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SexyMachine

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Matt281 wrote:
Monday

Kind of an off night, mostly in the sense that I had trouble mustering up the willpower to do the things I knew I should.

What's crazy in this game is that you can simultaneously feel like two different people. Last week I fucked 3 different girls and topped it off by pulling probably the hottest girl I've ever pulled on Saturday. That's one side. And then tonight I felt like I had cold feet most of the time.

I think the key here is to just accept it. No need to get down after this because it's all part of it. The thing about this game is it's never just sunshine and rainbows forever. There's so many guys who get into this with the goal of "never having to worry about this again", but the difficult parts are always going to be there. Sure you'll eventually get to a point where you always have hot girls in your life, but there will always be ups and downs.

It reminds of me of the quote "problems can't be solved within the same level of thinking from which they were created" [sic]. You don't ever get to sidestep the tough parts. You just man up, face them head on and hopefully learn to enjoy them.

Cheers
AWESOMEEE!!!  Way to grow and take action!

The game has it's ups and downs, but I love it because no matter what happens, I learn from it and I grow as a man.  
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Ballgames

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Yo man- that's a sick report... that girl is SO FUCKING HOT... OMG OMG OMG haha

I have a TON of respect for the fact that you were TIRED AS SHIT... and still worked your thang... THat's a huge issue for me... like when I'm tired- I still push like a mother fuckin gangsta, approach hard, push my boundaries... but there is always just something, slightly OFF.... so the fact that you were able to pull that super hottie, while being tired as shit.. is something I really respect.
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Matt281

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@ Sexy - Thanks man. It's definitely maintaining your centeredness through all the BS that makes you grow as a man.





Buddhagames wrote:
Yo man- that's a sick report... that girl is SO FUCKING HOT... OMG OMG OMG haha

I have a TON of respect for the fact that you were TIRED AS SHIT... and still worked your thang... THat's a huge issue for me... like when I'm tired- I still push like a mother fuckin gangsta, approach hard, push my boundaries... but there is always just something, slightly OFF.... so the fact that you were able to pull that super hottie, while being tired as shit.. is something I really respect.
No kidding right? It's funny cause going out doesn't even seem like something I have to do anymore because it's become a habit, but man, it can really take it out of you. Going out 4 nights a week and getting layed once or twice on off nights makes for a pretty hectic schedule. I'm honestly feeling like it's hard to make time for other things in my life. It's pretty much all "fuck bitches, get money" right now.


@Roc - Yeah, unfortunately understanding something intellectually is very different from fully internalizing something and acting on it.

That actually brings me to a point I wanted to talk about. Earlier today I watched Tyler's free tour video (having missed the free tour on the Hotseat weekend), which was all about abbundance and moving into fucking hotter and hotter girls. And he keeps hammering home the point that the only real difference is that you treat hot girls differently than other girls. If you can act exactly the same around the "10" as you would around the "7", she'll probably fuck you because girls like sex.

Back to what you were saying though, it's really something that you "understand", but don't really internalize for a while. Take the girls I txt'd today:

6 - I don't respond
7 - Tell her I'm not coming out. She might still come over here later tonight.
8 - Not gonna try but lets make plans
9s - Make a point to stay in touch, talk on the phone, try to work in plans around their tight schedules, etc.

Even though I "get it" that I'm supposed to treat them all the same, I just don't. Honestly though, I don't think you can really just "decide" to do this. If you TRY not to care, you're still putting effort into it and you will inevitably act differently. There's not that much you can consciously do to change this.

What I'm realizing more and more is that RSD's content doesn't really "teach" me anything per se, but rather helps me understand what's going on when it does happen. Going out and experiencing shit is where the learning really happens, and once you reach a certain point, RSD's material sort of helps you make sense of how you're feeling and acting. So I guess my point is, it's not going to help much to rely on concepts regarding how you should be acting, but rather, those concepts will be in the back of your mind and will help you understand things once they eventually happen due to GOING OUT AND HITTING IT UP.

Cheers
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Matt281 wrote:

What I'm realizing more and more is that RSD's content doesn't really "teach" me anything per se, but rather helps me understand what's going on when it does happen. Going out and experiencing shit is where the learning really happens, and once you reach a certain point, RSD's material sort of helps you make sense of how you're feeling and acting. So I guess my point is, it's not going to help much to rely on concepts regarding how you should be acting, but rather, those concepts will be in the back of your mind and will help you understand things once they eventually happen due to GOING OUT AND HITTING IT UP.

Cheers
Mind = blown.
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Great segment of the post. You're totally right - RSD is just our consultants who gives us the signposts on where to go but only we can make the moves to go there.
tiger0 wrote:

Matt281 wrote:

What I'm realizing more and more is that RSD's content doesn't really "teach" me anything per se, but rather helps me understand what's going on when it does happen. Going out and experiencing shit is where the learning really happens, and once you reach a certain point, RSD's material sort of helps you make sense of how you're feeling and acting. So I guess my point is, it's not going to help much to rely on concepts regarding how you should be acting, but rather, those concepts will be in the back of your mind and will help you understand things once they eventually happen due to GOING OUT AND HITTING IT UP.

Cheers
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Matt281

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Wednesday

Had the girl from Thursday/Friday over. She came over at like 12:30 am and that was that.

Thursday

Only did about half a dozen before running into the girl from Wednesday again at like 1:00. I actually felt pretty good for most of the night. Didn't really see any super hot girls, but I hit up most of the girls I wanted to talk to and didn't get in a negative state.

Decided I didn't want to have another all nighter so I didn't pull the Wednesday girl back home again. (But ended up staying up for like 2 hours chatting about shit with Brother lol.)

Anyway, we're switching it up and going to a different part of the city next week. There just isn't enough hot girls here.

Cheers
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Friday

Consistency is the name of the game. The difference between being decent at this and being amazing at this is mostly just consistency. Not just consistency in pulling, but consistency in everything.

Can you approach hard consistently?
Can you work yourself into a good state consistently?
Can you man up and do the hard ones consistent?

Anyone can do these things every once in a while, but the best guys can do it consistently.

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Tonight was me being inconsistent. I still approached maybe 5 girls, but I passed up way too many.

I know I can pull gorgeous girls. I know I can get what I want. But I have to be able to consistently overcome my own emotions and do what's necessary.

Stick to the process. Execute the program. Reap the rewards. Every. Damn. Time.

Cheers
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Ballgames

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Yeah, man... That's all it comes down to.

I absolutely fucking LOVE your simplicity about this stuff... it's refreshing.

Every night I go out, I approach the HOTTEST girl I can find... and if I get blown out EVERY TIME... then, hell, I can go home happy because I pushed my comfort zone and lived up to my own standards... It's easy to approach 6s and 7s and start getting results quickly... but it's much harder to say "fuck the short term results" and only approach 8s and above because that's who you want to fuck... the long-term is where it's at.

I look up to you guys that have been doing this for a long while... it's great becuase ya'll keep me on the right path by simply doing your own thing and writing about it. I know in a year or two, I'll be the one in your shoes and I hope that when that comes, I can be just as much of an example of Dedication, commitment and hardwork...

Love it man.




Matt281 wrote:
Friday

Consistency is the name of the game. The difference between being decent at this and being amazing at this is mostly just consistency. Not just consistency in pulling, but consistency in everything.

Can you approach hard consistently?
Can you work yourself into a good state consistently?
Can you man up and do the hard ones consistent?

Anyone can do these things every once in a while, but the best guys can do it consistently.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Tonight was me being inconsistent. I still approached maybe 5 girls, but I passed up way too many.

I know I can pull gorgeous girls. I know I can get what I want. But I have to be able to consistently overcome my own emotions and do what's necessary.

Stick to the process. Execute the program. Reap the rewards. Every. Damn. Time.

Cheers
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SexyMachine

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Matt281 wrote:
Friday

Consistency is the name of the game. The difference between being decent at this and being amazing at this is mostly just consistency. Not just consistency in pulling, but consistency in everything.

Can you approach hard consistently?
Can you work yourself into a good state consistently?
Can you man up and do the hard ones consistent?

Anyone can do these things every once in a while, but the best guys can do it consistently.

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------

Tonight was me being inconsistent. I still approached maybe 5 girls, but I passed up way too many.

I know I can pull gorgeous girls. I know I can get what I want. But I have to be able to consistently overcome my own emotions and do what's necessary.

Stick to the process. Execute the program. Reap the rewards. Every. Damn. Time.

Cheers

The process is the king baby!  I love the process.  Going out, taking action and taking control.  Living large and in charge!!!
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Are the hotter girls in the Fremont area?
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