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"WAZZA!!!!!!!!"

Last day here in fucken LOS ANGELES... I just finished watching my new favorite movie OF ALL TIME: "In the Company of Men" and I'm about to reenact the final scene with my date tonight. 

The sweetest, nicest and most innocent girl that I've had the pleasure of dating in a long, long time... ;]

On another note however, I have some good AND bad news for you today...

The GOOD news is that I've finally started recording NEW INFIELD FOOTAGE for a possible Hot Seat 3 that's currently in the works!

Woooo!!!

The BAD news, however... Is that due to this, I'm going to unfortunately have to put the podcast that I've been planning on launching this weekend on hold until I'm done recording...

So, yeah... The pros always outweigh the cons!

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March 5 – 9, 2013: Miami Beach, Florida, USA (taught with Tyler and Brad)
March 21 – 23, 2013: Medellin, Columbia
March 28 – 30, 2013: Rio De Janeiro, Brazil
April 4 – 6, 2013: Buenos Aires, Argentina

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So, onwards to the article!

The Revenge Of The Nerds: How And When To Analyze Your Game When You Don't Get Laid

I was in the process of wrapping up my very last Hot Seat 2 seminar last weekend, when someone asked me:

"Julien, I now know everything that there is to know about pickup, and I've been going out regularly for quite some time now, but I'm still not getting where I want to be in terms of success with women... What am I missing here?"

And this brought up an IMPORTANT point, that not many people know about, which is that just going out and approaching women ISN'T enough to get good with women. 

There's another element to the game...

BEING A NERD AND ACTUALLY ANALYZING YOUR NIGHTS OUT.

If you're "too cool for school" and if you're not willing to do this, your decreasing your chances for success by 100000000000%!

So, do it NOW!

When I first started going out, a little over six years ago, I would spend so much time analyzing every single night out and I would always break them down in relation to Foundations, which was the only valuable product that was out at the time.

I would do that and rewatch that product so often, that I could probably still lip-sync to it right now. 

So buy some glasses, lock yourself up in your room and NERD THE FUCK OUT! RIGHT NOW!

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT REVEALS HOW TO STOP WASTING TIME AND THE RIGHT WAY TO TAKE VALUE OUT OF YOUR NIGHTS OUT:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TvJCuHmRVMQ)

Sick shit, huh?

I have SHITLOADS of bomb new topics coming to you very soon, including one featuring the "Jeffy and Jezebel incident" and how you should ultimately NOT GIVE A FUCK whatever frame is imposed on you as long as there is a certain amount of VALUE.

Check out my Twitter or Facebook accounts, for example.

www.twitter.com/RSDJulien

www.facebook.com/RSDJulien

No matter how bad it looks, it still communicates a lot value. And it then ultimately all comes down to making it relatable to the girl...

Yup...

"Until next time!"

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Posted February 11th, 2013 at 4:06 AM
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donston

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Yay!  I need this ... .  My wing and I have been filming our approaches ^_^ with our GoPro ... Julien, exactly what you said on the Hot Seat that it is harder to game with a camera on you.   

Thanks for the video!
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Posted February 11th, 2013 at 4:15 AM
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Time4Action

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This is so true. I got to do this!
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Posted February 11th, 2013 at 4:38 AM
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Clandestine

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Holy shit julien, i just made my first thread in rsd asking about this, stuck in the newbie territory with no success and right after that i see your video talking about my exact concern

Now i know what i should do thank u!!
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Posted February 11th, 2013 at 5:18 AM
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RezznT!

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 Awesome dude.Way to amp up the  "How to" side of things by a fuck ton.
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Posted February 11th, 2013 at 5:50 AM
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 oh great, does this mean if I take a botcamp in san francisco I'm going to get harassed? LOL
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Posted February 11th, 2013 at 7:15 AM
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Rexx

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The advice was awesome..im gonna do this from now on...three interactions..three lessons learned!
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Posted February 11th, 2013 at 8:15 AM
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Zach S

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 6 years in the game? I thought it was 2?
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Posted February 11th, 2013 at 8:52 AM
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deepBlue_

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This Guy is for real!

I did it quite as you described it when I began with RSD in October. I didn't write anything down but I really had so many "Fuck that's exactly like they said in XY RSD Video!!" And that's the moment where I went from a 'bold move' like
- Instant physical contact
- Loud, commanding voice
- Leading
to internalizing that behaviour.

After 4-5 weeks in that mode begun to have a great sex life. And still have it! 
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Posted February 11th, 2013 at 9:06 AM
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timmilicious

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Hey Julien,

whats your opinion of creating kind of a plan on what exactly to focus on when you go out?

What could it look like?


Cheers!
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Posted February 11th, 2013 at 9:49 AM
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Tyler

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Sick vid!  Love it.

Great to see you back in Los Angeles!!

It's good to see a clearer idea out there for RSDN about how to make sense of your night, not blithely going out and doing the same thing again and again.

Runyon spazz out vid about to go online as well, as we speak.

Tyler
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Posted February 11th, 2013 at 10:22 AM
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Blom10

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 Fuck yeah, Jules, encouragement to the hard core FR writers who I think get far too less attention on RSDN. It would be awesome if instructors once in a while dropped a comment in that section. But yo, really awesome points, cool shit
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Posted February 11th, 2013 at 12:24 PM
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timmilicious

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Blom10 wrote:
 Fuck yeah, Jules, encouragement to the hard core FR writers who I think get far too less attention on RSDN. It would be awesome if instructors once in a while dropped a comment in that section. But yo, really awesome points, cool shit
Truuueeee ^^

There is soo much value in those FRs, its not even funny!
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Posted February 11th, 2013 at 3:34 PM
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DeNiro

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 Julien, will you be my roommate when I spend two months in NYC this summer?
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Posted February 11th, 2013 at 6:08 PM
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Posted February 11th, 2013 at 9:00 PM
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ambiguity

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Julien mate, I like your attitude of "put on the big boy pants" and "rejection is unfinished business!"
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Posted February 11th, 2013 at 9:27 PM
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Rich77

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Thanks for the info Julien!
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Posted February 12th, 2013 at 4:54 PM
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ace01

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Blow up the positive.
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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 2:16 AM
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Gift~

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I hope you didn't really do an, "In The Company Of Men" to your "sweetest, nicest and most innocent girl that I've had the pleasure of dating in a long, long time"... that wouldn't be very nice at all. It's a cruel film about men who hate women. (it's an excellent film don't get me wrong by an excellent writer/director) but it's not supposed to inspire misogyny (although it does have this effect on teenage boys or those with teenaged minds who want "revenge" on women)

You were joking right? I need to know the character of those I trust to teach me.

Thanks

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Posted February 13th, 2013 at 5:49 AM
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Nawaf

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 Good tips Julien.
I also want to add that is a good idea to have recording device that fit in your pocket or it can be the recorder in your phone and record the interaction with the set so you can later listen to you interaction and see what went wrong and what went right.

Awesome video man.
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Posted February 14th, 2013 at 6:11 AM
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Anthony John

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So writing field reports is just as important as going out in the field: Noted.
I just finished my first one now teeth Success!
A man of high status does not have to explain himself.
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Posted February 14th, 2013 at 7:29 PM
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HappyGoCrazee

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Julien! This is gold man. It should be obvious, but I think basics like this get lost sometimes in the rest of the great advice on this site.

But bro, the fuck happened to your audio man? lol
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Posted February 15th, 2013 at 10:38 PM
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Franco.Arg

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This video really hit a nerve in my journey.
Being a newbie, i realized the importance of this and i did it. 
Then, i started to get cool results and a stopped. I thought that i was the best motherfucker on earth and that i got nothing else to learn.
I WAS SO FUCKING WRONG.
This video put me again in reality. Thanks a lot Julien, keep it up!
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Posted February 15th, 2013 at 11:46 PM
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ThePilgrimage

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Guys look up to you and you're proud that you're about to intentionally hurt an innocent, sweet girl? If you were as smart as you think you are you'd think twice. That kinda shit will come back and haunt you. It'll work its way into your character and you'll reap what you sow. It's as natural a law as gravity.

That kind of behaviour reminds me of the type of guys Tyler and Jeffy warn against becoming.

What a dissapointment

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Posted February 17th, 2013 at 2:56 AM
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RagaTanha

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Good article, excellent info. Could you start posting a cheat sheet of what you say in your vid's so that it's easy to go back and review the main points without rewatching the entire vid? Thanks.
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Posted February 17th, 2013 at 1:10 PM
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Alphamode

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I like how you're covering the incident and not Jeff lol
Julien wrote:
I have SHITLOADS of bomb new topics coming to you very soon, including one featuring the "Jeffy and Jezebel incident"
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Posted February 18th, 2013 at 6:27 AM
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alamarish

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thanks for posting this sort of thing ... tounge
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Posted February 23rd, 2013 at 3:27 AM
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winterzombieSTL

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haha lol who does pickup and isn't at least a bit of a nerd

- If anyone is under 21 and lives in the St. Louis area (I'm in West County/Kirkwood and 19) who wants to go out then send me a message if interested. Thanks
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Posted February 24th, 2013 at 11:54 PM
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I disagree!
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