THE FORUMS

December 17th, 2017
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Matt281

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Saturday

Back with a bang. Pun intended.


I start off at a big college bar with Brother, Knoxville and Promo. Pretty stuck in my head. Very reluctant to do my own approaches.

Knoxville pulls me into a hot 4 set and I talk to a hot half Japanese girl. Promo, who really likes asians, is practically jizzing in his pants over her. Somehow Knoxville got the not hot one, despite approaching. Brother seems to be killing it with the two hot white girls. I tell my girl we'll take them around to some other bars and show them around, and she's down. Everything seems to be going well, but after Promo comes in somehow one of the girls gets bored and/or offended and drags the rest away. We should have gone back in on this a bunch but we were being pussies.

We do a couple more. I'm frustratingly after not having been out much the past 2 months. Too much cherishing.

Speaking of cherishing, my stunner cherish -- who just "broke up" with me because she couldn't handle me having girlfriend who's not her -- is txting the fuck out of me wanting to meet up. It's only like 12 tho so I keep making excuses to avoid her.

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We go to the next bar and there's only one girl I want to talk to. I make eye contact with her and then go back to talking with Promo. I ALMOST don't do it. 

I walk over towards her, put my hand in spilled beer and wipe it on Urban as I'm walking up to her (I'm sure he'll understand). 

Me: Hi, I'm matt
Her: xxxx *shakes my hand*
Me: I just put my hand in beer but I wiped it on Urban so I could come meet you ;)

Super hot Italian chick.

It's kind of messy after that and I stall out a few times but I stick in there. When it's awkward, I think girls don't realize that you HAVE TO KEEP TALKING or you're done. Sometimes I think I come off as nervous because I'm just spouting of ANYTHING. Unless you really hooked hard, you just can't stop talking. It can be hard to do that and still be relaxed and smooth.

Apparently it goes well enough because when they leave they offer for me to come.

I get her number "in case I lose her" and go with them. On the walk I basically game the friend, which seems to work really well because I win her over and my girl likes it too.

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We get to the other bar and meet up with their friends. I do a pretty damn good job of winning everyone over, which really helped. I liked one of their guy friends a lot. I guess the best way I could describe it is that he just seemed really content whether he fucked someone or not. I sometimes envy people who just don't make a big deal out of fucking girls (even though TBH it's worth making a big deal out of if you're not).

Conveniently we all go back to my girl's studio apartment afterwards.

I barely game her at all. I just sit with other people and bullshit. 

---> I didn't play this perfect, but this is a really important point: At this point in the night it was a logistics game. While I definitely could have done better with this girl, it wasn't the most important thing to focus on. The biggest thing was simply BE THE LAST ONE THERE.

And surely enough, by 4am I was. 

She gets some angry txts, presumably from the other guy who liked her, and we eat late-night spaghetti. I spit some game while we eat and she's into it, but as soon as we're done she still just climbs into her bed and turns over with her back facing me.

Not good. 

I say some shit but can't get her to engage me. I think 90% of guys would have just given up here and maybe tried in the morning.

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I turn her halfway over.

Me: this is awkward because I want to kiss you but you're facing the wrong way.

Boom.

Making out quickly turns to foreplay.

Foreplay quickly turns to choking and rough sex.

I press her legs against her chest and fuck her hard, and she grabs onto my wrist as I'm chocking her. 

"mmmm! harder!"

I finger her more, she sucks my dick, and we basically fool around for the next half hour. 

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I leave in the morning and go out the wrong door and get locked out on a 2nd story patio. Had to whip out some parkour to get out :)

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1. Every time I have a night like this I'm shocked by the fact that I almost didn't approach her. Every girl I've fucked I could have easy just not approached. Makes me think about how many opportunities I miss because my ego/self-image stuff gets in the way or I'm stuck in my head and don't approach. I could easily do this 5x as much from just trying 5x as much.

2. Other than just trying in the first place, the biggest lesson of the night was simply BE THERE WITH HER AT THE END OF THE NIGHT. Sex is mostly a logistics game. 



Cheers
 
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chazz reinhold

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Great journal dude
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Me: this is awkward because I want to kiss you but you're facing the wrong way.

Sweet...will remember using this too.
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Very good. I am that 90% who would've given up at that critical point and tell my friends the next day, "It was another empty pull. I got to her place but nothing happened." Haha to think that I've come to that same point a couple times basically standing by the finish line not knowing that little flick was all it'd take.

I didn't realize how tired I was until my mom told me over skype that I looked completely exhausted. So I didn't go out on sunday or monday like I said I'd start doing. Slept for 10 hours for the first time in a while last night and I feel great. Also this little break from gaming is getting me more excited to get back to it :)

See you this weekend. 
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Thanks guys. Glad you can get something out of my debaucheries :)
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Wow man, hot sex. amazing. Glad to hear that this stuff is internalized to the point that you can switch it on when needed. 
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Matt281

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Friday
 
The plot thickens!
 
Both girls I'm seeing regularly and the girl I fucked last Saturday are all out in the same area, not to mention some other girl txting me.

I end up spending most of the night with my (crazy) stunner cherish who "broke up" with me last week. She just needs more attention to be okay with me seeing other girls. I keep going back and forth on whether it's worth it -- the sex is just so good!
 
We have fun. Brother spends most of the night with us and we kick it with a few of her friends.
 
She wants to fuck me but has to take her friends home.
 
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As we're walking out I see the girl I fucked on Saturday. We make eye contact.
 
She txts me 5 minutes later:
 
Her: Hey, what are you up to?
Me: awkwardly making eyes with you on the street :)
Her: you should come over
 
At this point I still thought I was gonna fuck my stunner cherish, so I tell her I can't because I have to work early (I do).
 
So then it turns out my stunner cherish has drove both her friends and can't leave them. We part ways around 12:30.
 
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Meanwhile, my girlfriend has been txting me this whole time. I go find her at a bar a block away, blow some guy out and take her home around 1.
 
She gives me some amazing head and I make her squirt EVERYWHERE.
 
And that's all she wrote!
 
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Saturday

Good shit.

I meet up with Knoxville and Brother and we go to the main college bar on the hill. It's really good tonight. I usually don't really like this place but I'm gonna have to get used to it -- girls are hot and the girls I'm seeing don't seem to go there much ;)

I'm a huge most of the night. It's the strangest feeling having hit up 30-40 girls a night in Vegas just a few months back and have all the anxiousness creep back in after cherishing a bunch for the last few nights. 

I do like 1 or 2 of my own approaches. 

There were a million girls there and two in particular I really wanted to talk to. Dimes. 

I HATE being scared to do shit. The funny thing is that there's just no way around it. There's really not strategy other than gaining momentum over a couple hours and/or weeks. You just have to fucking DO IT. Tonight I didn't. 

It's difficult because I get rewarded whether I hit it up or not.

#firstworldproblems

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Speaking of which, I go meet up with my stunner cherish who I haven't fucked in like 2 weeks (she was pissy about me having a girlfriend). 

We hang out with her friends for a bit and then I take her home. 

It was just like closing a girl for the first time. Her (like 10 times): "You're not getting NOTHING tonight"

Pro tip: enjoy the moment, keep it light and keep moving forward. Be free. Turn her on.

If she's wet and you're mentally "free", there's no way you're not fucking. 

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I lay on top of her, motorboat her with her bra on, put my ear to her stomach and tell her about her digestion and talk massive amounts of shit.

After about a half hour of me fucking around, she finally gets turned on enough and we start going at it. 

No girl I've ever been with has turned me on as much as this girl. When I'm on my deathbed, I'll probably still remember looking down at her perfect D cups, tiny waste and gorgeous face, and ramming my cock inside her. 

The two dimes at the bar are objectively hotter, but this is the hottest sex to be had by anyone tonight.

Anyway, I bust and fuck her again in the morning. We grab coffee and call it a day.

Cheers :)
 
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Sunday

Day 2 with the girl I pulled last Saturday. 

We meet up at a chill little bar near my place and grab a drink. I have a good time. She has some really fucking funny stories. 

She took a cab so the pull back to my house is easy. I take her up, chode around a bit, then take her over to the bed and start kissing her. She's super into it.

Rough foreplay ensues followed by awesome sex. 

I take her back home afterwards.

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Fucked 3 different girls in the last 3 days. Harem is picking up a little bit ;)

Cheers
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Matt281 Wrote:
Sunday

Day 2 with the girl I pulled last Saturday. 

We meet up at a chill little bar near my place and grab a drink. I have a good time. She has some really fucking funny stories. 

She took a cab so the pull back to my house is easy. I take her up, chode around a bit, then take her over to the bed and start kissing her. She's super into it.

Rough foreplay ensues followed by awesome sex. 

I take her back home afterwards.

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Fucked 3 different girls in the last 3 days. Harem is picking up a little bit ;)

Cheers


A smooth cirminal...what can we say.
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