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Howdy!
“Alright, alright…”
I just finished wrapping up yet another successful Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp with Tyler here in Austin, Texas!
This unfortunately concludes my brief stay here in the United States however, but it also marks the beginning of the next chapter: Australia, New Zealand and South America!
I’ve never actually been to any of these places before so I’m really looking forward to this part of my World Tour and if you’re located anywhere nearby then so should you!
I’ve also finally been able to start working on my official manifesto that I’m planning on recording sometime in July, 2012.
I did my very first beta testing for it here in Austin and it's looking very, very promissing.
It's going to be encompassing all of the different concepts and theories that I hold true to heart as well as my own personal backstory in this area of my life.
I’m also currently in the process of remodeling my Blog for it's release, so stay tuned for that as well!
Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates...
May 24 - 26, 2012: Perth
May 31 - June 2, 2012: Melbourne
June 7 - 9, 2012: Sydney (taught with Alexander~)
June 14 - 16, 2012: Auckland (taught with Alexander~)
June 21 - 23, 2012: Buenos Aires, Argentina
June 28 - 30, 2012: Sao Paulo, Brazil
July 5 - 7, 2012: Mexico City, Mexico
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
You can also check out all of the cities that I'll be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.
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On that note, the topic that I’m excited to share with you today is about:
BEING A "PERMISSION BOY"
That’s right!
A little permission boy…
Not even a man.
Coming from the weak frame of mind of looking to the environment that's around you and to the women that you're interacting for permission to be whom you would like to be at that moment in time.
Seeking their approval for all of your thoughts, words and actions.
And this is one of the major pitfalls that a lot of guys not only tend to get caught up in when interacting with women in general, but in their everyday life as well.
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED IN AUSTIN AND THAT REVEALS HOW TO SNAP YOURSELF OUT OF BEING A "PERMISSION BOY" AND STRAP ON THE BIG BOY PANTS:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iULxmr2je8w
I wrote an article a while back that goes hand in hand with this topic as well, entitled:
Taking On Your Role As A Man As Opposed To Taking On The Woman’s Role!
As a man, it’s your role to be grounded in your own reality and to let the women that you’re interacting with explore that reality.
Not the other way around…
It’s your role to ping off of yourself as opposed to be pinging off of the environment and off of the women that you’re interacting with.
It’s your role to be drawing state from within as opposed to drawing state off of the environment.
Women on the other hand are constantly pinging off of the environment and the men that they’re meeting and interacting with.
They’re basically visiting the different types of reality offered to them by the men that they’re meeting and interacting with while screening those different realities in order to determine which of them are weak and which of them aren't offering any kind of value, whatsoever!
Can you guess where coming from the “permission boy” frame of mind stands?
If you're looking for permission from the women that you're interacting with and placing all of the responsibility for the interaction on their shoulders, then you are taking value.
It's weak.
It’s pathetic.
There is no certainty behind who you are and there is no certainty behind any of your actions, at all.
If you’re not assuming and trusting your own reality, then how can you expect the women that you’re interacting with to assume it and trust it as well?
You can't.
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW AND START TAKING ON YOUR ROLE AS A MAN IN THE INTERACTIONS THAT YOU'RE HAVING:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JrqiRub9xn4
Switch out of the "permission boy" frame of mind.
A phrase that has really helped me change this habit in the past is that:
“It’s easier to ask for forgiveness, than it is to ask for permission.”
Really take this to heart!
“IT’S EASIER TO AS FOR FORGIVENESS, THAN IT IS TO ASK FOR PERMISSION.”
Step out of all of the social conditioning that’s constantly telling you to fit in and to seek approval.
Assume your own reality and overwhelm the types of environments that you may find yourself in as opposed to letting those environments overwhelm you instead.
Start building that certainty in your own reality.
Women will always be drawn into the strongest reality.
The reality of a REAL MAN.
Strap on your “big boy pants” and start making an impact on the places that you go and the people that you meet.
As a side note, Tyler and I have been excessively using this expression as a catchphrase for years now similar to:
"Adventure!"
"Big boy pants!"
As long as you’re someone who has good intentions and who isn’t completely emotionally oblivious to the different types of environments that’s you're in, then you have nothing to worry about.
Strap on your “big boy pants” ;]
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PS: Let me know what you think of this video.
I always appreciate the feedback and let me know if you have any suggestions for any future videos as well!
PPS: Don’t forget to check out the Hot Seat 2 event dates over at www.rsdhotseat.com as well!
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY SEEN THIS OFFICIAL PREVIEW FOR THE EVENT:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlWrFgIR6CU
United States
June 2, 2012: Atlanta, GA, USA
June 16, 2012: Seattle, WA, USA
June 30, 2012: Philadelphia, PA, USA
July 14, 2012: Denver, CO, USA
August 4, 2012: Honolulu, HI, USA (Julien running day 2)
September 1, 2012: Los Angeles, CA, USA
Europe
September 22, 2012: Frankfurt, Germany
September 29, 2012: Stockholm, Sweden
October 6, 2012: Oslo, Norway
October 13, 2012: Edinburgh, United Kingdom
October 20, 2012: Dublin, Ireland
November 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain
December 1, 2012: Moscow, Russia
December 8, 2012: Athens, Greece
February 23, 2013: Bucharest, Romania
March 2, 2013: Sofia, Bulgaria
March 23, 2013: Gothenburg, Sweden
March 30, 2013: Birmingham, United Kingdom
Australia & New Zealand
May 26, 2012: Perth, Australia
June 2, 2012: Melbourne, Australia
June 9, 2012: Sydney, Australia
June 16, 2012: Auckland, New Zealand
Canada
August 25, 2012: Vancouver, Canada
September 1, 2012: Toronto, Canada
September 8, 2012: Montreal, Canada
Latin America
June 16, 2012: Bogota, Columbia
June 23, 2012: Buenos Aires, Argentina
June 30, 2012: Sao Paulo, Brazil
July 7, 2012: Mexico City, Mexico
Middle East
December 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel
January 5, 2013: Dubai, United Arab Emirates
South Africa
January 12, 2013: Cape Town, South Africa
January 19, 2013: Johannesburg, South Africa
www.rsdhotseat.com
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WWW.JULIENLIFE.COM
www.twitter.com/RSDJulien
www.facebook.com/RSDJulien
www.youtube.com/RSDJulien
www.youtube.com/JulienFreeTour
“Alright, alright…”
I just finished wrapping up yet another successful Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp with Tyler here in Austin, Texas!
This unfortunately concludes my brief stay here in the United States however, but it also marks the beginning of the next chapter: Australia, New Zealand and South America!
I’ve never actually been to any of these places before so I’m really looking forward to this part of my World Tour and if you’re located anywhere nearby then so should you!
I’ve also finally been able to start working on my official manifesto that I’m planning on recording sometime in July, 2012.
I did my very first beta testing for it here in Austin and it's looking very, very promissing.
It's going to be encompassing all of the different concepts and theories that I hold true to heart as well as my own personal backstory in this area of my life.
I’m also currently in the process of remodeling my Blog for it's release, so stay tuned for that as well!
Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates...
May 24 - 26, 2012: Perth
May 31 - June 2, 2012: Melbourne
June 7 - 9, 2012: Sydney (taught with Alexander~)
June 14 - 16, 2012: Auckland (taught with Alexander~)
June 21 - 23, 2012: Buenos Aires, Argentina
June 28 - 30, 2012: Sao Paulo, Brazil
July 5 - 7, 2012: Mexico City, Mexico
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
You can also check out all of the cities that I'll be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.
<>==========================================<>
On that note, the topic that I’m excited to share with you today is about:
BEING A "PERMISSION BOY"
That’s right!
A little permission boy…
Not even a man.
Coming from the weak frame of mind of looking to the environment that's around you and to the women that you're interacting for permission to be whom you would like to be at that moment in time.
Seeking their approval for all of your thoughts, words and actions.
And this is one of the major pitfalls that a lot of guys not only tend to get caught up in when interacting with women in general, but in their everyday life as well.
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED IN AUSTIN AND THAT REVEALS HOW TO SNAP YOURSELF OUT OF BEING A "PERMISSION BOY" AND STRAP ON THE BIG BOY PANTS:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=iULxmr2je8w
I wrote an article a while back that goes hand in hand with this topic as well, entitled:
Taking On Your Role As A Man As Opposed To Taking On The Woman’s Role!
As a man, it’s your role to be grounded in your own reality and to let the women that you’re interacting with explore that reality.
Not the other way around…
It’s your role to ping off of yourself as opposed to be pinging off of the environment and off of the women that you’re interacting with.
It’s your role to be drawing state from within as opposed to drawing state off of the environment.
Women on the other hand are constantly pinging off of the environment and the men that they’re meeting and interacting with.
They’re basically visiting the different types of reality offered to them by the men that they’re meeting and interacting with while screening those different realities in order to determine which of them are weak and which of them aren't offering any kind of value, whatsoever!
Can you guess where coming from the “permission boy” frame of mind stands?
If you're looking for permission from the women that you're interacting with and placing all of the responsibility for the interaction on their shoulders, then you are taking value.
It's weak.
It’s pathetic.
There is no certainty behind who you are and there is no certainty behind any of your actions, at all.
If you’re not assuming and trusting your own reality, then how can you expect the women that you’re interacting with to assume it and trust it as well?
You can't.
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW AND START TAKING ON YOUR ROLE AS A MAN IN THE INTERACTIONS THAT YOU'RE HAVING:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JrqiRub9xn4
Switch out of the "permission boy" frame of mind.
A phrase that has really helped me change this habit in the past is that:
“It’s easier to ask for forgiveness, than it is to ask for permission.”
Really take this to heart!
“IT’S EASIER TO AS FOR FORGIVENESS, THAN IT IS TO ASK FOR PERMISSION.”
Step out of all of the social conditioning that’s constantly telling you to fit in and to seek approval.
Assume your own reality and overwhelm the types of environments that you may find yourself in as opposed to letting those environments overwhelm you instead.
Start building that certainty in your own reality.
Women will always be drawn into the strongest reality.
The reality of a REAL MAN.
Strap on your “big boy pants” and start making an impact on the places that you go and the people that you meet.
As a side note, Tyler and I have been excessively using this expression as a catchphrase for years now similar to:
"Adventure!"
"Big boy pants!"
As long as you’re someone who has good intentions and who isn’t completely emotionally oblivious to the different types of environments that’s you're in, then you have nothing to worry about.
Strap on your “big boy pants” ;]
<>==========================================<>
PS: Let me know what you think of this video.
I always appreciate the feedback and let me know if you have any suggestions for any future videos as well!
PPS: Don’t forget to check out the Hot Seat 2 event dates over at www.rsdhotseat.com as well!
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY SEEN THIS OFFICIAL PREVIEW FOR THE EVENT:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlWrFgIR6CU
United States
June 2, 2012: Atlanta, GA, USA
June 16, 2012: Seattle, WA, USA
June 30, 2012: Philadelphia, PA, USA
July 14, 2012: Denver, CO, USA
August 4, 2012: Honolulu, HI, USA (Julien running day 2)
September 1, 2012: Los Angeles, CA, USA
Europe
September 22, 2012: Frankfurt, Germany
September 29, 2012: Stockholm, Sweden
October 6, 2012: Oslo, Norway
October 13, 2012: Edinburgh, United Kingdom
October 20, 2012: Dublin, Ireland
November 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain
December 1, 2012: Moscow, Russia
December 8, 2012: Athens, Greece
February 23, 2013: Bucharest, Romania
March 2, 2013: Sofia, Bulgaria
March 23, 2013: Gothenburg, Sweden
March 30, 2013: Birmingham, United Kingdom
Australia & New Zealand
May 26, 2012: Perth, Australia
June 2, 2012: Melbourne, Australia
June 9, 2012: Sydney, Australia
June 16, 2012: Auckland, New Zealand
Canada
August 25, 2012: Vancouver, Canada
September 1, 2012: Toronto, Canada
September 8, 2012: Montreal, Canada
Latin America
June 16, 2012: Bogota, Columbia
June 23, 2012: Buenos Aires, Argentina
June 30, 2012: Sao Paulo, Brazil
July 7, 2012: Mexico City, Mexico
Middle East
December 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel
January 5, 2013: Dubai, United Arab Emirates
South Africa
January 12, 2013: Cape Town, South Africa
January 19, 2013: Johannesburg, South Africa
www.rsdhotseat.com
<>=======================================<>
WWW.JULIENLIFE.COM
www.twitter.com/RSDJulien
www.facebook.com/RSDJulien
www.youtube.com/RSDJulien
www.youtube.com/JulienFreeTour
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Kash.TO
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- the Real Jeff Tom
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LOL, I'm stealing this from you, Julien! BTW, what was that festival or whatever in Austin? Looked hectic as shit with drunkards abound.
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Props to your camera team in general, filming infield must be super hard
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Best guy is on the right side: he saw Julien and the camera, told his friend, run to stand behind Julien's back, look at him, and then show the finger with "fuck you" expression on his face. I was pretty sure he recognized Julien til that last moment. I don't understand this agression towards camera.
Fuckin' retards.
Great video. Important topic.
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My fav part is when Julien imitates chodes and then goes on an angry rant about how they look like hamsters. :)
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from this video, the others like alexander`s natural manifesto and brad`s how to make girls chase u, made soo much sense to me!
and not to mention tyler`s last masculine polarity video!
the "i`am enough" makes soooooo much sense now!
there`s this girl LITERALLY pursuing me, but i cant talk now, I`m on duty at work!
thanks you guys! really!
p.s. and I saw td kissing that girl at the nite part of this video ;D
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My fav part is when Julien imitates chodes and then goes on an angry rant about how they look like hamsters. :)
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Thanks Julien, this is a good one.
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1) The first part i can't even hear what julien is saying because i'm so distracted by the shadow of the camera on his shirt.
2) Owen wearing a green t-shirt and making out with a chick in the background. The most eye opening part was clearly the green t-shirt.
3) The cowgirls fighting at the end. Huge epiphany. I must go to texas and see this for myself.
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Tyler has been showing us un-reactivenes to the environment in all of his videos, I guess Julien just stepped it up. I am genuinely wondering if Julien style is like Tylers But more intense?
It seems that Julien is a 3 minute closer, I am wondering how he does in long sets. Is his main strength, the 3 minute close? for me Julien is the most mysterious guy in RSD,
I am saying this because I don't think we should encourage Julien to do more 3 min videos.
They are cool and all, but more insight can obviously be taken from longer videos.
Depth instead of surface
- I want to get to know Julien, I think he has a lot to offer, Not trying to rush him into doing something that he might not be ready for, but just to let him know that there are people out there that do want to see him rant for 1 or 2 hours .
but anyways thanks for the video
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Texans are fucken crazy lol allways looking to start a fight. That video made me appreciate how nice people are here in Toronto. For some reason it took me to memories of being a kid and going to a crowded circus and just being in my own reality and I remembered how much fun that was, just being focused in the moment in my own world and only on the things that were directly infront of me as they came. Awesome video, love all your videos dude, THANKS :)
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Btw man why'd you cut out those parts of you grabbing those girls and making out with them? I thought that was epic.
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This article & vid. is going into my favs.
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Btw man why'd you cut out those parts of you grabbing those girls and making out with them? I thought that was epic.
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good reinforcement though!
i want you to thank you for this. it built up the fury to push through and take action to get rid of it. THX!
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But, seriously, it was great to meet you and I thought your presentation and what you had to say was outstanding. Good luck to you, sir!
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TheID for the base ROM is 10HX2P.H7300.111125.AD2_3_4_V1.WVGAC_EN.COM_V01_3G .
I don't like to customise things too much (since everyone has their own preferences) so I have just done most of the basics.
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