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         " I need to take her out to a 5 star
    restaurant and pay for EVERYTHING "


First dates are the most fun for me. I get to drag the girl around town doing whatever I want, Spending little to no cash on her or myself while still enjoying each others company. Most people think that the first date is the hardest But they couldn't be more wrong. It's the perfect opportunnity to express yourself and convey your true personality. coincidentally it's best way to get a girl from the date into a relationship. Because she feels like she's known you for years. You are completely honest with who you are and what you are about. Taking action whenever you want and leading the interaction so she can fully experience what you are about.
When first dating or getting back into the "Game" you might need a litle help when thinking of where to go on your "First date" Since I am a veteran of First dates and not much else I will give you some helpful advice.


Date locations.


1. Coffee shops.


Coffee shops, Or "Cafe's" are my favorite place to meet women. Great insta-date location, Since you are already at a place where you can sit down and talk. The girl is not going anywhere so logistics are in your favour. Be sure to move her somewhere else though, Staying at one location can get old and will make the interaction less solid.


2. Parks, Nature.

This is a great way to spend some alone time. You can talk about how passionate you are about the enviroment and how you like getting blowjobs in the middle of the forest. since you are in a quite secluded area there is no worry about isolation. I have fucked girls in the forest before and I will do it again. If you are more conservative though, Spend this time building trust and comfort until you see her again.

3. Downtown.

Assuming you live in a major city, (If not move to one.) There is always interesting events and activities Downtown. You would be surprised how many girls don't know their own city and how much of a new experience it is to walk around and sight see. Don't make it into a tourist attraction but more a locals guide to the city. This is great if you live downtown, If you bounce her from location to location bringing her to your house won't elicit as many defenses. This is how I get the majority of my same day lays.



4. Anything hands on.

Make it fun. This is your opportunnity to show the girl how awesome you are. Believe that you are enough and lead the interaction in a direction you wll be happy with. Take her to a festival or a event you are passionate about. "Sports,Music,Art) It will show her you are a real person that does interesting and fun things in his spare time. No one wants a boring mate. If you are boring however you might want to work on your lifestyle a little more.

5. Your place.

This is the best possible option. In most cases sleeping with the girl the first day is nthe best choice if you plan on seeing her again. (there are exceptions) I am personally more about creating relationships with girls. (and then sleeping with them) But if you are about getting lays or do not have the chance to see this girl again Go for the close! Either way bringing the girl to your house is solid. You are in isolation with her and can build trust and comfort. This is very important when starting a relationship or going for the same day lay.



I hope this article helped you. Remember to keep it simple. The ones that make it complicated never get congradulated. Meaning complicate things and you will not fuck this girl.

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                                             " Is she keen?"

Getting your dream girl can be intimidating and make you quite insecure. When you "Actually" like a girl you tend to get jealous. Imagining she is doing things that she isn't and and seeing men that She isn't. Expressing your paranoid thoughts could be seen as an accusation if you are coming from a place of scarcity which is highly unnattractive. Doubting yourself will be your downfall. Assume entitlement, And put in the work to make it deserved.
The ideas I want to express in this article are:
How to determine if she is a worth while girl, That you truly want to keep.
Getting the girl and knowing your deserve her.
Starting a relationship and keeping it lively
Being abundant in your lifestyle and staying on your path as a man.


Determining if she is worth your time.

You are a man of value. If you don't believe it that's an inner game issue you need to adress. Don't be the seller but the buyer. If you want to keep a girl interested and have her be a part of your life you must determine if she is worth the time you are going to put into her. I love women but there are alot of bratty and immature girls. Most are not emotionally stable enough to hold down a man and will use men for Money, Status, Or fame just because they can. Don't settle for less. Meet alot of women, Find one that fits into your lifestyle, Spend some time with her to get a general idea of what she is like and determine whether or not you want her.



Getting the girl and assuming entitlement.

Once I have a girl she is hooked. But getting her to bite is the hardest part. Classy girls with busy lives and hectic schedules don't have alot of free time. When they do they want to spend it with a guy that gives them positive emotions and takes the stress off of them. It is hard to get your foot in the door and get a stunning dime piece to invest in you, But once you do the only thing you have to worry about is assuming your value and knowing that you are entitled to be with this girl. Insecurity and jealousy will be your downfall. Don't fall into scarcity and be a man that is truly confident in himself. After all. There is no reason why you are not enough.





Starting relationship and keeping it alive.

The first month of the relationship is usually a period of good behaviour and positive emotions. It's easy to be happy with each other for such a short amount of time but after a while things get boring and usually you both fall into a routine. Doing things like going out for dinner every friday to the same restaurant, Watching your favorite T.V. show on netflix. Or Going out and visiting with friends your don't really like. To keep things alive and fresh you need to be spontaneous and Creative. Surprise her with things she will enjoy like a going for a hike or taking a walk around your city. Find out what interests you share and suggest activities that fit your lifestyles.



Being abundant and staying on your path as a man.

You wouldn't like it if a girl was constently bugging your trying to spend every waking minute with you. I personally love a girl that has things going on in her life and has goals and aspirations. This tends to make them less needy, More confident, And makes the time you do spend together more enjoyable. It is important to have Hobbies on top of your daily responsibilities. If you have all this free time on your hands make yourself more busy. Take up ballroom dancing or pick up a guitar. Anything that you enjoy doing and takes your mind off of her so you can focus more on yourself. Don't misinterperet this and be totally selfish towards her but know that you have to make yourself happy before you can make anyone else happy. The last thing you want to do is push her away. Let her have her free time and set ground rules so you also have yours.





There you have it. A simple articel about keeping a girl interested long term or a guide to a long term relationship
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                                         " Bond. James bond."

The ideas I will express in this article are some of self amusement and some that require serious mental disipline. I will showcase some of my favorite "pickup lines" and also share a more advanced approach to the situation that will help you focus less on the approach and more on the process. Internilizing the free information Real social dynamics has to offer will help you immensily when progressing with women, But in order to internalize it you must Go out!

Pick up lines are really corny. Not all but some girls wil be turned off by them, Especially if you are saying them for a reaction. If you are nervous But still approach the girl by saying something Like Hey how's it going, (Showing the intent that you want to talk to her) and have a normal conversation with her She is more likely to talk to you because even though you are nervous about speaking with her you did it in a congruent way. Saying something like "I want to lick nutella off your booty" when you are nervous is something that will get you a slap in the face. However saying it when you are in "State, or Relaxed arousal" would probably leave you with good results. The reason for this is congruency. If you are fucking around, Having fun and totally free of outcome saying something like that to a girl will be perceived as Cocky funny and will intrigue her since most men can't pull off such a phrase. congruence is key. Saying outrageous comments when you are not socially calibrated (Nervous) will results in backlash, Coming off creepy and having people judge you negatively




Now that I you have read some theory you will have a better idea of how you should use these "Pick up lines"



Solid pick up lines "Openers".


"Hey, How's it going?"
Solid. Simple. Sex.

"You, Dog, Come."
Not for newbies.

"Defend yourself!"
*Grab straw and aim at her like a sword*
Fun and efficient!

"Can I tell you a little secret.."
And just as her face lights up, walk away.
Heheheh.

"Hand of god"
Grab her hand to achieve Zyzz status.
No words still solid.

"Hey, I thought you were cute."
Should only use when in abundance.

"You."
Assume value!

" Uhh Hi.. I'm really nervous."
Stay congruent!

" I'm going to you with a chicken wing."
For those saucy brats.

"Makeout"
PULL!

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"What do I do now?!"


Guys having trouble progressing usually ask this question. "what do I do now?"
It's simple. Stay in set. Talk. Surf logistics "Set up insta-date/date" If you do this when you truly believe that there is no reason why you are not enough you will be naturally attractive to girls and there will be no reason to use an outrageous "Pick up line" for any other reason than self amusement. Once you realise that talking with people is normal "especially in a bar or club setting" You will feel alot more comfortable approaching people and you will get better reactions which will make it easier to deal with the girl. Remember somebodies got to do it. It might as well be you.



Something I Believe Every man can learn from is Field experience. Going out in the field and gaining the references to re-enforce the beliefs you want to have when working to become a naturally attractive man. For example when You say "What do I do now?" Stay in set and endure the pain of being retarded in this situation. It will give you a reference point that you can use in the future as a tool. They will make you more prepared and give you a solid idea of what you SHOULD do. Just go out and fucking learn. When you are out socializing with people you will become more socially aware and with time quite socially intelligent. You won't need to ask What do I do next because you will instinctively do it.






If you would like me to go into more detail on anything that I covered in this or other articles, Please comment! Eitherwise the RSD instructor videos should answer anything you need to know.|

Until next time.
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Wing dependency is a seroius pandemic in the pick up community. Going out with wings is great! They help "pump your state" and give you the motivation to keep approach. But wings can also be used as a crutch and an excuse to not push yourself to your true potential. Being wing dependant will hurt your game in more ways than one. To only go out or approach women when you have buddies around that make it socially acceptable is pathetic. Approaching people is Normal. You shouldn't need reasurance from your friends to believe this. You can argue that going out with wings produces better results since you are in a "flow state" but I would have to disagree. Some of the best interactions and pulls have been alone. The reason for this is that I was completely alone. There was no one to go back to if I fucked it up. It was do or die. Either I am going to make this solid or I am going to be alone today and tonight. Something that I cannot stand. This is my motivation. This is what makes my truly push myself. I would reccomend that you also find motivation in loneliness if you have wing dependancy. It has helped me alot and has pushed me to get the kind of girls I know I deserve.


But How does one kick the habit of wing dependancy. Going out alone can be scary and demoralizing. Talking to girls without the reasurance of friends seems socially unacceptable. And when you get rejected There is no one to bring you back into state.. What do you do?
Stop making excuses and plow through the bullshit. Face your fear and do the things that scare you. It will help you grow as a person. Wait wait to be applauded for your actions. Girls don't want a socially conditioned chode so be congruent with your actions and go talk to a girl if you are attracted to her. It might be tough at first but If you persist it will get easier over time.



 Here I will give a few Things you can do to get over your wing dependancy and how to get into social circles so you don't have to go out by yourself.



1. Get into a good mood.

Pump your own state. Being able to generate good emotions not only makes you more attractive but it also gets rid of any needy thoughts You might have when starting an interaction with people. Whether you are into tylers "state" or alexanders "relaxation" there is no doubt having fun and unwinding will help you when talking with women.


2. Approach

Why do you need wings when you have girls? Going to a club and talking to people is enough. Relax in the enviroment and talk with everyone. you see a girl or group you want to talk to say hello. Stay in set or leave depending on what time it is. (beginning of the night is good for meeting everyone and introducing yourself) Have no outcome and approach only to be social until the last few hours of the night. at this point you should have found a solid set (logistically) and be able to go for the pull when the club closes.

3. Befriend the venue


Talk to literally everyone and just be friendly. Saying hello to the Hire guns ( staff) and starting a conversation with them is a great to get comfortable in the enviroment. Talk to people even for a moment so they recognize who you are and aren't surprised when you talk to them later in the night . How can you be creepy or weird when you've met most people in the venue and are on good terms with most of them. You don't have to worry about this stuff when you integrate yourself into the venue and approach everyone. (not only the girls)

4.Pull.


Leave with a group that has solid logistics and get some fucking poon. you owe it to yourself. Remember, The front door is the most important element when it comes to closing through night game. watch it like a hawk and when they leave, leave with them. set up an after party and get in a situation with the girl wherer you are isolated so you can seal the deal.

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Dating girls is something that feels natural for me. But it wasn't always this way. Seeing quality girls on a regular basis used to be something I only dream about. Now I've started relationships with girls I used to only masterbate to.
It seemed so inconcievable at first but after a while "picking up girls" and creating relationships with them is second nature. If you like many others have trouble in this area of your life know that there is still hope. Thousands of men have turned around their sex lifes and defied genetics, So that they could live a happier and more fufilling life. Just remember men meeting women is natural and part of human nature. If it doesn't come so easily to you, You might have to work a little bit harder than other. But isn't it worth it to achieve such a goal?


This is not an article about the 7 easy steps to get a girlfriend or ask a girl out on a date. If I told you it was easy "when starting at the bottom" I would be lying to you and it wouldn't help you get where you want to be. I believe in honesty and modesty so what I will do is tell you the truth and how to work towards dating and starting relationships with girls that you are physically and emotionally attracted to.

|V|  Motivation




For some this is a long and painful road. For others it is a peaceful walk down the street. Wherever you are in your developement with women Is where you will be until you choose to make a difference. You need to acknowledge where you are and take action that is fit to where you stand. For example if you are a hard case newbie your short term goal shouldn't be to date a model. That might be something you work toward with time. (It does happen) On the other hand if you already dating girls that are quite desirable you might want to challenge yourself even more and strive for the next level.

enough with the self help banter. You are probably bored and thinking "How is this relevant to me asking girls on a date?!" I will tell you since you were kind enough to read the first couple paragraphs. Woman of quality want a real man. You want a quality woman.(if you only want mediocre girls There is something wrong with you. Work towards being a more attractive man and the women will come.

So how does one actually ask a girl out. You could spend 30 second with her, Get a number and hope for the best. Or you could create a emotional connection with her by "Spending time with her" and expressing your likes and dislikes. It's really that easy. If you are confident in yourself, She is single, and you convey your personality It is almost impossible she will not feel some sort of arousal from you. That being said not every girl will like you. It is something you will have to deal with when getting out on the mating field. If your ego can't handle it you might consider internet porn and hand lotion.



Believe it or not it is hard for a girl to find a guy that she actually wants to spend time with. Most men are chodes that could not even begin to understand how much she enjoy's wasting time with a person of the opposite sex. Yes it is easy for girls to get dates "Especially attractive ones" Since they are pre selected but that does not mean it is easy for them to start a relationship or date a guy that they genuinely like. Most women settle for a chode in the social circle, Or a total douche. There just isn't enough REAL men out there for them.
Be the one that stands out from the rest by truly expressing yourself around her. Tell her when she does something that you don't like (express your personal boundries) Use physical esculation throughout the interaction and for the love of god.. Be a fucking MAN

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Dating girls is something that feels natural for me. But it wasn't always this way. Seeing quality girls on a regular basis used to be something I only dream about. Now I've started relationships with girls I used to only masterbate to.
It seemed so inconcievable at first but after a while "picking up girls" and creating relationships with them is second nature. If you like many others have trouble in this area of your life know that there is still hope. Thousands of men have turned around their sex lifes and defied genetics, So that they could live a happier and more fufilling life. Just remember men meeting women is natural and part of human nature. If it doesn't come so easily to you, You might have to work a little bit harder than other. But isn't it worth it to achieve such a goal?


This is not an article about the 7 easy steps to get a girlfriend or ask a girl out on a date. If I told you it was easy "when starting at the bottom" I would be lying to you and it wouldn't help you get where you want to be. I believe in honesty and modesty so what I will do is tell you the truth and how to work towards dating and starting relationships with girls that you are physically and emotionally attracted to.

|V|  Motivation




For some this is a long and painful road. For others it is a peaceful walk down the street. Wherever you are in your developement with women Is where you will be until you choose to make a difference. You need to acknowledge where you are and take action that is fit to where you stand. For example if you are a hard case newbie your short term goal shouldn't be to date a model. That might be something you work toward with time. (It does happen) On the other hand if you already dating girls that are quite desirable you might want to challenge yourself even more and strive for the next level.

enough with the self help banter. You are probably bored and thinking "How is this relevant to me asking girls on a date?!" I will tell you since you were kind enough to read the first couple paragraphs. Woman of quality want a real man. You want a quality woman.(if you only want mediocre girls There is something wrong with you. Work towards being a more attractive man and the women will come.

So how does one actually ask a girl out. You could spend 30 second with her, Get a number and hope for the best. Or you could create a emotional connection with her by "Spending time with her" and expressing your likes and dislikes. It's really that easy. If you are confident in yourself, She is single, and you convey your personality It is almost impossible she will not feel some sort of arousal from you. That being said not every girl will like you. It is something you will have to deal with when getting out on the mating field. If your ego can't handle it you might consider internet porn and hand lotion.



Believe it or not it is hard for a girl to find a guy that she actually wants to spend time with. Most men are chodes that could not even begin to understand how much she enjoy's wasting time with a person of the opposite sex. Yes it is easy for girls to get dates "Especially attractive ones" Since they are pre selected but that does not mean it is easy for them to start a relationship or date a guy that they genuinely like. Most women settle for a chode in the social circle, Or a total douche. There just isn't enough REAL men out there for them.
Be the one that stands out from the rest by truly expressing yourself around her. Tell her when she does something that you don't like (express your personal boundries) Use physical esculation throughout the interaction and for the love of god.. Be a fucking MAN

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The game is simple and easy. Overcomplicating things never helped anyone. But because guys lack experience "reference points" Confidence "Core Belief that you are awesome" and the ability to just chill the fuck out "presence, Relaxed arousal." They make themselves nervous, Jumpy and creepy. Girls can feel the vibes you give off so when you feel incongruient with your emotions they pick up on it. Before you learned how to "flirt with girls" Learn how to be relaxed in most situations (especially social situiations) Be totally congruient with how you feel. While doing so go out and talk to girls. Gaining experiences will give you confidence in those situations. In short if you talk to Alot of girls you won't be nervous, anxious or creep the girl out. You will be on your way to being a naturally attractive man.



Ok, Now that that's over I will talk about what to expect from this article. Things like flashy game, Hardcore esculation and IOI's will not be adressed. These things are bassicly useless, Not producing results "sex"
But giving you a circle jerk of validation. You want to draw state from within and not rely on the girl for good emotions. If you are doing this she is in power and controls the interaction. The Idea's I will express Are quite simple and easy. Doing less is actually more. Things like expressing yourself positively and negatively will attract the girl Because you are a man that says whats on his mind. Taking action and not looking for permission. Building a connection with the girl by Being honest with yourself and your emotions.
Remember this isn't the movies. This is reality and social interaction will not be super witty and on the ball like it is in those romantic comedies you jerk off to.


Expressions

Expressing yourself is one of the most important things to do when socializing with females. "flirting"
Saying what you like and don't like and what your boundries are, Will give her an idea of what your about. Your personalities will clash and she will also express herself. This is good. It is beginning of the "flirting process"
The interaction should look like an arguement. Not to be confused with a real arguement. Think of it more as two rams butting heads to see who will win. You must push your frame and personality onto her so she can be fully immersed in your reality. When she is reacting to you and she is feeding her emotional state off of you Instead of things like the enviroment, Her friends, Other guys, You will be able to engage in this so called "flirting"
(Don't get confused. You can not arouse her as much as the club enviroment and everything in it. Let her talk to her friends, other guys, and dance the night away. But also know when to have her engaged with you. Time is your ally and you are able to approach her multiple times in the night. Let the night Arouse her, But be a part of the arousing night.)





Taking action.

The title speaks for itself. You should do the same. Do not look for permission to do anything. You are the creator of your own reality and the girl has no control over what you say are do. "Don't her"
If you want to talk to her, Do it. If you want to call her a dog, Say it. No holding back no filters just 100%
Pull her to the bathroom if you want to, Convince her to get into your cab at the end of the night and fuck her in your hotel room. It can be done so you can do it. (with massive action taking) This ties in with congruencey. Being totally honest with yourself and how you feel, Pushing that onto the people you interact with and Doing whatever you want because it is congruent to how you feel in that instance.




Gaining experience.

Field experience is key. It is the fastest, Most efficient way to get better with almost anything you do. Before you ask me again "How do I flirt with girls?" Go out and find out for yourself! Yes you can use the information in this article and on RSD Nation, But you will never truly know how to interact with women unless you go out and interact with women.

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"Little suzy would never do that.."


Woman aren't the heartless whores you put them out to be. They are Gentle creatures with Good, Honest Intentions. But When her man isn;t giving her what she needs, she is going to feel restless. Seeming less interested when you talk to her and Hanging out with "friends" While acting quite secretive. We've all been down this road  when dating multiple women "sorry chode"  It can be heartbreaking and leave you Feeling emotionally assualted, But the problem isn't that it happened (Solid referance) but preventing it from happening in the future.

Here I will talk about Why woman cheat, My expirience with a cheating ex, And how you can gain the reference of this horrible act without actually having the feel the pain yourself.


Why do woman cheat?

Woman cheat for multiple reasons and are totally inconsistent with their emotions, So it is quite hard to tell what makes every girl cheat. But there are a few indefinant reasons why some girls cheat.

1. Not man enough.

Are you a man or a bitch. You Just might need to take a seroius look in the mirror and rethink your life my friend.
The reasons alot of girls cheat is because they are not getting the masculine energy they crave.  Girls are stimulous junkies that crave arousal and fun. If you are not the kind of guy that naturally puts off these vibes she will get bored with you sooner or later. It doesn't matter if you are a male model, or how much money you make. If the girl is not aroused by you emotionally and sexually you are planting the seed for another guy to fuck her.

2. She is insecure.

Girls emotions tend to get the best of them a little more than men's. They get jealous insecure and physcotically angry relitively easy. If you are not properly validating a girl you are seeing she will want to see that attention from someone else because she feels like you don't value you her like you used to. "Don't get comfortable in the relationship." Saying small things like "I like your shirt today" "Your hair looks good" Seems quite small but will do wonders for her self asteem.


3.She is a pyscho bitch.

Watch out for these ones. They are dangerous and unpredictable. Whether she left you emotionally scarred or not get the fuck out of there. You will talk me in the long run.










Reference experience.

I am lucky enough to have a reference with a "cheating girl" The reason I say that I am lucky is because I have felt the pain of this moral crime and have learned to grow from it and ultimately be indifferrent to the past event. If you Yourself have been a victim of such a crime I sure you can relate when I say it fucking sucks. Even if you don't like a girl that much "which I didn't" it burdens you in your everyday life, while you struggle just to stay sane and not get all butt hurt over this girl. The situiation I was in was this. I had a girl on the hook. She was alright. It was implied that we were dating through much time spent together and the sleepovers almost everynight. I was quite indifferent with her and got comfortable in the relationship. She was bored since I was no longer on my path as a man. She hooked up with the next alpha guy that came along and I never fucked her again. Sad story. Great reference point.


Avoiding the pain.


There is no way to avoid the pain, Neither would I want you to. Pain is a great way to learn. Also an amazing motivator. What else could you ask for?  To gain the skills and mindset to hook women and keep them continually interested in you is the better goal to strive for. Trying to avoid pain will only bring more pain resulting in a continuous cycle of negative emotions. Strive for more and plow through the pain to make yourself a stronger man mentally and emotionally, So that one day you can be the one that decides whether or not he would like to see other girls instead of being at the whim of your 6/10 gf


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"Little suzy would never do that.."


Woman aren't the heartless whores you put them out to be. They are Gentle creatures with Good, Honest Intentions. But When her man isn;t giving her what she needs, she is going to feel restless. Seeming less interested when you talk to her and Hanging out with "friends" While acting quite secretive. We've all been down this road  when dating multiple women "sorry chode"  It can be heartbreaking and leave you Feeling emotionally assualted, But the problem isn't that it happened (Solid referance) but preventing it from happening in the future.

Here I will talk about Why woman cheat, My expirience with a cheating ex, And how you can gain the reference of this horrible act without actually having the feel the pain yourself.


Why do woman cheat?

Woman cheat for multiple reasons and are totally inconsistent with their emotions, So it is quite hard to tell what makes every girl cheat. But there are a few indefinant reasons why some girls cheat.

1. Not man enough.

Are you a man or a bitch. You Just might need to take a seroius look in the mirror and rethink your life my friend.
The reasons alot of girls cheat is because they are not getting the masculine energy they crave.  Girls are stimulous junkies that crave arousal and fun. If you are not the kind of guy that naturally puts off these vibes she will get bored with you sooner or later. It doesn't matter if you are a male model, or how much money you make. If the girl is not aroused by you emotionally and sexually you are planting the seed for another guy to fuck her.

2. She is insecure.

Girls emotions tend to get the best of them a little more than men's. They get jealous insecure and physcotically angry relitively easy. If you are not properly validating a girl you are seeing she will want to see that attention from someone else because she feels like you don't value you her like you used to. "Don't get comfortable in the relationship." Saying small things like "I like your shirt today" "Your hair looks good" Seems quite small but will do wonders for her self asteem.


3.She is a pyscho bitch.

Watch out for these ones. They are dangerous and unpredictable. Whether she left you emotionally scarred or not get the fuck out of there. You will talk me in the long run.










Reference experience.

I am lucky enough to have a reference with a "cheating girl" The reason I say that I am lucky is because I have felt the pain of this moral crime and have learned to grow from it and ultimately be indifferrent to the past event. If you Yourself have been a victim of such a crime I sure you can relate when I say it fucking sucks. Even if you don't like a girl that much "which I didn't" it burdens you in your everyday life, while you struggle just to stay sane and not get all butt hurt over this girl. The situiation I was in was this. I had a girl on the hook. She was alright. It was implied that we were dating through much time spent together and the sleepovers almost everynight. I was quite indifferent with her and got comfortable in the relationship. She was bored since I was no longer on my path as a man. She hooked up with the next alpha guy that came along and I never fucked her again. Sad story. Great reference point.


Avoiding the pain.


There is no way to avoid the pain, Neither would I want you to. Pain is a great way to learn. Also an amazing motivator. What else could you ask for?  To gain the skills and mindset to hook women and keep them continually interested in you is the better goal to strive for. Trying to avoid pain will only bring more pain resulting in a continuous cycle of negative emotions. Strive for more and plow through the pain to make yourself a stronger man mentally and emotionally, So that one day you can be the one that decides whether or not he would like to see other girls instead of being at the whim of your 6/10 gf


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