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" Why can't I just fuck this girl? We could be friends with benefits. No relationship just great emotionless sex."



No commitment, No responsibilty and no expectations. "Fuck buddy" Implies that there is no emotional attachment to the girl. The relationship is strictly based on sex. It's hard to find such a cold hearted bitch, Woman enough to agree to those terms, But if you find one she's worth keeping around.
It isn't always such a good idea to make a horny girl into a fuck buddy though. Just because she says she agrees doesn't mean she will not catch feelings with time.


What I will explain in this article is the positives and negatives of having a "Fuck buddy"
How it can be just as stressful as it is appealing and a stronger solution to have steady sex with worth while girls. And how to move forward from these girls by Hooking a solid girl and keeping it monogomaus or being honest about sleeping with other girls but having emotional support from your main girl. ( You would be surprised at how many mature and confident girls are alright with this.)




So what is appealing about having a "fuck buddy" You always having a girl to fall back on. If you don't pull tonight theres still a good chance this girl will want to come over. Having abundance of women is always nice. It reminds you of how awesome you really are and keeps you in a good flow state. When seeing a few girls like this it is alot easier to find girls of quality because you have no outcome for sex, It's all about your connection together, Which results in sex. Having a girl want to see you giving you all this postive validation is good way to stay sharp as long as you don't fall into your ego. Chances are they are fucking other people. This keeps you on your toes and helps you stay in a strong frame. Falling for a girl like that could be devastating though seeing as she has no emotional investment in you. On the other hand if she isn't seeing anyone else You are the only guy that she is fucking. Making you more valueable in her eyes and giving you more power since you have the abundance to see other girls. Nothing is more validating than a girl begging for you to give her the D and not having to work for it quite as much the first sexual encounter with her.



There are some negatives to Sleeping with these girls. Since time equals comfort and comfort builds trust, Someone is going to catch feelings. If you are a icy pimp  it might not be you, But then you still have the problem of a girl being emotionally attached to you when you have nothing but a physically attraction to her. She begins to get needy and interfere with your life. Always calling you and sending you texts getting mad at you for seeing other girls even though it was implied that you will only have sex. Sooner later you need to cut these girls off and move onto something new and exciting. Alternatetively you can go on to date these girls. I wouldn't advice this unless it is truly a girl of class with an abundant life of her own. If you do it for lack of abundance you will backward spiral your skills and hardwork ultimately falling into a scarcity with women




Ultimately you want to move onto bigger and better things. Staying with the same boring girl is nothing to be proud of. "fuck buddies" are good to pump your state, Give you sexual abundance, and Help you realise that you are enough "confidence, Entitlement, Etc." Once you have achieved these things it is better to move onto a girl that is more challenging not only when it comes to sex but also in social interactions. A girl that keeps you on your toes in a relationship is good because it keeps you in the zone will help you to stay in a flow state without countless lays or meaningless sex. If you are a naturally horny guy you may want to fuck other girls while seeing this one girl. This is considered socially acceptable to an extent. Commiting such an act when you have vowed to be with this girl through Marridge, a Verbal agreement ( I love you girl.) or other commitments that you made to her Will result in backlash and might give you a negative repuation. That being said a girl might be ok with this if you set the right frame (marridge being the exeption.)


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You are one of the fabled Pua's people talk about on the internet. You have dedicated your life to going out and interacting with attractive women. But theres one fatal flaw in your plan to conquerer the pussy. You don't know where to find it. That does create quite a problem. It shouldn't be too hard to find gorgeous women in your city, But you can't seem to do it. For days you scour pickup forums for such advice with no luck. At last you stumble upon this article and you believe your troubles are gone forever!

Ok lets get real for a minute. Being a pick up artist isn't cool anymore. Socializing with women and being a  naturally attractive man is. So Grow up and be a man.
Most people don't step out of their social circles to meet people. The fact that you are part of the small majority of people willing to do that shows alot character and bravery. If done correctly this will produce great results.
So You ask "Where do I meet these women? I assume that you want women of class and not some drugged up 19 yr old cunts. There are quite a few great places to meet classy women. Clubs are alright but it is hard to find class in such a venue. (there are exceptions)

After work drinks.

Tested by the Legendary Rsd Alexander, After work drinks proves to be a great way to meet single classy girls in your city. After working their 9 to 5 job what better way to relax than going to a nice bar with a few friends and having a few drinks. These girls don't get too wasted so it is easier to have a solid interaction with them and the enviroment is less overwhelming so it's easier to set up an insta-date with them set up the day two or casually go home with them.



Coffee shops.

This is my personal favorite place to meet girls. Every type of girl drinks coffee. Alot of the time a girl will be sitting alone or with her friends. This is the perfect opportunnity for an insta-date. You could go about getting a quick number But I this is not my style of "Game" and I would advice against it unless you have very solid text game. Even then it can be quite difficult to get the girl out on a real date and it becomes more of a numbers game. Insta-date is always the best option. Why see her later when you can see her now. It's alot easier to fuck or start a relationship with a girl if she already has a good idea who you are. Coffee shops are always a great start to the Insta-date but be sure to move things along to a more intimate location.




Festivals

I have gotten some solid success from festivals. It's like a huge party on the street. My favorite are cultural festivals or gay pride festivals (very sexually open straight/Bi girls.) But any festival is good. There is tons of people to approach that are waiting to be absorbed into the enviroment. Approach. Find a solid set. Show them a good time and bring to closing location. Festival game is #1 in terms of same day lays, As long as you have a sex location close by. Also very solid for setting up a day 2 or Date as long as you set the right frame



The streets.

This is probably the most random in terms of quality, But also where you find the hidden gems in your city. Personally I don't like stopping girls on the street, But that does not Mean I will not do it if I see a girl worth the approach. Usually they are going somewhere or doing something. Screen logistics quick for insta-date or second date. I get alot of flaking through street sets since most of them are short interactions but I have fucked a few girls from such an approach, And you can too. What girl wouldn't want a guy to sweep her off of her feet and show you a good time in such an unexpected way. It's a scene straight out of her favorite romance movie and if done correctly will get you the results you are looking for.




So there you have it. Some solids locations in which to meet the right kind of women. Good luck, Until next time.
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This article isn't neccisarily for newbies. The content would imply that you already have some sucess with women and you are looking to tweek your game in certain ways to make a girls expirience with you gratifying unique and sensational. This does not mean that someone knew to Cold approach pickup would not learn something of value, But with more expirience you will gain the references that are prodominant in the situations I will talk about.

So, Since you ciicked on the title I assume that you have the problem of keeping a girl around and being a part of your life. If this is the case I am here to help. Girls are fickle and emotional creatures that scare easily and make rash decisions based on not logic but "Emotion." Understanding this is a very important part of understanding how to persuade a women into being a part of your life for an extended amount of time. If you are thinking about this in a logical way, You have already failed. Opening up your mind and tapping into your emotional self might prove to be beneficial in this situation.
Let's ask the question everyone is asking. What can you do to keep a girl interested in your so she won't

A) Break up with you threw text, While your left standing there with your dick in your hand
Or
B) Get caught gagging on some other guys disco stick, Saying things like It's not you its me.

Girls want what they don't have. A strong sense of reality (consiousness) and emotional stability. As a man (from a biological standpoint) This is your responsibilty. By nature males are the more dominant gender that provide for the girl, give her a strong sense of stability and act as the emotional anchor to they're eitherwise emotionally hectic life . So why would you Expect her to take the responsibilty in a sexual or emotional situation. Girls ,especially attractive ones, Have tons of options. Think of it like this. Everyday they go out into the world they have 25-50 guys validating them (assuming they live in a big city) putting off vibes that they either want to fuck them or date them. Most of these guys are chodes but some are men of value. Can you compete with 80% of the men out there? If not you may have a problem when Keeping girls of quality (Girls in which you may some day want to marry)
You need to build a strong frame or Sense of self so the girl can cling onto it as a reflection of who she is and what she stands for. You need to be emotionally stable ( Being free of insecure, angry or beta thoughts brought on by the girl) so that she can feel comfortable and sustainable when she is having those same thoughts. Be the fucking man not the woman. Take all the responsiblity off of her so that she can function as the cute, fun and stress free girl you want her to be.  The best part of doing this is that you are the only guy that can make her feel this way. (obvoiusly there are other men that know these principles, but if she is emotionally invested in you enough she will have no thought of other guys because her RAS "reticular activation system" is solely focused on your and the value "good emotions" you bring to her life.




How does one make a girl emotionally invested in himself? Confidence, Or having a strong perception of who he is and what he stands for/strives for, And non reactive interaction with the girl.

You've heard it before. Confidence is key. having a strong sense of self and a solid reality is something that girls go ape shit for. The reason being is that they Themselves do not have it. Yes a girl can portray confidence and even have a very strong reality but without positive re-enforcement (validation) most girls Confidence crumles and they return to they're shy and insecure selfs. You need to the be the one with core confidence so she can feed off of that energy and feel fufilled in this area of her life. A concept that goes along with this is being non - reactive to anything the girl throws at you to change your emotional state. You are in charge of your emotions and you decide how they will be monopolized. When doing so the girl realizes that what she is doing is quite dumb and since you are a man of value she will not change the way you feel about yourself. This is highly arousing since most men do not put off these vibes. This mindset is what tells a girl that you are a true man and not some boy trying to portray yourself as a man.



Just remember deep down no matter how Tough a girl tries to act, she is just an emotional little creature. Don't let this affect you and she will be at the mercy of your manhood. ( AKA Your dick. )

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Starting a conversation with a girl is the most important part of seducing a woman. The truth is, If you didn't go talk to her you wouldn't really stand a chance of sleeping with her "off of cold approach pickup" (This isn't status approach or fame approach) Most guys have what us "Pua's" call approach anxiety or "AA".  This fear stops them from approaching and talking with girls that they are interested in and creates multiple problems In many areas of their life "not taking action at work, Not expressing their opinion infront of social peers, Etc" Though this article isn't solely about approach anxiety it is something that you will have to overcome when starting a conversation with a girl. So lets get started. In this article I will be talking about things like your "Opener", Talking ALOT, Staying in set, Holding your frame, And  Conveying your personality,


The opener.


The opener doesn't mean shit. People who say otherwise are chodes. My favorite line is Hi, Whats your name. Keeping it simple makes the girl feels more comfortable With someone she just met. She can see your just a normal and social guy. Not some weirdo trying to *pick her up* You don't need to be chauvinistic By using cheesy openers or canned material. If you say it with congruence and self amusement these lines can work very well, But I like to keep things calm and calibrated when dealing with most women since they get spooked very easily.



Talking ALOT.

The easiest way to built comfort is to talk ALOT. Giving your opinions on everything and naturaly expressing yourself, Is a sure fire way to build rapport and gain trust (when you have internalized the belief that there is no reason why you are not enough.) In the girls eyes, If you were a creep or had a secret agenda "trying to fuck her" You would have already said or done it so she knows that whatever you say must have truth in it. It also takes alot of burden off of her, Since most girls run out of things to say quite fast. They don't go out and socialize with people 5 days a week like Most guys studying the Beliefs taught through Real social dynamics.



Staying in set.

This is something that Rsd Alexander Drilled in my head and has helped me achieve alot of success.
I've literally had girls say "Fuck off. No one wants you here. Why are you still here I said get the fuck away from me, stop talking to me you fucking creep." and still have her Following me around like a dog and telling me how amazing I am. (Have social awareness. If you are genuinely being creepy or no one in the group wants you to be there you should probably leave.) In most cases the girl is just being a little brat. There is no reason why you are not enough. You know more about yourself than this girl could ever know about you so don't take anything personal, And be sure not to let it affect you emotionally (she wins the frame battle) Just stay in set, express yourself (Negatively and positively) and help make the girl or girl's Feel comfortable with you (The stranger) Time is your ally and best friend when talking with people.



Holding your frame.

Girls are fucking bitches. Just kidding. But they will throw shit your way to see how you react to it. (consiously or unconsiously) Don't. Reacting to them will make you low value in they're eyes, Because you give the power to them. Hold your frame and be truthful in your intentions. If you are 100% honest from the beginning how can they call you out on being an asshole, Or how creepy you are?  Girls do this to make sure you are a man and not a Beta male. Think of these "Shit tests" as something that is positive instead of negative. If she throws these tests your way it means that she is intrigued by you and with time you can build arousal with this girl. Make sure you don't fall into her frame or "reality" Because like I said before you give all the power to her and she will find you instantly unnattractive.



Conveying your personality.

You need to show the girl what kind of guy you are so she can learn to be comfortable around you and know what you are about on a basic level. Most guys are all over the place when talking with people they view as higher value. They will react to them and create opinion based around the person they are trying to impress. Don't do this. Be completely honest with who you are and what you are about. Being unapologietic might elicit tests but because you have a very strong frame and clear, Harmless intentions they will be totally destroyed with time. A woman can not sleep with a man until She knows what kind of man He is. Show her what kind of man you are, And then whip out your dick and slap her with it.


These 5 steps should leave the girl breathless when talking to you. Now all you need to do is make you scream your name while you pull her hair and plow her like you are a  fucking lion
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Getting a girlfriend is the kind of thing every man should be able to do. It is a sad reality that most men go full retard when interaction with women. This is fucking pathetic and if you are a man with this problem you NEED to do something about it. Luckily for you there is a company called Real social dynamics that specializes in just that.
Real social dynamics Gives away 100's of hours of free content from a variety of styles and opinions. You would literally be learning from the best in the world when it comes to dating advice. That being said, I will now teach your some not so *secret* tips on getting a girlfriend. This is not for the faint of heart. This will be a hard, long, and painful journey. If you are not someone to fully commit to social dynamics directed at woman you will not have much success. It can be done, So you can do it. Put in the work and you will achieve the results.



Now on to the advice about getting a stunning girlfriend that you actually want to be with, And not because you are desperate, can't attract a worth while girl, Or lack the social skills meet interesting women.

First things first. This may hurt but it's somethings you may just need to admit to yourself.

Are you a beta male?
What makes a beta male you may ask? Not taking action. Following instead of leading. Taking it up the ass via girls (metaphorically speaking) "Buying drinks out neediness, Giving her all of your power, etc"
Being a needy little and treating the girl like she is a princess even though she is just like every other girl you meet with. The only difference is that She has traits you are attracted to, Which is nice but ultimately a burden since it makes you emotionally invested in a girl you don't even know. Seroiusly think about it. Why would a girl want to be with a guy that thinks he is beneath her. It's one thing to fuck that guy and never see him again but to be in a commited relationship with a chode? she would be stupid to do something like that. Why would she want to integrate a socially retarded monkey into her life and share her deepest and most sincere feelings with him. Don't be that daft. If you have symptoms of beta male sydrome it is adviced you attend your nearest freetour with Real social dynamics and listen to what they have to say. It could save you life.



Are you interesting?

Take a step back and look at your life. Do you have hobbies? Are you passionate about anything? When having a conversation with people do you express your full opinion regardless of the backlash? If not This is a problem. Why would you expect a woman to want to date a boring guy. It's like your saying plsss plsss help me. I'm soo fucking below you, If I could just be with you I would feel happy inside and give My beta male existence meaning. Fuck that shit brah. If you want a quality girl you have to be a quality guy. Pick up a fucking guitar. Take some dancing lessons. make videos of your stupid adventures in your major city. Do anything and you will start to become more interesting. Girls like men not boys. Be a man.

Do you have an abundant lifestyle?

 A girl wants to be with a guy that has options. Someone that is already pre selected by woman So she knows that you are a cool guy without having to really know that much about you. When you have abundance you put off a certain vibe. She can feel the energy you give off and it puts her into a comfortable headspace when around you knowing she doesn't have to worry about you being a fucking chode. When you give off abundant vibes girls will literally throw themselves at you. It's a nice position to be in and if handled properly will put you in the right state of mind to get the high class girl you want.




If you build an interesting and abundant life while work at bettering yourself as a man everyday girls will always be wanting to date you since you are one of the lucky few to get past social conditioning and change your shitty fucking life. Good luck brother.
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Getting a girlfriend is the kind of thing every man should be able to do. It is a sad reality that most men go full retard when interaction with women. This is fucking pathetic and if you are a man with this problem you NEED to do something about it. Luckily for you there is a company called Real social dynamics that specializes in just that.
Real social dynamics Gives away 100's of hours of free content from a variety of styles and opinions. You would literally be learning from the best in the world when it comes to dating advice. That being said, I will now teach your some not so *secret* tips on getting a girlfriend. This is not for the faint of heart. This will be a hard, long, and painful journey. If you are not someone to fully commit to social dynamics directed at woman you will not have much success. It can be done, So you can do it. Put in the work and you will achieve the results.



Now on to the advice about getting a stunning girlfriend that you actually want to be with, And not because you are desperate, can't attract a worth while girl, Or lack the social skills meet interesting women.

First things first. This may hurt but it's somethings you may just need to admit to yourself.

Are you a beta male?
What makes a beta male you may ask? Not taking action. Following instead of leading. Taking it up the ass via girls (metaphorically speaking) "Buying drinks out neediness, Giving her all of your power, etc"
Being a needy little and treating the girl like she is a princess even though she is just like every other girl you meet with. The only difference is that She has traits you are attracted to, Which is nice but ultimately a burden since it makes you emotionally invested in a girl you don't even know. Seroiusly think about it. Why would a girl want to be with a guy that thinks he is beneath her. It's one thing to fuck that guy and never see him again but to be in a commited relationship with a chode? she would be stupid to do something like that. Why would she want to integrate a socially retarded monkey into her life and share her deepest and most sincere feelings with him. Don't be that daft. If you have symptoms of beta male sydrome it is adviced you attend your nearest freetour with Real social dynamics and listen to what they have to say. It could save you life.



Are you interesting?

Take a step back and look at your life. Do you have hobbies? Are you passionate about anything? When having a conversation with people do you express your full opinion regardless of the backlash? If not This is a problem. Why would you expect a woman to want to date a boring guy. It's like your saying plsss plsss help me. I'm soo fucking below you, If I could just be with you I would feel happy inside and give My beta male existence meaning. Fuck that shit brah. If you want a quality girl you have to be a quality guy. Pick up a fucking guitar. Take some dancing lessons. make videos of your stupid adventures in your major city. Do anything and you will start to become more interesting. Girls like men not boys. Be a man.

Do you have an abundant lifestyle?

 A girl wants to be with a guy that has options. Someone that is already pre selected by woman So she knows that you are a cool guy without having to really know that much about you. When you have abundance you put off a certain vibe. She can feel the energy you give off and it puts her into a comfortable headspace when around you knowing she doesn't have to worry about you being a fucking chode. When you give off abundant vibes girls will literally throw themselves at you. It's a nice position to be in and if handled properly will put you in the right state of mind to get the high class girl you want.




If you build an interesting and abundant life while work at bettering yourself as a man everyday girls will always be wanting to date you since you are one of the lucky few to get past social conditioning and change your shitty fucking life. Good luck brother.
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Shy guys always have insane game. It seems strange though. They don't say much or do "anything"( or so you would think) and they still get gorgeous classy girls. They out-game any of the intense energetic *fun* guys and will steal your girl just by looking at them. It seems so surreal But makes alot of sense when you know what their secret is. Congruence. Confidence.  Consistency. Social awareness. reference expiriences.
If you are one of the shy guys that isn't good with women maybe you are lacking these 5 things. Being good with women shouldn't be an option. It should be a neccisity. Make it a priority in life so you don't end up like most men either unhappy, Or even worse, Alone.


1.Congruence

Congruence is the holy grail of meeting women. It takes all techniques and lines and fucks them in the ass. Being congruent is to be completely honest in everything you do and feel. If you are feeling shy. Show that you are shy. If you are feeling expressing and outgoing, By all means show it. You can even be nervous as hell and still pull it off as long as you congruent with the fact that you are nervous. Nothing is worse than someone who tries to be super high energy and crazy when all they really want to do is relax. It comes off as try hard and results oriented, Those are both very unnattractive traits to girls. Project how you feel to the girl and she will know that you are being honest with not only her, But yourself. It's better to just chill out and relaxed instead of trying to force yourself into state. Meeting women should be fun and stress releaving, The other way around. Just relax and be true to yourself in the situation you are in the with the girl.




2. Confidence

There is no reason why you are not enough. So why would it matter if you were shy? Girls like a guy that is confident in the actions that he makes. Being shy is just a reflection of your personality and does not affect your ability with women. What does affect your "game is what you think of yourself. If you are able to go talk to girls and enjoy yourself rather than be deathly afraid of them. Just because you are a natural introvert instead of extrovert doesn't mean you are incapable of having social skills. Building self worth, self asteem and personal boundries will change the way that people look and interact with you no matter what kind of personality you have.


3. Consistency

Consistency to me is keeping a consistent state of mind Or Having a consistent frame. This is turn gives you consistent results with women because they know what kind of guy you are and what to expect from you on an emotional level. You aren't the kind of guy to go all bi polar on her when she does something stupid and when she gives you tests you are consistent with who you are and what you believe. being shy does not affect this but in alot of ways could benefit you because it would make alot of girls chase.



4. social awareness

Being socially aware is very important when meeting women. To be good with women and date quality girls you need to be able to meet alot of them. Going into a social situation and knowing what you are up against is a good skill to have. Nothing is worse than being a socially retarded monkey that doesn't know what to do when thrown into a situation with other people. It's quite sad but most people are like this and social conditioning re-enforces it. Don't be one of those people. They are pathetic and Unless they have things deemed valuable by society "good looks, money, Etc"  Usally never get a girl, let alone a girl of quality.

5. Reference expiriences

The number one way to get good with women fast Is Gaining as many reference expiriences as possible. What this does is gives you a database of memories which you can access at any time. It is always easier to get the girl when you have gotten close 3-4 times. It helps you push yourself alot harder when the results right there in front of you and then having them taken away. Pain is a great motivator and reference expiriences are full of pain. Make no mistake though, They also hold great knowledge. Nothing is better than real life expirience in the field. So go out and test what works and does not work for you. If you are shy see how people react to you being congruent and confident in your shyness. You will be surprised once you have implimented these 5 "secrets" how peoples opinion and dominor change when being around you.

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Signs a girl likes you. An interesting concept. It is hard for some people to tell if a girl likes them off of cold approach pickup. They would think IOI's are the sole interpreter of her feelings towards you but in reality these are bullshit. When a girl knows nothing about you she will not Truthfully give you anything you can work with. Alot of the time she will act disinterested or even tell you to go away. It's because you are a random person and she doesn't want to give up her power that easily, After all people only have as much power as you give them. If she did she wouldn't be a very sought after girl.

Indicators of interest or "IOI's" are meaningless. A girl flipping her hair or smiling at you does not mean that she likes you. It means that at that time she was flipping her hair or smiling at you. That's it. A true indicator of interest is subtle. The true indicator of interest is quite and attentive. If an attractive girl with lots of options is staying there talking with you and enjoying herself she is interested. If she's not walking away when she could be talking with other guys or hanging out with her friends, She is interested.
It takes time for a girl to open up with you and built enough trust to let herself feel comfortable around you. Once you have spent time with her and kept a consistent state of being or "frame" she knows what to expect from you and can let her guard down. This is when a girl will start to decide if she likes  you or not. The best way to react to this is keeping the same consistent state of being. Just have fun around her and do whatever makes you feel comfortable and relaxed in the situiation. She will fall into your frame and your emotions will be transfered onto her. It literally is that easy. A girl isn't going to decide in only a few minutes if she likes you or not. It just doesn't work like that. If you are a rockstar or have social status it is different. If you are in her social circle and know all of her close friends it is different But even then You have spent time with her and her friends so They already have a solid opinion of what your about.



Now that you know IOI's are useless in cold approach pickup, You can start to learn to right way to Built arousal instead of worrying if the girl likes you or not. Trust in your faculties. You are enough.

So what is it that Truly makes a girl like you? Being chilled out. Being the same guy start to finish and showing your true intentions and personality from the start. Being the kind of guy that is totally indifferent to the situation and has no outcome. Girls will sense if you are a guy that is going out with the sole purpose of getting laid or if you are just an naturally attractive guy that leads throughout the night and brings fun and arousal everywhere he goes.
If you are a man that does not doubt himself (confident), naturally expresses himself, and are physical when the time calls for it you have nothing to worry about. As long as you take action you will get the kind of girls you want in your life. It takes time, trial and error, And Alot of pain. In the end it's worth it though. You can say you are truly happy with the girls in your life, Unlike most men in the world. And when you lose a girl or have to end it, You will know how to find a girl of the same caliber or in most cases one that is even better!


Becoming naturally attractive is a long journey but one that is truly fufilling. It benefits you in many area's of your life and not just with women. Be the man with abundance, indifference, empathy, And a arousing personality And you will never worry about if a girl likes you or not

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Hey chodes! Today I will be teaching you how to get a girls number. First, Find your pick up line. This is literally the most important part. Saying something like "Who lies more, Men or women" ALWAYS works. Remember even if your a pathetic piece of shit, Using a good pickup line Work 40% of the time, 100% of the time.  Staying in set, Building a connection with the girl, Believe that you are entitled to her and in the end actually fucking her? Not important! Because YOU can get the girls number and have that 3 seconds of validation before you resort back to internet porn and hot pockets!



For those who thought I was serious, Kill yourself. Just kidding. But seriously rethink your life. Getting a girls number doesn't mean shit. Just because she gives you her number doesn't mean she will go on a date with you and it certainly doesn't mean she will let you stick your penis inside of her. Look at these guys. They get numbers from girls by doing literally nothing! It may look impressive but it doesn't mean they are getting any results.



Like.. Wut mate?
Fuck this numbers shit.
This article is now about Fucking the girl and not the number.
So you may ask. "How does one spark intercourse with an attractive woman" It's quite easy actually once you follow a few Things I learned from Real social dynamics.

1. Being a Normal cunt.
No girl wants a guy that is nervous around her and treats her like she is special. She knows she is not special and would to be treated accordingly. That's why  hot girls like douchebags. They know they are horrible human beings and the douchebags re-enforce it. Go up to a girl and Say Hey, What is your name. Non of this "Who lies more, Men or women" Bullchit. Literally just be normal and go talk to them. Spend time with the girl and know that you are enough so there is no reason why you cannot sleep with her. Men are attracted to women and women are attracted to men. Be a man.




2.Dealing with her Shit.

girls will test you to make sure your a sexy worthy man. Respect this and appreciate it. The girl will only test you if she think's your a candidate for sex. If she says things like " You're just trying to pick me up!" "We're lesbians" She probably wants your D. Just persist and keep a consistent mood. Your frame will outway hers and she will fall into your reality. Once she is reacting to you instead of you reacting to her You know your in the clear. now all you need to do is be there there at the end of the night and befriend her friends. It will ensure the love making proccess.



3.Being there at the right time.

Not every girl is going to sleep with you but Even major chodes get laid.
By:
1. Making moves
2. Being there at the end of the night, or in isolation with the girl.
3. relating to her man to woman instead of friend to friend
You don't need good game if you are in the social circle and have enough entitlement to make the moves at the right time. Bassicly follow alexanders natural instincts method. Internalizing that information will drasticallyy change your results at whatever level your at. (assuming you take massive action and gain referance points.)



4. Show casing your personality


Show this bish who you are, So she knows how to act accordingly. Are you the kind of guy that fucks a girl after one or two dates, Or are you the kind of guy that waits six months for the relationship while she fucks another more alpha guy. She can say "I don't do that this early." " I just met you" These are just  Objections you need to overcome. Be socially calibrated enough to know when she really doesn't want you to "I'm not comfortable with this" " I will not put the lotion on my skin" is not advocated but frowned upon. Just know that because a girl said she wants or does not want something doesn't mean there is truth in it. You need to be the Man and take the responsibilty off of her so she can relax and enjoy herself. Men are the more dominant gender naturally, So be naturally dominant.



5. Learning from your mistakes.


Don't make the same mistakes. Learn from what you did Wrong. Take the positives and discard the negatives. Next time you go into a similar situation you will have a better idea of what to do and can calibrate accordingly.




Stop choding about trying to get validation from a number, And start fucking women that you enjoy being with.
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Dating can be scary. But it doesn't have to be. Alot of it is in your mind. It doesn't help that media re-enforces negative stereotypes like Blind dates being awkward and Knowing someone through a social circle before even giving them a chance. Socializing with people you don't know is quite strange for most people. Then again most people are socially retarded. Being able to find and date the kind of girl you want is something that you should know how to do as a man. Not having the proper skills to meet women is something that you should be worried about and work towards fixing. If you are reading this you are already taking to first step but the best advice I can give you is to Take action! You can read all the self help you want but if you don't used what you've learned in the field you won't see any progression.

Dating is normal and casual. You need to believe this in order for it to be true. Single women want to meet an alpha guy and have great sex. If Indeed these girls do want to date someone and casually sleep with someone Then why can't it be you? You are  the best avaliable option for ANY girl Because you are working on bettering yourself as a human being and understand that life is a journey and not a day to day struggle.
What I'd like to showcase  now is  a few things that will help you to improve your Success when meeting and dating women. (Things will not change if you do not take MASSIVE action.)positive reframes and how mind fucking yourself into believing something will better your results in not only this area but many area's of your life. Knowing how to deal with rejection is something that is very valuable to you since it helps you let go of your ego and outcome of the situation. Expressing yourself and your personal boundries lets the girl know what kind of guy you are so She can feel comfortable around you and let herself fall into arousal. These three things are quite important when dealing with not only women but people also and will benefit you in more ways than one once you have internalized the knowledge. Let me explain them in a little more detail.

Positive reframes.

This is something Julien (Rsd intstructor) Talks about alot. If you are not familiar with him there will be a video posted with his opinion on this subject. Reframes are bassicly changing the way things are percieved. You can use this to your advantage when working towards being arousing to women. An example of a positive reframe is saying you are the most attractive man out there. Is it neccisarily true? no but If you truly believe it you will project the feeling onto the girl and she will fall into you frame. Another is believing that every girl wants to be approached. Realisticly not every girl wants a guy to talk to her but when you are the one setting the frame she falls into that mindset and is quite happy when you talk to her.




Dealing with rejection.

Not every girl is going to like you. When you are just starting to "date" there is going to be ALOT of girls that don't like you, Or Flake on you. You could fall into a victim state of mind and feel like a creepy piece of shit that no one wants to talk to, Or you can realise that this is a part of life and since this is something you are inexpirienced with you will need trial and error to get better. You can't get everygirl and trust me you don't want to. Being able to deal with rejection is what sets the men apart from the boys. Do not let rejection Change the  way that you feel. It is not a reflection of who you are, After all this girl knows nothing about you how could she decide if she likes you or not.



"Just being yourself"

There is a reason You are told to "just be yourself" When you Are "being yourself" You are naturally expressive and genuine with your likes and dislikes. You call a girl out when she is doing something you don't agree with and will not tolerate her bratty-ness no matter how attracted you are to her. If you do not have personal boundries yet or don't know how to express them you will have to go out and gain the reference expiriences in order to properly convey your true self. This will mean.. More rejection! Get use to it.




Alright. Now that you have finished reading this I want you to GO OUT and apply what you have read in this article. Don't be a theory junkie, be the guy that gets the results he is looking for.

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