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December 7th, 2016
The Blueprint: Cliffnoted
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Caligula

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Here is an audio I created of this text:  http://www.megaupload.com/?d=FX22WDQ6

TD realized one night that his pick-up success was based merely on a shell of routines and tactics, and that his inner self was seriously flawed. So he set forth trying to figure out how to not DO pickup, but to BE pickup. He devised the Blueprint, the purpose of which is to create a complete identity- level change as a man, so one never needs to worry about AA or
performing.

Men and women are equal. Much of PU is based on the concept that women are higher value than men, and tactics are used to raise your value/ lower her value. This concept is entirely wrong.

Most people in the world walk through life in a walking daze.

They don't know what values they have, who they are, and are controlled by others. The things men think will get the girl are misconceptions, including money, appearance, romance or friendship first.

Social conditioning. We don't know how things work. Airplanes. Buildings. Society. We assume others know how these things work, and we generally defer decision-making and authority to society. We are conditioned to do this. It is both a gift and a curse. Make it work for you.

You will listen to someone and think it's true if that person seems certain, is centered, and others agree with him. Therefore, by this concept: Ideas, no matter how stupid, can spread like wildfire.

Appreciate society, but distinguish what is real and not, and don't look to
others to know how to think or act.

The root of attraction is VALUE.

Value is anything that gives you good emotions, helps you survive or helps your kids to survive. Men and women have different value systems. Short- term value for a man is appearance.

For women, it's resourcefulness, decisiveness and confidence. These are manifested via subcommunication. Therefore it takes a second for a man to become attracted, but it takes a longer time for a woman to gain attraction. In short, men are visual, women are behavioral.

Most women are better at reading subtle subcoms, but men can train themselves to be as good. Women read these subcoms from second to second and in real time, so a woman's attraction can change just as suddenly. This is not the case for a man's attraction to a woman.

Subcoms are far more important than anything you can logically say to a woman.

We have become a spectator society. We allow others to have the glory and are content watching them. We can't relate to other aspects of the world because we never experience them except through TV. Believe in a life of your own design, and turn off the TV. Go for the glory for yourself.

Ignore what others may think.

When you see a new girl, your mind asks if you're good enough, so you're looking to society to see if you have enough value. Dictate your own standards. Always come from a place of high standards and abundance.

This will affect the subcom to a woman and she will seek your validation. Don't live in reaction to others. Never compromise your values.

We start off looking for tactics because it gives us the immediate results. When we realize we aren't getting the results, we looks at the principles. In the world of PU, this means walking up to any person and being centered and confident, or 'yourself.' If you can't do this, there is work to be done.

The self is always coming through.

As long as you're cool, you can say the dumbest things and people will buy it. You can have the worst body language and material, but if your inner game is tight, it won't matter.

Value

If you have low value, nothing else about you matters. If you're high value, people will focus in on one good aspect in spite of other bad flaws. Women will rationalize and impose good qualities on a high value man in spite of negative attributes. Value tends to be the most important attractor.

The RAS (Reticular Activation System) filters out what is of no value, and focuses on what is of value. This is automatic. PUAs can learn how to use the RAS of others in their favor.

Situational value. On its own, it has no value, but in a specific situation it holds value. Situational confidence. An environment can make you feel totally confident...you assume value. Like a DJ in a club or a professor in class.

Knowing you have value prompts you to feel more attractive. You go outside your head, and are in the moment. To the contrary, you micromanage and stay inside your head when you feel you have no value.

Being outside your head feels natural and is attractive. Enjoy yourself, say what's on your mind, be detached from outcome, roll with it, be present, assume everyone is your friend.

The key to making people like you is to express your personality freely. Stay out of your head or you WILL lose the girl.

Reactiveness

Reacting to others is handing your power away. Someone with core confidence can enjoy the moment regardless of his situation, as opposed to someone who relies on situational confidence. Whoever has the most people reacting to him and is the most indifferent is the most attractive person. Core confidence allows you to enter any social setting by yourself and have a good time.

Love

Love is not caused by someone else; you cause it yourself. You take a concept of a person and objectify that person or turn them into something they aren't.

Chode love. He has a gap in his self-esteem, and this gap gets plugged by another person and he then feels 'normal.' This is a form of situational confidence.

PUA love. Non-attached to outcome, has abundance personality. Women appreciate a man offering value, not looking to fill a gap. Always be self-fulfilled, independent of women. This is when love will enter your life.

Identity

Identity relates you to and separates you from your social environment. Identity is how we process the world. It can help you or hold you back. Your sense of identity stops you from being the person you want to be. Much of your identity is arbitrary. It gets shaped at a young age by positive and negative influences. You did not develop most of your identity by yourself.

Much comes from social feedback, dependent on validation by others. Your core essence is always there, but your personality traits are often in reaction to your environment.

We create a self-image based on what people say about us, especially those who seem sure of themselves. There is social pressure that motivates you to be a certain person.

Imprints

Conscious and unconscious impressions in your mind of what a cool person looks like. These are imprints in your mind that generate a reaction.

Your situation is always changing and as it does, you're looking at social feedback to figure out how much value you have and what role is appropriate at that time.
Your mind is letting or not letting you be a certain person.

State

Being in state is liberating. Being positive, dominant, natural, everything clicks, you are the source of good emotions, total abundance, nothing could go wrong. Out of state means other people are the source of good emotions. You feel alienated, like you're bothering people by talking to them. Being in state subcoms value, abundance and authenticity. If you find you aren't in state, go through the motions anyway. Never monitor state. Don't resist it if you find you aren't in state.

Resistance: It is the emotion you feel when you wish that the reality in front of you was some different way. It can manifest in the form of anger or depression.

If you wish you were in state, resistance is created. You are resisting the reality that you aren't in state. Never resist the Now. But know when you need to change reality and take right action to correct it. Resistance puts you more out of state. You are identifying with the emotion while you should be just accepting it and taking right action.

That which you resist...persists.

To get into state, cultivate:
1. Right action
2. Non-resistance

Conflicting realities

Your sense of reality lets you predict things about the world, including how people should treat you. A man and a woman each have a strong sense of reality. These are unspoken in the dynamics between them. One is screening, the other is trying to impress. This can be obvious or subtle.

The one going more into their head to exert effort is the one reacting or trying to impress.

Which person would feel emotionally affected by the other person's acceptance, and who would feel no change? Who is losing their concept of what's cool, and who feels no change? Who is changing the way they talk, and who sets the tone? Who is having just as much fun without the other person there?

Those who are unreactive are non-needy of validation by others, not thrown by the realities of others. Unreactive means being expressive and yourself, on your own terms. Don't allow girls to push you into the role of reacting or impressing. Stay upbeat, positive and you. In general, be totally deaf to negativity. However, don't take on the role of asserting your reality over others.

Trust in your faculties. Most people don't trust themselves and must look to others for guidance.

Girls will do congruence testing to see how rooted in your reality you are. As you react to others, you are saying that you value other people's opinions more than your own faculties. In contrast, if you allow comments of others to bounce off you, you trust yourself more.

Social pinging

Most unwavering certainty + Least emotional reactivity = Dominant reality Someone who is doing social pinging is looking around the world for what is right. But eventually more attention is given to the one with the dominant reality. Men invite women into their reality. Women go from man to man exploring their realities. She will gravitate towards the man with the reality that gives the most good emotions.

4 pillars of a strong reality

1. How strong your beliefs are. Who you are. Status. Identity. Being unreactive.
2. Your values. Opinions, humor. Not intimidated by a girl's looks. You are
screening.
3. Personal boundaries. You know what is acceptable behavior from others and demand it and respect from them.
4. How you expect others to act around you: they should be fun and value- offering. If a woman isn't meeting your values, you don't pay attention to her.

Build your reality like you build muscle. Tear it down and let it rebuild. Lean into your fears, pushing your capabilities. Learn to laugh at yourself. Let go of caring about what people think of you. Find the lesson in every difficult experience.

Polarity

Masculine polarity is your grounding amidst emotional chaos, the magnet that draws women. Act through your own intentions. You see something you want, you take it. Dictate the energy around you.

Women have masculine and feminine sides. A woman can only explore her feminine side if she's with a man who is secure and congruent. Congruence tests check for:
1. Your strength of reality
2. Your ability to assert yourself as a man

Being centered and dictating the energy draws people in. Act through your own intentions. This is developed over years of removing all the programming that's gotten you to act without your own intentions. Being authentic will allow you to pass all tests. Men should allow her to pull him, but then regain their center, as opposed to chasing.

This is done by demonstrating your masculine polarity:
Being at home in the environment
Carrying yourself with total confidence, even playful cockiness
Self-amusing
Moving the convo in the fun direction
Not taking orders, responding to nonsense, or needing to justify yourself

The difference between men and women:
Man = action. Girl = reaction.

Women want to experience a range of emotions. Men have a sweet spot (happy, excited, sex, chill).

Women draw state from the environment to feel this variety. Men draw state from within, so flux is minimized.

Realizing this, men need to draw motivation from within, not the environment. The polarity comes from slowing down your reality and becoming centered. You are connected to your masculine power.

Experience consciousness without being self-conscious. Don't be a doer, but let things happen through you.

The environment is chaotic. You must find a grounding force which is primarily within. Seeking reactions from others is looking for state from the environment. When you are in habit of drawing state from within, a girl's reactions do not affect you.

Thinking

Clear your head when you approach a woman, and just feel good. What you say is valuable because it comes from you. What makes it interesting is not the content, but because you find it interesting.

While thinking can be an asset, in meeting women it's your greatest hindrance. You should have a childlike 'I see, I take' attitude. Listen to the girl instead of thinking what to say next. Don't try to judge, compare, label or interpret her words. Don't feel compelled to fill in the gaps in the conversation. Don't resist tension.

Be fully present. Trust your faculties; they are your autopilot. There is no need to look back at past events to reference self. Trust the words will come without straining towards an outcome.

Walking through the world with ease

The convergence of the above concepts to make the world a light place to be in. Move with the current of the world, not against. You aren't better or worse, just an important part of the whole. You will be self-forgetting, not self-conscious. People will look to you as a source of grounding energy. This is about being, not doing.

Anticipated responses

Assume people will like you for who you are as a person. Don't seek approval. Less attractive women have shields because when a high value man approaches she assumes he's toying with her. They verbalize their doubts because they have low self esteem. This is her anticipated response. This keeps her reality intact.

This is a self-fulfilling prophecy. Through your beliefs, the reality in your head becomes the reality of your life. Therefore, always assume the best in others. Create a self-fulfilling prophecy where women love you. People will get sucked into this reality.

This will protect your state when shit tested or AMOGd. Even if your comeback isn't the better answer, as long as you believe it is, your state will be intact and you'll pass the test. The self-fulfilling prophecy will come to exist.

Microbehaviors

These include subcoms like body language, eye contact and tonality, and very subtle cues like pupil dilation. The point isn't to understand and manipulate all of these behaviors. The point is to be fully flowing in the moment so all these microbehaviors will occur naturally. Attraction will occur as a result.

Flinching or retreating into your mind is caused by doubting yourself. Anticipating responses only works if you do not retreat into your head. Have fun, so you get out of your head. Disconnect from the knowledge when in field.

Have a value-giving mindset

Believe that women want sex as much as you, and so you're offering value by talking to her. When you are always giving value and not taking value, the subcoms will make women see you have integrity.

Fully believe in yourself

Trust in a foreign set of bearings. When we decide to take on new bearings, we must then gain reference experiences so we can trust these bearings.

A baby gets up and learns to walk by persevering, without crises.

Eventually the baby learns, has anticipated responses of what it takes to walk, and then internalizes this, and is in the moment so he never has to think about walking again.

PU is just like learning how to walk. You must obtain reference experiences so you can trust the bearings and then internalize them.

Second-hand knowledge and social conditioning tell us not to talk to strangers, etc.

When we start out at game we haven't had 1st hand knowledge of what is socially acceptable.

The newbie's paradox: Like putting in a contact lens, we must learn not to flinch. When a newbie approaches he'll get negative experiences because he doesn't have an unwavering belief. But to gain reference experiences you need an unwavering belief.

You must fully believe everything you do works, and be totally indifferent if it doesn't. You must feel that PU is 'no big deal' and that anyone can do it. In fact, surpass belief and move to understanding.

How do you get out of newbie's paradox? The half-way point between total belief and fear is indifference. You can't cultivate total belief. You can gather reference experiences that it doesn't matter what people think of you. Getting shot down every night will reinforce this. Eventually you will cross the indifference threshold, truly letting go of outcome. Suddenly, people become nicer and open up.

A woman's system is designed to only respond to you if you're confident because this indicates success with other women. Her system wants to prevent putting out chode babies. You must scramble your brain with so many reference experiences that it explodes. Your mind is always looking for normal, permissible behavior. As you do something and find it is normal and permissible, your mind realizes you can do it, and you become unstifled.

Stifling

Stifling tells you not to extend beyond a certain range. Don't let your voice get too loud, take up other people's time, take up too much space. When you stifle, your unconscious mind keeps you down in unusual new environments. Be able to detect your stifling, and unstifle if it happens. The difference between a good and bad night can be your level of stifling. Being unstifled gives a richness to your voice and BL, which is what a woman is responding to. Don't try to be confident, but be indifferent and unstifled.

As you cross the indifference threshold, you get a better new identity. Eventually a click happens, where you realize this new identity is better, and a lot of microbehaviors then occur automatically.

Social vibing

Vibing is a habit you develop. You shouldn't be logical or trying to prove yourself. People are addicted to negativity or positivity, which are emotional states. You can condition yourself to be positive. Being in a logical state makes it hard to be in an emotional environment (like a club). Vibing is nonlinear/illogical, as is wit. Being relaxed allows images to arise in your head so you can respond in a witty way.

2 bearings you must trust:
1. Girls can like you just for you.
2. Sex is inevitable.

Sex is good to blow off steam or cement a moment, but is not a big deal. Sex just always winds up happening. Internalizing this is key.

The "It didn't work" moment

Things aren't going well for you but you see what would fix it. So you set out to achieve these goals, often to excess. You find then that it didn't work, and you still aren't happy. Insanity is when you get what you want and you're still not satisfied. Having an abundance of sex can still not be satisfying.

You can create a false identity, getting the admiration of others (such as being a 'pick-up artist'). But this is starving your self-esteem while feeding the ego. You are more distant from your real self while strongly identifying with the PU persona. This will be ok during early game but it will block the close because you're not being yourself or acting through your own intentions.

Ego vs self-esteem

Most people don't realize that confidence and feeling good about one's self are the default state. Happiness is your default state. You can be happy without all the other things you've tried to obtain.

Self-esteem. Indescribable, like soul. Born with it. Self-sustaining.

Ego. When self-esteem becomes wounded, you seek a rational substitute...money, power, status, women. As a kid you approach people without AA. You're happy all the time. But then you get wounded, for many reasons. To protect yourself, you come up with logical ways to feel good.

This is based on comparisons to others, and the ego develops from this perspective.

The ego is false. Most people don't have perfect memories; memories are twisted to get the result you want. The ego seems huge, but is very tiny and stuck in the front of your perception. To get past it, you must dilate your perception.

Ego consists of:
1. Logical evidence.
2. Opinions.
3. Rationalizations.
4. Comparisons.

The ego shelters us from the unknown, but life is the unknown. We create an identity based on our wounds. The ego needs constant reference material to support it (obtaining things like wealth and women to try to heal the wound). Self-esteem is feeling good now on your own.

You make an identity out of an old wound, thinking it's unique, while in fact many other people share the same wound. The ego is the scar that forms around the wound. Accept the wound, and the ego will go away. Accept your flaws, accept the flaws of others. Become comfortable in your own skin.

The result is anti-climactic.

The result can never be as good as the doing, the Now. Feeling good now working towards a goal, and feeling good when you reach the goal, are the same thing. Offering value makes the process worth-while.

Seeking reaction to feed the ego is value-taking. Value offering is attractive. Taking value is a repellent.

Self-amusement. Open by making yourself amused. Bring the party. Don't try to wedge yourself into her party. Be authentic.

Needing to feed the ego is exhausting. This state is obtainable but not sustainable. Ego-based confidence cannot achieve permanence.
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Hokie

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cool.

but do you think owen will appreciate you giving away all his years of work for free in a matter of minutes? He could mind or could think its a great idea that your sharing his information to everyone and helping him out, but in the end your still ripping off the company.
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yea im not sure how long this will be posted.... awesome summery though
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good shit. wished he would have discussed about the hot coal type state some more. I feel like its harder to obtain.
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Rawl wrote:
good shit. wished he would have discussed about the hot coal type state some more. I feel like its harder to obtain.

Comes from "presence".


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Hokie wrote:
cool.

but do you think owen will appreciate you giving away all his years of work for free in a matter of minutes? He could mind or could think its a great idea that your sharing his information to everyone and helping him out, but in the end your still ripping off the company.
I personally use the OP as a way to remind myself of what was presented in the Blueprint Decoded as opposed of being a replacement for it.  I posted it here so others could use it for that purpose as well.  There is a lot to be said for going through the 4 day immersion that is the Blueprint Decoded.

-Caligula

Edit:  This is much the same way that I will use the Cliffnotes of a book as a compliment to reading a book as opposed to using them as a replacement for reading the book.
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Caligula wrote:

Hokie wrote:
cool.

but do you think owen will appreciate you giving away all his years of work for free in a matter of minutes? He could mind or could think its a great idea that your sharing his information to everyone and helping him out, but in the end your still ripping off the company.
I personally use the OP as a way to remind myself of what was presented in the Blueprint Decoded as opposed of being a replacement for it. I posted it here so others could use it for that purpose as well. There is a lot to be said for going through the 4 day immersion that is the Blueprint Decoded.

-Caligula

Edit: This is much the same way that I will use the Cliffnotes of a book as a compliment to reading a book as opposed to using them as a replacement for reading the book.
I totally agree with you bro. reviewing this is massively helpful for thos that have seen the BP becasue it kind of gives a whole look on the principles in the BP.

I just wanted to point out that this mite persuade some people to not buy their products, and personally if I were in ownes situation, I'd be a little annoyed, but would not comment on my annoyance. 

Just have a ton of respect for RSD and for the business standpoint, and dont want this to evoke any negative sales.
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Yeah it's all good with the extensive notes.  Sometimes I'll see posts like these up, and I'll have a 1 second knee-jerk reaction like "That's giving away the program!"

Then I remember "Oh yeah, it's 20 fucking hours......"  The post would have to be like 400 pages to do that.  Also, when BP Book comes out, it will have the content, but people will still want Blueprint Decoded DVDs because it's such a more indepth program to learn it live.  It's like how I've watch Eckhart's stuff, etc.

Anyway cool notes!

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Great man, its cool to have notes to check back at from time to time to remind yourself. Very damn hard to keep concepts from 20hours of dvd in your head.
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 Wow, that's going on the blackberry.

The blueoprint itself is immersive as shit. Even still, six months after the release, I still make sure I listen to at least an hour a day. It hasn't made me fantastic at picking up chicks, but boy do i ever enjoy my stupid life.

Also, thanks Tyler for being okay with it staying up there. This is a super nice reference that I'll gonna up straight up on the 'ol BB.
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Thanks.
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