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The Boss

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Join Date: 02/16/2009 | Posts: 823

Alright guys before i get down to business...i want to let everyone who visits this thread know that they can ask for my advice with anything...you can post questions or your ideas...id greatly appreciate it!   ...BUT..... i dont want that "i deleted her from facebook and now she is 

mad at me" stuff alright......i want this thread to be about Transformation and truly turning yourself from who you are now into what you want to be (this is what i am striving for)...Deep identity level change....


A little background info on me:

17 years old now....and trying to achieve success...

as a kid i felt more at ease with life...everything was easier....talking to people making friends all that stuff....dealing with things in general...i knew what was good for me

Now im pretty much trying to fix myself into those thoughts i know everyone has about themselves...the thought that deep down inside their is something unique about you...your ideas, beliefs and your vaules....as a kid  i kept this one value very close to me...not

doing what other people want you to....especially if it is negative towards someone or something...when you got pressured by your peers into making fun of someone else...i was the kid who didnt fall for that....but i felt as a grew older and as time passed these values became

more distant...i cared more what other people thought.....valued their oppinions of me and thought that that was my reality...i was what other people thought i was (fuck what a stupid thing)....as i got into highschool...i realized and thought to myself why am i doing this....why do i

care what other people think of me...so little by little i came to abolish these thoughts...But i am still not satisfied with where i am today...There have been times where ive felt that i dont want this bad enough that i can stay at home play video games....but as i beat those

games and unlocked the next armour or whatever shit...i became less satisfied to the point where i came into realization that this has to get settled...THIS IS NOT how i want to spend my life...i want to be able to get  a hot girlfriend and not be the chody nerd, 95% of the 

people in this world are...the people that are to scared to do what it takes to get it...to get what they really want...and i guess being different from that....being the person that actually does get this settled....is my emotional leverage....

I KNOW I WILL NOT GET THIS DONE OVERNIGHT...I MIGHT NOT EVEN GET IT DONE....I WILL BE TEMPTED TO GIVE UP....so thats why i created this thread...as a place where i can see my goals...and always keep them in mind...



So here is where everything starts.....


Ive been watching Tylers part in Transformations and i realized that im coming from a point very similar to the one where he came from....

The part that i saw that i believe everyone should watch as many times as needed....is the part  " Why People Fail".....

He goes on to say..."the average guy, not only lacks the skills neccessary to become good with women, he lacks the skills necessary to do anything productive in his life...."

* i think about all the time i spent doing things that were stupid...playing videogames to unlock the newest weapon...watching retarted youtube videos that benefited me in no way whatsoeover*

(cont)  If the average guy decides to start a new diet he'll most likely drop it...not going to the gym and not sticking to the routine...(ive done this alright) ....how the average guy listens to his emotions to much and takes wrong actions....



So here is were the fun starts for me lol

i decided in order to believe that i can get future issues in my life handled i need to start with small tasks...HOW WOULD I BE ABLE TO EVER GET ANYTHING BIG DONE...like making tons of money being a lawyer or doctor...having the ferrari and lambo.....if i CANT EVEN get the small things done...like losing weight...finishing my school projects whatever....

So here is my challenge......[lose 10lbs in 1month] 

Current Weight  205lbs    Height: 5'11

Im not some fatass fuck who eats chips and plays videogames all day...i actually do plays sports....workout...but over the years ive put on some weight...weight i dont need...so THATS THE GOAL....10lbs in 1 month...and heres how ill get it done.....

Weight lifting...running....not falling for temptation to eat...i will ask myself "do i want a hot girlfriend...am i fed up with this lifestyle ive been following for 17years"??? And so far its been working...But this is only day 1....

i will keep everyone who cares lol posted...i will be watching RSD material whenever i can...and posting what ive learned here...for everyone to benefit from

Lastly i would like to say to whoever is still reading this....im sorry for the length of it lol...i had to do this...for my self...........

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"Girls are predominantly going for guys that are 'hot'. Hot is not good looking, they are different things."  -10Pin
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EnVee

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Join Date: 01/15/2009 | Posts: 277

Fucking right man. Time to do it up. I'm in the same situation, except it only pertains to the girl situation. I've got my diet/workouts (health) completely handled, and have for many years. My grades within school are phenomenal. I have the best friends/social groups I could wish for. The only place within my life where I really feel like I've cut myself short and have NOT gotten handled is the whole girl situation. I've been actively trying to get it handled for the last year, which consisted mostly of information absorbtion, and becoming a professional keyboard jockey/theory junkie. Only within the last month have I actually started to take action and hit the field. I'm right there with ya man, if you ever need support, motivation, opinions, I'm here buddy, and I'm sure a lot of others will be as well.

Just remember: We're ALL capable of achieving ANYTHING. It's just a matter of following through, manning up, and most importantly TAKING RESPONSIBILITY.
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YaBoiRayDawg

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there's nothing wrong with playing videogames or watching pointless youtube vids, i believe, so long as you are doing something productive later on in the day or week.

good post.
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The Boss

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thanks for the positive responses guys....

Day 2 of 30 of this thread to be out around tomorrow with...the recap of what ive done....as well as some RSD program summaries i think are important...
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“When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you.” - African Proverb
"Girls are predominantly going for guys that are 'hot'. Hot is not good looking, they are different things."  -10Pin
"At the end of the day I rather be hated for what I am then loved for what I'm not." -Kanye West                                                                                                                                                             
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Locomariachi

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not bad honestly for me, this is what i've done, i've taken my new years resolutions and completed them the last 4 years.  but i felt i needed more.  ALOT more.  I wasn't unhappy with myself, but rather I felt that I could make myself into the man in anything I did by doing a simple list.  Every two weeks I make a list.  it has my goals for a two week period.  It's set up like so:

Goal Sheet Week __

Overall:


School:


Work:


Fitness:


Changes:


"random positive awesome quote"

-my name (signed)

It's worked wonders for me and my brother and a few of my friend's i've gotten into it.  you should definitely try it.  make them goals you can push to do, read it when you're on your way out in the mornings and then evaluate yourself at night. You don't have to be an asshole to yourself, be firm but positive.  Let me know if this helps!
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The Boss

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Locomariachi wrote:
not bad honestly for me, this is what i've done, i've taken my new years resolutions and completed them the last 4 years.  but i felt i needed more.  ALOT more.  I wasn't unhappy with myself, but rather I felt that I could make myself into the man in anything I did by doing a simple list.  Every two weeks I make a list.  it has my goals for a two week period.
Yup, Im doing this already, writing things down and sticking to a schedule, is a really god thing to do
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“When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you.” - African Proverb
"Girls are predominantly going for guys that are 'hot'. Hot is not good looking, they are different things."  -10Pin
"At the end of the day I rather be hated for what I am then loved for what I'm not." -Kanye West                                                                                                                                                             
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Ozzie

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remember that it is only on paper. take action regardless it gaves you the right results or not. stick to plan of action.
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The Boss

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Ozzie wrote:
remember that it is only on paper. take action regardless it gaves you the right results or not. stick to plan of action.
will do man...i definetaly have intense motivation right now, if i dont get the initial success..ill stick to it because eventually it'll come...thanks for your imput, Ozzie
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"Girls are predominantly going for guys that are 'hot'. Hot is not good looking, they are different things."  -10Pin
"At the end of the day I rather be hated for what I am then loved for what I'm not." -Kanye West                                                                                                                                                             
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The Boss

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Hey guys, Day 2 of 30, of the 10-15 lbs weigh loss challenge is comeing to a close...

I said in my first post i was going to write about the blueprint today...but it turns out ive been kinda busy with the challenge and working out and school work......Eating better isnt as hard as it was yesterday...(damn cheesecake talking to me) but my idea WORKED...whenever im tempted

i ask myself "am i tired of this chode lifestyle...do i want to stick to a commitment and do the right thing....do i want to get this settled and get  a hot girlfreind" and when i said this to myself the temptation was GONE....INSTANTLY

i know this thread hasnt had to much info yet, when it comes to helping others besides me, tomorrow on DAY 3...i will post some pick-up material and hopefully get more responses

i hope that, to those people that took the time to read my first post that my plan will inspire you to take action....


I got an idea from Locomariachi to each day post an inspirational quote here...to keep myself going and hopefully to keep other people going to.....*searches internet for some good quote*

*few minutes later*



    We are all inventors, each sailing out on a voyage of discovery, guided each by a private chart, of which there is no duplicate. The world is all gates, all opportunities.
                     - Ralph Waldo Emerson

and just another one i thought was good


    It takes 20 years to make an overnight success.
                      -Eddie Cantor


Alright guys ill be back tommorow with another update...till then...peace
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“When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you.” - African Proverb
"Girls are predominantly going for guys that are 'hot'. Hot is not good looking, they are different things."  -10Pin
"At the end of the day I rather be hated for what I am then loved for what I'm not." -Kanye West                                                                                                                                                             
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The Boss

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k guys day 3 of 30

still going hard...with the workout and diet...its getting easier each day i seem to notice...

on thing thats keeping me going is thinking about all the other people and how they dont have what it takes to stay comitted to something....being different from this...actually doing it is whats driving me

im gonna do a 1 week weigh in on day 7 ill keep you updated each day...ALTHOUGH no ones commenting.....this is mostly a palce for me to write stuff down...

i said i would post pick-up related material here....but i feel this thread isnt getting enough responses so ill just make new threads with my action plan  linked there..

-The Boss
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“When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you.” - African Proverb
"Girls are predominantly going for guys that are 'hot'. Hot is not good looking, they are different things."  -10Pin
"At the end of the day I rather be hated for what I am then loved for what I'm not." -Kanye West                                                                                                                                                             
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The Boss

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back guys with day 4 of 30 complete....

same as b4 really...keeping with the plan....excerise..diet....pain lol

my goal was 10-15 lbs in 1 month and i DID LOSE 1 1/2 lbs in 4 days so im happy bout that

but the worst is yet to come 26 more days left...each day ill report in

now for the motivational VIDEO this time instead of quote....
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“When there is no enemy within, the enemies outside cannot hurt you.” - African Proverb
"Girls are predominantly going for guys that are 'hot'. Hot is not good looking, they are different things."  -10Pin
"At the end of the day I rather be hated for what I am then loved for what I'm not." -Kanye West                                                                                                                                                             
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