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VAB

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Join Date: 12/29/2008 | Posts: 105

If you're going to San Francisco, be sure to wear flowers in your hair. You're going to meet some gentle people there.

I wrote a few posts about being a chode over here (http://rsdnation.com/node/98559). Long story short, I've been in the field for about 15 months and using multiple outlets to try and get this shit handled.

Jeffy's bootcamp in San Francisco was definiately not the first investment that I made in my journey to get good...but it was probably the most worthwhile.

Let's start with some 'Fun Facts':

- I flew out of Newark Airport (New Jersey) on Thursday, Feb 12th 2009. My flight on Continental Airways was delayed for over two hours on the runway due to extreme wind conditions. This was literally a few hours before the tragic plane crash that day, which flew out of the SAME airport on the SAME airline

- Due to the delay, I missed my connecting flight to SFO and as a result spent the night on the floor of the Las Vegas airport. Anyone who's been to that airport should know that it's not very conducive to sleep (it's pretty much its own casino), and I showed up to the first session of bootcamp on no sleep.

- I got laid on Saturday night , after just making a conscious decision to do so the day before. It was my first same night pull ever, and arguably the best looking girl i've ever been with.

- I went out with my fellow students on Sunday night, post-BC, and pulled a hot asian to the backseat of her SUV and fingerbanged the shit out of her. This is also something that just HAS NOT happened for me until now.

- My brother lives in San Francisco. I was not going to tell my family about my trip, until I got an email that my sister in law was going into contractions and about to deliver their second son (I totally forgot he was due). I got on the phone with my brother and told him that I just happened to be on my way to SF, for an unnamed "seminar", and that I'd spend some time with them. I was on above mentioned Las Vegas floor during the actual delivery, but I was still one of the very first people to meet my new nephew.

Day 1

We started in the infamous Clift hotel, near Union Square in downtown SF. I was nervous as hell, as I knew the high standard that I would be holding myself to. I was not a complete novice, and this was not going to be 'cold approach 101' for me. I wanted much more than that, I wanted a major breakthrough...This is why I flew across the country to spend the weekend with the best in the biz.

I had met Jeffy briefly during his speaking tour last year, but I was still a little bit star struck upon meeting my internet-hero in person. This was very brief however, as my thoughts soon turned inward to the action that I would ultimately have to take by myself over the course of the program.

We did about 2 hours of seminar before walking only a few feet to the club which is inside the same hotel. The material covered was nothing groundbreaking or revelatory, nor was it meant to be. Jeffy emphasized that what he was going to teach us would be simple, yet COMPREHENSIVE. I resolved to let go of all the theory that I had accumulated until then, hit reset, and rebuild from the ground up. The willingness to try things differently is ultimately what I attribute my success to.

Friday was a relatively slow night in San Francisco, and though we switched venues several times throughout the night, there were not an abundance of sets to work with. Our mission was to work with what we had, stay social and trying to be in set as much as possible (to avoid "DURRR" time), and to burn every possible set to the ground. What this means was that we would push every interaction as far as we could, although our egos might hate the eventual 'negative reaction', that's how the real learning would happen.

Jeffy would suggest targets, and feed us simple openers to approach with. Aside from this, there was very little talk about tactics while we were in the field. Jeffy took meticulous notes for debrief and follow up, but while we were at the club the objective was to stay positive and fun. All three of us students had some level of field experience, and none of us had a crippling approach anxiety that prevented us from acting. My weak points were revealed early on...I lacked persistence (in terms of plowing), and aggression (in terms of kino and escalation).

At times I would walk out of set prematurely, when I thought things weren't going perfectly. In these cases, I would be sent back in to continue to push as hard as I could until they physically walked away or asked me to leave (aka burning it to the ground). This is something that I don't usually do, and I had some epiphanies in doing so. I really had not been 'plowing' in the past, even though I thought that I had been. I had a tendency to go in and and if things did not go perfectly I would give up. 

One step above re-engaing just not leaving. Even if you "ran out of things to stay", you would just stand there awkwardly with your dick in your hands, to 'punish' your subconscious and force it to adapt.

During the second phase of the night, " Trench Time" I pushed myself to stay in and escalate as much as possible. I didnt really get any blow outs, which I later learned probably meant that I WASN'T ESCALATING HARD ENOUGH.

I ended up making out with a blonde in a hamburgler shirt, who had a bit of a gut, but was probably kinda cute pre-21. Not up to the standard that I hope to get to with this lifestyle, but a 'bird in the hand" is better than none at all. She was from LA, and was staying with her friends. I convinced myself that this was a logistical hurdle which I could not handle... therefore I settled for the phone #, the makeout, and the ego boost of having Jeffy witness the whole thing and see 'how good I was'.

WEAK SAUCE. That was the old way...it's time to get to the next level, and play this shit to the hilt like the big boys do.

Day 2 (LR)

We met earlier then scheduled, since there were three of us and Jeffy wanted to make sure that we had enough time to get everything in. We received tons of personalized feedback and instruction, as well as more information about outer game structure (we did very little of this the first day).

Saturday was valentine's day, so we were told to pull out all of the stops. I knew that if there was ever an opportunity to break the same-night milestone, it would be on this day. Needless to say, this added pressure that I was putting on myself did NOT help my nerves. On top of this, I had only been able to sleep for about 3-4 hours after my previous 48 hours awake (I have no idea why). I was delirious, exhausted, completely saturated with information, and unsure of my ability to accomplish what I had set out to do. FUCK THAT. It was time to punch through this wall. Break on through, to the other side.

We ended up at the venue very early (9pm), and it was mostly filled with couples on their Valentine's day dates. Jeffy made sure we still got warmed up early, by us each approaching one of the few apparently single women in the place. I took the lessons from the first night and stayed in and plowed one particular 2-set for over 10 minutes, while they continually tooled me and were very unimpressed by what I was saying. After finally making a choice to leave those 2 (I drew a personal boundary when I felt like they were being disrespectful, and they weren't worthy of my time and energy), I tried to stay warm by talking to the other guys in our group and keeping the energy level up.

It was still pretty early in the night (10:15-10:30) when Jeffy spotted a girl by herself, off to the side and fiddling with her phone. He said to me, "Go in with 'did he call yet?!'" Without hesistation I was off.

Me: "Did he call yet?!"

Her: "Haha, no. Actually it's a girl"

Me: "Oh really. I got stood up by my blind date on Match.com too" (started going with the same self-amusing opener I was using the day before).  

Her: "No, it's not that. I was supposed to meet up with my friend for a few drinks, but she just texted me and told me she was staying in the East Bay tonight...what a bitch"

I realized the opportunity that was now laid out there for me, and decided I was going to push this one as far as possible. I followed Jeffy's suggested structure of coming in with about two funny things (2-hit combo), and then chilling back and going straight NORMAL and cool. While going normal, I then just PEPPER IN verbal attraction spikes every once in a while, while continuing to escalate physically and leading her around the club... I do not know how clear this explanation is to everyone reading right now, but it makes so much sense to me at the moment...it's a structure which I feel is just so simple and 'clicks' with me.  

The chick was a solid "8" in my book, cute short blond hair, a nice face and a HARD little body. The power of my intent when through the roof when I learned she was an accountant that made bank and was a borderline nerd. She was a very outgoing, socially adjusted girl, but she was also very 'logical' in her conversation... I had to make a conscious effort to be illogical, sexual and flirtatious. 

She was generally responsive to kino, and I plowed through whatever remaining resistance was there with positive dominance. "Let's go downstairs to dance"...I grabbed her hand and led her down. "Let's go over here and talk"...I led her closer to the bar. "Let's go find my friends"...etc... Even when SHE SAID "I need to go get another drink, but my card is at the upstairs bar" I made it a point to grab her hand and walk IN FRONT OF HER as if to lead the way.

She dodged the first kiss attempt, but I did not skip a beat and continued talking. More physical escalation... Copious amounts of the claw, tension test (the back massage that Tyler demos in Foundations), sniffed her hair, at one point I picked her up at one point and carried her for about 3 feet. Things from the days earlier seminar started to go *CLICK* *CLICK* *CLICK*  and for the first time ever since I started learning this stuff, I felt like I KNOW HOW TO DO THIS, I AM COMPETENT. A few minutes later I went for the kiss again BOOM....got it!
 
I looked around and realized I had not seen Jeffy since he first sent me in to approach. I had been flying this plane on my own and upon this realization I kind of freaked out a bit on the inside. I grabbed my phone during a break in the conversation and texted him "She's here by herself, how do I time the pull??" It was only 11pm, and wasn't sure what the next step was. Suddenly, the answer comes to me as she started complaining about the music...and talking about another bar in the area that she prefers. 

Me: "Ok, finish your drink, let's go there" 

She agreed but says she had to close out her tab. I followed her upstairs, making sure to not let this one out of my sight. I texted Jeffy saying that I was moving to the bar that she mentioned. I was leading her out from behind, by walking behind her with my hands on her hips and gently pushing, when I finally saw the rest of the crew for the first time since I began the interaction. I contemplated turning her around and introducing her to everyone, but quickly decided against it. We had forward motion...it was time to go.   

We walked to an irish pub nearby, where she actually volunteered to buy me a drink. I knew that I was in good shape, and I just needed to chill back and hang out until the timing was right. I didnt want to seem too needy by trying to pull her too early, but I also didnt want it to get too late/let her get too drunk so that she would change her mind. We just relaxed and danced, and had fun. There was a little empty walkway that led to the staircase to go to the downstairs dancefloor. As we walked through this I slammed her into the wall for a heavy makeout. Other than this, however, I made sure to not be cheesy make out guy, which might sabotage my pull. 

After about another 30 minutes, she went to the bathroom. I knew it was time for me to make my move. When she came back out I told her we were going and took her by the hand. We got back up to the main floor, another wall slam make out at the same spot on the way up. As we neared the exit she called it out "wait, where are we going?" ...."somewhere else", I replied, "besides we always have these stamps if we want to come back".  

We started walking down the street again. "There are some more bars up here", she pointed up ahead. "Yeah, I dont feel like walking the whole way though" I said and put my fingers up to hail the cab that was pulling up behind us. "Oh, we're getting in a cab now?" she asked, following my lead as I guided her in and gave the cabbie the cross streets where my hostel was located. I actually had him stop short as I spotted a liquor store a few blocks from our destination, to grab a 6 pack of beer. (LET ME RE-EMPHASIZE, I only started boozing when I was fully locked in with this girl and we had officially began our adventure. I started the night 100% sober and did not use the alcohol as a crutch for my anxiety). "Where are we going with this?" she asked "you're not allowed to drink on the streets in San Francisco." I told her we were going to the hostel...she asked me if I was kidding.  

ME: "Babe, you haven't seen the Amsterdam Hostel in beautiful Union Square, SF....this shit is top of the line. There is a view from my room of the golden gate bridge" (my window overlooked an airshaft and faced a brick wall...which had a painted mural of the golden gate bridge) "....and the building features a state of the art biometric security system" (there was a 4-digit code required to open the main door of the hostel.) 

We each had about a sip of our first beer before we started making out heavily on my bed. (I had a single room in the hostel luckily). I still had my phone in my jeans pocket, which was occasionally vibrating with a text message from Jeffy. At one point she was on top of me when my phone went off. I discreetly pulled the phone out and looked at what it said, "Methodically and dispassionately dismantle the LMR". I was getting some resistance from her, for the first time in the night when I finally tried to take her pants off. She was wearing normal underwear (not a thong or anything sexy), and I could tell that she had not "groomed" herself in at least a few days. This led me to believe that she was legitimately out to meet her girlfriend for drinks on V-day, and did not have the intention of hooking up. Well...that's because she didn't plan on meeting a cool guy like me. Shit like that is rare, and she apparently decided to give it the green light. 

I finally broke through a barrier in LMR by taking her hand and putting it on my junk. I had to escalate it further by then starting to remove my own clothes. This simply followed the theme of me having to lead EVERY SINGLE ESCALLATION throughout the night. My pants were off.... her pants were off...condoms were near by... full close. 
 
She insisted on going back home before finally falling asleep. She lived about 30 minutes away, near the SF airport and had DRIVEN to the first bar we were at (I didnt know that so it was irrelevant when I led us to the cab). She hung around until like 5am, in full cherish mode. She was a cool girl, and was so cute when she used the word "hella" and talked about the "hyphy" movement. After she left I could not sleep, due to the excitement, despite the extreme sleep deprevation from the previous several days. I ended up staying up and finishing all of the beers by myself. I started to get misty as I reflected on what had happened that night....the adventure was amazing. I had flown across the country and met a great girl who I spent a night with. I felt a new sense of motivation, and thought about how I was going to get this down solid and then GO ON A TEAR. I could travel the world meeting people and doing this... I had no reason to not OWN this. 
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 Day 3  

Followed with a lot more content, and some day game. This day really "cemented" everything that we had learned in the two days before. Since this post is getting rather long though, I'll just give a quick FR of the Sunday night "Bonus Round". 

Sunday night was shitty and rainy out. It was a Sunday, but since the President's day holiday was the next day, I hoped that there would be some sort of turnout in the bars. Although Jeffy had left us to fly on our own after program had ended, the other students wanted to go out that night. Since I would have the opportunity to go out with wings, and they knew the city better than I...I jumped at the opportunity. 

I had checked out of the hostel and was spending the night at my brother's apartment, since he would give me a ride to the airport the next day. I got some quality time in with my nephews before they went to bed around 830 pm. When the kids were asleep I had a few drinks with my brother as we watched "The Dark Knight" on DVD. Although I had insisted on starting out my bootcamp nights without a drop of alcohol, I figured that I would just 'have fun' on this night to celebrate my victory, get a little buzz on and hang out. 

By the time my cab dropped me to the Marina district at around 1030, the venue we were going to was already pretty full. I was shocked by the turnout on a Sunday night...as I went into the club to party. 

Needless to say, my state was already pretty high from the previous two days, and with the added "cheat" of having a few drinks in me, my state was in "wild brushfire" mode. I went to work on the girls at the club with a SLEDGEHAMMER. 

I was unphased by apparent 'blow outs' as I went to physically grab girls by the arm as they walked by. I was in the place for less than 10 minutes, until one stuck hard. It was a tall asian party girl, with lightly bleached hair. I was in full ASSERTIVE DOMINANCE as I clawed her and instincts took over. She was giggling and laughing, but occasionally saying "ohh, noo...no...." and telling me she had to keep walking and keep up with her friends.  One of her friends actually turned around and came back for her once she realized that the girl was missing from the group. "Are you ok?" she was asking the girl several times as I was dominating her on the dancefloor. My girl could barely hear the chodette's question as she continued to get more and more into me.  The friend ended up walking away after a few minutes, as in "whatever", and I started to make out with my chick. 

Her: "Where are you staying?"

Me: "Let's go!" 

BOOM, took her by the hand and like an arrow fired from a bow, shot through the crowded venue towards the front door. Mind you, I checked out from my private room the previous night, and I am now staying with my brother his wife and their two very young children...I had NO game plan, but I felt invincible either way. It turned out that the girl's SUV was very close to the entrance of the club. She pointed it out and unlocked the passenger door for me. 

She started to the car and started to drive, again.... "where are you staying?". I cringed as I started to hesitate and told her that I didnt have anywhere to take her. I mentioned her house but she was not having it. 

It began to dawn on me that this girl was way too drunk to be driving, as she was swerving down the street. "PULL OVER" I started to tell her commandingly, I had to repeat myself several times until she finally agreed to pull into a 'spot' that I pointed out to her. It was behind another car, but in front of a drive way, a totally illegal parking job but I wanted her to just stop driving and pull to the side.

I reached over and pulled her keys out of the ignition, then grabbed her by the back of the neck and pulled her in for a full make out. Hands everywhere....full passion and no resistance, I had to think quickly. 

Me: "Let's go in the back seat" 

I had to repeat myself several times before she finally agreed. We both got outside our doors, and almost simultaneously walked to the back doors and got in. I pushed the seats down to the flattened cargo position, and we lay down together on the hard plastic flat bed.  

I was going at it pretty heavy, got her pants off...fingered her. Put her hand on my junk, then took my hand off and started up the HJ. She was moaning as I thought about how surreal the entire situation was. 

I had a condom in my pocket and was about to go for the full deal. I got off her for a few seconds to get in a more comfortable position. She's not really kissing me back actively at this point, and her eyes are pretty much closed. I draw a personal line....this is a NO GO for me. She would definitely be willing to have sex but she is very drunk. I sit up and tell her that we have to go back to the bar and find her friends. 

She sits up, tells me she's really fucked up and then starts proceeds to start puking all over the backseat of her car. I tell her that we have to leave the car and we're walking back. She wont have it. She tells me it's only '2 blocks' and she's good to drive. Before I know it, she's crawled back up into the driver's seat. I get out of the car and run around to her side, open her door and pretty much "Grand Theft Auto" her ass out of the car. "I'll drive" I say, and she reluctantly agrees.  

Now I'm too drunk to be driving as well, and I'm in a completely unfamiliar city, driving a complete stranger's car. All the streets are one way, so I am depending on her to give me directions. I try to call up one of my new friends from program (they're both still at the club) to get some directions. She has no idea where she's going: 

Her: "Take a right on R-ombard" (she has a very thick asian accent....the street is SFs famous "Lombard" Street). 

This situation is completely fucked... I pass by no less than 2 "SFPD" cars where I am stared down hard by the cops inside. Finally we find our way back to the bar and I find a parking space and get in. Now SHE reaches over and takes the keys out of the ignition, the same move I had pulled before. "Ok let's go find your friends", I get out of the car and start walking across the street. I have to urinate really bad so I duck into a little alcove to take a piss. I hear an engine starting up behind me, I turn around in horror and witness her pulling out of her parking spot and driving away. I never saw her again, nor did I see any of her friends that were in the bar earlier. I sincerely hope that she reached home safely. 

WHAT AN ADVENTURE....and it was still EARLY in the night. I met up with my 2 buddies and we went back in to continue to have a crazy night. Bounced around a couple of different venues. Met 3 girls at one bar, paired off with them and bounced them to another place. We met different girls at the other place, and the first group of girls got jealous and left. I kissed a girl who was like 6 foot 6....etc...
 
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 Upon re-reading the above posts, and further reflecting on the weekend, I realize how much my reality has been blown open. The stuff above would've read like a fairy tale to me a year ago. School's out, bitches, it's time to step up and do this. 
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Hahaha "Rombard." Jesus.

Well, mission accomplished. Like I told you near the beginning of the program, it appeared to me like you had most of the pieces, but you just needed to "put them all together" and get out of your own way. With you, I wanted to help you break past that final glass wall you had that was separating you from the success that was just out of reach, and also get the gears meshing (i.e. getting all the discrete pieces to coalesce).

The bootcamp formed some very solid reference points for what is possible, and also for what is to come. You deserve every bit of the success. The only danger to watch out for is the external validation trap... regardless of how awesome the weekend was, there are still going to be ups and downs. You must recognize that any given night is not that meaningful in the context of your overall development. As Chuck D would say, "Don't let a win get to your head or a loss to your heart." Keep your head down and keep pluggin away. There is far more glory to be had, and the glory is in the game.

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I really like your writing style mate.

super cool and exciting report.

You really seem like you will get this pick up thing down, all the way.
Good luck.
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I was absolutely blown away by the changes in you from Friday at the start of the program to that Sunday night when you were just on fucking fire. I've got to get my review up as soon as I have a chance to catch my breath from this weekend. Unbelievable weekend.
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Fantastic write up..! 

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AWESOME.

"2 hit combo"  hahaha, Jeffy has gotta be the funniest motherfucker around.
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Fuck CA. ;)
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Nic, enjoyed reading this!
 
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OP clearly banged Kreayshawn.
 
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