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New shirt!
I don't know if you've realized this yet by watching some of my previous videos, but I've been pretty much traveling around Europe these past two months with a clothing arsenal consisting of only one or two shirts...
Really. ;]
This is actually something that I never really put much thought into, since it's never been something that has hindered my results with women in any way whatsoever, but I have to admit that having now been back in Los Angeles for a week and being able to somewhat change up my current attire does feel pretty amazing!
Things have been pretty crazy otherwise since I've gotten back here this past week: new adventures, new clubs, new women, new shirts, etc.
And it's been really great to be able to relax for a bit in a familiar environment as well as to be able mentally prepare myself for the next part of my tour which is going to be: Australia, New Zealand and South America!!!
Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates...
May 17 - 19, 2012: Austin (taught with Tyler)
May 24 - 26, 2012: Perth (taught with Alexander~)
May 31 - June 2, 2012: Melbourne (taught with Alexander~)
June 7 - 9, 2012: Sydney (taught with Alexander~)
June 14 - 16, 2012: Auckland (taught with Alexander~)
June 21 - 23, 2012: Buenos Aires, Argentina
June 28 - 30, 2012: Sao Paulo, Brazil
July 5 - 7, 2012: Mexico City, Mexico
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
You can also check out all of the cities that I'll be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.
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On that note, what I'm excited to share with you today is one of the most common sticking points that most guys that I see tend to encounter on Bootcamp, which is the "WHAT DO I DO NEXT?" PARADIGM.
"What do I do next?"
"What's the next step to the interaction?"
"I don't know what to say...?"
"The interaction just died down and it fizzled out...?"
And this is something that a lot of guys tend to get caught up in and that oftentimes leads them to having a lot of very, very short interactions overall, without any actual results with the women that they're interacting with.
And I actually think that this is also one of the main reasons why so many guys also tend to get stuck into what we like to call "Intermediate Purgatory" and just can't seem to be able to snap themselves out of it.
So...
...
"What do I do next?"
Well, the answer to that question is: "ANYTHING!!!"
Anything at all...
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I JUST RECORDED HERE IN LOS ANGELES THAT REVEALS EVERYTHING THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW TO SNAP OUT OF THE "WHAT DO I DO NEXT?" PARADIGM AND CHANGE UP YOUR RESULTS WITH WOMEN AS OF TODAY:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=InZzrxilG2w
What you ultimately have to realize is that the only thing that women want to know when they see you approach them and start interacting with them is:
"Who is this guy? What is he about?"
That's it!
That's all that they're thinking.
"WHO IS THIS GUY?"
They ultimately want to know who you are as a person.
They want to know if you're someone who adds value to their current situation and with whom they share positive emotions or if you're someone who takes value from their current situation and with whom they share negative emotions.
And the main way that they get to know you, is by experiencing you.
They're getting to know you by experiencing the emotions that you're feeling inside and that you're transferring onto them, by the law of state transference.
By experiencing the emotions that you're feeling inside throughout the course of the interaction.
It's not through any step by step process or through any material context but through the overarching vibe of the interaction.
So, instead of asking yourself "What do I do next?" start asking yourself "What do I want to do next?"
What would give me good emotions that would then be transferred onto her?
As long as you're leading and acting through your own intentions by doing whatever you want to be doing at that moment in time, she's going to feel attracted to you.
This is the mental switch that you have to ultimately make!
And it also really all comes down to realizing this new found freedom that you now have wihtin the interaction.
You're free to be doing whatever you would like to be doing, literally!
And that's what you should be doing!
You are now free...
There is no right thing to do next...
The right thing to do next is whatever you feel like doing next.
Snap yourself out of the "What do I do next?" paradigm that so many guys tend to get caught up in and literally: BE FREE!
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As a side note, this is also something that coincides well with one of my previous articles:
Heightening Your Sense Of Awareness And Seeing The Bigger Picture!
Viewing the bigger picture of the interaction.
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED IN LONDON THAT REVEALS EVERYTHING THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT HEIGHTENING YOUR SENSE OF AWARENESS WHEN INTERACTING WITH WOMEN IN GENERAL:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i6H4877mev4
What you do on a second by second basis is usually completely irrelevant in terms of the end result of the interaction, which is of course to "get the girl."
You should always be asking yourself: "Is this something that really affects the end result of the interaction? Yes or no?"
And most of the time, that answer is going to be:
"No."
I don't know if you've realized this yet by watching some of my previous videos, but I've been pretty much traveling around Europe these past two months with a clothing arsenal consisting of only one or two shirts...
Really. ;]
This is actually something that I never really put much thought into, since it's never been something that has hindered my results with women in any way whatsoever, but I have to admit that having now been back in Los Angeles for a week and being able to somewhat change up my current attire does feel pretty amazing!
Things have been pretty crazy otherwise since I've gotten back here this past week: new adventures, new clubs, new women, new shirts, etc.
And it's been really great to be able to relax for a bit in a familiar environment as well as to be able mentally prepare myself for the next part of my tour which is going to be: Australia, New Zealand and South America!!!
Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates...
May 17 - 19, 2012: Austin (taught with Tyler)
May 24 - 26, 2012: Perth (taught with Alexander~)
May 31 - June 2, 2012: Melbourne (taught with Alexander~)
June 7 - 9, 2012: Sydney (taught with Alexander~)
June 14 - 16, 2012: Auckland (taught with Alexander~)
June 21 - 23, 2012: Buenos Aires, Argentina
June 28 - 30, 2012: Sao Paulo, Brazil
July 5 - 7, 2012: Mexico City, Mexico
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
You can also check out all of the cities that I'll be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.
<>==========================================<>
On that note, what I'm excited to share with you today is one of the most common sticking points that most guys that I see tend to encounter on Bootcamp, which is the "WHAT DO I DO NEXT?" PARADIGM.
"What do I do next?"
"What's the next step to the interaction?"
"I don't know what to say...?"
"The interaction just died down and it fizzled out...?"
And this is something that a lot of guys tend to get caught up in and that oftentimes leads them to having a lot of very, very short interactions overall, without any actual results with the women that they're interacting with.
And I actually think that this is also one of the main reasons why so many guys also tend to get stuck into what we like to call "Intermediate Purgatory" and just can't seem to be able to snap themselves out of it.
So...
...
"What do I do next?"
Well, the answer to that question is: "ANYTHING!!!"
Anything at all...
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I JUST RECORDED HERE IN LOS ANGELES THAT REVEALS EVERYTHING THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW TO SNAP OUT OF THE "WHAT DO I DO NEXT?" PARADIGM AND CHANGE UP YOUR RESULTS WITH WOMEN AS OF TODAY:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=InZzrxilG2w
What you ultimately have to realize is that the only thing that women want to know when they see you approach them and start interacting with them is:
"Who is this guy? What is he about?"
That's it!
That's all that they're thinking.
"WHO IS THIS GUY?"
They ultimately want to know who you are as a person.
They want to know if you're someone who adds value to their current situation and with whom they share positive emotions or if you're someone who takes value from their current situation and with whom they share negative emotions.
And the main way that they get to know you, is by experiencing you.
They're getting to know you by experiencing the emotions that you're feeling inside and that you're transferring onto them, by the law of state transference.
By experiencing the emotions that you're feeling inside throughout the course of the interaction.
It's not through any step by step process or through any material context but through the overarching vibe of the interaction.
So, instead of asking yourself "What do I do next?" start asking yourself "What do I want to do next?"
What would give me good emotions that would then be transferred onto her?
As long as you're leading and acting through your own intentions by doing whatever you want to be doing at that moment in time, she's going to feel attracted to you.
This is the mental switch that you have to ultimately make!
And it also really all comes down to realizing this new found freedom that you now have wihtin the interaction.
You're free to be doing whatever you would like to be doing, literally!
And that's what you should be doing!
You are now free...
There is no right thing to do next...
The right thing to do next is whatever you feel like doing next.
Snap yourself out of the "What do I do next?" paradigm that so many guys tend to get caught up in and literally: BE FREE!
<>==========================================<>
As a side note, this is also something that coincides well with one of my previous articles:
Heightening Your Sense Of Awareness And Seeing The Bigger Picture!
Viewing the bigger picture of the interaction.
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED IN LONDON THAT REVEALS EVERYTHING THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT HEIGHTENING YOUR SENSE OF AWARENESS WHEN INTERACTING WITH WOMEN IN GENERAL:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i6H4877mev4
What you do on a second by second basis is usually completely irrelevant in terms of the end result of the interaction, which is of course to "get the girl."
You should always be asking yourself: "Is this something that really affects the end result of the interaction? Yes or no?"
And most of the time, that answer is going to be:
"No."
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Oh man.....
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Thanks Julien, great stuff!
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Dr Feelgood
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I need to remember this out there! Next time I wonder what to do next, my answer to myself will be: "Do whatever you feel like doing! Express yourself!"
PS: I just realized that this was the exact same shirt every time! So when did you wash it? Wait - I don't even want to know, ha ha...!
Also, you adopted Tyler's "okaaay" at the end of a sentence....
"Run through the fields/ Run for your life!" [To the tune of iron Maidens "Run to the hills!"....]
DonDiego
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I really like how you change up the question to "What do I feel like doing next?" really goes with the self-amusement, generating state from within mind frame. Thanks brother!
SouffléHead
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WTF.
Hmmm... maybe I could use that as a technique.
Great stuff Julien. I've been walking round doing what I want for a little while now. It's fucked up how my brain will try and pull me back into social normality at times. For example I went out with work colleagues and was having a blast and I got a little sexual in my language and one of my female colleagues was shocked (when they make out theyre shocked, but they're laughing) and my brain seemed to latch onto the logical side of what she was saying and tried to convince me to tone it down a bit. I ignored and carried on, but it's crazy how that happens.
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haha, finally you got conscious about that shirt.
this reminds me about Hot Seat where you had this ugly big t-shirt that you haven't washed for 30 days or something.
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