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Matt281

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@villainous - yeah man, but beyond eye contact, it's just not being phased whatsoever by her bullshit.

@sunshine - definitely, missed ya this weekend tho. See ya tonight bud.
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Matt281

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Sunday

I walk down to the pier around 5:00 and there's a big festival going on. I'm on my way in when I see a hot girl in sunglasses walking the other direction... wait, I know her! She's this girl: 



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The bar is about to close. Sexy wants to do street game.

We start to walk out and I see this hot blonde girl (~ HB8) dancing with her friend by the DJ booth. Go in strong. I say a few things, get physical and start dancing with her from the front. She likes me. I accidentally bite her ear while trying to talk over the DJ. Sexy isolates the other girl.

They want to go outside to smoke. I lead my girl out by the hand. Sexy's girl has a boyfriend who is with them. Nevertheless he wings like a fucking pro while I makeout with my girl. I seed the pull. Blonde girl's friend is unbelievably awesome and invites me to come with them (she's driving). I've known them about 10 minutes at this point.

We pile into the car, two smashed guy friends in the back and me in the front with the HB8blonde on my lap. She lives close but the friend gets turned around. We hold the doors open while one of the guys pukes out the door while we drive. Other drunk guy (friend's boyfriend) starts flipping shit. Friend diffuses it. She is beyond awesome. I feel the blonde girl up a little as we drive.


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Get to her place, no bullshit. Friend takes the guys home.

Over to the couch, clothes come off. To the bedroom. No LMR. I eat her out, she gives me head, I fuck her, condom breaks, pull out and come, she comes too.

Sex again in the morning. I'm so sore from friday's workout/sex that I feel like my arms are gonna give out. By the time we're done my shoulder feels dislocated and the rest of me feels like I got hit by a train.

She still looks hot after getting wrecked. Seems like a pretty cool girl too, I'll probably see her again.

I do a 2 mile walk of shame back to my car and head out.


I do an about face and catch up to her.

Me: xxxx?
Her: oh hi!

We walk together for a few minutes, then find out we're going opposite directions. I tell her we should swap numbers again. We do.

Txting:

Me: well that was random lol -matt
Her: yeah totally
Me: we should catch up one of these days. are you free later this week?

No response. Oh well, it was worth a try.
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Monday

Head out to the normal Monday spot to meet Sunshine and Knoxville. I get in line behind 3 hot girls and the tall one says she knows me. I have no idea who they are. Turns out they're the girl Adjunkie and hit on a few months ago after he almost got kicked out of the bar. I had gotten the hotter one's number but it didn't go anywhere. Turns out the 3rd girl know me too, remembers me from school. Small world.

Anyway, I head in and sort of lose them.

I chode for a bit, then get eye contact from a fucking stunner and open her. Way too soft. It goes okay for a second, but I might as well have just given her a high five. Really wanted to go back in on this one but I didn't see her again.

Learning from my mistake, I see another hot girl and actually grab her this time. Hooks, but I ask her the one thing you never ask a girl you clawed and stopped: "where are you going"? Which of course results in "oh, I'm going to go find my friends, see ya!".

I think I do one or two more.

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There's a pretty cute girl standing alone over to the side of a group.

I go in calm and icy. I stare into her eyes and talk slowly. She tests me hard. This one was awesome to do because I never could have pulled this off 6 months ago. I'm completely non-reactive.

It's interesting with concepts like not being reactive, because you don't really have any fucking idea what it means until you experience it in field, but then it's so obvious how important it is. When she tells you not to talk to a girl like that, you don't say "why not?". Or when she tells you she only likes dancing alone, you don't try to convince her. BECAUSE YOU REALIZE IT HAS NOTHING TO DO WITH WHAT SHE SAYS, BUT WHETHER OR NOT YOU'LL BUY INTO HER FRAME.

I stay right up in her face owning it for 5 or 10 minutes, but then she legit wants some space for a little bit. I plow a little harder, then turn to go, and she stops me and asks me for my name again. This one was awesome to do.

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Sunshine and I bounce around to some other places. There's 2 girls dancing and I don't want to do it, but it's so easy once I just go. I hook mine hard, Sunshine does great winging. We dance and chat for about 10 minutes. Unfortunately mine goes to check on the drunk birthday girl and Sunshine wants to get out -- I should have got a number from this one.

We go back and I do maybe one more that I don't remember. I've bitched out on going back in with the strong-frame girl several times now because she's been with other guys.

I see her walking out and I grab her and follow her out of the bar. I can't pull it off this time though. Not quite icy enough. I try to pull her into me but she pushes me away. I try to get her to wait and manage to stop her for a sec, but she tells me she's going home in the most deadpan, "you're not coming with me" way possible.

On the street, I run into the girls from the line at the beginning of the night. I think 2 of them are getting pulled. Should have been us 3 pulling them :(

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I walk into a group of 4 black girls. Sunshine follows.

Me: Hi, I'm going to shamelessly hit on you

The second hottest one pipes up quickly, really loud and confident. I'm chill though. It's not quite like she's testing me like she's throwing negative shit at me, but just a brief "I'm ultra confident, can you handle me?" sort of thing. Of course I can.

I can't remember if I pull her into me or she just comes over, but we're hugging as I meet her 3 friends. Kinda wanted the hottest one, haha, but there's no turning back at this point. My girl's still cute. 5'7'' or so, thin and well dressed. She tests me a little more and then tells me to take her phone number.

And that's pretty much it, other than seeing a guy spit in a girl's face and get maced and run away screaming. Getting laid is a lot more fun than drama.

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1. I had some really awesome experiences tonight with holding the frame and being non-reactive. It's not something you can understand if you don't go out a lot, but what I did with the 2 confident girls tonight (especially the first one), was the same thing Converse did when we both pulled on Saturday. It's one of those things where early on you hear all these game concepts and either try to pretend to know them, or wonder if they're real -- then you find out just how fundamental they are. Almost any confident girl will test you hard, which is actually awesome, because if you're a boss, it's a whole lot easier. Shy girls, however, especially younger girls, will usually just feel too much pressure and look away. Those ones you just have to be relaxed, charming and funny. But yeah, being non-reactive is huge.

2. I really need to work on my phone game. I get tons of solid numbers every week (as in the girls telling me to take their numbers, really long sets or girls I make out with or pull) and almost all of them end up falling through. Even if I do manage to get them on a day 2, it'll go really well, and then it feels like I have to do it all over again to get them out a 2nd time. I honestly think I could be fuckin 3 times as many girls if my phone game was a lot better. Just something I have to work more on and try more things.

Not quite as good as Saturday, but still learning a lot and feeling like I'm on the edge of a breakthrough.

Cheers
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I don't know why I stopped calling girls on the phone. I like it so much more than txting.

Just called one of the girls from this weekend tonight and we had a 20 minute conversation. It's infinitely more solid than even a funny txt convo.

Now that I think back to it, I think every girl I've pulled off a day 2 I've called. I've got a girl coming over in a few minutes who might have fallen through the cracks, but I CALLED her, and now we've been fucking for months.

My phone game still needs work, including my txt game, but for now I'm mostly gonna stick to just calling every girl who I get a number from. It takes less time, it's usually more solid, and it's way more polarizing. No girl is going to talk with you on the phone at length if she doesn't want to meet up, but girls will respond to funny txts till the cows come home, but not have any intention of meeting up with you.

...umm...Cheers
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Thursday

Pulled again.

I meet up with Sunshine on the hill at about 11. We grab some water and then I suggest opening these 2 girls sitting down.

We do. It hooks well for both of us. My girl is a relatively cute brunette with curly hair, his is a relatively cute brunette with straight hair. It only takes me a minute or so to get in the swing of things and it's solid. Turns out my girl is pretty boring. She's fun to flirt with, but she has no cool interests, stories or ambitions. I try to find something to qualify her on (tell her I like) but I can't, lol.

Anyway, we sit down with them and get somewhat physical. I suggest pulling to a dance place. The first one we try is closed, so we head to the main spot.

We dance for literally over an hour. I make sure to pull my girl around, sit her down, take her to the bar, take her to the hallway, and sit her down again to build compliance. I make out with her some but don't overdo it. Sunshine's girl really seems to like him but won't make out.

By 1:00 I start to get bored. Maybe should have tried to pull her earlier, but didn't know how to pull it off logistically. She lives close, friend lives far away and was apparently supposed to stay with her.

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Anyway, lights come on around 1:30. I've pulled her around enough at this point that I can just lead it.

I go tell Sunshine and the girl's friend that we're going and they should come. Honestly one of the best things about having a wing is having 2 people who agree that we all should go home together.

I just grab her hand and start walking toward her house. The friend asks where we're going. My girl: "back to my house".

We get there and it's not at all "on" on Sunshine's end. They both leave us, which probably would have been better if they didn't, since we'd have plausible deniability for all going into her apartment. My girl seems hesitant. I try to ignore the issue and we go into the building, but then she stops me when we get to the door. I try to get her to let me in and she doesn't want to. I push her against the wall and makeout with her again, but she's not down tonight.

I go home with a number. Oh well, good experience getting more used to pulling.

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1. Not really sure what to do about the disconnect between pulling and sex. I think Tyler said something about girls mostly being willing to fuck for either value or validation. Either way, something's gotta change. I think the issue is that these girls are just having a great night as it is, and don't really have a reason to have sex. Sure, they'd like to fuck, but they'd rather just have a fun night with a cool new guy and mabye fuck on day2 or day3. Not quite sure how to turn this around at the moment.

2. Also not really sure what to do about girls who I don't really like that much, but could probably have sex with. This girl was pretty boring, and only moderately hot. On one hand, I really don't want to self-sabatage, because I could have probably fucked like 5 other girls in the last few months if I'd have followed up stronger -- but on the other hand, it's kind of hard to care. I don't really like her, and she's not that hot. I honestly don't care that much whether we have sex or not, but I want to do everything possible to move forward in the game.

Anyway, pulling on the first approach is cool. Definitely feeling pretty solid playing at this level.
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Also, one big thing I'm noticing is that the better I get at this, the more fun interacting with girls is. When you really begin to learn to self-amuse, you can have fun with just about anyone.

Here's an exerpt from me with the girl above:

Me: well I told you I have an 8 year old son
Her: I thought you said he was 7?
Me: it's passed midnight, he just turned
Her: you're lying
Me: see that group of people over there who were just singing happy birthday? those are our friends. That was for my son.
Her: oh yeah? what's his name?
Me: Corneleus. He was a quintuplet, but the other 4 died, so I just have him.

This shit's just fun man.
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 hahaha I didnt know about that Corneleus conversation, that shit's funny!
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Friday

I woke up this morning with 2 hot girls in my bed.

...wasn't as cool as it sounds :)

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Sunshine and I meet up around 11. I pay $10 to get into a spot we normal get into for free on Thursdays, and there's like 1 or 2 cute girls. Ugh.

We head up to the hill and start hitting the streets. I really don't do much. I piggy back of Sunshine a bit and start talking to girls when we have chance encounters. There doesn't seem to be all that many hot girls out.

There's one big group of hotties, most of which I went to school with but didn't really know. I know one of the guys and one of the girls. I feel removed enough from the group that I can't work it like a social circle, but close enough that I feel weird about cold approaching. Odd situation.

Some girl gives me and Sunshine and obvious, drunk approach invitation. I bitch out, he goes and instantly makes out with her. Funny, I knew I could have done the same thing even before either of us tried, but I was still hesistant to do it.

We talk to a few other girls and run into more girls we know.

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Some drunk birthday girl on the street. She wants dick, but her friend is over protective.

I run into the girl I closed about a month ago. Dunno, sort of gave up on txting her after fucking her twice. Not really sure why. We reconnect and will hopefully bang a bit more.

It's late and Sunshine and I do our final sweep. I run into this girl I met like 10 months ago. She was needy and had a crazy ex boyfriend, so I stopped hanging out with her. Anyway, 2 minutes of conversation and she's super into me again. She suggests hanging out again, I say she's leaving soon and last time she got butthurt.

She basically flat out suggests having sex. I ask her if she's going to get butthurt like last time we hung out, she says no. I resist making an anal sex joke ;)

Anyway, she flat out asks if she can come home with me. Since she just alluded to sex a minute ago, I figure it's a done deal, so fuck it. I say "okay". Sunshine is with us, and she asks if her friend (who's fucking hot) can come, so I say yes.

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We take them to the car and take them back to my place. Sunshine's girl is not having it, and apparently has been dating someone for several months. I really don't like my girl, and she's not nearly as hot as the other girl. I start to feel weird.

Sunshine's got no chance in this one, so he leaves, and I put his girl to bed on the couch. I turn off the lights and try briefly to fuck my girl. She won't even kiss me with her friend in the other room. I honestly don't particularly want to have sex with her either, but just tried it for the experience.

I go grab the other girl and tell her to come sleep in the bed with us. They curl up on either side of me. I try to think out how I might pull off a 3 way (or fuck the hotter girl while my girl is asleep), but I don't think it would have been possible given how things have gone so far.

I feel a bit like a pimp with 2 girls on either side of me, but it was more like a sleepover than an orgy :(

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1. Fun night. Pickup pension is definitely helpful. It's like any girl you've fucked or dated in the past can always come back around.

2. I'm gonna stop trying to pull girls I don't really like. This isn't me being negative, I'm happy about how things having been going lately, but I kind of feel like it's a waste of my time. I don't have much of a desire to hook up with tons of different girls, or hit a certain number. I want hotter, cooler, better girls; not more.

Cheers
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fucking A this shit is ridiculous. what the fuck. crazy night. awesome. /happy.
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