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Really thankful that you posted this, made what I already thought sink in a bit more and gave me a new insight on how to get there.
The Zach story was on point and it was like a mirror to the kind of life I had imagined wanting to have (socially ofc), so yeah this post gave me a bit of the roadmap to get there. Gonna see if I can follow it through!
Big rep
The Zach story was on point and it was like a mirror to the kind of life I had imagined wanting to have (socially ofc), so yeah this post gave me a bit of the roadmap to get there. Gonna see if I can follow it through!
Big rep
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"No compass comes with this life, just eyes
So to map it out, you must look inside
Sure books can guide you, but your heart defines you"
So to map it out, you must look inside
Sure books can guide you, but your heart defines you"
Robotboner, this is so well written I would consider joining Toastmasters and developing your communication talent.
Besides, cool content.
Besides, cool content.
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Excellent post. Bangin hoes on the east coast.
This post is awesome, a huge sticking point of me is, how to get people love hanging out with YOU instead of hanging out with people you love .
Now i'm kinda figuring it out.
It is NOT about you showing how cool you are, it's about listening to the other person. Sharing emotions. Not about being right.
Just let them tell, and let them know that you understand them.
This post shattered my reality.
Question:
After reading this i've got this question/statement
Correct me if im wrong:
So according to your post, you have to vibe with people but don't
give them advice, just let them know you understand them but don't
be like Dr.Phill.
You got to vibe with everyone, (except the people that you truly don't like ???)
Be the guy that vibes with everyone, be positve, be dominant and take what you want.
You vibe with everyone, but you're not the beta guy. If you see something you like you go and get it.
Is this the key to being good with people ?
I appreciate it if you correct me/answer the questions
Thanks in advance
Now i'm kinda figuring it out.
It is NOT about you showing how cool you are, it's about listening to the other person. Sharing emotions. Not about being right.
Just let them tell, and let them know that you understand them.
This post shattered my reality.
Question:
After reading this i've got this question/statement
Correct me if im wrong:
So according to your post, you have to vibe with people but don't
give them advice, just let them know you understand them but don't
be like Dr.Phill.
You got to vibe with everyone, (except the people that you truly don't like ???)
Be the guy that vibes with everyone, be positve, be dominant and take what you want.
You vibe with everyone, but you're not the beta guy. If you see something you like you go and get it.
Is this the key to being good with people ?
I appreciate it if you correct me/answer the questions
Thanks in advance
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Yes.. for the most part. The vibe is the more important part of the interaction, NOT showing your value. Are you enjoying yourself? Are you enjoying her? Just remember that a vibe can be different for different girls.
Anyway... it's funny how theories come out at the same time. This came out about a day after I made this post... same exact concept.
http://blip.tv/play/gah57uc3jM8x
Anyway... it's funny how theories come out at the same time. This came out about a day after I made this post... same exact concept.
http://blip.tv/play/gah57uc3jM8x
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Not only did I learn a lot from here, i enjoyed it, thanks b0ner
Wooo, awesome post man! Fun to read.
Tyler
Tyler
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JEFFY'S LONG AWAITED BOOK "9 BALL" WILL FINALLY BE UNLEASHED UPON THE PUBLIC.
This is THE BOOK that Jeffy has been working on for, well, most of his life. It is extremely graphic and shocking, and funny as hell. It's going to immerse you in the reality of learning success with women and personal transformation on level you've never experienced.
Click over to www.the9ball.com right now for the prelaunch site AND BE THERE on August 5 @ 12PM EST to witness the magic and mayhem.
Yea man, super great stuff here! It's all about the vibe and the shared feelings. I feel like this post explains perfectly the phrase "it's not lying, it's flirting". Because it's not the words you say, it's the emotional content behind them. Beeyuteeful.
Just saying I love reading your articles, really practical stuff. Thanks for writing them up.
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