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I feel you!
Yes I did it with my former GF. I am anxious about STDs but she convinced me to do it without a condom. That was hard man.
What I did not like was that she had done it with two guys she did not know and without a condom too. I had a guilty conscience after that. So I got tested after some time and it said everything was ok. But the doctor said to me "You have to get HER tested!" which is right.
So I wanted her to get tested and she went mad at me. "Do you think I have STDs blablabla why bla?" is what she said. She totally freaked out. I am so happy that this is over with her LOL
What I would do:
- Get tested in 3 months and try not to beat you up (I know it's hard).
- Get her tested! I know she won't like it and probably won't do it (maybe) but try it anyway. I think a tricky method would be to tell her that the doctor said something was not right with YOU and he needs to make a test. Then tell her that he said she should get tested as well. Clever!
Good luck man!
Yes I did it with my former GF. I am anxious about STDs but she convinced me to do it without a condom. That was hard man.
What I did not like was that she had done it with two guys she did not know and without a condom too. I had a guilty conscience after that. So I got tested after some time and it said everything was ok. But the doctor said to me "You have to get HER tested!" which is right.
So I wanted her to get tested and she went mad at me. "Do you think I have STDs blablabla why bla?" is what she said. She totally freaked out. I am so happy that this is over with her LOL
What I would do:
- Get tested in 3 months and try not to beat you up (I know it's hard).
- Get her tested! I know she won't like it and probably won't do it (maybe) but try it anyway. I think a tricky method would be to tell her that the doctor said something was not right with YOU and he needs to make a test. Then tell her that he said she should get tested as well. Clever!
Good luck man!
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Relax dude. You have a 0.05% chance of getting HIV even if the girl had it. Check the stats at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/AIDS, in the 'prevention' section.
Pregnancy is the far bigger danger. Aside from HIV/AIDS there are no incurable STDs that are THAT bad, that I am aware of.
Pregnancy is the far bigger danger. Aside from HIV/AIDS there are no incurable STDs that are THAT bad, that I am aware of.
I am fucking stupid and just did sex
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Aside from HIV/AIDS there are no incurable STDs that are THAT bad, that I am aware of.
I remember some of my sisters older mates telling me there was a STD that essentially rots the stem inside your nob so you can't get a hard on ever. I was like 14 at the time, naive enough to believe it and it worried the hell out of me for ages. __________________
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Yes I have.
And it was amazing, because we were very close and committed. I trusted her fully and had no regrets.
I think that sex in general, is at it's best when a lot of things come together i.e. you have a connection, you're expressing yourself through your physical act, you're taking precautions, trust is involved etc.
Not saying that one night stands are bad, but they're just situations where taking precautions is most important, since you usually don't know the other person as well as you would a long-time GF.
I agree with the other guys though. The chances of being infected with HIV are proabably pretty low, but take the test when possible. Don't worry about things you can't change and take responsibility for what happened.
- The Duck
And it was amazing, because we were very close and committed. I trusted her fully and had no regrets.
I think that sex in general, is at it's best when a lot of things come together i.e. you have a connection, you're expressing yourself through your physical act, you're taking precautions, trust is involved etc.
Not saying that one night stands are bad, but they're just situations where taking precautions is most important, since you usually don't know the other person as well as you would a long-time GF.
I agree with the other guys though. The chances of being infected with HIV are proabably pretty low, but take the test when possible. Don't worry about things you can't change and take responsibility for what happened.
- The Duck
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Relax dude. You have a 0.05% chance of getting HIV even if the girl had it. Check the stats at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/AIDS, in the 'prevention' section.
supposedly the Percentages are higher when you take her up the pooper __________________
haha unfortunately I am notorious for not using a condom..mainly because I just can't get off when wearing one. My last 2 GF's i never wore a condom and the sex is probably about 10X better. No STD's but more lucky than anything. I'm working on wearing one with randoms. U'r fine bro. If i don't have anything u definately don't haha.
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I am fucking stupid and just did sex
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Yes I have.
And it was amazing, because we were very close and committed. I trusted her fully and had no regrets.
Same here. Only have sex without a condom if you trust your partner fully. And it was amazing, because we were very close and committed. I trusted her fully and had no regrets.
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Maybe it's a different culture here or something, but me and my friends have a saying "having sex with a condom is like eating candy with the wrapper still on." That could be a reason why there's a clamydia epidemic amongst young people now...
We're are not big player pimps who fuck new girls every week remind you.
We're are not big player pimps who fuck new girls every week remind you.
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Cause I am fucking stupid and just did sex without condom with a stranger, a ONS.
It was the girls birthday, she was fuckin crazy ..... Regrets now :(.
I am kind of anxious , but the doctor said I need to wait 3 months to take the HIV test fuck -.-;.....
Long time to be waiting I am so fucking desperate.