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January 22nd, 2018
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Matt281

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Friday

Lol. This is getting a little out of control.



Almost no one's out. I go out with my civilian friend and meet up with the girl who I pulled a few weeks ago first, hang out with her for about half an hour, then bounce next door to meet up with my stunner cherish. Pull her back to my friends, then home and fuck the shit out of her. 

My girlfriend has apparently had a bad night in the other part of town. She calls like 3 times. 

I kick my stunner cherish out, and call my girlfriend. 

Stunner cherish immediately txts me: "better call your girlfriend before she gets mad"

And snapchats me: "tell your girlfriend I said hi".

She seems pissed today -- ugh w/e.

So anyway I call my girlfriend and she's freaking out about me fucking other chicks. It's like 3am but I go over there and spend the night with her. She's fine by the morning. It was actually good -- got some shit off my chest and made her clarify that she's okay with what's going on and this is what she wants too. 

Anyway, my life basically feels like that song I posted haha. I'm feeling like multiple long term relationships might be more trouble than they're worth a lot of the time. I may just go back to having a girlfriend and banging random hoes. But who knows? I guess as long as my stunner cherish sticks around I'm not gonna stop fucking her. It's been like 4 months now, which is fucking ridiculous that it's lasted this long with her knowing I have a GF. I feel like giving myself a gold star for every week she keeps fucking me.

Umm, cheers.
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Saturday --- New York Hotseat

Well shit.

I head to NY for 5 days to visit my uncle and cousins and it turns out Tyler and Julien are there for Hotseat. Incredibly random. I find this out like 5 minutes after I get off the plane and go straight there.

It's just wrapping up, so I talk to Tyler and Julien for a bit and meet some of Converse's friends. I end up hanging out with the guy who's filming Julien on bootcamp and we just follow them around. We go to this bar called Phebes first and I end up talking to this tall brunette chick for quite a while. She seems to really like me but doesn't seem to want to fuck me, so I eventually part ways with her and follow the bootcamp.

Things are a bit slow at the next place, and I'm a bit out of it so I don't do much.

Around 2:00am we head to Lebain (?) and spend the rest of the night there. It's a pretty sick rooftop club but the talent is just decent tonight. I wing Converse's roommate a bit and do alright. Might have been able to pull this asian fashion designer but Converse's roommate didn't like his girl. I talk some shit to this stunner and then to some french girl. I'm noticing I can sometimes salvage really bad sets just by switching things up until something hits. For the stunner girl, it was yelling gibberish at her. 

Not much else happens. I say bye to Tyler and I head back to Converse's place around 4.

Next day was better.

Cheers
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Sunday -- New York Hotseat Round 2

I do a tour of the city and then head to Hotseat around 4. I meet more well-known RSD guys. 

I end up talking to a cool guy with a cast on his arm -- turns out it's BuddhaGames from the forums. Never would have guessed. Anyway, he's super chill and we end up skipping out on most of the Hotseat to go tour the city (already seen Julien's twice). 

I feel much better than yesterday. Not as much culture shock/jet lag etc. But I'm incredibly tired.

I see this hot girl with a limp and comment on it. I walk with her and we chat for about 15 minutes and Buddhagames hits up other girls. I get her number with the intention of meeting up with her later that night, but he doesn't end up coming out.

We talk to these two blonde girls on the street corner and follow them to the subway gate. We both get their numbers. They had wanted to hang out the following night but I was with my family. 

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We head back to the Hotseat for the end and then go out. Most places suck and we end up walking like 5 more miles (I'd already walked/biked all day). Both of us are deathly tired.

Buddhagames falls alseep in a bar, but we eventually go back to Lebane around 12:30. It's pretty good. We sit down for a few minutes and I doze in and out of consciousness a few times. Finally we decide to go hit it up.

Maybe the second one we do is these two Russian chicks. Mine is stupid hot. Young, skinny, huge tits, pretty face. Buddha's not so much. 

We stick in for about 10 minutes and do really well. My girl starts asking about our logistics and seems down. Buddha wants to go hit it up more and come back since his girl isn't that hot. I (stupidly) follow his lead. Not much later the girls leave.

--> This one really frustrated me. My girl would have been such a good fuck and she was probably down. Logistics were great. I just didn't want to "ruin" it, so I played it "safe" and went with Buddha figuring we'd come back. AHHH. It's stuff like this that makes you change next time though. Won't make that mistake again.

We both hit up another hot blonde girl who turns out to be their friend. Buddha takes the pole position on this one. It goes really well but she ended up being there with a guy.

I think we do one or two more.

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1. Nothing to crazy for NY, but I had an amazing time. Everything worked out perfectly for me between getting to stay in the best part of the city for 2 nights, getting to go out with cool guys, meeting up with Tyler and Julien, etc. I had no idea Hotseat was even going on this last weekend. 

I need to create a life where I can do more of this kind of thing. More freedom, more travel, more meeting cool guys and fucking the hottest girls from the best cities. 

Sounds like fun ;)

Cheers
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Matt281 Wrote:
Sunday -- New York Hotseat Round 2

I do a tour of the city and then head to Hotseat around 4. I meet more well-known RSD guys. 

I end up talking to a cool guy with a cast on his arm -- turns out it's BuddhaGames from the forums. Never would have guessed. Anyway, he's super chill and we end up skipping out on most of the Hotseat to go tour the city (already seen Julien's twice). 

I feel much better than yesterday. Not as much culture shock/jet lag etc. But I'm incredibly tired.

I see this hot girl with a limp and comment on it. I walk with her and we chat for about 15 minutes and Buddhagames hits up other girls. I get her number with the intention of meeting up with her later that night, but he doesn't end up coming out.

We talk to these two blonde girls on the street corner and follow them to the subway gate. We both get their numbers. They had wanted to hang out the following night but I was with my family. 

-------------------------------------

We head back to the Hotseat for the end and then go out. Most places suck and we end up walking like 5 more miles (I'd already walked/biked all day). Both of us are deathly tired.

Buddhagames falls alseep in a bar, but we eventually go back to Lebane around 12:30. It's pretty good. We sit down for a few minutes and I doze in and out of consciousness a few times. Finally we decide to go hit it up.

Maybe the second one we do is these two Russian chicks. Mine is stupid hot. Young, skinny, huge tits, pretty face. Buddha's not so much. 

We stick in for about 10 minutes and do really well. My girl starts asking about our logistics and seems down. Buddha wants to go hit it up more and come back since his girl isn't that hot. I (stupidly) follow his lead. Not much later the girls leave.

--> This one really frustrated me. My girl would have been such a good fuck and she was probably down. Logistics were great. I just didn't want to "ruin" it, so I played it "safe" and went with Buddha figuring we'd come back. AHHH. It's stuff like this that makes you change next time though. Won't make that mistake again.

We both hit up another hot blonde girl who turns out to be their friend. Buddha takes the pole position on this one. It goes really well but she ended up being there with a guy.

I think we do one or two more.

==========================================================

1. Nothing to crazy for NY, but I had an amazing time. Everything worked out perfectly for me between getting to stay in the best part of the city for 2 nights, getting to go out with cool guys, meeting up with Tyler and Julien, etc. I had no idea Hotseat was even going on this last weekend. 

I need to create a life where I can do more of this kind of thing. More freedom, more travel, more meeting cool guys and fucking the hottest girls from the best cities. 

Sounds like fun ;)

Cheers


why didn't you get her #. I always (at least try to) get the # of a girl I really like whenever I leave the set. She could get pulled to a private table where you can't talk to her, she could leave, start talking to another dude.

I've been burned so many times by this exact scenario and having the girl's # and texting her your name and picture immediately has saved so many girls for me.

Getting the girls # right away is a big part of my game.

If the girl likes you she'll give you her #, and it won't affect the rest of the night...if anything it'll up the investment. 2nd it saves you a lot of time because you find out if she has a boyfriend or was just playing you for drinks or attention and doesn't want to give you her #. If she won't give you her #...she prob won't fuck you unless she has a good reason. Exception would be if she has a boyfriend/hubby and wants to cheat on him with you for 1 night and doesnt want you to contact her.

Small tip I picked up from Jeffy at the free tour, increased my results like 300% not even joking. When you have 5-6 numbers from the night and you don't pull (it happens!) you can text the numbers and have a great shot at still getting laid.
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Matt281

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Yeah man I totally agree. Best option would have been just to push for logistics and maybe pull right there, then get a number if they weren't down already. 

I've been burned by this one a lot of times too. I think just the fact that I'm rusty did it. 

Collecting numbers and txting them at the end of the night is gold too. It's something I did in Vegas but usually don't do enough sets otherwise. Definitely something I could do more of though.

Thanks for the reply :)
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pottedflowersrcool

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It seems like this may have been a situation where attraction was there, but as Julien talks about in his hotseat, it was just gonna require a little time for the "download bar" to fill up. 

A win-win solution could have been for you to have gotten the # on a "sidenote" (just so you have it moving forward) and then you and BG to have led the girls to another, high-traffic, area of the club and just posted up at that spot and begin to create a "hub" of activity...  It seemns like you probably had enough compliance to move them around within the club itself... but possinly needed some time for a full extraction.

So you could continue to focus on and work your girl, BG would have still been with the set (so it wouldn't look odd that he was just leaving, and adding social pressure to the situation), but also could pull girls into it, so he could find another girl that worked better for him, and all the while this would create a fun/chll atmosphere for the girls, while also leading and not fully isolating, as you would have all been hanging out together still. 

Honestly though- you and BG both seem pretty fucking solid at this shit lol... I think you both may have just been rusty, as you said...
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Happy to hear you got to travel to nyc. It'd prob be way better in the summer when it's warm, so that'd be sweet. 
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Did u get to meet Drama in nyc? I think he assists sometimes there but lives in chicago or something. That dude is really cool.  
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Saturday

Fuck. I wrote for like half an hour and then somehow rather than posting, it linked me to another topic, which ironically was a main-forum topic about the same thing I was writing about??

Anyway, Sunshine is back visiting for the holidays (!!!). I hit on a few stunners, got one of their numbers, saw my stunner cherish etc. 

Got a call about 12:30pm from my girlfriend crying like she got raped or something. Turns out she fucked another guy.

Cheers
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you pissed about her banging or are you cool with it ?

also i like to write longer stuff in word then paste it over
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