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"What's up!"
I just finished wrapping up yet another successful Bootcamp up here in New York, with none other than Todd!
And in case you've missed it, we're both going to be running a RSD Free Tour event TODAY July 16, 2012 at 7pm while we're both up here as well.
So as always, if you happen to be located anywhere nearby and if you're interested in hearing about all of the latest pearls and gems of knowledge that we're going to be sharing with you, then I urge you to NOT miss out on this FREE event that's happening near you:
www.rsdfreetour.com
Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates...
August 2 - 4, 2012: Honolulu (taught with Tyler)
August 9 - 11, 2012: Portland
August 17 - 19, 2012: Las Vegas
August 23 - 25, 2012: Vancouver, Canada
August 30 - September 1, 2012: Toronto, Canada
September 6 - 8, 2012: Montreal, Canada
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
You can also check out all of the cities that I'm going to be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.
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On that note, what I'm very excited to be taking the time and sharing with you here today is what I think to be one of the most important things that I had going for me when I was first getting into all of this...
And that's also one of the most important factors that really differentiates the people who achieve true success with women and the people who simply don't.
THE FACT THAT I'VE ALWAYS BEEN DISGUSTED BY BEING IN MY COMFORT ZONE.
The fact that I've always been ADDICTED to breaking out of my comfort zone.
I cannot stand it, at all...
And I've always found it fascinating seeing how most people are just simply willing to waste their everyday lives away by stagnating and not willing to expand who they are as a person in any way, whatsoever.
It's always made me nauseous.
How can you possibly be willing to throw it all away by continuously remaining in your pity little comfort zone every single day of your life?
How can you possibly be willing to slowly rot away and ultimately die inside one day at a time? As Todd would say...
When you really take the time to think about all of this, what are most people's lives really like?
Most people continuously live their lives in a haze.
They try to forget about reality of things.
They try to lose themselves day after day in autopilot patterns by ultimately numbing themselves to the fact that they aren't taking right action in their lives, whatsoever.
They try to lose themselves day after day in a haze simply waiting for the day that they die.
And this is what most people's lives tend to look like:
They wake up in the morning in a state of slight anxiety and depression having to go through yet another day in the real world...
They go to work hoping that the day will fly by so that they can go back home to their comfort zone...
They go back home and enjoy a small amount of pleasure eating some fast food or some refrigerated pre-cooked meal that they had stored in their freezer...
And then of course comes the highlight of their day, which is the brand new movie that they're going to watch and lose themselves in before going back to sleep and reliving the same hassle over and over again...
And to tell you the truth, I actually remember being in a slightly similar scenario for a short period of time back when I was going to university when I was living in Switzerland.
I hated what I was doing with my life at the time and I remember just trying to get through one day at a time by simply numbing myself to the reality things and escaping all of the responsibilities that I had.
And it was the worst feeling, ever.
You can delude yourself as much as you want into believing that this is something that's working for you and that there's simply nothing that you can do about it all, but deep inside you're always going to ultimately know that you're wrong.
And no amount of rationalizations is ever going to fill that void.
You're always going to have that constant feeling of anxiety and depression in the background of your life that won't stop or go away unless you start taking right action and breaking out of the patterns that you've imposed on yourself.
And one of the best ways of achieving this for yourself is by creating LEVERAGE.
What you have to realize is that you're ultimately never going to do anything that you don't think is worth doing.
That's human nature.
So start building leverage for yourself to do so,
Start asking yourself these types of questions:
"Why exactly do I want this for myself?"
"How will breaking out of my comfort zone ultimately help improve my life in general?"
"How will continuously challenging myself help me expand my reality and grow as a person?"
And most importantly,
"What will happen if I don't?"
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED WITH TODD THAT EXPLORES THIS TOPIC INTO FURTHER DEPTH AND THAT REVEALS THE INESCAPABLE CONSEQUENCES THAT WILL HAPPEN IF YOU ULTIMATELY DON'T START ADDICTING YOURSEL TO BREAKING OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4HghViV1Trg
Build the right amount of leverage to fuel yourself in order to continuously break out of your comfort zone and in order to start getting accustomed to doing so.
Start making that you're new way of life.
Start ADDICTING yourself to that to the point of no return.
Make this your new reality, as of right now.
Realize that if you're able to achieve this for yourself, then there's literally nothing stopping you or holding you back anymore.
You're pretty much UNSTOPPABLE.
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PS: Let me know what you think of this video and if you have any specific topics that you’d like to hear me cover in any future RSDNATION article!
PPS: Here's another video that touches on this particular subject and that I coincidently recorded last time that I was here in New York as well:
How To Make That DEEP IDENTITY LEVEL CHANGE By Taking Right Action And Breaking Into The Unknown!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-27aYpgJoIM
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I just finished wrapping up yet another successful Bootcamp up here in New York, with none other than Todd!
And in case you've missed it, we're both going to be running a RSD Free Tour event TODAY July 16, 2012 at 7pm while we're both up here as well.
So as always, if you happen to be located anywhere nearby and if you're interested in hearing about all of the latest pearls and gems of knowledge that we're going to be sharing with you, then I urge you to NOT miss out on this FREE event that's happening near you:
www.rsdfreetour.com
Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates...
August 2 - 4, 2012: Honolulu (taught with Tyler)
August 9 - 11, 2012: Portland
August 17 - 19, 2012: Las Vegas
August 23 - 25, 2012: Vancouver, Canada
August 30 - September 1, 2012: Toronto, Canada
September 6 - 8, 2012: Montreal, Canada
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
You can also check out all of the cities that I'm going to be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.
<>==========================================<>
On that note, what I'm very excited to be taking the time and sharing with you here today is what I think to be one of the most important things that I had going for me when I was first getting into all of this...
And that's also one of the most important factors that really differentiates the people who achieve true success with women and the people who simply don't.
THE FACT THAT I'VE ALWAYS BEEN DISGUSTED BY BEING IN MY COMFORT ZONE.
The fact that I've always been ADDICTED to breaking out of my comfort zone.
I cannot stand it, at all...
And I've always found it fascinating seeing how most people are just simply willing to waste their everyday lives away by stagnating and not willing to expand who they are as a person in any way, whatsoever.
It's always made me nauseous.
How can you possibly be willing to throw it all away by continuously remaining in your pity little comfort zone every single day of your life?
How can you possibly be willing to slowly rot away and ultimately die inside one day at a time? As Todd would say...
When you really take the time to think about all of this, what are most people's lives really like?
Most people continuously live their lives in a haze.
They try to forget about reality of things.
They try to lose themselves day after day in autopilot patterns by ultimately numbing themselves to the fact that they aren't taking right action in their lives, whatsoever.
They try to lose themselves day after day in a haze simply waiting for the day that they die.
And this is what most people's lives tend to look like:
They wake up in the morning in a state of slight anxiety and depression having to go through yet another day in the real world...
They go to work hoping that the day will fly by so that they can go back home to their comfort zone...
They go back home and enjoy a small amount of pleasure eating some fast food or some refrigerated pre-cooked meal that they had stored in their freezer...
And then of course comes the highlight of their day, which is the brand new movie that they're going to watch and lose themselves in before going back to sleep and reliving the same hassle over and over again...
And to tell you the truth, I actually remember being in a slightly similar scenario for a short period of time back when I was going to university when I was living in Switzerland.
I hated what I was doing with my life at the time and I remember just trying to get through one day at a time by simply numbing myself to the reality things and escaping all of the responsibilities that I had.
And it was the worst feeling, ever.
You can delude yourself as much as you want into believing that this is something that's working for you and that there's simply nothing that you can do about it all, but deep inside you're always going to ultimately know that you're wrong.
And no amount of rationalizations is ever going to fill that void.
You're always going to have that constant feeling of anxiety and depression in the background of your life that won't stop or go away unless you start taking right action and breaking out of the patterns that you've imposed on yourself.
And one of the best ways of achieving this for yourself is by creating LEVERAGE.
What you have to realize is that you're ultimately never going to do anything that you don't think is worth doing.
That's human nature.
So start building leverage for yourself to do so,
Start asking yourself these types of questions:
"Why exactly do I want this for myself?"
"How will breaking out of my comfort zone ultimately help improve my life in general?"
"How will continuously challenging myself help me expand my reality and grow as a person?"
And most importantly,
"What will happen if I don't?"
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED WITH TODD THAT EXPLORES THIS TOPIC INTO FURTHER DEPTH AND THAT REVEALS THE INESCAPABLE CONSEQUENCES THAT WILL HAPPEN IF YOU ULTIMATELY DON'T START ADDICTING YOURSEL TO BREAKING OUT OF YOUR COMFORT ZONE:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4HghViV1Trg
Build the right amount of leverage to fuel yourself in order to continuously break out of your comfort zone and in order to start getting accustomed to doing so.
Start making that you're new way of life.
Start ADDICTING yourself to that to the point of no return.
Make this your new reality, as of right now.
Realize that if you're able to achieve this for yourself, then there's literally nothing stopping you or holding you back anymore.
You're pretty much UNSTOPPABLE.
<>=======================================<>
PS: Let me know what you think of this video and if you have any specific topics that you’d like to hear me cover in any future RSDNATION article!
PPS: Here's another video that touches on this particular subject and that I coincidently recorded last time that I was here in New York as well:
How To Make That DEEP IDENTITY LEVEL CHANGE By Taking Right Action And Breaking Into The Unknown!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-27aYpgJoIM
<>=======================================<>
WWW.JULIENLIFE.COM
www.twitter.com/RSDJulien
www.facebook.com/RSDJulien
www.youtube.com/RSDJulien
www.youtube.com/JulienFreeTour
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J Dilla R.I.P.
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D-52
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keep them good stuff coming!
OutofBacon!
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B-Ray
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I took a bootcamp with him in Hollywood, he's a fucking beast.
What's up Todd? Happy to see you're doing great.
Thanks,
Ray
Magnificent
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Thanks for the awesome content.
As difficult as it may seem or feel at the moment of doubt, always do what's truly meant to be done, "face your fears."
It just feels so much better knowing that I've done my best facing any sort of challenge than being owned by it.
The willful choice to step beyond the "resistance" that holds us back is an inexplicable power.... it only grows when reinforced.
Thank you again,
Magnificent
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SharkFinz
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Working on self improvement and also understanding how many girls out there are amazing and much hotter than her helps me internalize the facts. I wouldn't change anything, not a second of the pain because at least I woke up when I was still relatively young and found rsd. I've learned so much so far on my journey and I look forward to every step to come, until its over.
These guys speak the TRUTH. It sucks to face it when u are a chode, but that's just because you are experiencing so much pain all at once. Eventually, things get easier, you enjoy success and better and better results.
Btw what up Todd Haahah!!
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Are you doing bootcamp and freetour in London on the 25th October or in Iceland? Sort that shit out cause I need to take some days off if I want to go
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Discipline
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Also, The Way of The Superior Man supports this same truth.
greetings from Europe!
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Tyler
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When you look into the camera and say "I'll fuck your girl blah blah...." it's super hilarious. Shown it to a few girls and they're laughing their asses off at it and say they'd be down (seriously...).
I think the strongest point that you make in the vid that's actually underemphasized is that growth is the NEW "comfort zone". That's an excellent reframe there that you could expand on in the future.
Tyler
Robert Paulsen
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Put a gun to your head Mr. Social Conditioning and reframe.
Great stuff Julien
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But I really laughed my ass off with this "she will fuck me and than go back to you as if nothing happened... or she will divorce you... or she will have my kid and raise with you" line! XD
besides that this shit is pretty true and happens all the time, it makes it even more funnier how you say it in the camera. It's like a wake-up call, there are these two players lookin at you and tellin you: do your homework chump, or we will come and fuck your wife, your sister, your mom, your aunt and your cat^^
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Can you also talk about ASD when winging in the club/bar. Like do you n your wing separate n isolate each one of the girls of a 2-set of girls to make out, "work em",etc. i seen in your vids you make out with girls in front of Tyler but when you "bounce" a girl in your vids it seems like you did it without help from a wing. Also do you and your wing "bounce" a 2 set at the same time to the same S-location or to the same venue or same restaurant? I would think that when working a 2 set then all 4 people would have to stick together for the venue change and for the s-location. Nice vid n article! Stay up Julien thanks for your great articles n vids!
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