What’s up!

I’m excited to finally be posting my first ever front page article here on RSDNATION...

I'd like to first of all start off by saying that incase you haven't already heard the news, I will be running all of the Hot Seat 2 events that are outside of the United States this upcoming year as well as adding to those dates an extra Bonus Day to the people who sign up during the official launch period that ends FEBRUARY 8th, 2012.

And this Bonus Day will feature the new Foundations Reloaded seminar as well as a complete breakdown of some of my own INFIELD FOOTAGE.

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY SEEN THE OFFICIAL PREVIEW FOR THIS EVENT:



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlWrFgIR6CU

Here are the dates...

United States
February 4, 2012: Chicago, IL, USA (Julien running day 2)
February 11, 2012: New York, NY, USA (Julien running day 2)
February 26, 2012: Miami, FL, USA (Julien running day 2)
March 17, 2012: San Francisco, CA, USA
March 31, 2012: Phoenix, AZ, USA
April 14, 2012: Las Vegas, NV, USA
April 28, 2012: Washington DC
May 5, 2012: Boston, MA, USA (Julien running day 2)
May 19, 2012: Austin, TX, USA (Julien running day 2)
June 2, 2012: Atlanta, GA, USA
June 16, 2012: Seattle, WA, USA
June 30, 2012: Philadelphia, PA, USA
July 14, 2012: Denver, CO, USA
August 4, 2012: Honolulu, HI, USA (Julien running day 2)
September 1, 2012: Los Angeles, CA, USA

Europe
March 17, 2012: Amsterdam, Netherlands
March 24, 2012: Munich, Germany
April 7, 2012: Paris, France
April 21, 2012: London, United Kingdom
April 28, 2012: Copenhagen, Denmark
September 22, 2012: Frankfurt, Germany
September 29, 2012: Stockholm, Sweden
October 6, 2012: Oslo, Norway
October 13, 2012: Edinburgh, United Kingdom
October 20, 2012: Dublin, Ireland
November 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain
December 1, 2012: Moscow, Russia
December 8, 2012: Athens, Greece
February 23, 2013: Bucharest, Romania
March 2, 2013: Sofia, Bulgaria
March 23, 2013: Gothenburg, Sweden
March 30, 2013: Birmingham, United Kingdom

Australia & New Zealand
May 26, 2012: Perth, Australia
June 2, 2012: Melbourne, Australia
June 9, 2012: Sydney, Australia

Canada
August 25, 2012: Vancouver, Canada
September 1, 2012: Toronto, Canada
September 8, 2012: Montreal, Canada

Latin America
June 16, 2012: Bogota, Columbia
June 23, 2012: Buenos Aires, Argentina
June 30, 2012: Sao Paulo, Brazil
July 7, 2012: Mexico City, Mexico

Middle East
December 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel
January 5, 2013: Dubai, United Arab Emirates

South Africa
January 12, 2013: Cape Town, South Africa
January 19, 2013: Johannesburg, South Africa

Asia (presented by Alex)
March 17, 2012: Hong Kong
March 24, 2012: Singapore, Singapore
March 31, 2012: Tokyo, Japan

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I'm currently in Los Angeles right now. I'm spending my last few days here mostly editing the last few video clips that I have as well as getting ready to head over to Chicago this weekend with Tyler to run another Free Tour, Hot Seat 2 and Bootcamp!

This is also one of the last events that we'll be doing together here in the United States for quite a while... The other two being in New York and in Miami before I finally leave for Amsterdam, the first city that's on my World Tour schedule this year.

And what I thought I would share with you today is probably one of the biggest epiphanies that I've had this past year and that is something that has also really affected every single aspect of my current view on social dynamics as well as the way that I now interact with women in general.

That concept being that trying to hook any particular set is something that has now become obsolete.

It has now become one of the old ways of doing things.

A thing of the past...

Have you ever caught yourself scanning the environment that you're in for women that you think are worth approaching by your own standards?

Have you ever caught yourself placing any kind of external value on women or even trying to rate them in terms of their physical appearance?

And have you ever caught yourself changing the way you're acting and expressing yourself around women based on what that rating is?

Have you ever caught yourself trying to "hook" any particular set?

MOST IMPORTANTLY, ARE YOU THE BUYER OR THE SELLER IN THE DYNAMIC OF THE INTERACTION?

I remember when I was first starting out in all of this, a little over five years ago now back in Switzerland. And I would be going out night after night and I would probably be spending most of my time during those nights just looking for someone that I would think would be worth approaching instead of actually approaching them.

I would be spending most of time seeking out what I would have thought were the right women to be approaching in the current social context instead of actually taking right action and interacting with them.

I would basically be thinking to myself that if I was going to be putting in all of this effort and emotional investment on my part that I was going to make sure that the women that I was going to approach were worth it beforehand.

Some examples of this would have been:

- She would have had to be physically attractive enough in order for me to be perceived as having certain standards and to increase my perceived social value in the current environment.

- She would have had to be alone or with no more than one or two female friends in order to make it mentally easier for me to approach as well as to decrease the chances of being ridiculed by someone else in the environment.

- She would also have had to be somewhere that is logistically approachable in the environment. I would never have approached her if she was walking down the street or if she was on the dance floor where the music is too loud.

And the list goes on...

Now, in all of these situations that I described here above am I the buyer or the seller?

I am the seller.

If you really break the dynamic of the interaction down in each and every one of these situations I would be coming from the frame of trying to sell myself to the women that I would be approaching and interacting with.

I would be placing all of the value externally onto her and I would be trying to sell myself to her by trying to live up to her standards.

And this is the definition of trying to "hook" a set.

Trying to sell yourself to her.

What it basically means is that you're walking up to her and trying to sell yourself in hopes that she might "purchase" you.

That she might “buy” you.

And in the rare cases where she actually does, then you've successfully demonstrated your value to her and you've made your sale.

You've successfully "hooked" her.

SO, WHAT ABOUT BEING THE BUYER?

As a naturally attractive man, EVERY single woman should feel attracted to you no matter what the circumstances are.

Of course this doesn't mean that every woman is going to sleep with you, and nor should they. But they should still feel a certain degree of attraction towards you nonetheless.

Every woman should feel attracted to you regardless of what her social situation is.

If you're unable to attract a physically unattractive woman for example, how are you going to feel comfortable and emotionally unreactive attracting the women that you're actually physically attracted to?

You will not be able to.

You will be consciously or even unconsciously putting them on a pedestal by placing all of the value onto them and you will then fall back into the seller dynamic of the interaction once again.

And what this introduces is the concept of SUCKING THEM INTO YOUR OWN REALITY as opposed to TRYING TO HOOK THEM.

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED A FEW WEEKS AGO AT THE LOS ANGELES FREE TOUR THAT EXPLAINS SOME OF THE WAYS THAT YOU CAN SUCK HER INTO YOUR OWN REALITY AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, REFOCUSING HER RETICULAR ACTIVATION SYSTEM SOLELY ONTO YOU:



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0T1W8nKflOI

You make the switch from pinging off of the environment that's around you to pinging off of yourself.

It becomes something that is now about you and not the women that you're interacting with as you are now the buyer in the dynamic of the interaction.

It's a celebration of yourself.

It's a celebration of you. (Cf. Tim)

The catch phrase that I like to use for this is: "Celebrate me, with me."

When I go out nowadays and interact with women it doesn't matter if she is physically attractive or physically unattractive to me, because the value is now solely placed on myself.

It changes the way that you view the interaction to being something that is about that feminine energy that is being constantly thrown onto you and that fuels all of the fun that you're having in your reality, as opposed to trying to adapt to the value that you place on the women that you think are worth interacting with.

Are you really going to say no to a woman who is offering you to "celebrate you, with you" if you do not find her attractive?

Of course not!

Now this doesn't mean that you have to sleep with her or that you should pretend to feel attracted to her as it will come off as being very patronizing and inauthentic but she should still feel drawn into you.

She should still want to join and experience your own fun and be sucked into your own reality.

She should still want to join that celebration of yourself.

You're having your own fun and you're focusing on sucking everyone that you're interacting with into your own reality and only then do you chose the one or ones that you actually do want.

You are the one who now “purchases” them.

And this is what hooking a set is about.

By being the buyer in the dynamic of the interaction and switching from basing your reality externally and pinging off of the environment that's around you to drawing state from within and pinging off of yourself, you now become that grounding source of masculine polarity that she can emotionally attach herself onto.

There is no more emotional stress unnecessary worry about finding those women who you think are worth approaching because all of the value is now placed onto you.

And there is no more fear of opening up by putting your real personality on the line and thinking that you might not be good enough for her and that she might not "purchase" you.

By being the buyer and not the seller in you completely change your view of literally every single aspect of the interaction and the place that it's coming from.

It changes the way that your thoughts, words and actions are expressed.

It also gives a new meaning to certain concepts and ways that you can achieve this such as Self Amusement, Building Social Momentum and Acting Through Your Own Intentions.

This is how you make all of these concepts actually work for you.

You're not trying to "hook" the women that you're interacting with anymore and you can finally let go of that outcome and start expressing yourself in a more authentic way.

It has now become something that is stress-free and fun for you and by the law of state transfer she will be feeling those same exact emotions that you're feeling and she will then be sucked into your own reality and hooked onto you.

It all becomes something that is about you and about what you're experiencing that you can then share with the women that you're interacting with.

You are now the warm end of the pool.


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