It's nice to hear you talking about relationships
Keep it up

thanks for this video I was thinking about this exact topic the other day and it has helped solidify my ideas
cheers

 Omg Julien got a new shirt...O_o

 The profile picture for this post looks like Juliens giving a lecture whilst sitting on the toilet.

Great vid!!

so what are some examples of embracing her pyscho drama in a relationship??

 #YehItsKewl

 Julian, nice vid.  In my case, i have about 5 girls who are within my radar, banging two, and working on the other three.  This is BRAND new for me.  Never had anything close to this in my life.  BUT, i still feel needy.  For instance, if they aren't all texting me they want to have sex (exageration), i get pissed, and lose my confidence/ coolness, and it becomes harder, like a downward spiral.

I think it comes down to me caring about the outcome.  Whenever i say to myself, i don't care if she never talks to me again, i come up with some hilarious stuff, that always works.  Got any other sugestions for the MLTR guy?

Thanks!

Let me know what you think... ;] <---- I think some of your advices are fine and some are full of flashy ANGER. That's not good.

Cool man!

Hahahaahah YES this happens to practically every guy at some point.

It's funny being a man and dealing with this stupid shit.  We are so blatantly lied to about what women want, we finally find a girl we're into and decide to "do the right thing by her" and SETTLE DOWN.

Next thing you know she gets bitchy more often, isn't all giggly and smiley like she used to be.

So you figure "I'll spend EVEN MORE TIME with her..."

Then she gets bitchier and bitchier, not because she's a bitch, but cause her DNA is telling her "This man isn't right.  Don't get empregnated by this man.  He's not right."

People don't get it that the "personality" and the "DNA" are two different entities with conflicting drives.

YES the girls' personality may want you to spend more time with her, but the DNA is getting freaked the fuck out, and when you exhibit too much chodey qualities the DNA will kick into the driver's seat and say "FUCK YOU CHODE!!  GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE WITH YOUR CHODE CUM UP IN MY PUSSY I'M FINDING A REAL MAN!!"

And funny enough we literally think we are ABOVE this.  You bang 50 girls and think "I'm on a different level now."

Maybe you are.

But if the main thing that was driving you was the game itself, you gotta TRANSFER that drive onto something else.

Somehow, some way, you gotta STILL be the guy she met and started fucking.  It doesn't have to be through game or cold approach pickup.  But you gotta find SOMETHING that keeps you THAT MAN.

And you gotta IGNORE her interest in making you fat, lazy, and "off the market" for other girls. 

If you wanna consciously CHOOSE to be "off the market" that's all good, but don't make it a FORCED decision where she makes you off the market by converting you to a fat lazy moron.

When my girls are trying to do this to me, I stay who I am, and they're just more and more hooked.  No matter how many tears, they come back, and orgasm and orgasm during sex.  Wanting more and more.  Addicted.

Whether she's a banging stripper from Spearmint Rhino or an Ivy League graduate or anything in between, they all LOVE IT when I just stay who I am, passionate, and unapologetic.

I am ALWAYS THAT MAN.  I've had so much pain and betrayal for the times I've STOPPED being that man, it doesn't even REMOTELY OCCUR to me to be anything other than who I am.

It's not an effort, it's easy when it's learned through life experience.  And truthfully most guys won't be able to heed this advice until they learn themselves -- the advice is more to help them "decode it" and learn what direction to take, after the fact.

Tyler

Rings a motherfuckin bell! ;0)

I agree!

Words to live by.  Especially if you are not ready to settle down; let alone, settle.