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July 26th, 2017
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Paris Boum Boum

Paris Boum Boum

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I can't believe I missed so many entries of your journal. It's like pornhub, but with text. Awesome stuff there man.

I loved your post about keeping the girls around.

I liked the post about doing almost nothing and getting the girls. It's what I'm experiencing with the last girls I SNLd : be ok to waste time and be smart about logistics instead of trying to be interesting and high octane all the time.

Keep it up. 
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Matt281

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^Thanks man. Glad you still stop by every once in a while :)

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Harem management. 

Went out for tacos with my new cherish on Monday and fucked her. I think I'm going to back off a little now and just try to see her about once a week. Any more than that and everything'll just get too messy.

Girlfriend took me out for a $200 dinner on Tuesday. Got a 50 ounce steak. It was amazing. I love everything about this girl... except the sex. It's not that it's bad. It's really good actually. She loves getting fucked and giving head. It's just that... she just doesn't do it for me to the extent some other girls do. It's kinda weird. 

Stunner cherish freaked out again yesterday over txt, then for some reason just came over late that night to get fucked. She didn't even mention the whole freakout/never wanting to see me again thing. She's apparently coming over again tonight. 

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Anyway, still learning, still getting my dick wet a lot.

Really want to get back out there in the trenches. Want to take things further. 

Cheers
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Luke_Waterwalker

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How old are you? 
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BerlinCity

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Seeing 3 girls now. It's cool. Believe it or not, despite all the success I've had this is the first time I've really had a CONSISTENT harem with really HOT girls. It's a lot more work than I'd imagined -- but lot's of fun.

That gives me hope and power for my journey! Patience patience and the goal infront of my eyes.....congrats on the hotties Harem ;)
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AustinCC

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Matt281 Wrote:
^Thanks man. Glad you still stop by every once in a while :)

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Harem management. 

Went out for tacos with my new cherish on Monday and fucked her. I think I'm going to back off a little now and just try to see her about once a week. Any more than that and everything'll just get too messy.

Girlfriend took me out for a $200 dinner on Tuesday. Got a 50 ounce steak. It was amazing. I love everything about this girl... except the sex. It's not that it's bad. It's really good actually. She loves getting fucked and giving head. It's just that... she just doesn't do it for me to the extent some other girls do. It's kinda weird. 

Stunner cherish freaked out again yesterday over txt, then for some reason just came over late that night to get fucked. She didn't even mention the whole freakout/never wanting to see me again thing. She's apparently coming over again tonight. 

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Anyway, still learning, still getting my dick wet a lot.

Really want to get back out there in the trenches. Want to take things further. 

Cheers


I've been thinking about that. I have had other girls i liked more sexually than my girlfriend, but the one thing that sets it apart, is that she's ok with my lifestyle. The sex and romance can be worked on- those are communicatable. those are things you could probably talk to your girlfriend about (obviously with taste). 
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Matt281

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@luke - 25

@berlin - Thanks man. Good luck!

@Austin - Yeah man, good point. There aren't a lot of girls who are just 100% okay with you fucking other chicks (although she really might not be if she knew the extent of it currently. Fucked all 3 of them at least once in the last 24 hours). 

I think the thing that's gnawing at me a little is that the sex with my stunner cherish is so hot that regular sex almost doesn't even seem that appealling unless I haven't had it in a few day, which never happens. And it's not really something I could talk about or teach them -- it's partially how she reacts in bed (not what she's willing to do) and TBH, mostly that her body is just out of this world amazing.

It's not that I really want to date her or something (has crossed my mind though, which is weird) but more that I'm constantly thinking about wanting to hit it up hard again and get more girls like her.

But yeah, good points. Thanks for the comment :)
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Matt281

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Friday

Lol. This is getting a little out of control.



Almost no one's out. I go out with my civilian friend and meet up with the girl who I pulled a few weeks ago first, hang out with her for about half an hour, then bounce next door to meet up with my stunner cherish. Pull her back to my friends, then home and fuck the shit out of her. 

My girlfriend has apparently had a bad night in the other part of town. She calls like 3 times. 

I kick my stunner cherish out, and call my girlfriend. 

Stunner cherish immediately txts me: "better call your girlfriend before she gets mad"

And snapchats me: "tell your girlfriend I said hi".

She seems pissed today -- ugh w/e.

So anyway I call my girlfriend and she's freaking out about me fucking other chicks. It's like 3am but I go over there and spend the night with her. She's fine by the morning. It was actually good -- got some shit off my chest and made her clarify that she's okay with what's going on and this is what she wants too. 

Anyway, my life basically feels like that song I posted haha. I'm feeling like multiple long term relationships might be more trouble than they're worth a lot of the time. I may just go back to having a girlfriend and banging random hoes. But who knows? I guess as long as my stunner cherish sticks around I'm not gonna stop fucking her. It's been like 4 months now, which is fucking ridiculous that it's lasted this long with her knowing I have a GF. I feel like giving myself a gold star for every week she keeps fucking me.

Umm, cheers.
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Saturday --- New York Hotseat

Well shit.

I head to NY for 5 days to visit my uncle and cousins and it turns out Tyler and Julien are there for Hotseat. Incredibly random. I find this out like 5 minutes after I get off the plane and go straight there.

It's just wrapping up, so I talk to Tyler and Julien for a bit and meet some of Converse's friends. I end up hanging out with the guy who's filming Julien on bootcamp and we just follow them around. We go to this bar called Phebes first and I end up talking to this tall brunette chick for quite a while. She seems to really like me but doesn't seem to want to fuck me, so I eventually part ways with her and follow the bootcamp.

Things are a bit slow at the next place, and I'm a bit out of it so I don't do much.

Around 2:00am we head to Lebain (?) and spend the rest of the night there. It's a pretty sick rooftop club but the talent is just decent tonight. I wing Converse's roommate a bit and do alright. Might have been able to pull this asian fashion designer but Converse's roommate didn't like his girl. I talk some shit to this stunner and then to some french girl. I'm noticing I can sometimes salvage really bad sets just by switching things up until something hits. For the stunner girl, it was yelling gibberish at her. 

Not much else happens. I say bye to Tyler and I head back to Converse's place around 4.

Next day was better.

Cheers
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Sunday -- New York Hotseat Round 2

I do a tour of the city and then head to Hotseat around 4. I meet more well-known RSD guys. 

I end up talking to a cool guy with a cast on his arm -- turns out it's BuddhaGames from the forums. Never would have guessed. Anyway, he's super chill and we end up skipping out on most of the Hotseat to go tour the city (already seen Julien's twice). 

I feel much better than yesterday. Not as much culture shock/jet lag etc. But I'm incredibly tired.

I see this hot girl with a limp and comment on it. I walk with her and we chat for about 15 minutes and Buddhagames hits up other girls. I get her number with the intention of meeting up with her later that night, but he doesn't end up coming out.

We talk to these two blonde girls on the street corner and follow them to the subway gate. We both get their numbers. They had wanted to hang out the following night but I was with my family. 

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We head back to the Hotseat for the end and then go out. Most places suck and we end up walking like 5 more miles (I'd already walked/biked all day). Both of us are deathly tired.

Buddhagames falls alseep in a bar, but we eventually go back to Lebane around 12:30. It's pretty good. We sit down for a few minutes and I doze in and out of consciousness a few times. Finally we decide to go hit it up.

Maybe the second one we do is these two Russian chicks. Mine is stupid hot. Young, skinny, huge tits, pretty face. Buddha's not so much. 

We stick in for about 10 minutes and do really well. My girl starts asking about our logistics and seems down. Buddha wants to go hit it up more and come back since his girl isn't that hot. I (stupidly) follow his lead. Not much later the girls leave.

--> This one really frustrated me. My girl would have been such a good fuck and she was probably down. Logistics were great. I just didn't want to "ruin" it, so I played it "safe" and went with Buddha figuring we'd come back. AHHH. It's stuff like this that makes you change next time though. Won't make that mistake again.

We both hit up another hot blonde girl who turns out to be their friend. Buddha takes the pole position on this one. It goes really well but she ended up being there with a guy.

I think we do one or two more.

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1. Nothing to crazy for NY, but I had an amazing time. Everything worked out perfectly for me between getting to stay in the best part of the city for 2 nights, getting to go out with cool guys, meeting up with Tyler and Julien, etc. I had no idea Hotseat was even going on this last weekend. 

I need to create a life where I can do more of this kind of thing. More freedom, more travel, more meeting cool guys and fucking the hottest girls from the best cities. 

Sounds like fun ;)

Cheers
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richie rich

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Matt281 Wrote:
Sunday -- New York Hotseat Round 2

I do a tour of the city and then head to Hotseat around 4. I meet more well-known RSD guys. 

I end up talking to a cool guy with a cast on his arm -- turns out it's BuddhaGames from the forums. Never would have guessed. Anyway, he's super chill and we end up skipping out on most of the Hotseat to go tour the city (already seen Julien's twice). 

I feel much better than yesterday. Not as much culture shock/jet lag etc. But I'm incredibly tired.

I see this hot girl with a limp and comment on it. I walk with her and we chat for about 15 minutes and Buddhagames hits up other girls. I get her number with the intention of meeting up with her later that night, but he doesn't end up coming out.

We talk to these two blonde girls on the street corner and follow them to the subway gate. We both get their numbers. They had wanted to hang out the following night but I was with my family. 

-------------------------------------

We head back to the Hotseat for the end and then go out. Most places suck and we end up walking like 5 more miles (I'd already walked/biked all day). Both of us are deathly tired.

Buddhagames falls alseep in a bar, but we eventually go back to Lebane around 12:30. It's pretty good. We sit down for a few minutes and I doze in and out of consciousness a few times. Finally we decide to go hit it up.

Maybe the second one we do is these two Russian chicks. Mine is stupid hot. Young, skinny, huge tits, pretty face. Buddha's not so much. 

We stick in for about 10 minutes and do really well. My girl starts asking about our logistics and seems down. Buddha wants to go hit it up more and come back since his girl isn't that hot. I (stupidly) follow his lead. Not much later the girls leave.

--> This one really frustrated me. My girl would have been such a good fuck and she was probably down. Logistics were great. I just didn't want to "ruin" it, so I played it "safe" and went with Buddha figuring we'd come back. AHHH. It's stuff like this that makes you change next time though. Won't make that mistake again.

We both hit up another hot blonde girl who turns out to be their friend. Buddha takes the pole position on this one. It goes really well but she ended up being there with a guy.

I think we do one or two more.

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1. Nothing to crazy for NY, but I had an amazing time. Everything worked out perfectly for me between getting to stay in the best part of the city for 2 nights, getting to go out with cool guys, meeting up with Tyler and Julien, etc. I had no idea Hotseat was even going on this last weekend. 

I need to create a life where I can do more of this kind of thing. More freedom, more travel, more meeting cool guys and fucking the hottest girls from the best cities. 

Sounds like fun ;)

Cheers


why didn't you get her #. I always (at least try to) get the # of a girl I really like whenever I leave the set. She could get pulled to a private table where you can't talk to her, she could leave, start talking to another dude.

I've been burned so many times by this exact scenario and having the girl's # and texting her your name and picture immediately has saved so many girls for me.

Getting the girls # right away is a big part of my game.

If the girl likes you she'll give you her #, and it won't affect the rest of the night...if anything it'll up the investment. 2nd it saves you a lot of time because you find out if she has a boyfriend or was just playing you for drinks or attention and doesn't want to give you her #. If she won't give you her #...she prob won't fuck you unless she has a good reason. Exception would be if she has a boyfriend/hubby and wants to cheat on him with you for 1 night and doesnt want you to contact her.

Small tip I picked up from Jeffy at the free tour, increased my results like 300% not even joking. When you have 5-6 numbers from the night and you don't pull (it happens!) you can text the numbers and have a great shot at still getting laid.
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