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So I went out last night, realized I am becoming more and more the center of attention. Things are changing, people are calling me more to hang out and have fun. I am becoming those positive energy that people want in their lives. I was out for Cinco De Mayo and was at a dive bar. I realized I need to have more fun, I was wearing my gold glasses, which I find hilarious. Some guy started talking to me about them. We chatted and he was telling me about his ex friend was showing up. I was getting super social, so I start saying hello to everyone. I see a cute girl, I go up and open and we chat a little bit. I say hello, and move on. 

I see this girl at the bar and she is bringing her beer back behind her friend. I walk up to her and try and snatch and grab her. She stops and we end up with interlocked fingers. I tell her I am leaving soon and just wanted to come her how adorable she was. I said I should grab your number before I take off. I should have lead her back to her friend. But she ends up going back to her friend. I head to the bathroom. 

I end up going back to my friends and start chatting up with everyone. I look over at this group of girls and we chat. I chat up with the Dos Equios girls. One girl kept chatting with me. The other one kept telling me to go away, she was not feeling well.

So I end up going back to the two girls and we start vibing, we figure out what that they are vampires and I say I am not sure if I want to run away or am down for an experiment. I realized I was getting too physical with the girl I wanted. I need to calibrate a little more. We chat some more and she wants to be a physicians assistant. I tell her my friend is a PA at GW in DC. She tells me she hates him. I take out my phone and send the exact text. THings were going great then all of a sudden things go cold. I needed to just be a little more cool about things. Push and pull... do just bull rush!  

It was a low key night at the bar, I get a text and leave about 10 pm. I should have stayed out and kept going, I felt that my momentum was getting going. 

Little victories are better than sitting on the sidelines.  

Next!!
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Bootcamp of Champions - Mar' 09! Austin Resurrection Crew !  - Embrace Uncertainty
Ozzie - July '09 - London - your social self and become you.

 "In those moments that most people say I can't,  most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie   "i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek "I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." - "While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
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#42
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Steve-0! wrote:
Little victories are better than sitting on the sidelines.  

Next!!

Damn straight.

Why do you think things just went cold?
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#43
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 My balls were too big for her too handle. I was just vibing with both her and her friend. I was getting overly physical, something I need to work. Show my intent and let the game come to me. Let her do some of the work,.. with is something that I have experience in. I have no problem pulling this stuff in other cities but I think I am learning to break down the barriers I have built up in my own hometown. Old bad habits, this shit has too go!  Keep on pushing forward!! I might have to come up for a thursday night next week. Just to keep the ball rollin!! 
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Bootcamp of Champions - Mar' 09! Austin Resurrection Crew !  - Embrace Uncertainty
Ozzie - July '09 - London - your social self and become you.

 "In those moments that most people say I can't,  most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie   "i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek "I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." - "While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
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Went out last night and just opened. I opened everything, young, old, cute and attractive. I am realizing it really does not matter. I am taking action! I need to go out whenever possible. I am tired of excuses!  I want more out of my life! The only person that is going to make this happen is me. So I approach.. and approach.. get some okay interactions. I was super direct all night. Hey I think you are adorable, what is your name? I got a lot of initial attraction but it most of my sets stalled. So I continue to be me and go dance, have fun. Fuck around with my friends, girls do not seem to realize who the Fuck I am. I must let them know. 

We end up at a dance club, hip hop stuff. I am really just having way to much fun. I need to refocus my energy and develop that inner desire of passion. Women are amazing but they do not know who I am unless I taking action. I am taking action! I want this, this is for me. 

So at the end of the night I was dancing on the dance floor and this one cute girl, is dancing with her her two fattys dancing around her. One of them throws the girl on me. Haha!! We chat a little bit I tell her she is not a very good dancer, she tells me she knows. Her friends says if I buy her a drink she will drink more. I tell her that If she buys me a drink, she will drink more. Inversion formula, bitches! I buy a round of drinks for my friends. I grab my receipt, flip it over and tell the girl to give me her number. Her friends chimes in with her number. Really... you want me to fuck this girl? okay.. if I must. We go back to the dance floor, she is actually a really bad dancer. I am throughly amused at this site. My friends and I dance and chat with girls. I am so sweaty, I head outside as the bar is beginning to close down. Jenn walks out with her two friends and I stand against the wall and call her over too me. She obliges and we chat and then I go right for make out, I claw her in and she turns cheeck. wait for it.... then go right back for the make out. In.. we are making out and the two friends are confused as to how they lost their friend. 

We texted back and forth about bullshit. I made sure to qualify her. Said I would call this week and chat and meet up. 

Next!!
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Bootcamp of Champions - Mar' 09! Austin Resurrection Crew !  - Embrace Uncertainty
Ozzie - July '09 - London - your social self and become you.

 "In those moments that most people say I can't,  most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie   "i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek "I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." - "While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
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There's that Persistance again :)
Nice.
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#46
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Went out last night and learned a little bit about what it takes to stay in state as you jump venues. I ended up at Margaritas to start the night with friends.
I was saying hello to a few tables around the room, just chattiing, saying hello. Being the man I was meant to be. Every girl I talked to went well. I realized I was having the most fun at the bar and people wanted to be part of it. I realized I mentioned I was leaving the bar and my entire group, got up and left with me and went separate ways as we left the building. I came up with a new hand shake and I taught everyone I interacted with. But then we jumped venues and my state shifted I could feel it. I was not having the most fun in the club and I retreated into my head and did not approach people. I am starting to rework some of my thoughts to were I want them to be. I need to figure how to be consistent with my state when venue jumping. 

Next!! 

 
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Bootcamp of Champions - Mar' 09! Austin Resurrection Crew !  - Embrace Uncertainty
Ozzie - July '09 - London - your social self and become you.

 "In those moments that most people say I can't,  most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie   "i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek "I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." - "While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
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#47
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Routines, where we're going... we don't need..... Routines! 



Shit is getting out of control in my life lately, and I love it! 

I was at a BBQ hanging with some friends and one of the girl's brothers I was hanging out with brought a bunch of graduates from college. I get in a conversation with one and just start saying random nonsense. It is amazing how your mouth just starts saying things and it is hilarious and you do not even try.  I had a bunch of my friends just saying shit in the back about what was going on. I realized I just plowed through, some dude shows up and tells me there are engaged. I say cool and then she tells me that she was kidding and they are not actually engaged. It is funny, I was having way too much fun and I did not even realize what the hell I was doing and poow! I have her number. I tell her I am going to text her now, but I end up calling oh well. I pull her into me and I look into her eyes, as I say my message. It is about this cute boy that I am looking at as he stares longingly into my eyes. I can not help but blush and his blue eyes pierce through me. Haha!! I just stood looking into her eyes. 

I end up meeting up with the girl I am currently spending the majority of my time with. I tell her me to meet me and place and tell her some of my friends are out at another bar, So I tell her she should meet me over there. She tells me that is ridiculous and it is raining, I tell her I will come pick her up. I pick her up and jump to the next bar. I grab a drink for the girl and me. We chat with the boys and we roll to a new bar. I start doing cartwheels down the road. I am having all sorts of fun. We go to next bar, I see the bartender I know so I chat with her. I see an ex Fb and I chat with her. She tells me we have to get a drink soon. I am down. I am dancing away, doing my leprechaun dance. I am starting to truly enjoy myself and just enjoy the people and women in my life. 

Live for you and the rest will fall in to place.

I end up going home with my friends, the girls stay and we chat about stuff. She tells me she thinks I am immature and I need to grow up, I tell her she should probably not tell me these things because I am having fun and doing what I love to do. I live up to my own standards. I do not give a shit what you think. We get a little more personal tonight about some of her past relationships. I pull her in and get physical, she seems real stand offish tonight. I am not going to tolerate this bullshit. I am who I am, and I need no one to judge who I am. I grab a bottle of wine, take a glass grab her hand and lead to the couch. We start talking more and I get agitated, she goes to the bathroom I go outside, amazingly one of my sisters friends is hanging out  and we chat, I end up kissing her asking her about her boyfriend, they broke up. I will text her next week. 

She comes back and hears me talking to the other girl. She starts getting all flirty. I explain to her that I am not like other guys who go to the bar and are boring, I bring the party, no ifs and or buts! I am the mother fucking party! She decides this would be a good time for a blow job. I agree.

Things I learned tonight.

1. LIve up to your standards. No one else.
2. I am starting to have that abundance of women in my life. Now I need to go take the ones I want. 
3. This stuff is starting to become internalized, it happens even when I don't mean it too.
4. I am the party! 
5. Routines are a forcefield, it allows the ego to breathe while also protecting you from any harm. It is a loose - loose situation.
6. You are enough.
7. Women love me, the man who I am, the man who I am working to be, the man I am going to be. 

 
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Bootcamp of Champions - Mar' 09! Austin Resurrection Crew !  - Embrace Uncertainty
Ozzie - July '09 - London - your social self and become you.

 "In those moments that most people say I can't,  most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie   "i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek "I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." - "While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
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How to stop giving a shit? Get up on stage and do some stand up comedy... Do not care how the audience reacts. It is also puts your true personality on the line. So I have gotten up twice now up on stage. I am shifting my mentality away from scarcity toward total abundance. I went out Tuesday night and walked up to two girls wearing tennis skirts. I ask them if they just finished playing soccer or something, they tell me they just finished playing tennis. I ask them why they are not sweating. They explain they are sweating... I tell them gross and walk away. Social times and abundance mindset. 

I then see some girls I opened up a while back. I have interacted with them on a few occasions but it was 5 - 10 minutes. I start chatting about ridiculous shit. I lead and start talking and they ask me... where are your friends. I tell them they are in the sewer. I am a ninja turtle! I am raphael, I throw up a sai, (thumb, middle finger and pinkie.) I just keep chatting and we just start chatting about how I am a teacher in a half shell. I lead forward... I start asking about what type of man they look for. I also start asking about what they think there best features are. I then start talking about my trip to Europe. Lot's of hugging going on. I hang for about an hour. I tell them I have to get going to sleep to wake up in the morning. I  had her number from a previous encounter. I text her and tell her to add me to facebook because she wanted to see me in my leprechaun outfit from St. Patty's Day. 

Lesson learned: Lower the bar! Not everything you say has to be amazing. I talked about Ninja turtles, chatted about living in the sewer, being drunk on the beach.. they were in Mexico.  Internalize this lesson and you will become a more attractive man. This shows you are fully in the moment.  

As I am about to leave I see a a cute girl walking by me. I stop and tell her that she is adorable... She is going to answer her phone. Next!! 

Stretching my reality... every moment of the day! 
    
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Bootcamp of Champions - Mar' 09! Austin Resurrection Crew !  - Embrace Uncertainty
Ozzie - July '09 - London - your social self and become you.

 "In those moments that most people say I can't,  most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie   "i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek "I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." - "While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
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So it was Thursday and I decided Tuesday night it is time to start another 30 day challenge and see it through. I am out with a friend and I we are just bouncing around bars in Manchester, NH. Amazingly I still see girls I do not know and would like to get to know on an intimate level. I am having a beer at the bar and it is kind of dead. I am not going to have a shitty night. She is not really what I want but I open, she order some type of cidery drink. I tell her that her drink looks like ginger ale. She seems very passionate about her school and her job. She explains that with the recession it is hard finding a job , I know I should not be speaking about suhc topics but I reframe it and say... What is your Dream job? She explains that she would love to be a transplant surgeon running in and out of helicopters ... she instantly became attractive to me. That is her passion. She knows what she wants. I hope she finds it. 

Lesson learned: I have always been skeptical of sharing my passions about my life with women that I don't. I think I learned my lesson.

Next!! We are at a more upscale bar... I walk up to a smoking blonde. I give her the tap tap of glory! She turns.. I tell her I think she is adorable and I just had to come meet her and see what she is all about. Instantly. She tells me she goes to UNH, is a nursing student and is a little bit of a stuttering develops. I ask her why she is stuttering... She tells me people do not approch her like I do. I ask her what she wants in a man? She explaoins she wants some one real.. I tell her she just found it. She is more flabergasted. At this point.. I should have talked to the other two girls about what was going on. I chat with the blonde for a few more minutes attraction is there but I messed up. I have learned a lesson. 

I end up trying to close.. I walk up to her before I leave.. she is sitting down with her friends. I walk up and say I am leaving ... she turns and shakes my hand. She is hesitant to stand up.. I tell her too. She does. I tell her she seems cool but I have to get to know her more. this set was massive.. I can tell the fact I lead to her to stand up only made her more attractive. She told me she does not give out her number. I think I retreated a little bit or she was with her social group and "cool" guys and she did not want to look like a slut. This was probably the best learning experience I have ever had. Mind blowing!!! I love this game.

Lesson learned: Be direct to the most attractive girls... Befriend the group. It all builds.. The more lessons I learn the easier it is to be as opposed to just do.  
 We jump to next bar. I see two grils sitting by themselves. I chat for about 5 minutes... one girl has amazingly blue eyes... I am in awe.. We chat and they tell me to by them a drink. I laugh.. You must think I am something that I am not. I am going on and on... buy us drinks... not going to happen. They seem cool But at some point I called them boring.. I meant to say they seemed bored.. oh well.

Lesson learned: Don't call them boring! haha... oh well. I am not going to buy drinks for girls I just meet... maybe a bad concpet but I don't do it. 

Last set of night. I see a few girls that are cute. But I see a tiny brunette. I want her. Some dude... is trying  to stare her down. I tell him go talk to her or I am going to get her. He says go for it. I go walk up tap.. tap... You are super cute. We chat... and I am in. I befriend... Apparently I meet some girl earlier this year.. she says you don't remember me. nope... back to girl ... She is going to Africa to voulenteer. I appreciate that. She is also moving to San Diego in July. I number close and then start asking her basic geogrpahy questions as we came to the realization that I teach social studies. She is tiny and really  cute. Some dude walks up.. I am the fashion police.. good for you ... "You are wearing a poped collar and it is lime green." "Cool" The girl says you should put it down. I am me and I express who I am... I am also wearing a lime green hat. I am not scared. I do what I want because I want to. 

Lesson learned: You are becoming who you are... Be the person you are meant to be. Be you... Bright colors, lots of energy..  Enjoy life to the fullest! That is who I am... I just need to close! 

Close mother fucker close! 

Day 3 of 30 day challenge.  
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Bootcamp of Champions - Mar' 09! Austin Resurrection Crew !  - Embrace Uncertainty
Ozzie - July '09 - London - your social self and become you.

 "In those moments that most people say I can't,  most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie   "i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek "I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." - "While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
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 Decided wanted a quiet night and I decided to start texting girls around 10:00 to see if any girls were around.. Got one to come over had some wine... 5 days in.. 

Your brain naturally wants to stop pushing yourself... you have to defeat that man that wants to stay home. You have to defeat that little man that would prefer to no talk and socialize.. Well... fuck you little man... I am going to defeat you and find the me that I have always wanted to be. 
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Bootcamp of Champions - Mar' 09! Austin Resurrection Crew !  - Embrace Uncertainty
Ozzie - July '09 - London - your social self and become you.

 "In those moments that most people say I can't,  most people say self preservation, most people say what if?... We say "What if?" the other way. What if you land it? What if it is possible?" - Travis Pastrana - X Games Movie   "i'm not in this world to live you up to your expectations. And your not in this world to live up to mine." - Bruce Lee If you are taking more action than anyone else, why should you care about their opinion?" ~Derek "I want to see the world through my own eyes not in the reflection of others." - "While you standing around looking dumb. I make it happen, taking action over time. Got damn good at it too!" - T.I.
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