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December 6th, 2016
LMR Series Part V: Sexual Shit-Testing
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The problem a lot of “puas” have is they try to attract EVERYONE, and don’t do a good enough job attracting anyone. Or they’re afraid to show intent. That’s not to say this post is necessarily very polarizing. Most girls can be taken to the “extremes” of this post.

I was at my buddy’s house a couple months back. There was this girl there he was interested in. Somewhere in there he tried to qualify my “game” by saying I was only into sexually “liberated” girls. BULLSHIT. I told him the seemingly sweet girls at his house that night would rather have been running around naked. He made a couple personal shifts and was soon bending one of those girls over. Rather naughtily in fact. A couple new girls were at the house the other day. I walked around with a paper towel roll sticking out of my zipper. Welcome to my co- the house, ladies.


We’re going to talk about injecting sexuality in a high-tension fashion. And dealing with the “consequences”. Girls have a natural order to things in their heads. Girls will be lovey-dovey all night long- making out with you passionately in front of all their friends. Then disappear off into the night. You have to bring this out and deal with it if it doesn’t match your agenda. If she wasn’t planning on fucking you there’ll be some managing to do. In fact you have to initiate some kind of sexual dialogue to get any kind of closing consistency. There’s 50 different ways of doing it. This is a “full-intent” style.

This won’t be applicable to everyone and every situation. In fact this is what some would call a “advanced” thread. If you plan on doing this without attraction- let me know I’ll come out.

I’m easily amused.


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I met a hot ass girl at a bar. We were making out, dancing, I was grabbing her butt, throwing her around, leading her thru the bar; mixed with withdrawals of my attention (Read Part I of LMR Series). She was with her of a cockblocking friend; one of those girls who hated just to hate, would have tried to fuck things up if I’d even remotely tried to get rapport with her. I ignored her completely like she wasn’t even there. Girlie and I were in another universe together- no one else was considered a part of it. And she had her hands full trying to keep my attention, much less her hater friend trying to throw a wrench in my game. As described in Part I of this series, even tho this girl could have had any guy at the bar and knew it, she was hooked to the nonneedy attraction between us. I’d kiss her, then stare off, she’d lick and bite my neck, she’d dance with her friends then nuzzle back up with me again.

But as hot as it was.. I knew the lay wasn’t going to happen as things then stood. I needed to make this shit real for her; get everything out in the open so I could see what was going on. I looked deep in her eyes, and told her I wanted to eat her pussy. We were present together in that hot moment. Then she slapped me.

She knew I did not say it to get a reaction, she knew it wouldn’t have mattered to me even if she’d walked away on the spot; I was simply speaking my mind. I think a lot of guys get hung up on the whole “Self-Amusing” concept; because “it” has to be “amusing”. Self-dialogue is as important as Self-amusement.

She slapped me a couple times that night- for being “fresh”. But she knew a few things at this point: I was DAMN serious, she didn’t own me I was unpredictable, and I didn’t give a fuck what she thought or how she’d react. Most importantly she realized this wasn’t fairytale land. Some shit was going to go down and I’d given her direction as a guy should; as most guys fail to do. A future agenda now existed that she could trust would just happen. Girls don’t give a fuck if you’re a player or not. They only care if you’re able to go the distance.

Then throughout the night I’d put my hands down her pants- first to squeeze her tight buttcheeks (this girl had a delicious ass), then in front trying to get in her panties. I wasn’t successful at this. She would yell at me, hit me, glare at me. But that wasn’t the point. Physical game is just like verbal dominance. Unreactive plowing. But not escalating just to escalate- instead just a natural flow. I.e. even if she didn’t pull my hand out, after a bit I’d pull it out myself. Past a certain point a girl will probably get so used to it or want to test you that she just accepts certain things. You better not act excited like a kid with his hand in the cookie jar. Take what you want. Then remove your hand from the cookie jar. There’s a natural ebb and flow. Same as making out, same as anything.

There’s been a few girls recently that I pulled the same night due to obnoxious escalation in the club. i.e. constant wrestling trying to get down her pants or up her skirt. The point of it is same as mentioned above. This girl’s friend even saw me put my hand down the front of her pants. She’s got to make sure you're serious; her friends have to get on the same program as well.

Someone a while back posted asking if we ever got slapped. Guys are scared of it. This girl slapped the shit outta me a couple times. Later said she loved how she could slap me and I didn't react. This has happened before. And I've never had a girl slap me that I didn't fuck. Well no that's not true. But the point is, girls will get “angry” with you. It’s just another chance to show you don’t give a fuck. I lifted up a girl’s skirt one time and got kicked out of a bar. Made friends with the bouncers and was back in pretty quickly. No justice in this world. Understand I’m not a glutton for punishment, I’m not letting boundaries get crossed. I know why she’s slapping me, and I approve.

Couple weeks ago this girl was chasing my buddies around the bar twisting their nipples, they acted like they were being stabbed. She did it to me and I didn't react- she and her sister were instantly up in my grill caressing my face and getting all lovey-dovey.

Anyways. I left with her and got back to her place. There weren’t any issues going back with her as this had already been handled thru the obnoxious kino escalation. I followed her into the bathroom. A lot of stuff happens when I follow girls into bathrooms. After ripping her pants down and checking out her vagina I told her "it" wouldn't fit.

Huge point to be made here. Don’t make the issue about having sex with her or not, make it about if she can even manage to have sex with you. This becomes a challenge. Punch through the wall. Not at it. If you’re trying to play with a girl’s breasts, don’t put your hand up her shirt. Put it down her pants, then you can put it up her shirt no prob. Don’t see what’s going on here? If you want to sell something
for $2000, list the price at $2500.

I remember another time a girl was giving me difficulty taking her pants off. She’d only suck my dick. So she was going for my cock one time and I pushed her hand away and turned over on my side. She looked at me like I was retarded. Fully aware of what “game” I was playing. Didn’t matter. She tried for it again. I pushed her hand away. She immediately jumped me, pulled my cock out and started sucking on it. I told her “FINE..! But you don’t get sex!” Her panties literally dissolved and she’s riding my cock within 10 seconds.

Same idea in telling her I didn’t think we could have sex ‘cuz it wouldn’t fit. And not that I was "gaming" her per se. Her vagina really was obnoxiously tight. Still, she tells me my reverse psychology wasn't working on her. Because she was a "socialogist". Pure BS as girls logically say one thing but feel another. But don’t treat it that way. Don’t address it on a logical level, or allow your ego to become engaged. Just ignore it.

Anyways we’re still in the bathroom a bit later and she tells me "We're NOT having sex".

I say “PSHHH” and drop my pants. She wasn’t expecting this at all. She gets a bit wide-eyed but happily expectant. Then she tries to pretend it was somehow her idea that she wanted to see the goods? Whatever. So she immediately grabs him and starts fucking his shit up, I grimace but bear it.

Then she lets go and stands there, waiting. I push her against the sink. “Don’t you want to kiss him?” I wasn’t asking her in the traditional sense, I was asking her in a tonality that said if she didn’t want to she was a weirdo.

She does this thing where she tries to somehow get herself to her knees without showing intent to suck my cock. Plausible deniability ain’t always pretty. I enjoy the show, the feeling, the sensation of her on her knees working to give my cock pleasure- knowing she’s being bad sucking a strange guy’s cock but not being able to help herself.

She gets up from sucking it. She tells me we should go outside to hang with her friends. Like I said, the natural ebb and flow. We hang out in the hallway, I pick her up and set her on the cupboards. We talk about our families and my past. I like talking to a girl about stuff like this. There’s something so hot and sensual about a girl knowing you and accepting you, and then speading her legs for you.

We’re on her couch chilling with the rest of her peeps. I involve myself in their conversations when I want to, I never try to ingratiate myself in with a girl’s friends. She whispers to me telling me she’s on her period. I barely respond, then look at her blankly. “Am I s’posed to react or something? Do I need to say something here.” “So you don’t care..?” “Uh no.” She gets more excited. The game is over at this point, tho getting impatient and pushing it could fuck it up.

Anyways we hang out a bit and then it’s time. I fuck her all night in some dude’s room that’s gone on vacation. I found an unopened box of condoms in his underwear drawer and used 7 of them.

Next morning is a fresh start and I give her more dick. I tell her I want to cum on her face. She slaps me even with me inside her- says no one has ever done that and no one ever will. I keep talking about it, how hot it is and that I can’t wait. Pretty soon she’s licking my balls, then I unleash the flood all over her. After the holocaust she lays there looking up at me. She’s radiant

ADDITION: Last night was a slightly different vibe, and a different kind of girl. More of a cherish atmosphere with her.

The cherish frame doesn't really match a same night lay agenda in her mind. And looking into her eyes and saying I want to eat your would be like using a bazooka to crack a walnut. 'sides this is natural game, and that's just not how I felt.

I was dancing with her close when she happened to look up at me in a slightly coyish way and then turn her face. I pulled her in and told her Id just caught a glimpse of what she looked like when she was having an orgasm. Girliebutt melted a little bit and then kidnapped me in front of my friends
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omgosh, you're posting again. <3
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 Goddamn.  You honestly write about core masculinity better than anyone...  
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rushers wrote:
So where is LMR Series II, III and IV ?

I'm looking forward especially for Series II: Making Her Invest!!!!

Haha I was gonna say that too... 1 to 5 with no 2,3, or 4.

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Someone put that quote on a funny kitten picture, it is a known fact Manwhore LOVES kittens

He PM's me to tell me this almost every day
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The slapping reminds me, I was at a local bar at the time in my hometown. Since I haven't been there for months and finally saw a bunch of my friends again I was in happy land. So at one point I see a two chicks surrounded by guys over at the pool table. So I ask my buddy if he knows them *point*, apparantly not. They notice where talking about them, so I get in and start messing around. Turn it sexual very quickly; one of them is sitting on the pool table and spills a drink with the comment 'damn now I'm all wet'. I go right up to her, stare at her crotch inquiring 'really?'. Instantly get slapped, no responce from me, she starts giggling. Some ass grabbing, more staring at boobs and sexual innuendo follows, more slapping, more giggles.

Then a friend of mine pulls them away (thanks buddy really appreciate this), later on I hear the chicks where 16 years old; barely legal. I swear they looked atleast 18 or 19 to me, young chicks are looking older and older by the day.

Moral of the story; this is some potent stuff, use at your own discretion.
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I know this feeling, I get it often when I'm home with her knowing I will fuck her.

It's like I'm a full grown male lion that's somewhat intoxicated/hung over, super relaxed tired/happy, hungry and super horny. Barely enough energy to move or satisfy my sex drive or food hunger, radiantly smiling on the inside. VERY physically dominant and primal, yet still very non pushy. All of it is just flowing freely from the inside. Everything feels slow and I've got all the time in the world, I even move slowly, but still things progress pretty quickly but not really because of me.

That's what it feels like to me. Extremely potent - core intent + the essence of leading by emotional state. This is true indifference and sexual confidence mixed w full masculine intent.

I want to have this early in field, not just after the pull is done deal. Have yet to hit it early in field interactions. I think because it requires not just beliefs or state, but complete abundance/entitlement and projecting w crystal clarity that "full knowing" of that this will happen unless she stops me, which requires enough experience and success to do "early". I believe I'll get there, but I've got a question on this.

Right now my inner game has come together strongly, I have "let go" and the ease to pull is there. I have no intent problems and I don't push every set I open (either I lose interest in her or I feel the pull isn't there and move on). But when tension is there in a good set I go hard. Good nights I have MASSIVE intent and most of my blowouts are from overescalation, either physically or by going sexual. I understand that this is to a large extent a calibration and pacing issue of getting used to wield this big gun coming from this new place of strong masculine ease, in a controlled way while not freaking her out on the way.

Still I just love that horny lion state.

What do you think more than calibration will allow me to shift into this gear earlier and be able to pull from this kind of massive sexual tension? Any tips would be appreciated.

Awesome post, thanks.
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Manwhore wrote:

She knew I did not say it to get a reaction, she knew it wouldn’t have mattered to me even if she’d walked away on the spot; I was simply speaking my mind. I think a lot of guys get hung up on the whole “Self-Amusing” concept; because “it” has to be “amusing”. Self-dialogue is as important as Self-amusement.

She slapped me a couple times that night- for being “fresh”. But she knew a few things at this point: I was DAMN serious, she didn’t own me I was unpredictable, and I didn’t give a fuck what she thought or how she’d react. Most importantly she realized this wasn’t fairytale land. Some shit was going to go down and I’d given her direction as a guy should; as most guys fail to do. A future agenda now existed that she could trust would just happen. Girls don’t give a fuck if you’re a player or not. They only care if you’re able to go the distance.

Then throughout the night I’d put my hands down her pants- first to squeeze her tight buttcheeks (this girl had a delicious ass), then in front trying to get in her panties. I wasn’t successful at this. She would yell at me, hit me, glare at me. But that wasn’t the point. Physical game is just like verbal dominance. Unreactive plowing. But not escalating just to escalate- instead just a natural flow. I.e. even if she didn’t pull my hand out, after a bit I’d pull it out myself. Past a certain point a girl will probably get so used to it or want to test you that she just accepts certain things. You better not act excited like a kid with his hand in the cookie jar. Take what you want. Then remove your hand from the cookie jar. There’s a natural ebb and flow. Same as making out, same as anything.
This part is great. You own your desire, not her - its a controlled desire. Being the standard, you are on your schedule. Just flowing and expressing the truth, regardless of approval/disapproval, just being the wave, ebbing and flowing on its own accord.

Its not a big deal. Nothing is gained or lost unless you are trying to take value. You are just expressing your intent and desire. If you get excited or deflated by her reactions or compliance, it just shows your escalation as neediness, not expression - you are letting her reactons dictate your expression, if you do, then you are not acting really through your own intentions, you are acting on her schedue,

Its not a linear step by step, its a vibe, your vibe, your internal state which you put out there. Actions and words just arise from what you are feeling at your core. Its independent of her influence.

Doing things on your own terms. That doesnt mean "escalating just to escalate", or escalating a bit, half heartedly and then jumping back scared of her reactions. I.e. if you are making out, and she is compliant, dont get all excited and start eating her face, and if she isnt, dont jump back all scared. Take what you want, and then back off. Just put yourself out there, and chill with the tension from doing so. No "just kidding" or "i was only teasing". You go in hard, do what you gotta do, and then back off and chill. You are cool with showing intent, and you are cool to chill as well.

You do it cos its you, not for the reactions, not cos you need to validate your sense of self, not cos you need to feel like you are the man. She should not be the measure of how you feel about yourself or what you are allowed to do. You are the standard

Its like in boxing, the best are very zen, no ego, and do things on their own terms, they go in hard bam bam bam, then they back off, even if you arnt finished yet. The new guys will go in bam bam bam, and then look at the other guys reactions to see how many more punches they can get in, they get excited by their little victory, get a little ego boost and react - looking to the other guy to decide when they should plow and when they should yield, instead of playing their own game, But the other guy was only baiting you, backing off to see if you chase, and when you chase, you fall in his trap and he comes up with an uppercut that floors you.

Nothing is gained or lost. Nothing is a big deal. Its just an expression of self. Its only when you try and find yourself in their reactions that you feel a loss or gain, that you feel a weight and resistance to what you do. Drop the ego.

Girls want to see that you can go the distance. Guys reading ioi's and iod's get them frustrated: they dont go the distance because they are content with a few ioi's here and there, and they dont go the distance because of a few pain here and there. THey are playing to not lose, not to win.

Ayn rand "action is man's foremost obligation, regardless of how he feels". If he feels shit, take right action. If he feels great, take right action. Put your core out there. You are the grounding energy amidst the emotional chaos.

Tap into something inside yourself for your state. Give yourself permission. Set the standard. It comes from your core. You dictate the vibe of the interaction, your values, your boundaries, your standards, your reality, you dictate what is allowed in it, what holds your interest, what doesnt. You are the oak tree, she is the squirrel running around. She is playing in the bubble you set, in the social context  you set. You make it sexual, you set the rhythm. They look to you for cues, for meaning, they ping to you for truth
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Excellent post. Manwhore is the man.
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