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January 21st, 2019
Matt281
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Matt281

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Yeah man I totally agree. Best option would have been just to push for logistics and maybe pull right there, then get a number if they weren't down already. 

I've been burned by this one a lot of times too. I think just the fact that I'm rusty did it. 

Collecting numbers and txting them at the end of the night is gold too. It's something I did in Vegas but usually don't do enough sets otherwise. Definitely something I could do more of though.

Thanks for the reply :)
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pottedflowersrcool

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It seems like this may have been a situation where attraction was there, but as Julien talks about in his hotseat, it was just gonna require a little time for the "download bar" to fill up. 

A win-win solution could have been for you to have gotten the # on a "sidenote" (just so you have it moving forward) and then you and BG to have led the girls to another, high-traffic, area of the club and just posted up at that spot and begin to create a "hub" of activity...  It seemns like you probably had enough compliance to move them around within the club itself... but possinly needed some time for a full extraction.

So you could continue to focus on and work your girl, BG would have still been with the set (so it wouldn't look odd that he was just leaving, and adding social pressure to the situation), but also could pull girls into it, so he could find another girl that worked better for him, and all the while this would create a fun/chll atmosphere for the girls, while also leading and not fully isolating, as you would have all been hanging out together still. 

Honestly though- you and BG both seem pretty fucking solid at this shit lol... I think you both may have just been rusty, as you said...
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Happy to hear you got to travel to nyc. It'd prob be way better in the summer when it's warm, so that'd be sweet. 
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Did u get to meet Drama in nyc? I think he assists sometimes there but lives in chicago or something. That dude is really cool.  
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Matt281

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Saturday

Fuck. I wrote for like half an hour and then somehow rather than posting, it linked me to another topic, which ironically was a main-forum topic about the same thing I was writing about??

Anyway, Sunshine is back visiting for the holidays (!!!). I hit on a few stunners, got one of their numbers, saw my stunner cherish etc. 

Got a call about 12:30pm from my girlfriend crying like she got raped or something. Turns out she fucked another guy.

Cheers
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you pissed about her banging or are you cool with it ?

also i like to write longer stuff in word then paste it over
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Yeah that's part of the game...at least you weren't in a needy, committed relationship with her...imagine how crushed you'd be then...and if it took you 6 mo to find a new gf.

That's why I'm thankful for the game
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@getem - I'm fine. It's part of our deal. I guess it always feels just a little bit weird to know, but considering what I've done? lol.

@richie - Yeah, imagine that! Although tbh the reason she did it is because she knew I'm doing it, and she wanted to see if she could just do casual sex too. Not to say she wouldn't have gotten bored and done it without telling me if we were exclusive.

Cheers
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Matt281 Wrote:
@getem - I'm fine. It's part of our deal. I guess it always feels just a little bit weird to know, but considering what I've done? lol.

@richie - Yeah, imagine that! Although tbh the reason she did it is because she knew I'm doing it, and she wanted to see if she could just do casual sex too. Not to say she wouldn't have gotten bored and done it without telling me if we were exclusive.

Cheers


I'm currently pursuing having open relationships. This hasn't happened to me (gf fucking another dude), but when it does, I'm curious how I'll respond and how I'll deal with the emotions. Honestly, did you feel anything? Have you learned anything from it? 
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^Yeah I felt a bit weird but I'm over it. I think it helped that she didn't actually like the guy and she was just doing it because I do it. And she was pretty upset about it. 

It's a bit hypocritical, but yeah if she was actually fucking around a bunch it would probably bother me. Hopefully she won't. I think that with this kind of stuff you never really know how you're going to respond until you're there. 

I've been thinking a bit today about maybe just trying harder to have threesomes with her. It'll be hard to actually pull off (she only wants to with REALLY hot girls) but it would be less draining than having a harem + dealing with her working through this whole open relationship thing. 

Guess we'll see though. She's gonna be out with me for NYE tonight, so we'll try to fuck someone else. 3 way kiss at midnight? :)

Cheers
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