
Her: No
Me: Ahh that's a shame (I was about to walk off, but I thought I should burn it to the ground)
Me: Nice guy?
Her: Yeah, he's from Essex. I have to keep him in line sometimes.
Me: Did that hurt? ( she had a lip piercing)
Her: Nah I have a high pain threshold.
Me: :)
We talked a bit more, then she had to go becuase she finished her cig.
Me: Nice talking to you
Her: Nice talking to you
Me: Hey
Her: Hey
Me: You're cute
Her: Thanks (she was very shy, quiest and talking fast)
Me: What's your name
Her: Bedwyn
Me: Bedwyn? :S
Her: yeah
Me How old are you?
Her: 16
Me: Ahhh too young for me
I approached about 12 girls in total. They all seemed to be in a rush except the smoking girl, I'm slowly building up my skills in stopping them from walking off after every sentence. Every encounter I learn a bit more. Man I'm so proud of myself for doing this on my own. And I'd like to thank Ivan for helping me out. I give myself 10 out of 10 for doing this. Man I'm so proud of myself it's unreal. My greatest fear was that I wouldn't be able to carry this through without Ozzie. I was almost crying yesterday because of that fear.
Things to work on:
More statements
Say Hey, wait for them to stop, then say your cute
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Me and Ivan met up in London on wednesday. Onanon was a bit empty at 10pm so we had a look around the streets. Ivan asked a group of cute girls of any good clubs. They mentioned that they were on the guest list for one. Ivan said can you get us in if we meet you. She said yeah. But we forgot to get her number. We met two girls promoting Zebraska.They opened us.
Ivan:What time do you to get off?
Cute girl: 1
(I was looking at the cute girl with sexual intent, I think this made her interested in me)
Cute girl: You're friends quiet (referring to me)
Ivan: He does kung fu
Ivan: Ok let me get your number and we can arrange something
Cute girl: Let me get yours
Me: Hey he asked you first :)
Me: Let me get yours
Her: I'll give you my facebook
Me: I don't want your facebook
Her: :o I don't even know you
Me: I like long walks on the beach, sunsets and puppydogs. Besides that's what the dates for, getting to know eacother
Cute girl: Youre cocky
(she handed her phone over, I wasn't sure what was happening as this was like the first number I had ever gotten!)
Me: Whats this
Her: My phone number
Me: Oh
Her: (rolls eyes) is this what the date will be like >>
Me: the lights gone off
Her: press a button and it will come back
Cool my first number!!!
We walked about and Ivan opened 5 asain girls standing in front of a restaurant in a line. Ivan was talking to some.
Me: hey your cute
Her: (giggling) thanks
Her: Im from France
Me: Espanogl?
Me: ( I looked at my hand to read some Spanish stuff, why was I reading Spanish stuff, lol she was French. She grabbed my hand and two of them went crazy laughing)
Me: Su so cute (it means your cute in Spanish)
Me: are you single
Her Noo
Me: you seem cool, we should hang out some time as friends.
Other girl: Shes French she doesn’t have a phone
So they invited us to karaoke with them. Ivan thought I wanted to stay longer with them but I didn’t. So we came up with a codeword. “Cranberry”. We’ll say this when one of us wants to go. So we went to Onanon, it was a bit empty. We sat next to two asian girls. One for each of us. Both had boyfriend though.
Ivan: hey I was looking at a crab the other day, it had a great claw
(He was signaling to me to claw, so I did lol, but she was a bit uncomfortable with it, maybe because of her boyfriend, but she left it on)
Me: I’m playing Street Fighter 4 at the moment
Her: oh that’s easy, I’ve completed it with every character on hardest
Me o_o I couldn’t even complete it on easiest
I pushed for a dance and her number but she didn’t go for it. Earlier I was talking about how I had started approaching women. So she told me to go approach some women over there, so I thought why not.
Hey guys: I’m Ben, Where you from?
Girls: We no speak English
Me: Espangol?
Me: (I went to look at my hand, it has lets dance, and your cute in Spanish, they went ballistic when I did this, all grabbing
my hand and laughing to see what I wrote.)
me: Su so cute
(I tried to dance with them but they wanted me to dance as a group, rather than one on one. Also they didn't speak english so I couldn't escalate verbally, they were dancing too so they would escape from my claw, any ideas guys on what I could have done?)
So I went back to Ivan and the girls. Later Ivan said that the girl who dared me to approach was flabbergasted that I did it. lol she was acting pretty cool when I was telling her how it went.
So we left because we had to go at 12, we decided to go to that karaoke place the asian girls mentioned. I twas in the bottom of a sushi bar or something. It was a small room and they were all singing. This was awesome like the karaoke scene from lost in translation. This was really cool, a little adventure. I sang half of Billie Jean, I was singing really loudly because the microphone was broken or something and all the girls were laughing. So we had to go because we had to go at 12. Ivan tussled up his girls hair big time as she was looking at me and I couldn't help but laugh my head off. Then he gave her a big kiss on the cheek.
I should have done im sad I need a kiss to my girl even though she had a boyfriend. I also should have said, "Hey guys were going to Ivans for drink in Canary Wharf, do you want to come?" Later Ivan was saying how they were easy that they would have been up for a gangbang lol Maybe he was right. So we left, awesome night. One of the best nights of my life. I feel like I'm in a movie.
-Ben
Ivan:What time do you to get off?
Cute girl: 1
(I was looking at the cute girl with sexual intent, I think this made her interested in me)
Cute girl: You're friends quiet (referring to me)
Ivan: He does kung fu
Ivan: Ok let me get your number and we can arrange something
Cute girl: Let me get yours
Me: Hey he asked you first :)
Me: Let me get yours
Her: I'll give you my facebook
Me: I don't want your facebook
Her: :o I don't even know you
Me: I like long walks on the beach, sunsets and puppydogs. Besides that's what the dates for, getting to know eacother
Cute girl: Youre cocky
(she handed her phone over, I wasn't sure what was happening as this was like the first number I had ever gotten!)
Me: Whats this
Her: My phone number
Me: Oh
Her: (rolls eyes) is this what the date will be like >>
Me: the lights gone off
Her: press a button and it will come back
Cool my first number!!!
We walked about and Ivan opened 5 asain girls standing in front of a restaurant in a line. Ivan was talking to some.
Me: hey your cute
Her: (giggling) thanks
Her: Im from France
Me: Espanogl?
Me: ( I looked at my hand to read some Spanish stuff, why was I reading Spanish stuff, lol she was French. She grabbed my hand and two of them went crazy laughing)
Me: Su so cute (it means your cute in Spanish)
Me: are you single
Her Noo
Me: you seem cool, we should hang out some time as friends.
Other girl: Shes French she doesn’t have a phone
So they invited us to karaoke with them. Ivan thought I wanted to stay longer with them but I didn’t. So we came up with a codeword. “Cranberry”. We’ll say this when one of us wants to go. So we went to Onanon, it was a bit empty. We sat next to two asian girls. One for each of us. Both had boyfriend though.
Ivan: hey I was looking at a crab the other day, it had a great claw
(He was signaling to me to claw, so I did lol, but she was a bit uncomfortable with it, maybe because of her boyfriend, but she left it on)
Me: I’m playing Street Fighter 4 at the moment
Her: oh that’s easy, I’ve completed it with every character on hardest
Me o_o I couldn’t even complete it on easiest
I pushed for a dance and her number but she didn’t go for it. Earlier I was talking about how I had started approaching women. So she told me to go approach some women over there, so I thought why not.
Hey guys: I’m Ben, Where you from?
Girls: We no speak English
Me: Espangol?
Me: (I went to look at my hand, it has lets dance, and your cute in Spanish, they went ballistic when I did this, all grabbing
my hand and laughing to see what I wrote.)
me: Su so cute
(I tried to dance with them but they wanted me to dance as a group, rather than one on one. Also they didn't speak english so I couldn't escalate verbally, they were dancing too so they would escape from my claw, any ideas guys on what I could have done?)
So I went back to Ivan and the girls. Later Ivan said that the girl who dared me to approach was flabbergasted that I did it. lol she was acting pretty cool when I was telling her how it went.
So we left because we had to go at 12, we decided to go to that karaoke place the asian girls mentioned. I twas in the bottom of a sushi bar or something. It was a small room and they were all singing. This was awesome like the karaoke scene from lost in translation. This was really cool, a little adventure. I sang half of Billie Jean, I was singing really loudly because the microphone was broken or something and all the girls were laughing. So we had to go because we had to go at 12. Ivan tussled up his girls hair big time as she was looking at me and I couldn't help but laugh my head off. Then he gave her a big kiss on the cheek.
I should have done im sad I need a kiss to my girl even though she had a boyfriend. I also should have said, "Hey guys were going to Ivans for drink in Canary Wharf, do you want to come?" Later Ivan was saying how they were easy that they would have been up for a gangbang lol Maybe he was right. So we left, awesome night. One of the best nights of my life. I feel like I'm in a movie.
-Ben
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I went to Eclipse in Brentwood. Kinda small. This was my first time going to a club on my own! I was just thinking about Ozzie, Ivan, Jason and Goran behind me. I was sitting in the lobby area putting on my club shoes, smiling, thinking about what was about to happen. Knowing that I would walk through those doors and start clawing. I was nervous and didn’t feel that present. Most of the girls seemed receptive when I first went in, clawed and said “Hey guys, I’m Ben” but my voice was bad. I need to practise the vocal projection exercise more that Ozzie taught at the bootcamp. My throat is sore today. I was practically screaming lol
One girl I asked if she wanted to dance, she started to walk away, so I did too, then I realised she had my hand and was pulling me to the dancing stage. I should have realised where we were going at that point, pulled her back, than lead us. I introduced myself to her friend than I was grinding her. Grinding is awesome. I love putting my leg in between their legs. I did some twirls, they always seem to like that. I put her hand on my bum and she started to squeeze them lol This is probably the 5th time I’ve tried this and the first time for it to work.
Goran told me the other day that it’s no big deal to feel a womans chest. Girls do it to guys all the time. So I felt her left boob, the first time I’ve ever done this I think. Ok so I wanted to go for the makeout, I tried moving my face down but she was too short. So I stuck my fingers in her hair and grabbed some strands lol. I need to perfect this, I want to try and get a large amount of hair at the base, rather than a few strands. So anyway I pull her hair back a bit, and she knows what’s up, so we make out for like 5 seconds. My second makeout, ever. She pulled away first, I couldn’t contain myself lol
Than she said she had to go to the toilet, and told me to wait, so she went with her friend. Did I wait? No I have to keep approaching, I can’t let 30 seconds pass without approaching. I had some nice conversations with guys, mainly about which clubs to go to. I had only been here for like 30 mins and I was already starting to run out of girls.
Hey guys I’m Ben
You’ve already talked to us
It’s pretty intense, opening girls, not knowing if you’ve already talked to them or not.
I clawed two girls. One was 17 and had got in with her sisters i.d. She seemed to like me and wanted to dance but said her boyfriends friends was here. Not sure what I could have done. Maybe told her to say her phone number in my ear. But then 17 is kinda young lol
I found that girl I was grinding with earlier…
Hey your kinda cool, put your number in my phone
Hey I have that phone!
Yeah it’s lost it’s arial
(She put it in really fast, she’s much faster than me at it)
I’ve got to go dance with my friend
Ok
Lol at one point one girl was pushing me hard, but because I do a lot of stance training everyday she can't really move me, despite me being skinny.
I tried texting it later, turns out it didn’t have enough digits for it to be a proper number. Numbers beginning with 07 needs to have more digits, my phone said. Maybe a fake? :(
Talked to two girls sitting down for a bit. I find that if I keep talking they tend to get more attracted, even though I’m just saying what I want. For instance I was just talking about talking to girls. They had to go to the toilet.
Got told to fuck off like 3 times by a girl. I was seeing if she would give in, but she didn’t lol These girls can be pretty emotional lol
So I opened like 80% of the girls there, it was time to go. Main this was, my voice was weak, need to practise the vocal exercises more, or I'll destroy my voice.
So Romford and Chelmsford seem to be the best places to club in Essex. I’m going to try Romford, but it’s rougher. I’m not sure how late the trains will run from Romford. But from Chelmsford I’d have to leave at like 12 which is kinda early. Any other Essex guys here that can give me advice on where to club?
-Ben
One girl I asked if she wanted to dance, she started to walk away, so I did too, then I realised she had my hand and was pulling me to the dancing stage. I should have realised where we were going at that point, pulled her back, than lead us. I introduced myself to her friend than I was grinding her. Grinding is awesome. I love putting my leg in between their legs. I did some twirls, they always seem to like that. I put her hand on my bum and she started to squeeze them lol This is probably the 5th time I’ve tried this and the first time for it to work.
Goran told me the other day that it’s no big deal to feel a womans chest. Girls do it to guys all the time. So I felt her left boob, the first time I’ve ever done this I think. Ok so I wanted to go for the makeout, I tried moving my face down but she was too short. So I stuck my fingers in her hair and grabbed some strands lol. I need to perfect this, I want to try and get a large amount of hair at the base, rather than a few strands. So anyway I pull her hair back a bit, and she knows what’s up, so we make out for like 5 seconds. My second makeout, ever. She pulled away first, I couldn’t contain myself lol
Than she said she had to go to the toilet, and told me to wait, so she went with her friend. Did I wait? No I have to keep approaching, I can’t let 30 seconds pass without approaching. I had some nice conversations with guys, mainly about which clubs to go to. I had only been here for like 30 mins and I was already starting to run out of girls.
Hey guys I’m Ben
You’ve already talked to us
It’s pretty intense, opening girls, not knowing if you’ve already talked to them or not.
I clawed two girls. One was 17 and had got in with her sisters i.d. She seemed to like me and wanted to dance but said her boyfriends friends was here. Not sure what I could have done. Maybe told her to say her phone number in my ear. But then 17 is kinda young lol
I found that girl I was grinding with earlier…
Hey your kinda cool, put your number in my phone
Hey I have that phone!
Yeah it’s lost it’s arial
(She put it in really fast, she’s much faster than me at it)
I’ve got to go dance with my friend
Ok
Lol at one point one girl was pushing me hard, but because I do a lot of stance training everyday she can't really move me, despite me being skinny.
I tried texting it later, turns out it didn’t have enough digits for it to be a proper number. Numbers beginning with 07 needs to have more digits, my phone said. Maybe a fake? :(
Talked to two girls sitting down for a bit. I find that if I keep talking they tend to get more attracted, even though I’m just saying what I want. For instance I was just talking about talking to girls. They had to go to the toilet.
Got told to fuck off like 3 times by a girl. I was seeing if she would give in, but she didn’t lol These girls can be pretty emotional lol
So I opened like 80% of the girls there, it was time to go. Main this was, my voice was weak, need to practise the vocal exercises more, or I'll destroy my voice.
So Romford and Chelmsford seem to be the best places to club in Essex. I’m going to try Romford, but it’s rougher. I’m not sure how late the trains will run from Romford. But from Chelmsford I’d have to leave at like 12 which is kinda early. Any other Essex guys here that can give me advice on where to club?
-Ben
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So me, Ivan and Paul went to a club. Can’t remember the name. Paul is a friend of Ivans, he’s been to a few bootcamps outside of RSD and he’s a real cool, normal guy.
So we put our coats in, I shout “Woooooooo” and I go claw some girls. I typically clawed them, then said “Hey guys, I’m Ben”, “I’m from Essex”. I was a lot more relaxed this night. And for the first time ever I could smile most of the time! This is because I’ve become almost indifferent to their reactions. So they don’t affect my ego.
One girl I went to claw, and she stacked it! She fell over hard, and was lying on the floor showing her knickers, she seemed to enjoy this? Later Ivan, who was at the bar said that they were hammered, and were trying to get the attention of every guy nearby. I thought maybe I’d get in trouble, but then I thought, nah it’s cool. I also have faith in my abilities to defuse it. Going clubbing really give you great faith in yourself.
I encountered a girl who was a real tough customer. She wasn’t angry but she seemed to want a good argument.
Me: So I find I get in a social flow if I….
Girl: Everything you’re saying is bullshit
Me: …and my thoughts disappear. Guys don’t like to approach so much because it’s like the fear of death. Even combat veterans are more afraid.
Girl: That’s bullshit, tell that to that army guy over there
Me: You’re feisty
Girl: Everything you’re saying is bullshit
Me: (To other girl) Is she always like this?
I basically just kept talking, I could have ignored more of what she was saying which would have been good. At the start she didn’t want to knock fists, she wanted to shake hands. I gave in and shook her hand, maybe I shouldn’t have. But she seemed to turn around, and she hesitantly knocked fists with me at the end. :) I told her she was the feistiest girl I’ve met that night. To be honest she’s the feistiest I’ve ever met.
I found two nice girls, one was all smiles but I wasn’t attracted to them. I asked the black girl to dance, I took her hand to the dance floor and she brought her friend.
Me: I’ve never danced with two girls before, any tips?
Girl: You’re a lucky guy :)
I just held their hands, and danced, I also showed them a salsa move I learnt the other night. I grind ( ground?) on the black girl for a bit.
Me: I want to show you a secret in the bathroom
Girl: lol Show me now
Me: No it’s a secret
So I told them I had to go mingle some more and they seemed sad. I met them later and I asked them if they ever get approached by guys. They said no :(
Danced with another girl who looked like a Squirrel.
Me: What are you up to later?
Squirrel: blahbalh
Me: Do you want to come home with me?
Girl : No :o
Later on….
Me: We should hang out some time
Girl; Yeah we should
Me: We can go for a drink and then go to your place for some food
Girl: Yeah but don’t think you’re going to come home with me just for sex, I’m not that kind of girl
Me: Ok, put your number in my phone
I tried making out with her, or maybe a different girl. I would grab her hair, go in for this kiss and she would move away, than I would have a big smile :) This seemed to make her more attracted because she would give me a nice hug when I tried this twice. This is the first time I’ve had a girl move away, it was kinda cool.
I was starting to run out of girls. Again, this has happened almost every night. I need a big place like Tiger Tiger club on a Saturday or something I think. Just a packed place with multiple floors.
Me: Hey guys I’m Ben
Girls: We know!
I saw a girl I had already met but I had completely forgotten her, even her face.
Hey I’m Ben
Girl: We already met
Me: What was your name again
Girl: (her name)
Me: You look like Carrie Fisher
Girl: Who’s Carrie Fisher?
Me: Dunno (I’m not sure who she is, too be honest lol)
Me: I’m running out of girls to meet, I introduce myself and they shout “We know!”
Girl: lol
She seemed to be into me, but then I got a text from Ivan and she walked to her friend. I think this was a test and I should have grabbed her arm and gotten her details. Also I realized I need to qualify more, like “There’s a lot of cute girls here, tell me 3 things which make you different”
I mentioned that I live with my parents still, and most girls said that they do too lol
One girl pushed me away as hard as she could after I clawed her friend. Very aggressive lol
Oh yeah, I was dancing with one girl and another girl was pushing me from behind with her bum. I was thinking "What's her problem?". She was pushing into me so I was pushing back to reclaim my space. Than I realised she was just grinding on me lol. I should have had a look at her or something and come back to her to dance. Any advice?
-Ben
So we put our coats in, I shout “Woooooooo” and I go claw some girls. I typically clawed them, then said “Hey guys, I’m Ben”, “I’m from Essex”. I was a lot more relaxed this night. And for the first time ever I could smile most of the time! This is because I’ve become almost indifferent to their reactions. So they don’t affect my ego.
One girl I went to claw, and she stacked it! She fell over hard, and was lying on the floor showing her knickers, she seemed to enjoy this? Later Ivan, who was at the bar said that they were hammered, and were trying to get the attention of every guy nearby. I thought maybe I’d get in trouble, but then I thought, nah it’s cool. I also have faith in my abilities to defuse it. Going clubbing really give you great faith in yourself.
I encountered a girl who was a real tough customer. She wasn’t angry but she seemed to want a good argument.
Me: So I find I get in a social flow if I….
Girl: Everything you’re saying is bullshit
Me: …and my thoughts disappear. Guys don’t like to approach so much because it’s like the fear of death. Even combat veterans are more afraid.
Girl: That’s bullshit, tell that to that army guy over there
Me: You’re feisty
Girl: Everything you’re saying is bullshit
Me: (To other girl) Is she always like this?
I basically just kept talking, I could have ignored more of what she was saying which would have been good. At the start she didn’t want to knock fists, she wanted to shake hands. I gave in and shook her hand, maybe I shouldn’t have. But she seemed to turn around, and she hesitantly knocked fists with me at the end. :) I told her she was the feistiest girl I’ve met that night. To be honest she’s the feistiest I’ve ever met.
I found two nice girls, one was all smiles but I wasn’t attracted to them. I asked the black girl to dance, I took her hand to the dance floor and she brought her friend.
Me: I’ve never danced with two girls before, any tips?
Girl: You’re a lucky guy :)
I just held their hands, and danced, I also showed them a salsa move I learnt the other night. I grind ( ground?) on the black girl for a bit.
Me: I want to show you a secret in the bathroom
Girl: lol Show me now
Me: No it’s a secret
So I told them I had to go mingle some more and they seemed sad. I met them later and I asked them if they ever get approached by guys. They said no :(
Danced with another girl who looked like a Squirrel.
Me: What are you up to later?
Squirrel: blahbalh
Me: Do you want to come home with me?
Girl : No :o
Later on….
Me: We should hang out some time
Girl; Yeah we should
Me: We can go for a drink and then go to your place for some food
Girl: Yeah but don’t think you’re going to come home with me just for sex, I’m not that kind of girl
Me: Ok, put your number in my phone
I tried making out with her, or maybe a different girl. I would grab her hair, go in for this kiss and she would move away, than I would have a big smile :) This seemed to make her more attracted because she would give me a nice hug when I tried this twice. This is the first time I’ve had a girl move away, it was kinda cool.
I was starting to run out of girls. Again, this has happened almost every night. I need a big place like Tiger Tiger club on a Saturday or something I think. Just a packed place with multiple floors.
Me: Hey guys I’m Ben
Girls: We know!
I saw a girl I had already met but I had completely forgotten her, even her face.
Hey I’m Ben
Girl: We already met
Me: What was your name again
Girl: (her name)
Me: You look like Carrie Fisher
Girl: Who’s Carrie Fisher?
Me: Dunno (I’m not sure who she is, too be honest lol)
Me: I’m running out of girls to meet, I introduce myself and they shout “We know!”
Girl: lol
She seemed to be into me, but then I got a text from Ivan and she walked to her friend. I think this was a test and I should have grabbed her arm and gotten her details. Also I realized I need to qualify more, like “There’s a lot of cute girls here, tell me 3 things which make you different”
I mentioned that I live with my parents still, and most girls said that they do too lol
One girl pushed me away as hard as she could after I clawed her friend. Very aggressive lol
Oh yeah, I was dancing with one girl and another girl was pushing me from behind with her bum. I was thinking "What's her problem?". She was pushing into me so I was pushing back to reclaim my space. Than I realised she was just grinding on me lol. I should have had a look at her or something and come back to her to dance. Any advice?
-Ben
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Me and Ivan went to 131 in Romford. It was pretty empty at 10pm, we did some opening and some hanging out. Several girls told me my hands were cold, so I asked one chick to warm them up for me. Which was nice of her.
We then went to envy nearby which by now had a few people, the great thing is, is that it’s two clubs, liquid and envy. Envy is for over 23 and Liquid is for over 18s, so you can hop between them both.
I was talking to a woman who must have been in her 30s and she stuck her lollipop in my mouth! Lol
Me: You look like a naughty Mary Poppins
Her: :O
Me: You have a naughty face
Me: What’s your favourite sexual position
Girl: :O
I approached one girl with a guy right in front of her. I clawed her and they guy took my hand off 3 times! The guy started leaning in to hear what I was saying to her. She was laughing at the stuff I was saying and was kinda receptive. The guy than just blocked me by hugging her. I feel this is kinda high risk though. Not something I’d want to do all the time. Or…I dunno
Later on…
Me: Are any of your friends single?
Girl: All of them
Me: (I had a good look at them) Introduce me to her
Girl: This is Ben ( I pulled her over and clawed her, awesome)
Me: Hey I’m Ben I asked your friend to introduce me cause you’re cute.
Me: Lets go play Street Fighter 4 at my place
Girl: I only play Rockband
Me: No Street Fighter 4! You can be Chun Li
Later on I was trying to dance with a girl, she wanted to include her friend, so I thought ok let’s get her in. So we went to her friend and her friend nicely pushed her to dance with me :) So I danced with her for like 30 minutes, tried to push for extraction several times, we made out a lot. Tried to get her to sit down with me aswell. Eventually I had to go so I just took her number.
Me: Lets go play Street Fighter 4 at my place
Her: Nooooooo
Later on…
Me: Lets go! SKO
Her: Noooooo
Am I meant to pull her immediately, or do I wait for some compliance.? Do I say sko and pull simultaneously?
I was just holding her and putting her in whatever position I liked. I was also moving her to my own beat, by holding her hips. This is really cool. She was like zoned out, (or drunk lol). At one point she was clawing me like a tiger, I almost yelped lol. I was breaking away from the kisses first and she wanted more, which was cool. Later on she was putting her tongue in my mouth and swirling it around, I wasn’t sure what to do here lol Also I tried kissing her ear but got her hair in my mouth. I still haven’t got the hang of kissing, I was trying to kiss my arm this morning for practice.
I put her hand on my boner but she took it off. I put her hand on my chest and she squeezed it lol
Me: I like you, we should hang out some time
Her: That’s going to be awkward because I live in Essex
Me: I live in Essex, in _______
Her: :O
Me: We’ll go for a drink and then play pool, I love pool
Girl: I’m rubbish at pool
Me: Awesome, than I’ll kick your ass. Put your number in my phone.
Than I saw Ivan in the lobby, I forgot he had been waiting for me. Ivan had approached most girls in both clubs! Nice! I was proud of him.
Me: Hey lets try the apocalypse opener
Ivan: What’s that
Me: You go, “Hey whats up?”, “What are you up to later?”, “Do you want to come home with me?”
Me: Lets try it on one girl each
Ivan: Ok
I tried it on 3 lol. Last girl seemed into me even though she had a boyfriend. I still haven’t had a girl be shocked. I say it in their ear and then look at them, but they say no before I’ve looked at them.
-Ben
We then went to envy nearby which by now had a few people, the great thing is, is that it’s two clubs, liquid and envy. Envy is for over 23 and Liquid is for over 18s, so you can hop between them both.
I was talking to a woman who must have been in her 30s and she stuck her lollipop in my mouth! Lol
Me: You look like a naughty Mary Poppins
Her: :O
Me: You have a naughty face
Me: What’s your favourite sexual position
Girl: :O
I approached one girl with a guy right in front of her. I clawed her and they guy took my hand off 3 times! The guy started leaning in to hear what I was saying to her. She was laughing at the stuff I was saying and was kinda receptive. The guy than just blocked me by hugging her. I feel this is kinda high risk though. Not something I’d want to do all the time. Or…I dunno
Later on…
Me: Are any of your friends single?
Girl: All of them
Me: (I had a good look at them) Introduce me to her
Girl: This is Ben ( I pulled her over and clawed her, awesome)
Me: Hey I’m Ben I asked your friend to introduce me cause you’re cute.
Me: Lets go play Street Fighter 4 at my place
Girl: I only play Rockband
Me: No Street Fighter 4! You can be Chun Li
Later on I was trying to dance with a girl, she wanted to include her friend, so I thought ok let’s get her in. So we went to her friend and her friend nicely pushed her to dance with me :) So I danced with her for like 30 minutes, tried to push for extraction several times, we made out a lot. Tried to get her to sit down with me aswell. Eventually I had to go so I just took her number.
Me: Lets go play Street Fighter 4 at my place
Her: Nooooooo
Later on…
Me: Lets go! SKO
Her: Noooooo
Am I meant to pull her immediately, or do I wait for some compliance.? Do I say sko and pull simultaneously?
I was just holding her and putting her in whatever position I liked. I was also moving her to my own beat, by holding her hips. This is really cool. She was like zoned out, (or drunk lol). At one point she was clawing me like a tiger, I almost yelped lol. I was breaking away from the kisses first and she wanted more, which was cool. Later on she was putting her tongue in my mouth and swirling it around, I wasn’t sure what to do here lol Also I tried kissing her ear but got her hair in my mouth. I still haven’t got the hang of kissing, I was trying to kiss my arm this morning for practice.
I put her hand on my boner but she took it off. I put her hand on my chest and she squeezed it lol
Me: I like you, we should hang out some time
Her: That’s going to be awkward because I live in Essex
Me: I live in Essex, in _______
Her: :O
Me: We’ll go for a drink and then play pool, I love pool
Girl: I’m rubbish at pool
Me: Awesome, than I’ll kick your ass. Put your number in my phone.
Than I saw Ivan in the lobby, I forgot he had been waiting for me. Ivan had approached most girls in both clubs! Nice! I was proud of him.
Me: Hey lets try the apocalypse opener
Ivan: What’s that
Me: You go, “Hey whats up?”, “What are you up to later?”, “Do you want to come home with me?”
Me: Lets try it on one girl each
Ivan: Ok
I tried it on 3 lol. Last girl seemed into me even though she had a boyfriend. I still haven’t had a girl be shocked. I say it in their ear and then look at them, but they say no before I’ve looked at them.
-Ben
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26th April. I went to a Romford club on my own. On Sunday. Going with someone else means you can talk to them a bit beforehand to warm up. I guess it’s harder on your own. All the girls kept complaining about my cold hands. I got one girl to warm them up. But then they became cold again. My vocal projection got worse, mainly because of my voice getting tired. It was a 3 for 1 night so all the girls had like 3 bottles in their hands. It was kinda funny. I find it hard to relate to why people drink so much. I tell them that I don’t drink and then they go crazy.
My comfort level was lower than the night before so the groups of people didn’t react as well. But no biggie. It was a good night because I went out improve my skillset. To me a bad night is not going out when you decide to.
I clawed two girls…
Girl: So are you going to get me a drink?
Me: Are you going to make out with me?
Girl: errr nah
Me: Fair enough than, so anyway I’ve been losing my voice from….
Girl: lol
Goran told me that this was a good reply to when they ask you to get them drinks. And it seems
so.
Later on…..
Girl: Are you gay?
Me: Yeah, find me a nice guy
Girl: Here’s one, this is Ben
Me: Hey man
Guy: Hey I don’t judge, gay, straight, it’s all cool with me
(What had I got myself into?)
Me: I’m not gay
Guy: Hey, I’m not judging
Me: If a girl calls you gay, what’s a good comeback?
Guy: errr…..I’m whatever you want me to be
I heard that if a girl calls you gay, than a good thing to do is to make out with her. But I didn’t want to. Lol
Talked to a cute girl sitting down. She seemed pretty receptive to me, so I made out with her. First time I’ve done this not dancing with them. Cool! She tasted of her blueberry vodka, and she was pretty good at kissing.
Me: Lets dance
Girl: After my drink
Me: What are you doing later?
Girl: I’m going home
Me: Are you going to invite me?
Girl: I live with my parents
Me: Me too, I’d invite you back otherwise
So we were dancing and she was really good. She was bumping grinding into me and it was almost hurting. Like she was trying to break it off. We made out some more. I was breaking off first. And I tried a cool move I read about, where you kiss, than you pull them off by their hair. Lol
Also I turned her around and kissed her from behind by lifting up her head. Sort of like Spiderman. But then she said she had to go back to her friends. I’m still not sure what to do when this happens. So I just moved on
I ran out of girl to approach, so I left. I think I’ll avoid going out on Sunday. I want more girls to approach.
-Need to keep practise vocal projection every day
-Take a mint before approaching
My comfort level was lower than the night before so the groups of people didn’t react as well. But no biggie. It was a good night because I went out improve my skillset. To me a bad night is not going out when you decide to.
I clawed two girls…
Girl: So are you going to get me a drink?
Me: Are you going to make out with me?
Girl: errr nah
Me: Fair enough than, so anyway I’ve been losing my voice from….
Girl: lol
Goran told me that this was a good reply to when they ask you to get them drinks. And it seems
so.
Later on…..
Girl: Are you gay?
Me: Yeah, find me a nice guy
Girl: Here’s one, this is Ben
Me: Hey man
Guy: Hey I don’t judge, gay, straight, it’s all cool with me
(What had I got myself into?)
Me: I’m not gay
Guy: Hey, I’m not judging
Me: If a girl calls you gay, what’s a good comeback?
Guy: errr…..I’m whatever you want me to be
I heard that if a girl calls you gay, than a good thing to do is to make out with her. But I didn’t want to. Lol
Talked to a cute girl sitting down. She seemed pretty receptive to me, so I made out with her. First time I’ve done this not dancing with them. Cool! She tasted of her blueberry vodka, and she was pretty good at kissing.
Me: Lets dance
Girl: After my drink
Me: What are you doing later?
Girl: I’m going home
Me: Are you going to invite me?
Girl: I live with my parents
Me: Me too, I’d invite you back otherwise
So we were dancing and she was really good. She was bumping grinding into me and it was almost hurting. Like she was trying to break it off. We made out some more. I was breaking off first. And I tried a cool move I read about, where you kiss, than you pull them off by their hair. Lol
Also I turned her around and kissed her from behind by lifting up her head. Sort of like Spiderman. But then she said she had to go back to her friends. I’m still not sure what to do when this happens. So I just moved on
I ran out of girl to approach, so I left. I think I’ll avoid going out on Sunday. I want more girls to approach.
-Need to keep practise vocal projection every day
-Take a mint before approaching
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Me and Ivan went out in London on Tuesday, I told Ivan that we should go to Metra. But it was empty, so we left and walked round a bit looking for someweher else until 12 than went home.
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I went to Romford today to do daygame. I walked around for about 2 and a half hours but didn't approach :( I want to do daygame with someone else. Than I can move onto doing it on my own.
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Friday 02 May
I went to a Romford club on my own. Got there 10:15 and had one of the craziest nights ever. I was talking to some girls about me eating pizza every day and how I was going to have lasagna tomorrow. I think I talked to almost every girl about pizza in the club.
I clawed a girl in a group told her she was adorable.
Me: Hey you’re adorable, I had to come talk to you.
Girl: thanks :)
Me: I had a pizza today for lunch
Girl: (To another girl) Ok is that filled out now
(HOLY FUCK, she wasn’t in the group, she was a hired gun. She was getting people to fill out flyers or something. I instantly took my arm off of her lol. I guess I should have kept it on and gone for the number. I was just shocked. I thought clawing the staff was a bit risky, but it seems ok.)
Me: I’ve been having pizza every day for the past 4 months for lunch.
Girl: But you’re skinny
Me: Yeah I have a high metabolism…or worms
Girl: 0_o
Me: But I’m getting tired of pizza I’m going to have lasagna tomorrow
This group I was in, more cute girls came into it.
Ozzie: Be social, sometimes I’ve been talking to a girl and then their hot friends come and I’m already in.
I found all the girls where amazed when I was talking about me eating pizza. Some thought I was high.
They were taking loads of photos of me, I used to think that people were taking photos of the “crazy guy”. But maybe not.
Me: Is that going on facebook?
Girl: Yeah, what’s your name?
Me: Ben XXXX
Girl: Guys this is Ben xxxx!
Me: I’m doing a kung fu pose in my photo. (I stood on one leg to show them)
Girl: Hey guys look he’s doing a kung fu pose, do it again!
Me: Ok but If I do it, all three of you have to do it as well
Girls: Ok
(So we all stand on one leg with our guard hands, and they throw a few kicks at my leg, lol Which I don’t react to)
Me: Hey you’re adorable
Cutie: I have a boyfriend
(they were taking photos of me and shouting pizza!)
Girl:I don’t care whether you’re having lasagna tomorrow
Me: I’m having lasagna tomorrow whether you like it or not! (lol this was fun)
I moved onto another group next to them. I was talking to a girl about loads of stuff, she didn’t want my hand on her and she was kinda low self esteem. I find in these situations, you can talk for ages. Than I noticed the cutie from the previous set bumped her bum into me twice!
Me: Hey, you’re bumping into me to get my attention. That’s naughty
Cutie: No im not :)
Me: You’re cute
Girl : You’re sexy
Girl: I have a boyfriend and I…god you’re so sexy
(Jesus!!!! I’ve never had this reaction before, she was turning me on with these compliments)
Me: I’m finding it hard to keep my hands off of you, what are you doing to me?
(we were like face to face, she was drifting in and out, I was just standing there with full sexual intent, I wanted her bad, but she had a boyfriend and I don’t go there)
Me: You’re cute, what are you doing to me?!
Girl: You’re so fucking handsome but I have a boyfriend. Stop it I have a boyfriend
(She kept repeating the word boyfriend all the time)
Girl: Here don’t you like my friend?
(She then tried to get her friend to come, a girl who had blown me off earlier, but she didn’t want to so I went back to the other group)
This was crazy!!! It was like a massive fight between her logic and emotion. I’ve been using Ciarans shock and awe lately. Were you blame the girl for their sexyness. It’s meant to get them really hot. And it seems to work when you mean it.
I was talking to one girl. She didn’t believe that I was just going round talking to people. She thought it was a bet.
(Girl sitting down)
Me: Hey you’re adorable, I had to come talk to you, I saw you from over there
Girl: aww thanks :)
Me: Let’s dance
Girl: I’ve just been dancing, I need a rest but thanks for the offer.
(She seemed kinda receptive so I moved in closer, so our whole body was touching. For me this is like Claw Stage 2 lol. Than I went for the makeout which she resisted, so I smiled)
Me: I had a pizza today for lunch, but I’m getting a bit sick of pizza so I’m going to have some lasagna tomorrow.
Girl:blahblah
Me: I’ve been reading David Deidas book, Way of the Superior Man. And it’s about tests that women give to guys. Do you ever test guys?
Girl: Yeah I do :)
(Wow she was the first girl I asked that who say yes, and was aware of test. Other girls where like “No I don’t give tests, especially if I like the guy. This girl didn’t tell me her test though)
Girl: I’ve gotta go now but let me get you’re number
Me:ok
(WTFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF she asked for my number, this hasn’t happened before)
Me: Let me get your number, put it in
Girl: Ok :)
(lol I make them put it in, than I make them put their name in as well)
Girl: I’ve gotta go now
Me: Hey we haven’t made out yet
Girl: When we meet up I will :)
I had two good conversations with older women. Lol I found I could be pretty forward with them. They were fun.
I was talking to a guy, I practiced a handshake on him, and he showed me his handshake.
Me: Point out a girl and I’ll bring her over
Guy1: ok her
Me: whats your name
Guy1: xxxx…..but oh don’t tell her that I wanted her
(So I walk off and he stops me instantly, maybe he got scared lol)
Me: Hey I was going to bring a girl for your friend but he got chicken
Guy2: Oh
Me: Point out two girls and I’ll bring them over for both of you
Guy2: Them two walking
Me: Hey guys I’m Ben. I’m from xxxxxxxx :)
Girls: hey Ben :)
Me: listen I have some cute guys for you, they’re cool
Girls: ooooo cute guys where? He has some cute guys for us :)
(So I walked towards these guys with two girls under my arms like HUGH HEFNER!!!!!!!! THIS WAS CRAZY)
So I bring them to the guys. Guy1 was a bit nervous. Lol they were talking to the girls for like 5 seconds. Than I realized I had the girls still in my claw. So I released them. The girls became bored like within 10 seconds because they guys weren’t talking. So I just said lets go dance. Than I took them by the hand to the dance floor. I showed them some salsa than they told me to meet them here again as they were going to the toilet. So I moved on.
Some guys, maybe boyfriends got annoyed by me clawing some girls. I think he pushed me once
Guy: They don’t want you touching them
He was surrounded by his friends, I had my hand in the air to shake his hand. I can’t remember if he did.
I was clawing two girls on the dancefloor, the cockblock kept pulling the decent looking one around. So I was sort of chasing them. The decent looking one was drunk and spilt some drink on me. She was also pushing me away and grinding me at the same time. I think my persisteance was turning her on. But after a while moved on because she could barely stand up straight anyway. I was inspired buy Gorans post about being persistent when the cockblock takes the girl away.
I clawed two girls.
Me: Hey you’re cute
Girl; Lol thanks :)
Me: You smile a lot, I like a girl who smiles
Girl : lol :)
Me : you laugh a lot too
Girl: lol :) I have a boyfriend
Me: Cool. I had pizza for lunch today.I’ve been having pizza every day for the past 4 months for lunch.
Girl: lol :) Dance with my friend
Me: I choose you Pikachu
Girl: lol :)
She was laughing at practically everything I was saying even though it was boring. I could have got her number probably if she didn’t have a boyfriend.
Ozzie: In the club everyone’s fake. When you’re real they realize you’re a real man.
Later on… in a different group
Bouncer: Hey mate, she has a boyfriend. Stop pushing it. She’s a friend of mine
Me: Ok man. (I shake his hand)
I went into the other part of the club. I was getting time for me to leave, my last train was going to leave soon. So I decided to use the apocalypse opener a bunch of times. I think I did it like 4 times. But it didn’t work. I ened up talking to a girl, I’m not sure if I apocalypse her, but she seemed receptive so I told her that I had to leave real quick but we should hang out.
Me: Put your number in my phone
(I learnt online that if you put your phone at their solar plexus, than they feel impelled to grab it. Lol)
Girl: (To her friend)What’s my number?
Girl2: 078……
Me: hey I’m Ben
Girl2:…..67777
(lol I interrupted her reciting her number so I could say hi)
Me: Don’t forget me
I went up to a girl next to a guy. She was leaning against the wall. I clawed her and than she took it off. The guy didn’t look at me the whole time.
Me: Hey whats up?
Girl: nothing much?
Me: What are you up to later?
Girl: Going home
Me: Do you want to come home with me?
Girl: no
Me: Ok. You know the weathers been getting kinda warm lately.
Then the guy pushed me buy the neck. I tried to get him to shake hands but he just pushed me again. I think he was trying to contain his emotions. My stance training has made me pretty rooted even though I’m skinny. So when I get pushed, I don’t move much.
I was about to apocalypse a big black girl in a nurses outfit, than she started dancing with me. She was really sweaty! She almost fell over but I caught her, which she liked. Than she moved on. I didn’t go for a makeout because I wasn’t attracted to her. And I had to go!
I saw two girls at the kebab van outside. I apocolypsed them. They said no. They seemed kinda interesting in me though. So I went for their numbers but it was a no go.
Girl: You’re pretty direct aren’t you?
Me: (no shit) Yeah. I’ve gotta go, I have to get the last train. Nice talking to you guys.
I got to the platform. Apocolypsed three girls sitting down together. I was standing up. We talked for a bit. They had gone to see 17 Again and had taken 4 beers in each. Lol Then the train came. I think they pretended to see a guy in the distance and ran to him. Maybe so they didn’t have to talk to me on the train.
It’s funny. Because of me being in state I was able to do this in the street. The other day I went to Romford and choded out the whole day trying to do daygame.
I have this feeling of maybe I’ll get kicked out or something. Like I’m pushing it too much. I got pushed away by two different people. But I guess you will when you hit on guys girlfriends. My fear is of getting banned. Maybe I should buy the bouncers inside drinks. But there’s a lot of them. lol
I was in state this night. Or a good social flow because there was enough girls. So I could approach girls for 3 hours constantly. I wasn’t out of set for more than 5 seconds.
I went to a Romford club on my own. Got there 10:15 and had one of the craziest nights ever. I was talking to some girls about me eating pizza every day and how I was going to have lasagna tomorrow. I think I talked to almost every girl about pizza in the club.
I clawed a girl in a group told her she was adorable.
Me: Hey you’re adorable, I had to come talk to you.
Girl: thanks :)
Me: I had a pizza today for lunch
Girl: (To another girl) Ok is that filled out now
(HOLY FUCK, she wasn’t in the group, she was a hired gun. She was getting people to fill out flyers or something. I instantly took my arm off of her lol. I guess I should have kept it on and gone for the number. I was just shocked. I thought clawing the staff was a bit risky, but it seems ok.)
Me: I’ve been having pizza every day for the past 4 months for lunch.
Girl: But you’re skinny
Me: Yeah I have a high metabolism…or worms
Girl: 0_o
Me: But I’m getting tired of pizza I’m going to have lasagna tomorrow
This group I was in, more cute girls came into it.
Ozzie: Be social, sometimes I’ve been talking to a girl and then their hot friends come and I’m already in.
I found all the girls where amazed when I was talking about me eating pizza. Some thought I was high.
They were taking loads of photos of me, I used to think that people were taking photos of the “crazy guy”. But maybe not.
Me: Is that going on facebook?
Girl: Yeah, what’s your name?
Me: Ben XXXX
Girl: Guys this is Ben xxxx!
Me: I’m doing a kung fu pose in my photo. (I stood on one leg to show them)
Girl: Hey guys look he’s doing a kung fu pose, do it again!
Me: Ok but If I do it, all three of you have to do it as well
Girls: Ok
(So we all stand on one leg with our guard hands, and they throw a few kicks at my leg, lol Which I don’t react to)
Me: Hey you’re adorable
Cutie: I have a boyfriend
(they were taking photos of me and shouting pizza!)
Girl:I don’t care whether you’re having lasagna tomorrow
Me: I’m having lasagna tomorrow whether you like it or not! (lol this was fun)
I moved onto another group next to them. I was talking to a girl about loads of stuff, she didn’t want my hand on her and she was kinda low self esteem. I find in these situations, you can talk for ages. Than I noticed the cutie from the previous set bumped her bum into me twice!
Me: Hey, you’re bumping into me to get my attention. That’s naughty
Cutie: No im not :)
Me: You’re cute
Girl : You’re sexy
Girl: I have a boyfriend and I…god you’re so sexy
(Jesus!!!! I’ve never had this reaction before, she was turning me on with these compliments)
Me: I’m finding it hard to keep my hands off of you, what are you doing to me?
(we were like face to face, she was drifting in and out, I was just standing there with full sexual intent, I wanted her bad, but she had a boyfriend and I don’t go there)
Me: You’re cute, what are you doing to me?!
Girl: You’re so fucking handsome but I have a boyfriend. Stop it I have a boyfriend
(She kept repeating the word boyfriend all the time)
Girl: Here don’t you like my friend?
(She then tried to get her friend to come, a girl who had blown me off earlier, but she didn’t want to so I went back to the other group)
This was crazy!!! It was like a massive fight between her logic and emotion. I’ve been using Ciarans shock and awe lately. Were you blame the girl for their sexyness. It’s meant to get them really hot. And it seems to work when you mean it.
I was talking to one girl. She didn’t believe that I was just going round talking to people. She thought it was a bet.
(Girl sitting down)
Me: Hey you’re adorable, I had to come talk to you, I saw you from over there
Girl: aww thanks :)
Me: Let’s dance
Girl: I’ve just been dancing, I need a rest but thanks for the offer.
(She seemed kinda receptive so I moved in closer, so our whole body was touching. For me this is like Claw Stage 2 lol. Than I went for the makeout which she resisted, so I smiled)
Me: I had a pizza today for lunch, but I’m getting a bit sick of pizza so I’m going to have some lasagna tomorrow.
Girl:blahblah
Me: I’ve been reading David Deidas book, Way of the Superior Man. And it’s about tests that women give to guys. Do you ever test guys?
Girl: Yeah I do :)
(Wow she was the first girl I asked that who say yes, and was aware of test. Other girls where like “No I don’t give tests, especially if I like the guy. This girl didn’t tell me her test though)
Girl: I’ve gotta go now but let me get you’re number
Me:ok
(WTFFFFFFFFFFFFFFF she asked for my number, this hasn’t happened before)
Me: Let me get your number, put it in
Girl: Ok :)
(lol I make them put it in, than I make them put their name in as well)
Girl: I’ve gotta go now
Me: Hey we haven’t made out yet
Girl: When we meet up I will :)
I had two good conversations with older women. Lol I found I could be pretty forward with them. They were fun.
I was talking to a guy, I practiced a handshake on him, and he showed me his handshake.
Me: Point out a girl and I’ll bring her over
Guy1: ok her
Me: whats your name
Guy1: xxxx…..but oh don’t tell her that I wanted her
(So I walk off and he stops me instantly, maybe he got scared lol)
Me: Hey I was going to bring a girl for your friend but he got chicken
Guy2: Oh
Me: Point out two girls and I’ll bring them over for both of you
Guy2: Them two walking
Me: Hey guys I’m Ben. I’m from xxxxxxxx :)
Girls: hey Ben :)
Me: listen I have some cute guys for you, they’re cool
Girls: ooooo cute guys where? He has some cute guys for us :)
(So I walked towards these guys with two girls under my arms like HUGH HEFNER!!!!!!!! THIS WAS CRAZY)
So I bring them to the guys. Guy1 was a bit nervous. Lol they were talking to the girls for like 5 seconds. Than I realized I had the girls still in my claw. So I released them. The girls became bored like within 10 seconds because they guys weren’t talking. So I just said lets go dance. Than I took them by the hand to the dance floor. I showed them some salsa than they told me to meet them here again as they were going to the toilet. So I moved on.
Some guys, maybe boyfriends got annoyed by me clawing some girls. I think he pushed me once
Guy: They don’t want you touching them
He was surrounded by his friends, I had my hand in the air to shake his hand. I can’t remember if he did.
I was clawing two girls on the dancefloor, the cockblock kept pulling the decent looking one around. So I was sort of chasing them. The decent looking one was drunk and spilt some drink on me. She was also pushing me away and grinding me at the same time. I think my persisteance was turning her on. But after a while moved on because she could barely stand up straight anyway. I was inspired buy Gorans post about being persistent when the cockblock takes the girl away.
I clawed two girls.
Me: Hey you’re cute
Girl; Lol thanks :)
Me: You smile a lot, I like a girl who smiles
Girl : lol :)
Me : you laugh a lot too
Girl: lol :) I have a boyfriend
Me: Cool. I had pizza for lunch today.I’ve been having pizza every day for the past 4 months for lunch.
Girl: lol :) Dance with my friend
Me: I choose you Pikachu
Girl: lol :)
She was laughing at practically everything I was saying even though it was boring. I could have got her number probably if she didn’t have a boyfriend.
Ozzie: In the club everyone’s fake. When you’re real they realize you’re a real man.
Later on… in a different group
Bouncer: Hey mate, she has a boyfriend. Stop pushing it. She’s a friend of mine
Me: Ok man. (I shake his hand)
I went into the other part of the club. I was getting time for me to leave, my last train was going to leave soon. So I decided to use the apocalypse opener a bunch of times. I think I did it like 4 times. But it didn’t work. I ened up talking to a girl, I’m not sure if I apocalypse her, but she seemed receptive so I told her that I had to leave real quick but we should hang out.
Me: Put your number in my phone
(I learnt online that if you put your phone at their solar plexus, than they feel impelled to grab it. Lol)
Girl: (To her friend)What’s my number?
Girl2: 078……
Me: hey I’m Ben
Girl2:…..67777
(lol I interrupted her reciting her number so I could say hi)
Me: Don’t forget me
I went up to a girl next to a guy. She was leaning against the wall. I clawed her and than she took it off. The guy didn’t look at me the whole time.
Me: Hey whats up?
Girl: nothing much?
Me: What are you up to later?
Girl: Going home
Me: Do you want to come home with me?
Girl: no
Me: Ok. You know the weathers been getting kinda warm lately.
Then the guy pushed me buy the neck. I tried to get him to shake hands but he just pushed me again. I think he was trying to contain his emotions. My stance training has made me pretty rooted even though I’m skinny. So when I get pushed, I don’t move much.
I was about to apocalypse a big black girl in a nurses outfit, than she started dancing with me. She was really sweaty! She almost fell over but I caught her, which she liked. Than she moved on. I didn’t go for a makeout because I wasn’t attracted to her. And I had to go!
I saw two girls at the kebab van outside. I apocolypsed them. They said no. They seemed kinda interesting in me though. So I went for their numbers but it was a no go.
Girl: You’re pretty direct aren’t you?
Me: (no shit) Yeah. I’ve gotta go, I have to get the last train. Nice talking to you guys.
I got to the platform. Apocolypsed three girls sitting down together. I was standing up. We talked for a bit. They had gone to see 17 Again and had taken 4 beers in each. Lol Then the train came. I think they pretended to see a guy in the distance and ran to him. Maybe so they didn’t have to talk to me on the train.
It’s funny. Because of me being in state I was able to do this in the street. The other day I went to Romford and choded out the whole day trying to do daygame.
I have this feeling of maybe I’ll get kicked out or something. Like I’m pushing it too much. I got pushed away by two different people. But I guess you will when you hit on guys girlfriends. My fear is of getting banned. Maybe I should buy the bouncers inside drinks. But there’s a lot of them. lol
I was in state this night. Or a good social flow because there was enough girls. So I could approach girls for 3 hours constantly. I wasn’t out of set for more than 5 seconds.
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Saturday 02 May
We went to Strawberry in London. It was pretty good. Quite a few people. A lot of hen parties. Some girl gave me a sticker. “Best humour” lol Than another girl I was talking to wanted me to go find a joke and come back to her and tell her. I was telling her no and plowing on but she was insistant. So I just said nice talking to you and left.
I was getting on with some Brazilians. And then a guy came in aggressive. He was drunk and I was trying to grab one of the cute girls under my arm. He was saying stuff so I put my head forward to listen. But when I did he wouldn’t say anything. I looked to his friend who kinda apologized for him. Then his friend was holding him back and he was acting like some kinda crazy bulldog on a leash. So I tried moving the group away and the group moved ahead of me.
Later on the Brazilian girls tapped me as I walked past but I kept walking on, maybe I should have followed them.
I’ve found coming in strong, smiling and feeling like I really like these people and it’s a joy to talk to them really helps in starting off. It’s hard for them to blow me off this way.
I clawed this girl and she had a shield and I was plowing. She didn’t show much interest in me at the start. Especially for the first 10 mins. I guess I plowed well. I’m proud of my self. She was frowning a lot, I thought this was her testing me, but seems she always does this. She said she had to go for a smoke break with her friend. Usually I’d go off and mingle but I thought I’d stick in for a change. So I went with. Amazingly her friend also like to go mingle. She goes around talking to guys. So I was talking to my girl outside while her friend was chatting up people. I finally got the makeout after like 4 tries. She’s kinda negative though. We went back inside and she was looking for her friend so I lead her around. She found her, than we started dancing. We were making out a lot and she was biting my lip! Lol Sometimes I tried to break it off and she was pulling me back in hard! One song she didn’t like so she said I don’t dance to this. I was moving her anyway and saying “Look you’re dancing to it!”
I got her number but she wouldn’t tell me her name because I forgot it, so I told her I’d put her in as Eric, so I was doing that, than she put in her proper name herself. She said she had to go outside for a smoke break so I followed and was talking to her outside with her friend. Than she said they had to talk and I should go find my mate Ivan and I had her number anyway. So I went back inside to mingle.
Found a 40 year old woman from the south of France in good shape and danced with her a bit. I wasn’t attracted to her. So it didn’t lead anywhere. Than it was time to meet Ivan and go.
We went to Strawberry in London. It was pretty good. Quite a few people. A lot of hen parties. Some girl gave me a sticker. “Best humour” lol Than another girl I was talking to wanted me to go find a joke and come back to her and tell her. I was telling her no and plowing on but she was insistant. So I just said nice talking to you and left.
I was getting on with some Brazilians. And then a guy came in aggressive. He was drunk and I was trying to grab one of the cute girls under my arm. He was saying stuff so I put my head forward to listen. But when I did he wouldn’t say anything. I looked to his friend who kinda apologized for him. Then his friend was holding him back and he was acting like some kinda crazy bulldog on a leash. So I tried moving the group away and the group moved ahead of me.
Later on the Brazilian girls tapped me as I walked past but I kept walking on, maybe I should have followed them.
I’ve found coming in strong, smiling and feeling like I really like these people and it’s a joy to talk to them really helps in starting off. It’s hard for them to blow me off this way.
I clawed this girl and she had a shield and I was plowing. She didn’t show much interest in me at the start. Especially for the first 10 mins. I guess I plowed well. I’m proud of my self. She was frowning a lot, I thought this was her testing me, but seems she always does this. She said she had to go for a smoke break with her friend. Usually I’d go off and mingle but I thought I’d stick in for a change. So I went with. Amazingly her friend also like to go mingle. She goes around talking to guys. So I was talking to my girl outside while her friend was chatting up people. I finally got the makeout after like 4 tries. She’s kinda negative though. We went back inside and she was looking for her friend so I lead her around. She found her, than we started dancing. We were making out a lot and she was biting my lip! Lol Sometimes I tried to break it off and she was pulling me back in hard! One song she didn’t like so she said I don’t dance to this. I was moving her anyway and saying “Look you’re dancing to it!”
I got her number but she wouldn’t tell me her name because I forgot it, so I told her I’d put her in as Eric, so I was doing that, than she put in her proper name herself. She said she had to go outside for a smoke break so I followed and was talking to her outside with her friend. Than she said they had to talk and I should go find my mate Ivan and I had her number anyway. So I went back inside to mingle.
Found a 40 year old woman from the south of France in good shape and danced with her a bit. I wasn’t attracted to her. So it didn’t lead anywhere. Than it was time to meet Ivan and go.
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Serpicoo
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Join Date: 02/05/2009 | Posts: 903
Man, my confidence was +10 compared the previous night at bootcamp. I immediately went to claw a black girl and brunette.
Me: Hey I’m Ben
Her: lol I can’t believe you just came up to me and said that
(She then told her mate what I said)
Me: lets dance
She was resisting but amazingly her friend was pushing her to dance with me. The first time this has happened. Like she was being very persistent in doing it. She didn’t dance though. I think I’m asking for the dance too quickly maybe.
I clawed a Thai girl and boy. Made friends with them both. Asked her to dance, she said ok, for one song. We grinded a bit, I should have gone for the makeout. Then she left. I attempted to get her number later but she said she was traveling to Oxford tomorrow and not coming back to London.
I was talking to a hot Spanish girl, she couldn’t understand what I was saying. Her boyfriend came.
Me: hey man, she’s cute. (I genuinely gave a nice big smile)
Him: thanks, what’s your name?
Me: Ben
Him: I’m trying to teach her English
(she instantly became a lot friendlier when I befriended him, when I genuinlly smile from the heart, things always go good)
Her: Say my name, Tatyana
Me: tatyana
Her: hey you’re friendly :)
This is the first time I befriended a couple this well
Some girls blew me off then two guys clawed me, I clawed them. Ozzie says clawing guys defuses them.
Man1:hey you’ve approached every guy here, jog on mate
Me: I’m being social
Man1:We don’t want you here again jog on
I walked away, it was a bit shocking as this was the first time I had two guys do this.
I opened most of the girls in the club and was basically lapping the rooms until I ran out.
I clawed two girls…
Blonde: Are you going to buy me a drink?
Me: what’s in it for me?
Her:Nothing
Me: make out with me and if it’s good I’ll think about it
Her: (giggling) No
I pulled her to go dance but she thought I was pulling her to go drink
Her: I thought you were going to get me a drink?
Me: How do I know you’re not just using me?
(she couldn’t think of a reply, so she left)
I started off strong and was confident from the start which was amazing. I wasn’t nervous at all. I’m quickly becoming comfortable in the club. I often feel like I own the streets but not the club. But now it’s changing.
So many girls don’t speak English I should learn the phrases for “you’re cute” and “lets dance” in Spanish
“London is the only place in Europe where girls get approached. Guys approach girls here. The other is NY” - Ozzie
I thought this was interesting. It made me want to approach in my home town to see the difference.
I wasn’t enjoying talking about kungfu anymore. And it didn’t got that well. My voice is louder, I need to practice the vocal projection exercise regularly. I was a bit worried that I ran out of girls, I don’t want this to be a regular thing that happens.
I told Goran about the apocalypse opener and said 70% of girls would go for it. I’ve never used it as an opener. And I really, really want to.
-Ben
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