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January 16th, 2017
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UtopiaFive

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"I just had this really weird feeling come over me" -- whatcha mean, what kind of feeling?  

And btw that distinction of "really great girl I like hanging out with and also even like having sex with" versus "girl I could jerk off to for hours" is a really interesting distinction.  I understand more that "intimacy" aka just having general interpersonal closeness with a girl is a very nice thing...I think it sounds like you have way more of that with your girlfriend and the others are just like physical and flirty.  Like from what you say I'm imagine, you now know you can talk to her about "anything" (or just about?) whereas the others you probably can't go quite as personal?
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Matt281

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UtopiaFive Wrote:
"I just had this really weird feeling come over me" -- whatcha mean, what kind of feeling?


Just what I said in the next sentence. 

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And btw that distinction of "really great girl I like hanging out with and also even like having sex with" versus "girl I could jerk off to for hours" is a really interesting distinction.  I understand more that "intimacy" aka just having general interpersonal closeness with a girl is a very nice thing...I think it sounds like you have way more of that with your girlfriend and the others are just like physical and flirty.  Like from what you say I'm imagine, you now know you can talk to her about "anything" (or just about?) whereas the others you probably can't go quite as personal?


Yeah man. It's not really about "what I can share". I don't need someone to dump on. It's more just the chemistry we have and how comfortable we are with each other. 

I guess the "girl you really like" vs "could jack off to" sounds like a pretty ridiculous distinction when you spell it out, but it's pretty relevant to me at the moment. 

Either way, it's not that I'm trying to decide between these two girls or anything. I'm happy playing the field right now. It's just making me thinking harder about what I really do want when and if I decide to settle down with someone.

Cheers 

PS- haven't seen you in a while man. You should come out one of these weekends :)
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UtopiaFive

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Ah I see what you're saying there with "chemistry and comfortableness" vs "what you can share."  I guess to me those 2 things are pretty related, maybe that's a nice entryway to a good insight for me.  I guess you're not ever really feeling that you need a sense of "emotional support" from others, or if you do get that or need that you get it in other relationships in your life.  

I was in Canadia last weekend, will be out in NYC this coming weekend.  Then gots 2 more weekends before out down south for a few weeks (louisiana for xmas then maybe hang out with dave in austin on new years woot).  I'm sure I'll be out 1-2 nights in the next few weeks, you're the one who don't go out foo :-D
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Paris Boum Boum

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I can't believe I missed so many entries of your journal. It's like pornhub, but with text. Awesome stuff there man.

I loved your post about keeping the girls around.

I liked the post about doing almost nothing and getting the girls. It's what I'm experiencing with the last girls I SNLd : be ok to waste time and be smart about logistics instead of trying to be interesting and high octane all the time.

Keep it up. 
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Matt281

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^Thanks man. Glad you still stop by every once in a while :)

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Harem management. 

Went out for tacos with my new cherish on Monday and fucked her. I think I'm going to back off a little now and just try to see her about once a week. Any more than that and everything'll just get too messy.

Girlfriend took me out for a $200 dinner on Tuesday. Got a 50 ounce steak. It was amazing. I love everything about this girl... except the sex. It's not that it's bad. It's really good actually. She loves getting fucked and giving head. It's just that... she just doesn't do it for me to the extent some other girls do. It's kinda weird. 

Stunner cherish freaked out again yesterday over txt, then for some reason just came over late that night to get fucked. She didn't even mention the whole freakout/never wanting to see me again thing. She's apparently coming over again tonight. 

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Anyway, still learning, still getting my dick wet a lot.

Really want to get back out there in the trenches. Want to take things further. 

Cheers
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How old are you? 
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Seeing 3 girls now. It's cool. Believe it or not, despite all the success I've had this is the first time I've really had a CONSISTENT harem with really HOT girls. It's a lot more work than I'd imagined -- but lot's of fun.

That gives me hope and power for my journey! Patience patience and the goal infront of my eyes.....congrats on the hotties Harem ;)
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Matt281 Wrote:
^Thanks man. Glad you still stop by every once in a while :)

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Harem management. 

Went out for tacos with my new cherish on Monday and fucked her. I think I'm going to back off a little now and just try to see her about once a week. Any more than that and everything'll just get too messy.

Girlfriend took me out for a $200 dinner on Tuesday. Got a 50 ounce steak. It was amazing. I love everything about this girl... except the sex. It's not that it's bad. It's really good actually. She loves getting fucked and giving head. It's just that... she just doesn't do it for me to the extent some other girls do. It's kinda weird. 

Stunner cherish freaked out again yesterday over txt, then for some reason just came over late that night to get fucked. She didn't even mention the whole freakout/never wanting to see me again thing. She's apparently coming over again tonight. 

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Anyway, still learning, still getting my dick wet a lot.

Really want to get back out there in the trenches. Want to take things further. 

Cheers


I've been thinking about that. I have had other girls i liked more sexually than my girlfriend, but the one thing that sets it apart, is that she's ok with my lifestyle. The sex and romance can be worked on- those are communicatable. those are things you could probably talk to your girlfriend about (obviously with taste). 
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Matt281

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@luke - 25

@berlin - Thanks man. Good luck!

@Austin - Yeah man, good point. There aren't a lot of girls who are just 100% okay with you fucking other chicks (although she really might not be if she knew the extent of it currently. Fucked all 3 of them at least once in the last 24 hours). 

I think the thing that's gnawing at me a little is that the sex with my stunner cherish is so hot that regular sex almost doesn't even seem that appealling unless I haven't had it in a few day, which never happens. And it's not really something I could talk about or teach them -- it's partially how she reacts in bed (not what she's willing to do) and TBH, mostly that her body is just out of this world amazing.

It's not that I really want to date her or something (has crossed my mind though, which is weird) but more that I'm constantly thinking about wanting to hit it up hard again and get more girls like her.

But yeah, good points. Thanks for the comment :)
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Matt281

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Friday

Lol. This is getting a little out of control.



Almost no one's out. I go out with my civilian friend and meet up with the girl who I pulled a few weeks ago first, hang out with her for about half an hour, then bounce next door to meet up with my stunner cherish. Pull her back to my friends, then home and fuck the shit out of her. 

My girlfriend has apparently had a bad night in the other part of town. She calls like 3 times. 

I kick my stunner cherish out, and call my girlfriend. 

Stunner cherish immediately txts me: "better call your girlfriend before she gets mad"

And snapchats me: "tell your girlfriend I said hi".

She seems pissed today -- ugh w/e.

So anyway I call my girlfriend and she's freaking out about me fucking other chicks. It's like 3am but I go over there and spend the night with her. She's fine by the morning. It was actually good -- got some shit off my chest and made her clarify that she's okay with what's going on and this is what she wants too. 

Anyway, my life basically feels like that song I posted haha. I'm feeling like multiple long term relationships might be more trouble than they're worth a lot of the time. I may just go back to having a girlfriend and banging random hoes. But who knows? I guess as long as my stunner cherish sticks around I'm not gonna stop fucking her. It's been like 4 months now, which is fucking ridiculous that it's lasted this long with her knowing I have a GF. I feel like giving myself a gold star for every week she keeps fucking me.

Umm, cheers.
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