THE FORUMS
Only went out once since I hooked up with my girlfriend. Don't really have time with my job anyway. I really am in love with my girlfriend. The only time I went out I talked to some insaneyl hot chick in an angel outfit, who thought my 'outift' was great, even though I wasn't wearing one. But yeah.. in general, there is life after PU. You can be a good and confident person without going out. I do miss the raw fun of it though.. also the subversive nature of not giving a fuck about what people think. Perhaps when I have time I will go out to just have fun.
I've also noticed that even while not going out I still have periods of strong confidence and effortlessness intermitted with periods of the opposite of such things. It has nothing to do with the things I'd (try to) do in pick up. It just seems to be a wave like motion wihich is inherent in life in general. I'm pretty sure it cannot be stopped now. The ups and downs just become gradually less extreme.
I've also noticed that even while not going out I still have periods of strong confidence and effortlessness intermitted with periods of the opposite of such things. It has nothing to do with the things I'd (try to) do in pick up. It just seems to be a wave like motion wihich is inherent in life in general. I'm pretty sure it cannot be stopped now. The ups and downs just become gradually less extreme.
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Jeffy and Ozzie bootcamp alumni
Jeffy and Ozzie bootcamp alumni
Fucking awesome man I always pop in and have a read of your journal from the begining it inspires me, hope you come back to London again, you taken any more bootcamps since the one where you pulled the girl from the hostel ? :)
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"I think I had to go away for a while, and do what I felt I should be doing, I had to go away and sort of a step I went down to RADA (Royal Academy of Dramatic Art), and I felt I had to get away to some extent to express myself, and I knew that I could'nT do that in the surroundings that I was in.....in Sheffield. As much as I love the city and I'm proud of it. I knew that I had to go somewhere else to be able to become part of this world I wanted to be in" (Sean Bean, Lord Of the Rings Interview)
"I think I had to go away for a while, and do what I felt I should be doing, I had to go away and sort of a step I went down to RADA (Royal Academy of Dramatic Art), and I felt I had to get away to some extent to express myself, and I knew that I could'nT do that in the surroundings that I was in.....in Sheffield. As much as I love the city and I'm proud of it. I knew that I had to go somewhere else to be able to become part of this world I wanted to be in" (Sean Bean, Lord Of the Rings Interview)
HowBoutNo
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Join Date: 09/02/2007 | Posts: 484
If you try to get rid of attachment because you want to, that's just adding more attachment (to not being attached), you must give everything up and then you'll be free.
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