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Why hello there...


I'm currently staying here in Boston for the week, where I'm going to be running another Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp but with TYLER this time! 

This is one of the last programs that we're going to be doing together for quite a while, as I'm leaving on my Australian Tour after that. 

So if you're located in the United States, I would highly recommend trying to make it out to one of these events that we're doing together!

Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates...

May 3 - 5, 2012: Boston (taught with Tyler)
May 10 - 12, 2012: Los Angeles
May 17 - 19, 2012: Austin (taught with Tyler)
May 24 - 26, 2012: Perth (taught with Alexander~)
May 31 - June 2, 2012: Melbourne (taught with Alexander~)
June 7 - 9, 2012: Sydney (taught with
 Alexander~)

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com


You can also check out all of the cities that I'll be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.

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On that note, what I'm excited to finally be able to take the time and share with you today is what I like to call...

...THE ADVENTURE FRAME. 

This is actually something that I had originally come up with during an interaction that I had a couple of years ago while dealing with logistics and that pretty much stuck with me ever since then:

"Adventure!"

As simple a line as that.

So what exactly do I mean by this?

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED HERE IN BOSTON WITH TYLER THAT REVEALS THE SECRETS BEHIND THE "ADVENTURE FRAME" AND HOW YOU CAN START APPLYING THIS FOR YOURSELF AS OF TODAY:



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rVGhcCkue0o

Whenever it comes down to getting actual results with the women that you're interacting with, there is always one major aspect of the interaction that a lot of guys tend to forget...

...which is that women are never going to risk their social situation, no matter what the circumstances are... EVER!

They are never going to risk seeming like a slut.

They are never going to feel comfortable going home with you or sleeping with you if it's something that's going to compromise their social situation or their social value. 

And it's your job to take all of the responsibility off of them as well as off of the interaction in general in order to make them feel comfortable being with you.

A lot of guys have a lot of trouble understanding this and they especially do not know how to deal with it!

A lot of guys do not know how to take the responsibility off of the women that they're interacting with.

And as a result of this, they are not getting the results that they should be getting and that they actually deserve to be getting.

So, let's dig into this topic a little bit further...

The way that I would like you to start viewing taking the responsibility off of the women that you're interacting with is through this analogy:

Let's take the example of Bob...

Bob is an average guy who has been working an average job his entire life.

One day, his employer Michael, walks over to him and announces to him that he decided to give him the job promotion that he's always dreamed about and that he has been waiting for all of those years from the very moment that he started his career.

And he's even decided to throw Bob a party in celebration of his promotion, where he has already invited over one hundred different models to attend. 

This all sounds pretty good, huh?

Now, there's ONE CONDITION!

In order for Bob to get this promotion, he can go to the party but he CANNOT sleep with any of the models who are going to be attending it, no matter what the circumstances are.

And if he does sleep with any of them, he's fired.

So Bob shows up at the party and as soon as he enters the room, ALL OF THE WOMEN who are there suddenly start hitting on him.

And they aren't just hitting on him by talking to him or complimenting him, they are hitting on him by buying him all sorts of drinks, blatantly being physical with him and inviting him over to dance.

Pretty similar to how most men actually hit on women in general. 

Now, although Bob is very tempted to sleep with all of these women, he remembers what Michael had told him earlier that day and he sees Michael overlooking the party and making sure that nothing happens.

But one of the models who's there, and who's a little bit smarted than the rest of the women present, decides to drag Bob behind a pole where Michael isn't able to see him anymore...

She then whispers to him:

"It's ok, Michael can't see us here. You don't have to worry about him anymore, he will never know."

And suddenly, just like that, all of the responsibility is taken off of Bob. 

There are no more social repercussions and he can now feel comfortable with the interaction as well as with the situation at hand. 

He can now feel comfortable sleeping with her.

And this is frame of mind that you should be coming from when interacting with women in general. 

It all comes down to TAKING ALL OF THE RESPONSABILITY OFF OF THE WOMEN THAT YOU'RE INTERACTING WITH.

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED AT THE CHICAGO FREE TOUR A FEW MONTHS AGO THAT ILLUSTRATES SOME OF THE DIFFERENT WAYS THAT YOU CAN START DOING THIS, INCASE YOU'VE MISSED IT:



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNQLMygC98o

So to conclude this article, in this particular interaction that I'd had a couple of years ago, the piece of information that she had grabbed onto in order to rationalize going home with me as you've probably already guessed by now was: 

"Adventure!"


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#1
Tyler

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1st!!!!

Tyler
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Kash.TO

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2nd!
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HYFR11

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3rd bitchess
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#4
Standza

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fuck!
Tyler you are cheating..Julien told you at what time he will post an article
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synergist'12

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Great "Bob" example in the article and great video.  Julien is killing the instructor shit online.  Awesome stuff.
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Especially the end is sooo cool hahhaha lots of laughter
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Dr Feelgood

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Love the video!

Content = Vibe
Vibe = Content

and

Everything = %§~Don't give a fuck²
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 Short and sweet... Absolutely on top and relevant. I love this post, really solid/easily applicable point!
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#10
Cleavage

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'Adventure' XD I'm definitely gonna try that one.

The best one I've used thus far to rationalize driving home immidiately after picking a girl up for a date is
'I need to pick up my car keys at home'  which got the girl very confused because I'm driving home to get car keys that I need to drive xD, but I was so convinced of my frame at that moment that she just seemed to accept it I guess.
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Icy

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I love how Tyler just smiles when Julien talks lol
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just-do-it

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 lol @ the rita part, nice shit
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Redox

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 In improvisation, we say "no action is beyond justification" . Act first. Rationalize later.
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#14

pringles

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 nice article man, but sorry to burst your bubbbe the first time i heard the whole adventure thing was from alex in like 2009 or 10.

Actually i pulled that girl into the bathroom by saying 'adventure lets go' and now that i think about it thats nearly how all my bathroom pulls in vegas went down
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#15

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Fantastic article. Please keep putting up articles Julien.

I would have gotten laid 3 times instead of masturbating 3 times last week if i had watched this b4hand....Fuck. It's better to push for it instead of worrying about being try-hard man or some stupid gay bs like that.

Yo this shit really hits home because of the in-depth examples. Like I heard you say a million times take responsiblity for the interaction - but you and Tyler providing examples of pushing it until the bitter end really sort of cemented it. Take chick from the gay club at Hotseat is the perfect example. 

Took me 30 minutes to watch this shit.

This is a very good article.  Thanks for the value. 
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Porsche

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 Didn't Tim come out with the "adventure" frame 4 years ago?
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That Bob example totally, 100% clears it up for me.

Thanks!!
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Nurbol

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as usual valuble  
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thecrochunter

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i wanna know who started the 'first!!' culture. Its funny as fuck.
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Brandisii

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 Going to try this this weekend!  I love that energy!  So fun!  Pimp it!!!!
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#21

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SICKNESS!!!,Still waiting on that Julien mastermind!!!
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#22

steppino

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WHAT???!!!

Tyler's on this FIRST culture too?

IT'S ON!... Like a woman's period.
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#23

champ

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OHHHhh Take responsibility off. Badass!  Sick vid! Take care Julien!
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Patrick.Bateman

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Nice :-). Did you tell the bob story at the free tour?
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MrCreepGuy

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moarrr!!!
nice video of both of you guys. did appreciate it. love the "adventure frame"...gave me some pretty good reference points!
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#26

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A well timed 'adventure' would've got me a shit load in the past too.

p.s - aren't we forgetting that this was tim's favourite line ;)
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 lolllllllllllll
pimp it
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iRyan

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 Julie Benz :)
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 Hilarious video! 

Love the combo from Julien n Tyler, quality stuff as always

keep it up!
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Holy shit Rita from Dexter!!!

Awesome vid
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Sick video... adventure!
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Pimp it?
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yeah, the promotion story reminds me of the Hot Seat in Munich! haha!
great stuff!
adventure, 2 minutes, 2 minutes, you will never see me again, it's ok i have a t-shirt, ...
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#34

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"RAS tuned into what you want rather than what you dont want" 

I like that. 

Mountaineer thats a cool as d.p
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#35
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Guys!

I have to say I was a little sad when it I found out that it wasn't Tyler that run the Hotseat in copenhagen last weekend, but Julien, youre fucking awesome. Your intensity and persistance is truely inspirering.

If you haven't read Slight Edge, i can highly recommend it, it speaks to the same "gun to the head" philosofy that Julien preaches, which is essentially the most important thing in success with anything
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#36

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 I actually learned something from this video, really simple and easy to understand. Julien you are the fucking best, I met a natural a few months ago and this is the shit we do.

Pretty much talk to the girl, whatever she throws at you handle it, pull her aside so no one can see and do your thing. This shit is so fucking fun and I recently discovered this myself.


Would love to see more videos by you Julien. 


- Peace 
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#37

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 4 Days ago I lifted a girl up and tried to carry her to the exit from a club while she was giggling, but she said 'but my friends are here'. I should have persisted and put all responsibility on myself and should have said things like 'it doesn't matter, they won't run away' etc blabla!! Next time >:)
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#38

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DC Hotseat was the shit!! Everyone in Boston is in for an amazing weekend.

- Mitch
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#39

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 julian has a very smooth voice... No homo. Just very distinct.
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Seeing you guys perist through the girls resistence\excuses at the hotseat was very eye opening to me. I think back to all the times I just accepted it wasn't going to go down because of some excuse the girl gave to me. If I had stuck it out, I probably would have allot more results to my name.
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originalrudeboy

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Cool shit. You gotta just adopt the "I don't give a fuck" attitude and do whatever you want. Push it hard.
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#42
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Nothing proud about fucking someones fiance. Not hating but this is a pathological relationship towards women. Karma will catch you up.
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#43

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szaka67 wrote:
Nothing proud about fucking someones fiance. Not hating but this is a pathological relationship towards women. Karma will catch you up.
These guys aren't tricking the girls into sleeping with them. It's not their responsible to make sure the girl stays loyal to her fiance.
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#44

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 Julien!!! if you slept with Julia Benz im gonna fly over and kick your ass! 

You realise that it's time to step up your game, when your desktop screen saver woman is being approached by an RSD instructor. 
Kudos, hopefully the is still a chance of me pooning Julia Benz in the distance future
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Jeff Winch

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Great videos! Love the whole entitlement part
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pringles wrote:
 nice article man, but sorry to burst your bubbbe the first time i heard the whole adventure thing was from alex in like 2009 or 10.

Actually i pulled that girl into the bathroom by saying 'adventure lets go' and now that i think about it thats nearly how all my bathroom pulls in vegas went down
46th!

And yes I heard the Adventure thing ages ago, from Tim it was I think!
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