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Matt281

Matt281

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Wrecking shit like a boss :)))

Saturday

Out with Sunshine and Brother. I am TIRED AS FUCK after having slept less than 3 hours the night before due to sex, and working/being active all day. I feel like Tyler in that video where he wanders around like he's in a haze of exhaustion and then pulls a hottie.

First girl won't stop for me. Brother tells me I have to approach again right away and I open this girl on her phone. Goes terrible. I do maybe 2 more but mostly chode around.

I want to go to sleep bad.

Fuck it. Tough it out. Brother tells me to approach again. I get stopped by this guy in the group before I get to her. I ask if he's the boyfriend, get an unsure response so I go open the girl anyway. She won't talk to me but stares at me later on.

I open a very hot blonde girl.

Me: Hi I'm matt
Her: ______
Me: did you say "clever"?!?
Her: haha no, Heather
Me: lol I thought you were like "oh you're going to introduce yourself as a cool pickup line, that's CLEVER"
Her: haha no

Turns out she has a boyfriend... who's there. Shit.

Crazy though, the difference between my good sets and bad sets is often just a slight misinterpretation, observation or odd occurance that makes the approach abnormal. When I'm on I tend to just make this happen myself, but when I'm not I kind of have to just hope she tests me or something strange happens. I've noticed though that I'm often getting momentum from validation (her laughing, telling me I"m cute, etc) rather than building momentum through my own action, like Tyler explained during hotseat. This will be an important distinction for consistently having good nights.

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We go outside and a big fight starts in front of one of the clubs. I'm watching from about 20 feet away when this HOT girl catches my eye. She's standing with her friend about 10 feet away and there are 2 black guys talking to them. I don't know what compelled me to do this because I was honestly still feeling tired and not that good.

We make eye contact and I just put out my hands and motion for her to come over. I hold it strong and she does. Like a BAUWS :)

I pull her in and hug her immediately, and her friend follows and grabs onto her hands so they're both around me. The fight's still going on behind us and people are throwing shoes and shit, so I shuffle them over a little ways away. I tell her I just saved her life, and she says no, they saved my life because I could have got shot if they weren't surrounding me.

What's crazy is that at this point, words already don't matter. This girl already knows 95% of what she needed to know about me. The first 50% she got from the way I approached her, the next 45% she got from me not being weird right away. Done.

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Sunshine opens the friend and hooks and we're both in full embrace. My girl is FUCKING HAWT. She's wearing a black one piece dress with an open front and 6 inch black stilettos. She looks just like a young Eva Mendes.



Change the color of the dress and this literally could have been her.

Like I said, most of what has to be communicated already has been. We're holding onto each other and I'm sweet talking in her hear. It's only been 2 or 3 minutes before I kiss her.

Me: discreet! we don't want to be that drunk makeout couple ;)

She presses herself against me and bites my chest lol. Sunshine seems to be doing well too. This dude is learning FAST. He wasn't originally really a community guy and he sort of half assed it for a while and just enjoyed hanging out with us, but ever since the Hotseat he's been going HARD. Respect.

We both vibe with our respective girls still in full embrace the whole time. More making out and getting my chest bitten. Fuck this girl is hot.

It's on like Donkey Kong on my end, but my girl wants to make sure her friend is down. Friend still seems on the fence.

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5 or 10 minutes later my girl says they have to go to the bathroom (aka to talk it over), so we lead them insdie at like 1:29 and they go. We chill and wait. Run into SexyMachine, who is still out killing it. Every time I see him I laugh to myself about all the little faggots whining about their shortcomings and why they can't do this. He has NO EXCUSES and he's owning shit.

Our girls come back and my girl says her friend isn't so sure about Sunshine. This whole interaction was cool because I got the whole "behind the scenes" of the girl code thing.

We take them up to the dance floor. My girl and I grind and makeout more, Sunshine shows off his Michael Jackson moves. My girl confers with her friend 5 or 10 minutes later: "she says he's doing better".

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Lights come on and we pull them outside. My girl keeps telling me her friend is still kind of on the fence, but I keep pulling her by the hand, and she keeps pulling the other two by the hand.

We walk back to my place and Sunshine's girl wants to go home. They seem to like each other plenty, but she's not ready to get fucked, and apparently she has some issues with her ex. I tell them we'll just go up quickly at drink water, then they can go.

We head up to my apt. and I pour everyone a glass of water. Sunshine is being funny and smooth but it's not happening on his end. After 15 minutes or so we agree to drive them back to their car nearby.

On the walk to the car we run into one of my girl's photographers for her modelling stuff. He seems like a chode. It's funny how most hot girls seem to do modelling of some sort, and how they all feel obligated to tell you.

Anyway, we take them back to their car, makeout on the street and say goodbye.

Solid texting the next day. This girl wants to get fucked and she's so so so so hot.

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1. The biggest lesson for tonight is that I am already enough. This is one of those things you hear and sort of understand, but you never really get it until you experience it. I don't need more money, a more interesting lifestyle or even better game to fuck stunners. I don't need ANYTHING that I don't already have inside of me. My game is good enough, I've worked hard enough with this, and now it's only a question of whether I'm willing to take what I've earned. That's not to say there's not a ton of progress to be made or that I'm anywhere near where I eventually want to be as a person, but at this point there's nothing preventing me from taking what I already deserve. I am enough, and the only thing I need to do to consistantly fuck gorgeous girls is TRY.

2. This shit is fucking awesome. Guys, if you're not where you want to be GO GET IT. If you're not going out yet, DO IT. If you're going out and approaching inconsistently, STEP UP. Like Tyler says, this is one of the few things that is BETTER than it's advertised to be. It's not easy, but you owe it to yourself to learn this shit.

Cheers

PS - to the Seattle crew, I love you all
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Matt281

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Monday

Kind of an off night, mostly in the sense that I had trouble mustering up the willpower to do the things I knew I should.

What's crazy in this game is that you can simultaneously feel like two different people. Last week I fucked 3 different girls and topped it off by pulling probably the hottest girl I've ever pulled on Saturday. That's one side. And then tonight I felt like I had cold feet most of the time.

I think the key here is to just accept it. No need to get down after this because it's all part of it. The thing about this game is it's never just sunshine and rainbows forever. There's so many guys who get into this with the goal of "never having to worry about this again", but the difficult parts are always going to be there. Sure you'll eventually get to a point where you always have hot girls in your life, but there will always be ups and downs.

It reminds of me of the quote "problems can't be solved within the same level of thinking from which they were created" [sic]. You don't ever get to sidestep the tough parts. You just man up, face them head on and hopefully learn to enjoy them.

Cheers
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I can totally relate to feeling like 2 different people.  Yesterday, I had so much sex, that I couldn't even get off for the second girl.  Today, I get blown out, and it's like really?  this happens to me?? don't you know who I am?? lol

The tough parts are just as necassarry as the good parts.  They're an integral part of the game, and a large part of why the game is so fun and transformative at the same time.  I'm glad this shit isn't easy.  Otherwise it woudn't be so fucking cool.

Was good beastin it up with you, see you out soon man.
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Matt281

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Yeah man, I'm fucking glad it's hard. More for those of us who step up and go get it.
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 Dude you are fucking killing it recently. Your progress recently is insane. 
Youve been hitting it hard for a while, but recently you're getting alot more lays and pulls and stuff. 
Ever since you and cat had that double pull to your place, your results have been really awesome.

Im happy for you. I hope I can make the breakthrough to next level soon myself.
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Yeah man, you will. It's inevitable as long as you keep going out and learning.

I think it's important to make the distinction though that YOU ARE ALWAYS GROWING. Don't think of it like you're wandering around lost and one day you just run into what you were looking for and your game jumps up to the next level. Every night you go out you are getting better. It may not look like it, because results come very sporadically, especially earlier on in the journey, but you are making steady progress. You may only get to experience the spoils of that progress intermittently, but it's always there.

Keep at it and don't over-extend yourself. Trust in the process and try your best to enjoy it.

Cheers
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Matt281 wrote:
Monday

Kind of an off night, mostly in the sense that I had trouble mustering up the willpower to do the things I knew I should.

What's crazy in this game is that you can simultaneously feel like two different people. Last week I fucked 3 different girls and topped it off by pulling probably the hottest girl I've ever pulled on Saturday. That's one side. And then tonight I felt like I had cold feet most of the time.

I think the key here is to just accept it. No need to get down after this because it's all part of it. The thing about this game is it's never just sunshine and rainbows forever. There's so many guys who get into this with the goal of "never having to worry about this again", but the difficult parts are always going to be there. Sure you'll eventually get to a point where you always have hot girls in your life, but there will always be ups and downs.

It reminds of me of the quote "problems can't be solved within the same level of thinking from which they were created" [sic]. You don't ever get to sidestep the tough parts. You just man up, face them head on and hopefully learn to enjoy them.

Cheers
AWESOMEEE!!!  Way to grow and take action!

The game has it's ups and downs, but I love it because no matter what happens, I learn from it and I grow as a man.  
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Yo man- that's a sick report... that girl is SO FUCKING HOT... OMG OMG OMG haha

I have a TON of respect for the fact that you were TIRED AS SHIT... and still worked your thang... THat's a huge issue for me... like when I'm tired- I still push like a mother fuckin gangsta, approach hard, push my boundaries... but there is always just something, slightly OFF.... so the fact that you were able to pull that super hottie, while being tired as shit.. is something I really respect.
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Matt281

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@ Sexy - Thanks man. It's definitely maintaining your centeredness through all the BS that makes you grow as a man.





Buddhagames wrote:
Yo man- that's a sick report... that girl is SO FUCKING HOT... OMG OMG OMG haha

I have a TON of respect for the fact that you were TIRED AS SHIT... and still worked your thang... THat's a huge issue for me... like when I'm tired- I still push like a mother fuckin gangsta, approach hard, push my boundaries... but there is always just something, slightly OFF.... so the fact that you were able to pull that super hottie, while being tired as shit.. is something I really respect.
No kidding right? It's funny cause going out doesn't even seem like something I have to do anymore because it's become a habit, but man, it can really take it out of you. Going out 4 nights a week and getting layed once or twice on off nights makes for a pretty hectic schedule. I'm honestly feeling like it's hard to make time for other things in my life. It's pretty much all "fuck bitches, get money" right now.


@Roc - Yeah, unfortunately understanding something intellectually is very different from fully internalizing something and acting on it.

That actually brings me to a point I wanted to talk about. Earlier today I watched Tyler's free tour video (having missed the free tour on the Hotseat weekend), which was all about abbundance and moving into fucking hotter and hotter girls. And he keeps hammering home the point that the only real difference is that you treat hot girls differently than other girls. If you can act exactly the same around the "10" as you would around the "7", she'll probably fuck you because girls like sex.

Back to what you were saying though, it's really something that you "understand", but don't really internalize for a while. Take the girls I txt'd today:

6 - I don't respond
7 - Tell her I'm not coming out. She might still come over here later tonight.
8 - Not gonna try but lets make plans
9s - Make a point to stay in touch, talk on the phone, try to work in plans around their tight schedules, etc.

Even though I "get it" that I'm supposed to treat them all the same, I just don't. Honestly though, I don't think you can really just "decide" to do this. If you TRY not to care, you're still putting effort into it and you will inevitably act differently. There's not that much you can consciously do to change this.

What I'm realizing more and more is that RSD's content doesn't really "teach" me anything per se, but rather helps me understand what's going on when it does happen. Going out and experiencing shit is where the learning really happens, and once you reach a certain point, RSD's material sort of helps you make sense of how you're feeling and acting. So I guess my point is, it's not going to help much to rely on concepts regarding how you should be acting, but rather, those concepts will be in the back of your mind and will help you understand things once they eventually happen due to GOING OUT AND HITTING IT UP.

Cheers
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Matt281 wrote:

What I'm realizing more and more is that RSD's content doesn't really "teach" me anything per se, but rather helps me understand what's going on when it does happen. Going out and experiencing shit is where the learning really happens, and once you reach a certain point, RSD's material sort of helps you make sense of how you're feeling and acting. So I guess my point is, it's not going to help much to rely on concepts regarding how you should be acting, but rather, those concepts will be in the back of your mind and will help you understand things once they eventually happen due to GOING OUT AND HITTING IT UP.

Cheers
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