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 3 nights ... 3 girls... I like it, I want more of it! 
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 "In those moments that most people say I can't,  most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie   "i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek "I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." - "While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
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#52

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this is glorious man, keep updating us, this thread has a lot of value in it!
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#53
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Missed opportunities. I realize I am missing too many opportunities. I was getting a coffee today and Ms. New Hampshire walks by and I froze.. Adorable blonde in a huge hurry.. It probably would of been a hard set.. Missed opportunity. 

 start at the 1:03 mark until the end. This movie sums up my experience I have been going through. 

I saw an amazing women pumping gas while I was sitting at a stop light.. I should have stopped and gone and talked to her. Missed opportunity. 

The other night I was at the free seminar with Papa and I literally hesitated. I was in my head and I told my feet to go.. I literally pushed myself. I had massive success with her. I need to get the reference experiences so that this stuff becomes internalized. This is the next step get the experiences that makes the mental shift that I have fully internalized and make me act with out thinking. It is the next step.. noticing the missed opportunities should only force myself to  make this happen. Thanks Mad Dog! Keep on pushing the limits and living in your own world. 

"A gold medal is a wonderful thing but if you are not enough with out it. You will never be enough with it!" - John Candy.... You are enough. 
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Bootcamp of Champions - Mar' 09! Austin Resurrection Crew !  - Embrace Uncertainty
Ozzie - July '09 - London - your social self and become you.

 "In those moments that most people say I can't,  most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie   "i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek "I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." - "While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
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Back in the Saddle - So I have been finishing up the school year and getting ready to head to Europe for the summer. I have worked hard and earned this.

I have inadvertently started a 30 day challenge. Have been out 6 out of 8 nights.

Progressive Desenstization
Tuesday Night - Went out good state and had lots of good conversations. No real intent... adjust for Wednesday

Went out to an open mic night on Wednesday... Had two amazing interactions.. Showed real intent for a friend of a friend and things were going great until... my good girl friend said stop she is taken..

Thursday was the tough day.. Was outside with studetns all day in the sun... exhausted. But I meet up with a friend in Cambridge Boston... kinda slow in the pouring rain. We bounce to a playboy party at the greatest bar ever. Chat with a few girls who are there, beautiful girls. I had no shot at that a year ago. 3 hours of sleep and back to work. Let's get this handled.

Friday night... no energy.. meet a few friends out and chatted with two cute blondes. No real momentum but I I was able to get up and talk to some of the more attractive girls at the bar.

Saturday Night... meet up with Nick! head into Boston... I am still low energy. I decide this is no way to live. I start the party! The music is going and I am just smiling at everything that moves... New opener.. she smiles back.. open... she doesnt smile back.. still open.

I think I am going to meet up with a girl from Lowell I meet out in Boston last night.. We will see what happens.
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Bootcamp of Champions - Mar' 09! Austin Resurrection Crew !  - Embrace Uncertainty
Ozzie - July '09 - London - your social self and become you.

 "In those moments that most people say I can't,  most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie   "i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek "I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." - "While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
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It's funny... the more and more I dive into this endevour.. the more people are open that I am different... I have the balls to approach random strangers and chat it up. It's called being social people.

Some girls I meet up with tell me they will be my wing any time. I love people, they are so awesome and unique.

Field Report : I have a good friend who checks his watch on me and that signifies I have to go approach... most of the time it ends up working out well. We went to a slow bar tonight. I am wearing a Lime Green polo shirt. I enjoy standing out.

I go approach four girls. Two cuties and two bigger girls who are very quiet.. Onbe girl is freaking out and shaking her hands... shit... rev the engine..wowow!!!! make a big deal... girls start laughing... I chat about something... sit on a footstool. I get names and repeat... remembering names is a work in progress. Get her number early.. something about eatting sushi and getting coffee.

apparently they are out for one of the cute girls competing nursing school. I tell one of the she looks Russin... we get on to the fact I am going abroad. Chat it up some more.. they love Italy.. been there done that... I isolate one.. she injured her foot. Her friends are all cool with me. Apparently. her boyfriend was calling her other friends and she made them hang up on him. The girl who is graduating wants to dance.. I grab her and lead her to the dance floor. We dance for two songs and back to group. I sit down and chat with girl... I decide she needs to dance.. I lead her to the dance floor. We dance, she has a broken foot and is still swining and having a blast. We are flirting and I am getting physical... some of my comic "friends" comes over and make comments.

They piss her off... one of the guys says... you dont even know her middle name and you are grabbing her ass... she tells me her middle name and I lead her over to the boys and tell them.. Since they "comics" they have to amp up their attempts to piss my girl off. She does get pissed and walks off...

Awesome... thanks guys... I walk over to the girl and explain they are weak men who do not know how to talk to girls and have a good time... we chat about some stuff and I sit down again... things are going smooth again. I ask her what her favorite color is, favorite food, place to live.. At some point I should have gone more sexual. ... internalize that. I ask about logistical stuff.. she has a boyfriend and is really unhappy with him.. how does find this stuff out with out bringing it up.. We get back to me traveling to Europe and I role play with her about owning a hot dog stand . She leans and I rub her back and we make out.. I start talking about her passions. She explains she wants to sing... she is in a choir.. She starts talking about religion and I can not get off the subject.. get facebook info.. maybe chat with her if she and her bf break up..

Looking back on last night.. there were so many things that went wrong.. and I still had an amazing night. The more and more I get into this stuff, the more you realize I can handle when things go wrong.
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Bootcamp of Champions - Mar' 09! Austin Resurrection Crew !  - Embrace Uncertainty
Ozzie - July '09 - London - your social self and become you.

 "In those moments that most people say I can't,  most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie   "i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek "I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." - "While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
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I went to go eat dinner by myslef and I see this cutie ordering food... I decide I am going to say hello to her. I am writing stand up comedy and just doing my thing and they seem to be looking at me. Maybe it is my head space that makes me think this way. but oh well. I am there I will take it. So I eat my sub and hear the cute girl talking about non profit organiztaions and helping poor children. Something I hold dear to my heart.I finish my food and walk up and say I heard you talking and just want to let you know that I find your lifes work very admirable. I get there names and say hae a good night. I turn to walk away.. They say hey where are you going? We chat for a little bit. I tell them I am going on stage to do open mic comedy.. THey say they are going to show up. I am in the moment of doing my comedy and do not care about thier reactions. I am doing this for me. I go over and I chat wit them for a while.... I call her a hippy because her purse looks like something a hippy would wear. I am in.. we chat about things.. I tell her I am heading to Europe. I get her number as her friends are leaving... I will call her when I get back . She texts me later in the night asking me questions about Europe... I play it cool and turn sexual... We are going to hang before I head out... I am so dangerous... no really... i am bad news.. stop texting me...  I am warning u. okay . I will see you soon.

Thank you RSD for helping me gain control of my life and my future and allowing me in to the glimsp on sexual abundance... If she is starts acting up then you take her friend.
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Bootcamp of Champions - Mar' 09! Austin Resurrection Crew !  - Embrace Uncertainty
Ozzie - July '09 - London - your social self and become you.

 "In those moments that most people say I can't,  most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie   "i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek "I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." - "While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
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So I sent the girl from wednesday night a text message asking her how she can handle a golf club? She texts back and we end up going mini golfing.. plenty of flirting, making out. We grab some beers and head back to my place... lots of LMR... cool... we should take it slow.. more making out...escalate... we should slow down... I agree... more making out and then escalation. I am not going to take my shirt off... Interesting learning experience... I am going to put on the breaks and she is going to fly right by!! 

Escalate... continue escalating... if you are made to slow down... I agree... slow down and then go fast... escalate more.. Subcommunicates all the right things.
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Bootcamp of Champions - Mar' 09! Austin Resurrection Crew !  - Embrace Uncertainty
Ozzie - July '09 - London - your social self and become you.

 "In those moments that most people say I can't,  most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie   "i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek "I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." - "While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
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Steve-0! wrote:

It's funny... the more and more I dive into this endevour.. the more people are open that I am different... I have the balls to approach random strangers and chat it up. It's called being social people.

Some girls I meet up with tell me they will be my wing any time. I love people, they are so awesome and unique.
the core essence of the approach and why.  Great stuff man. Enjoy europe and have a great adventure. Look forward to the stories to come... and it's all a story
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Last night in NH for a while... Off to Europe!

Got laid twice today... with in about 1 hour.. played it nice and close..

1 Old and 1 New....
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Bootcamp of Champions - Mar' 09! Austin Resurrection Crew !  - Embrace Uncertainty
Ozzie - July '09 - London - your social self and become you.

 "In those moments that most people say I can't,  most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie   "i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek "I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." - "While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
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Flying all over the world!! It's amazing to see different parts of the world on your own! went out in Dublin last night and partied until 3 in the morning... I was dancing with this cute Argentnian Asian... cool girl.. I was dancing and leading all over the town.. It is funny when this shit just becomes internalized... made out with her when we got back to the hostel... bad logistics... Hostels are awesome places. 

Off to Galway for the weekend.

Take control of your life and take a bootcamp!  
 
Down side... got sucker punched by a drunk irishman my first night in Dublin. 
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Bootcamp of Champions - Mar' 09! Austin Resurrection Crew !  - Embrace Uncertainty
Ozzie - July '09 - London - your social self and become you.

 "In those moments that most people say I can't,  most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie   "i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek "I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." - "While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
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