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Saint Etienne

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...when you're going full intent does that mean their right eye from their perspective or from your perspective?
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Occam

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I'd say don't worry about this sort of crap.  It may be awful advice, it may be great advice, but if it puts you in that headspace where when your interacting with the girl your inside your head thinking "Ok, now I need to stare into one of her eyes, which one is it?".. then it's not doing you any good.
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foosballa

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Their Perspective!

Because that means you're staring into their anatomical right eye, which means that they are utilizing their left brain to stare back...!?!?!?!?!...!
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horaholic

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I've heard that staring in a girls left eye (their left), connects to their emotional side of their brain, so its really good to do that. I'll try to wrangle up some more info on this, and report back.
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Saint Etienne

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Occam wrote:
I'd say don't worry about this sort of crap.  It may be awful advice, it may be great advice, but if it puts you in that headspace where when your interacting with the girl your inside your head thinking "Ok, now I need to stare into one of her eyes, which one is it?".. then it's not doing you any good.
I knew I'd get a reply like this. I was just curious really. What you say is true though, of course.

And yeah I meant the one that connects to the emotional brain. Maybe it is left I can't remember.
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Saint Etienne wrote:
...when you're going full intent does that mean their right eye from their perspective or from your perspective?

The followimng is from some anonymous PHD dude on the web. The funny thing is the site had skyscraper RSD ads on it. Google some of the words to find it. It is very interesting indeed.
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Probably most of you have come across once in your lifetime to someone that had an intense stare that made you look away. It would probably feel as if someone looks inside your soul. Have you ever wondered what is going on there? There is a modern theory that may shed some light to it. You see, every brain is made of two hemispheres and for every person one is more active than the other. One is more analytical and sequential while the other one is more emotional and random. But there is more to it. For some reason you have learned to use more one of the two. So around 80% of the population prefers using the left hemisphere. Being left brained means that your right hand will be used more often than your left hand. Having a dominant brain hemisphere means that for specific vision angles one eye will be more dominant than the other. Are you with me?

When dealing with interaction between two personalities, very often, some kind of competitiveness arises. It may be about who is the leader, it may be about where are we going tonight, or it may even be about who is controlling the frame of a flirt conversation. Everyone knows that when there exists a small conflict between a man and a woman, then chances are, that some kind of attraction will develop.

When a conflict develops, then people tend to use their dominant eye to stare at the other person. When they do that they will try to hide their softer eye. Once I had a conversation with a guy that always wanted to be the cool guy of the group; He was doing that by dominating every one in that group. So there he was, throwing some stupid arguments at me and I was about to answer him when I noticed something amazing. While his right eye was completely normal, his other eye had shrunk to a small crack. I immediately understood that this person, through the years, had developed this remarkable technique to avoid people looking him in his soft eye when he was putting pressure on them.

If you want to avoid this type of conflict, the only thing that you have to do is to choose their non dominant eye and lock it. Another option is to stare him at the area between the eyes. This will give him/her the impression that you are staring at him, while you are actually not looking at neither of his eyes. In either case avoid his dominant eye. And avoid that person all-together because probably he is no good. Most people have already felt the strange feeling of being stared at while no one is in their visual field. This is because, at every given moment, your subconscious registers everything around you: The feeling of the computer mouse at your hand, the smell of food coming from the neighbour and the smell of cannabis in your living room. Everything. All these gut feelings you get from times to times, they are nothing more than your subconscious announcing to you that there has been something going on that your conscious hasn't yet 'seen'.

When I was 16 years old I found may self training than usual in a park so it was dark. Then suddenly and with no reason, I felt a strange feeling and I looked towards, what seemed to be, a random direction. I couldn't see anything so I waited. One minute passed. Two minutes passed. Nothing was there. "What am I looking at? ", I thought. And as I was about to turn my head, I noticed a cigarette glowing in the dark. While I was running THE BEST sprint of my life, I understood what had just happened inside me. My subconscious had seen the small difference in colours lurking in the dark and decided to tell me about it. The evil eye is no different from the above. It is the response of your subconscious to someone staring intensely at you. When you were young, you were told by your parents that this may be evil. And as for many other people that falsely believe in it, a belief is a self full filing prophecy. Being stared at is OK if you believe it is OK. No one in northern Europe, for example, believes in something so obviously ridiculous as the evil eye and they never had a problem with that. They prefer believing at other things, like trolls or fairies.

How to find your dominant eye. Choose an object that is more than one meter away. Point at the object with your index finger. Now close one eye. Notice where the finger is in your visual field. Do the same with your other eye. You may notice that in one case the finger is pointing more close to the object while the other will be more at the side. When the index finger is closer to the object, this is your dominant eye. Another way to find the dominant eye is to see which eye stays open when you yawn.

What are the best ways to stare at someone. If you are in a business environment and would like to be emotionally detached, it is better to look between the eyes. If you are in a flirting situation, you can go for the triangular gazing: You shift between his/her left eye, then the right eye and finally the lips. Another excellent bit is the high powered look-pause-look bit. While talking to a girl, you pause your voice but continue to look at her eyes. Make sure that you look pleasent but penetrating. Choose her soft eye. Then after a second you continue your phrase and make sure not to blink until you finish your phrase. What that does is that creates intense emotions. You will know that you delivered it well if she blushes or averts her gaze. You will know that you delivered it bad if she avoids you for the rest of the night. For an excellent example have a look at the last part of the stare down video. He throws that look at the journalist. It is a dark but quite mesmerizing look. If you want an emotional result from the other person look at him/her in their soft eye. That will probably be his left one, or the right one as you see it. Remember to smile during the above, if not the feelings you will provoke will be negative and you may lose some teeth during the violent encounter. You have been warned. Remember also to breath. Breathing in a relaxed and calm manner through the diaphragm will also calm the other person talking to you.

How to practice your stare. For that you will need a mirror and some time to spare. I assume from being here, you have already plenty of the latter. You have to be able to look into someones eyes and lock it for long periods of time.

1.1) Focus on a small dot for some long period, let's say one minute per day for a week. This will train you to focus on a small area easier for longer periods.

1.2) Practice with your self in the mirror. Do it for a week. Remember to breathe. Breaking eye contact with someone is often due to the stress induced that had made you hold your breath. When this happens, your body feels the lack of air and becomes even more stressed, which creates a vicious circle.

2.0) Now add an extra element. Try and focus one the mirror's soft eye. The first week you will notice that it will be impossible to keep your eye fixed at your pupil. Your eye will vibrate and move away. When finally you will succeed to do that you will find out that your internal dialog becomes silent. As you brain is over focusing on one point only and as your peripheral vision takes over, you will see your whole image on the mirror change a little. At least when I did it, it changed just a little. But then again, I don't do LSD.

3.0) Practice it with other people. Women have learned to look at someone's eyes for long periods. As cats, they also are very good at that. Sit on a bench and look at women passing by. You will be amazed how many will look back at you. Don't smile. Don't even flinch. You may get a smile there, you lucky, lucky bastard.

Looking at someones eyes, produces a hormone called oxytocin that makes you more likable to the other person. A smile can be very important here. If you try to be too serious you may come across as a stalker. Smile, god damn it.

If you want to make your other half feel very close to you, you could share, the two of you, a beautiful technique that is called soul gazing. Soul gazing is when a couple is looking at each other's eyes, through their soft eyes, while they are breathing in sync. It helps to build a very strong bond.
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Saint Etienne

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FoolsMate wrote:



Saint Etienne wrote:
...when you're going full intent does that mean their right eye from their perspective or from your perspective?

The followimng is from some anonymous PHD dude on the web. The funny thing is the site had skyscraper RSD ads on it. Google some of the words to find it. It is very interesting indeed.
That's awesome dude, thanks.
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WHO CARES?
Look at the bigger picture, I heard this same shit in NLP tape #50302030403 two years ago as well, it's completely irrelevant.
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I agree with Patrick. He has a great "no-nonsense", "fuck the bullshit!" way of saying what needs to be said.
Eye-contact doesn't take a rocket-scientist to figure out. It's when your gaze meets hers.
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Saint Etienne

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Like I said, I was just curious. Whatever the answer is, it's not going to change anything. It was just something I was thinking about. I already get that it 'doesn't matter' because the same thing is posted in every other thread with a question in it.
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 I'd recently noticed my eye contact was a bit off, so I re-vamped the mother fucker.

The trick isn't in WHICH EYE you look into... it's about how DEEP, how INTENSE, and how SEXUALLY you are looking at her. If you're just looking at her thinking it'll "connect" you to her, it won't work. You will just be a guy who has good eye contact. If, however, you are a guy who thinks, "Damn, your lips are so fucking sexy... you have NO IDEA what I'm thinking about right now", then your eyes communicate that to her, which THEN revvs her sexual engine the fuck up.

It deepends on your INTENT. I used to have really crappy sexual eye contact, but my "lovey" eye contact was off the charts. I'd look at a girl I was dating and think, "Wow... you are so beautiful... I'm so in love with you", and girls would melt right away. Consequently, sex would still result from it, but it was a really low place I was coming from. Inferior place.

EAT HER THE FUCK UP with your eyes... that's all you have to do. Combine that with a smirk, as if to say, "hehe... you don't know what I'm going to do after you", a crooked smile, a raise of an eyebrow, etc... and she'll be yours. She'll melt. She'll drip. Etc


DAMiEN!
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