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May 25th, 2017
The open sets tone for the close: opening = closing
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De Reet Sap Rammer aka De Reet Thalys met 1986 kpu

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For mah babe Android wink...


Ok now I lay in my bed until 4 am last night...unable to sleep...and BAAAAAM! A whoopin ass epiphany just came to mind:

*CLEARING OF THE CLOUDS*





Now this is something that I've had go through my mind before, but it just fucking CLICKED....like epiphanies do.

So what was it?

Before I tell you...don't just read over it and go  "yeah duh " and discard it.....but REALLY think about what all of the implications mean & how it ties everything together...

So....without further ado:

 In her mind: THE OPEN REFLECTS THE CLOSE.
The way that you behave on your open, reflects the way that you act AFTER you've had sex (in her mind).

THE OPEN SETS TONE FOR THE CLOSE.


yes...read that again...perculate on that shit for a while...
She, rightfully so, screens guys for SEXWORTHY potential mates...



That's why, when you're getting laid a lot (true abundance) you cut the shit, and you can FEEL INSTANTLY which girl you're going to fuck that night.
 It's like you have a 6th sense and all you have to do is share a moment of eye contact, and you KNOW SHE KNOWS.
YOU JUST REFLECTED "THE CLOSE." In the only way that the close would ACTUALLY HAPPEN.

That momemt of Eye Contact just "opened the set" and since you're just excuding that sex; you're REFLECTING THE CLOSE.


Think about the following:

She's looking good, she looking for a potential mate (to fuck); which is a major part of her female drive...
Guys open her all of the time...
Which guy is she gonna go home with?

The guy that opens, and behaves in the way he "should be acting" (in her mind) AFTER you would've had sex.
She wants a guy that after "the deed", is still  JUST AS MANLY AS BEFORE.

You could even take it as far as: When she looks at you; your behavior at that moment forshaddows (in her mind) the way you'll act DURING banging her as well.

Now that might not make sense, and has less relevance than what I'm about to tell you: because the following is from your point of view:


When you're in a zone of TRUE ABUNDANCE:  you screen for sex. That's why when you  "lock eyes " on the girl that's also screening for sex; you get this INSTINCT that
she's the one...you KNOW it.
(and she gets the same instinct).
That's why you HAVE TO BE IN ALLIGNMENT with your DICK. You cannot be out of allignment with your dick, because then it doesn't matter how you open; you will not give
her the same "this is the one" feeling; and you won't feel it either.

Naturals open with the close.

You should be working BACKWARDS.

You have screened for the close; you KNOW she's the one...Therefore you AUTOMATICALLY don't TRY to make it  "any more ON that it already is" because it's already on.

Your bodylanguage & sub-communications are PERFECT. Because you're subcommunicating sex.


Now to put it all together:

THE OPEN SETS TONE FOR THE CLOSE:

When you open; it's by far the best to drag that "vibe " all the way through the time-line of the interaction, all the way to the end, and beyond. It's easiest, it's what she wants to see, and it's how YOU want to be.

In my experience, it's also just simply THE WAY IT GOES; the VIBE that you open with IS AND STAYS the vibe althrough the relationship.

-If you behave "halfass "; in her eyes the sex will be half-ass as well. DONE
-If you behave "entertainy" she just sees you acting the same after you've had sex...and who wants a guy that after you fucked feels like he should be entertaining her due to his feeling of inferiority?
-If you behave like a pussy, she'll be convinced that you'll have a pussy, fuck like you have a pussy, and be a when you're done. Nobody wants to be protected and cuddled by a pussy.
-if you behave like a fucking sex-worthy dude; she'll also think that this is the way you will behave AFTER you fuck; and to make sure this is the case; she'll SHITTEST YOU. Because often after you've had sex, non-sexworthy dudes will CHANGE PERSONALITIES. They will turn into pussies....In the past, I regret to inform you that I've turned into a after sex myself...She wants to make sure that you REALLY WILL STAY THIS WAY.

Shittesting is seeing if her pre-assumption of  "This guy's current behavior reflects the way that he IS AT HEART, and therefore the way he would act even after we would fuck " is correct, and if it matches reality.

If this is the case, then you're GOOD.

NOW FOR YOU: IF you open "chode" or "entertainy" or "just tolerable" in anyway: YOURE NOT JUST GONNA TURN INTO  "SEXMAN " 10 seconds in...and 10 seconds is too long.

ALSO FOR YOU: THE WAY THAT YOU OPEN, FORSHADDOWS HOW YOU WILL FEEL DURING & AFTER SEX.

You might wonder  "why is this important? "

BECAUSE if you remember that "the way you the interaction starts totally forshaddows the SEX at the end of the night" (also in HER MIND, and also based on YOU leading the interaction somewhere); then you automatically self-correct at anytime during the interaction; all the way to after the sex.

If you open and you're not totally convinced you're gonna fuck her, and you're totally 100% KNOWING on an instinctual level that you're going to fuck her, you're NOT.
 
You might also then have the feeling you have to convince her that you guys are gonna fuck, and your subcommunications will be out of wack.

Even when you look at it from a point of view from 
"How good will the sex be?"

Imagine girls screening for  "how good the sex will be" ; and I'm getting to believe more & more that this is the ONLY thing the girls screen for:

HOW GOOD WILL THIS GUY BE IN BED?

When you're in your head, put her on a pedestal, etc (doing all the wrong things, yet you would still magically fuck her), you would fuck her like SHIT. You
would be a boring ass lay. You would cum in like 20 seconds!!

If you're out of your head, enjoying her body & your body, and just RELAXING into the sex, and really EXPRESSING yourself in the sex, and really forgetting bout your own value, etc; YOU WILL BE AMAZING IN THE SACK! When you really go into the moment, you will last AS LONG AS YOU WANT!!!

If you're gonna remember anything, even when in-field, it should be: 

THE OPEN FORSHADDOWS THE CLOSE.

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OMAR

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LOve the music love the vibe, love the message.

It highlights the essentials of how this stuff is to go down, it is truly fukin beautiful

even wen u break it down in such an analytical persepctive as to get to the core of the way this thing is done.

Blast away all the intermediary BULLSHiT and focus on wat really needs to be taken care of.

**reinforce the just BE**
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De Reet Sap Rammer aka De Reet Thalys met 1986 kpu

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sorry dudes, but imma have to bump this one as well...It's my fuckin masterpiece
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Ranga

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Good post man.
I think you hit the nail on the head with chicks screening for "HOW GOOD WILL THIS GUY BE IN BED?".
And maybe then "..And can i get away with doing him without being judged".
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"tim has an exercise in which he makes you describe your girl archetype and then he sends you in a quest to find her. this helps guys get focused because they are not approaching for the hell of it they are on a quest to find the right one. it is like an screening mission. this exercise is genious because it removes the typical pitfalls of approaching to get approval or to hook a set. it makes you naturally screening in your approach. you dont dwell much on negativity because you are after something else. you have purpose, intent naturally. i thought this would help guys that have been in the field for a while equally to those who havent. a man with a purpose is a dangerous weapon." - Ozzie.
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This is quality.

Some of it really hit home and the rest has got me thinking. Now that I think about it, there's been more than a few times I've been told something along the lines of "I had no idea you'd be so good in bed." I always thought it was a reflection of something I'm conveying, like more of a big brother than a mate.

I think projecting sexuality is really one of the keys to consistent results, and coming from the place of true abundance is the most effective way I've found to enter that state.

You hit it right on with the part about your mental state reflecting hers. If you're both thinking "How good a lay will this person be" then you're both in the perfect state. The last 10% is making the answer to that question a resounding "fuck yes"
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caveman86 wrote:









You should be working BACKWARDS.


ALSO FOR YOU: THE WAY THAT YOU OPEN, FORSHADDOWS HOW YOU WILL FEEL DURING & AFTER SEX.

You might wonder  "why is this important? "

BECAUSE if you remember that "the way you the interaction starts totally forshaddows the SEX at the end of the night" (also in HER MIND, and also based on YOU leading the interaction somewhere); then you automatically self-correct at anytime during the interaction; all the way to after the sex.




I liked this!

Thgey also say that women know from the first five seconds if they are gonna sleep with this guy.-Maybe not if they are gonna sleep,but if he is sexworthy.


Canello
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this is EASILY one of the TOP 5 greatest post I've ever read in my fucking life.

My God this is not even GOLD, not even PLATINUM, this is fucking crystal clear DIAMOND!!!!

Excellent, fucking ROCK SOLID, post man. I can't thank you enough!
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