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March 28th, 2017
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Doge~

Doge~

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imthaifool wrote:
epic. it only gets better.
Thanks man.
Hyxtery wrote:
Hey man great job, congrats on the pull and big up on the shout out :)...

btw love your advice man, it's solid...it really helped me
Thanks dude, no problem.
Law_NYCE wrote:

LR =



Awesome!
lol... wtf.
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Doge~

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Who Am I? (Exercise from Pythag & Hyxtery)

I am a man of integrity.  I am authentic, positively dominant, I take action and I am present in my everyday life.

I uphold my values and beliefs.

I am hard working, patient and dedicated.  I strive to obtain my goals no matter how hard or how long.

I am open-minded, liberal, experimental, tolerant and understanding.  I keep an open mind to new ideas and I give people the opportunity to express their views even if they aren't in alignment with my own.

I do not judge others.

I am positive and I always strive to maintain my positivity regardless of any situation.

I love expressing myself through music, either through singing, writing or dancing.  I love being emotionally in sync with the vibe and rythme.

I am very sexual and love to express this fact.  I love getting in touch with my desires and I love pleasing a woman in the bedroom.

I think sex is like art, and much like any art, must be expressed from your core.

I strive to stop caring about other people's perceptions of me.

I love who I am and where I'm going.  I constantly strive to evolve and grow with each passing day.

I care about my friends and I care about people in general.  I look at the potential good in others, even if it's concealed by ego.

I embrace my flaws.  I've learned to accept and forgive myself and to rid myself of the past.

I love being playful and I have a very corny sense of humor sometimes.

*will edit as I find out more*
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Doge~

Doge~

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What Are My Values?

1. Integrity

This value governs all the other values.  Without this value, the other values simply don't exist because there would be no integrity in anything I do.  As long as I constantly strive to follow my values, I will abide by this rule.

2. Authenticity

Authenticity is an expression of integrity.  Anytime I express myself truthfully, convey myself from my core, I'm being authentic.

3. Positivity

Simply striving to be positive and not let things get myself down.  If it happens, it's ok, it's not a big deal, just try to be present and move on.

4. Self-Acceptance


When I let go of my past, forgive myself, embrace my flaws and learn from experiences.  This means from several years ago to what I did 20 seconds ago.  Just let it go and move on.

5. Independence/Self-trust

Taking responsibility for myself and trusting that whatever happens in life, I have what it takes to handle it.  Even if I fail, it's still not a failure.  There are no failures in life, only outcomes.  Either way its handled.  Just simply accept the reality and move on.

6. Taking Action

Any time I move myself towards a desired outcome.  Not on a micro level such as an approach by approach basis, but as long as I go out and stay dedicated, I'm taking action.  If I've gained new reference experiences or learned something new, I'm taking action.

7. Sexual Expression

Any time I convey truthfully about my sexual intentions and desires to a woman that pulls me at my core.

8. Offering Value

Being positive, acting with integrity/being myself, helping others without expecting in return.

9. Non-Judgmental


As long as I am conscious of myself when I judge and try to correct myself.

10. Self-Respect


Maintaining my boundaries and call out people who's behavior I find unacceptable.

11. Being Present


Stop thinking when in field and never talk or think game.  Simply enjoying the moment, having a good time and talking to people.

12. Dedication


As long as I stay on the path towards mastery in anything I do.  If I miss a day at the gym for example, it's not a big deal just as long as it doesn't become a habit.

13. Open-minded


Be willing to try things before passing judgment.

14. Self Development

Always striving to improve myself, evolve and learn.  A student for life.

15. Patience

Never letting things get to me and never rushing things.  Letting things play out as they should.  Acceptance of the reality at hand.

16. Tolerant

Listening to others and be conscious of their egos so I don't react to it.  Showing love, support and understanding even if the other person is doing the opposite.

17. Sense of Humor

Not taking things too seriously and enjoying myself and the moment.  Having fun and bringing others into it.
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Doge~

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My Goals (in the game)

Ultimately I want to have a level of centerness that makes me walk through the world with ease.  I trust that whatever I do in life, I will be able to handle it but also enjoy it to the fullest regardless of what it is.

I will for the most part, be mostly present through my day to day experiences, never taking anything too seriously and taking life one day at a time.

I want to be completely oblivious to how others perceive me, only caring about my reality and my purpose.

I wish to offer value wherever I go, simply by expressing myself, as carefree as a child, never wanting anything in return.

I want to be able to see the woman I want and without hesitation, lead the interaction to sex, without thinking twice about it.

I want to have multiple long term relationships, with many gorgeous women of multiple ethnicities.

I want to meet women that enrich my life as well as me enriching theirs.

I want to meet people in general where I enrich their lives and they do the same in return.

I want to travel anywhere in the world and be assured I will live my life to the fullest no matter where.

I wish to pass this knowledge onto my children someday so they too can break free of the bonds of social conditioning for generations to come.
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Doge~

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My Goals (in life)

1. Be fluent in 3 major asian languages: Chinese, Japanese and Korean.
2. Learn to be a sushi chef.
3. Learn how to cook.
4. Learn the piano again.
5. Learn to play golf again.
6. Travel.
7. Dj around the world.
8. Get a track signed to a label.
9. Work with a major producer.
10. Own my own house by my design.
11. Have my own music studio by my design.
12. Work for a nonprofit organization in another country.
13. Live out of a van, moving across America from city to city and pulling girls.
14. Get better at sex and foreplay.
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Pythag

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Haze PUA wrote:
Who Am I? (Exercise from Pythag & Hyxtery)

I am a man of integrity.  Integrity is at the foundation of how I think, behave, act and express.  Authenticity is an expression of integrity.  Taking action is an act of integrity.  Being present is living a life of integrity.

Without integrity as the infrastructure to bind and support my beliefs and values, my reality would be weaker than the wind.  Thus, it would crumble at the slightest turbulance.

I believe in always upholding my values and beliefs and I have quite a few.

I am hard working, patient and above all dedicated.  I strive to obtain my goals no matter how hard or how long.  The reward is in the journey not in the result.

I am open-minded, liberal, experimental, tolerant and understanding.  I've always kept an open mind to new ideas and I give people the opportunity to express their views even if they aren't in alignment with my own.

Here's an example of how I might edit a small portion of what you've written:

"I am a man who acts with integrity, always upholding my values and beliefs. I am hard working, patient and dedicated. I take every step necessary to reach my goals. I am open-minded, liberal, tolerant and understanding. I am flexible to new ideas and I accept other people's views even if they aren't in alignment with my own."

This is not necesarily ideal yet, but a little closer to what we want. Notice that I kept just enough to encompass your key points. I eliminated superfluous words and sentences. I got rid of all hints at negativity, and all references to the past or future. I also eliminated explanations. This is a statement of who you are at the core - you don't need to explain yourself.
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Distant Light

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Nice!! These exercises were life changing for me when I first wrote them out...

I later expanded this an asked myself MORE questions...
1.  What do I value in a woman?
2.  What do I offer to women?
3.  How do I want to come across to women?
4.  What are my boundaries?

Those stuff as it continued to expand really made me understand who I was an it's always being sub-communicated.

The FIRST...made me realize that there were MANY chicks I actually didn't like, before when I first got into this I would've fucked whatever I could've got. This ultimately made things easier because the chicks now knew I actually had standards an for me to be even CURIOUS about them was actually a compliment in itself because there were many reasons why I wouldn't go for certain chicks...

For example instantly screening out chicks who couldn't keep up with my personality, I had learned that it was dumb to try and pull a chick who couldn't keep up with me because then I'd have to CALIBRATE being ME just to say I'm with THAT speicific woman. BUT when women noticed this in my interactions it almost influenced them to actually explore themselves and see if they could keep up. I remember being in a danceclub with this model chick an she blurted out "No I can't do this" and litterally gave up, an I encouraged her that I would make sure she looks good and to her surprise she learned something about her own self and it actually formed a CONNECTION.

The SECOND...made me actually know my INHERENT value because before I was approaching an I didn't even know what I was bringing to the table. Only recently did it finally click as to how much value I actually offer. After that if anyone ever responded negatively then I almost felt sad about there poor judgment because they had to thin slice me in order to keep up with this fast paced world.

The THIRD...was developed through me just going out over and over, watching how I came across and the feedback I was getting infield. This is how I learned that DIRECT mindset was not for me because I felt more congruent with the whole SOCIALITE behavior an just ozzing sexuality. For a very long time I had tried to keep BEING the DIRECT, ISOLATE and just go for the pull guy which became more and more incongruent as I started meeting cool guys and hot girls who wanted to align with me just because of HOW I WAS. I started giving off a "Who is that guy?" or "That is the man we need to meet" sort of vibe which caused me to fully nix out many of my old ways.

The FOURTH...Is something I found HOT WOMEN really respond to because without any rules it's just complete chaos. There is always certain things that you just don't ALLOW an assert it and women like to know this. It's almost like a chick is seeing what she can get away with or where is the lines in your reality. For example...This one girl I was pulling we were making out BUT I needed more stuff going on besides just making out so I told her I had a gf of 8 years at home.

This caused a GREAT MOMENT, which she tried to see where the line was because she was acting mad and didn't want me to touch her anymore. I told her straight up "Look! I'm enjoying this, so stop ruining the experience...I could be like everyone else who is like YEA I'M MAKING OUT!! TIME TO FUCK...That is boring why do you think I'm playing up the whole SEDUCTIVE AGENT stuff because I enjoy that stuff." An from there she realized that she wasn't allowed to fuckup the experience like that an she actually continued with the whole seductive agent mannerisms.

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An that's that hahaa...The personal growth from this whole thing is AMAZING an I'm so pumped that you took the time to really write out those things MANY are to lazy to do it, but for me it was a great way to guage my progress as I started realizing that I was becoming MORE like the person I had written down on paper.
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Koolaid

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Sup man. Long time no see.
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Jeffy Bootcamp Alumnus Oct 30-Nov 1, 2009
http://www.rsdnation.com/node/138865

Life changing self-esteem article by Tyler
http://www.rsdnation.com/showthread.php?t=12471

Excellent post about practice and consistency by Ozzie. Really hits home.
http://www.rsdnation.com/showthread.php?t=13223

Field report thread.
http://rsdnation.com/node/127554
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Doge~

Doge~

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Good to see you back Koolaid.  Hope you keep an FR thread.  Would love to read about your progress.

Thursday July 16th 2009


Hit up a place called Black Thorn with the Jersey Crew.  Place is like 15 minutes away from my house.  Not too bad tonight.  No approaches though.

I realize that I have a nasty tendency to chode when I'm out with wings.  From now on I'm going out solo for most of the foreseeable future.  I simply am more focused and have better nights when I'm solo.
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What Do I Value In Women?

Genuine/Authentic

I love a woman who speaks truthfully and authentically about herself. She is who she is and isn't afraid to demonstrate it.

Understanding/Tolerant

A person who can be open to other ideas and beliefs, who is tolerant of other people's thoughts and beliefs.

Compassion/Empathy

Someone who is emotionally conscious of others and shows kindness and understanding to those around her.

Maturity

A woman who doesn't play validation games, is real, an adult and doesn't bullshit around.

Sexual Expressiveness

I love a woman who is comfortable expressing her sexuality, isn't afraid to embrace it and can openly talk about her experiences.

Sense of Humor/Playful


Someone who can laugh at jokes and not take things too seriously. She loves to have fun, enjoys the company of others and isn't afraid to be a dork and act silly.

Polarity/Aligned with Feminine Nature

A woman who move me at my core.  She's comfortable being who she's meant to be at her nature.

Cute Ass/Tits


I love a woman with a cute tight ass and breasts that aren't too big but a nice decent size.

Toned Body

I love a woman with toned arms and body.  My favorite part on a girl is when she has a nicely toned stomach.

Confidence


She is comfortable being herself, demonstrates her personality freely.  She is independent and values herself.

Offers Value

I value in women who freely gives without wanting in return.  She genuinely just cares about people.

Boundaries


I enjoy women who know their boundaries and do not compromise them.

Values

A person who has values that she is truly passionate about.
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