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***Where will YOU be next?***



Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates…

December 13 – 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel
January 3 – 5, 2013: Vienna, Austria
January 10 – 12, 2013: Cape Town, South Africa
January 17 – 19, 2012: Moscow, Russia
January 24 – 26, 2013: Gothenburg, Sweden
January 31 – February 2, 2013: Helsinki, Finland

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com


You can also check out all of the cities that I'm going to be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.

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“Most of us live in a semi-somnambulistic state: we do our daily tasks and the days fly by. The two exceptions to this are childhood and those moments when we are in love. In both cases, our emotions are more engaged, more open and active. And we equate feeling emotional with feeling more alive.” – Robert Greene, The Art Of Seduction

“Most People Go Through Life in a Walking Daze.” – Owen Cook (Aka Tyler from Real Social Dynamics), The Blueprint Decoded

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT REVEALS HOW MOST PEOPLE GO THROUGH THEIR LIVES AND WHAT WOMEN REALLY CARE ABOUT… IT’S NOT WHAT YOU THINK…:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zmKGLe9DOb4)

Most people go through the autopilot motions of life without having any kind of purpose or any kind of path to follow.

They rarely feel internally fulfilled and they constantly try to compensate for this by continuously seeking out new levels of external stimulus.

And because of this, they rarely FEEL ALIVE.

Welcome to most people’s reality… ;]

Now, as men, we naturally tend to gravitate to and get turned on by INTERNAL FULFILLMENT.

This is what gives us a certain sense of purpose in life and this is what ultimately makes us feel alive…

Start addicting yourself to continuously progressing and developing yourself as a person.

Start addicting yourself to continuously breaking out of your comfort zone and striving for more.

Start having some kind of purpose and path to follow in life.


CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED WITH TODD THAT EXPLORES THIS TOPIC INTO FURTHER DEPTH AND THAT REVEALS THE INESCAPABLE CONSEQUENCES THAT WILL HAPPEN IF YOU DON’T:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4HghViV1Trg)

Now women, on the other hand, naturally tend to gravitate to and get turned on by EXTERNAL STIMULUS.

This is what ultimately makes them feel alive…

For women, it’s all about continuously seeking out those new levels of external stimulus where their emotions are more engaged, more open and active.

Why is it that women love to cry during movies?

Why is it that women love to argue and fight over stupid things?

Why is it that women love to be so dramatic and emotional all of the time?


Well, it’s because it makes them FEEL ALIVE.

They equate feeling emotional with feeling more alive…

This is their way of snapping themselves out of that “walking daze” and having a certain sense of purpose in life.

And this is one of the biggest realizations that any guy could ever make…

THERE ARE NO GOOD OR BAD EMOTIONS, THERE ARE ONLY STRONG EMOTIONS.

It’s all about the intensity that’s behind the emotions that are being provided to her.

That is what ultimately has value to her.

Really take the time to think about this…

A girl could find out that her boyfriend cheated on her and hate him with every single fiber of her being, for example. But even then, deep down inside, she’s going to be valuing the situation at hand because it gives her a sense of purpose.

Instead of just going through life in a “walking daze”, she now has something to live for.

She now has something to complain about.

She now has something to cry over.

She now has an opportunity to experience those new levels of external stimulus…

And to tell you the truth, this is going to make her even more attracted to her boyfriend than she was in the first place…

This is what I aim to accomplish whenever I’m interacting with women.

MAKING A STRONG EMOTIONAL IMPACT ON THEM.

Giving them the opportunity to experience that full range of STRONG EMOTIONS.

This is how you offer unimaginable amounts of value to women and this is how you create MASSIVE AMOUNTS OF ATTRACTION.

Making them feel happier with you than she would with any other guy…

Making them feel sadder with you than she would with any other guy…

Making them FEEL ALIVE.

Embracing the emotional drama that’s going to be constantly thrown at you, but most importantly AMPLIFYING IT.

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT REVEALS HOW TO MAKE ANY GIRL FALL IN LOVE WITH YOU, BUT MOST IMPORTANTLY HOW TO MAKE HER STAY IN LOVE WITH YOU:



(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=E2lwNe-sTtA)

One of the main reasons why most relationships fail is because most guys don’t understand this…

They don’t understand that experiencing these new levels of external stimulus is an INNATE NEED for women and instead of embracing it and amplifying it, they resist it…

They just want to keep things “cool and chill” and they try to stay as far as humanly possible from anything infringes on that.

Which, of course, strips women of the opportunity to feel alive…

Now, I’m not saying that you should start gravitating to and getting turned on by external stimulus, but it is important that you learn how to embrace and amplify the emotional tantrums that are going to constantly be thrown at you by women in general.

This is how you make them fall in love with you and this is how you ultimately HOOK THEM FOR LIFE!

Now, before concluding this article with a real-life example that really illustrates everything that’s been said here above, I’d like to kindly ask you to quickly read through these two RELATED ARTICLES:

How To Create Massive Amounts Of Drama To Make Women Fall Psychotically In Love With You!

The Practical Way To Hook A Girl For LIFE! (+Text Game Examples)

You now know everything that I know about the female psyche…

Congratulations… ;]

What I thought that I’d leave you with is a Facebook exchange that I had with a girl whom I met a little over a year ago back when I was living in Los Angeles…

I was traveling in Europe at the time and after ignoring her and not getting on Skype with her for about a month, she finally freaks out…

What I really want you to take out of this Facebook exchange is the way that I EMBRACE the emotional drama that’s been thrown at me and the way that I AMPLIFY it.

Really put yourself in this girl’s shoes as she’s experiencing this…

Note as well that I am NOT IDENTIFIED with any of the emotions that are being exchanged here either.

I simply give her the opportunity to bask in them and to ultimately FEEL ALIVE.



***CLICK HERE TO READ THE FACEBOOK EXCHANGE!***



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PS: CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT REVEALS HOW TO DRASTICALLY INCREASE YOUR SUCCESS RATE ON THE FIRST DATE:

How To Drastically Increase Your Success Rate On The First Date


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xxgodskDNus)

PPS: As always, LET ME KNOW WHAT YOU THINK of this article and don’t forget to check out the VERY LAST Hot Seat 2 event dates over at www.rsdhotseat.com!

Real Social Dynamics Julien Infield Footage -- Shocking Pickup Rampage -- Hot Seat 2 Revealed

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY SEEN THIS OFFICIAL PREVIEW FOR THE EVENT:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlWrFgIR6CU)

United States
December 22, 2012: Orlando, Florida, USA

Europe
January 5, 2013: Vienna, Austria
January 19, 2013: Moscow, Russia
February 2, 2013: Helsinki, Finland

Middle East
December 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel

South Africa
January 12, 2013: Cape Town, South Africa

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#1

El_Diego

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Join Date: 07/29/2009 | Posts: 146

 LOL. 

The end of the video is so funny:
"i fucked a lot of girls in a disgusting bathroom. Until next time"

BTW im curious on how seed them in the bathroom, you get them horny outside?, you just grab them by the hand and pull them in with no reason? or you ask them to help you inside with some reason? like, "can you watch the door while i go in?, im afraid i can get raped..., well i´m guessing depending on the situation, all of the above.

Cool black and white effects.
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#2
Gift~

Gift~

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Join Date: 02/02/2010 | Posts: 160

I did some training with Badboy and he said a similar thing - he said if you want to keep a 10 interested, you have to make her cry at least once a week!

It's essentially the same concept.
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#3
the glory

the glory

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Join Date: 03/18/2010 | Posts: 6

 Hahaha relationship belly :D sick posts man.. LOved the Facebook messages :D. Wat happened to coming to Johannesburg, south Africa in jan???
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#4
natlex

natlex

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Join Date: 08/25/2009 | Posts: 1481

I liked the video on the setting up dates which you explained at the hot seat and I've been doing. It has not worked that well on about 4-5 tries on semi solid sets that I could not pull (10-30 minutes together). But, once a girl set up a date the next day and it probably would have worked but she wanted to meet during the day and I can't be bothered waking up before noon to be "alert" by the time we meet up in the afternoon, plus I doubt she would of drank so harder to fuck and I have too much work to bother with a second date + going out...

I now try to setup a date and if it does not work, wait for her to re-initiate texts another day or just send her a random msg every week and see how intrested she is. If she does not double txt or ask me when I'm free I jsut drop it now... Girls love too much endless txt conversations that lead nowhere.

Either way, I'm still liking it because focusing on setting up the next day's date is a lot better than wasting time back and forth txt msg's from a time saving perspective, so thank you. "What are you doing tonight?" Never works for me though, but I suppose it would if she's really into me anyway. I crindge as I type it. So I just send something like "X night is y night. Let's party/drink/cook"
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#5
Tyler

Tyler

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Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 8827

Love it man!  Great Anakin Skywalker style delivery!  Any girl who watches this will be scared to talk to a man again!! :)

Shot looks amazing btw, love the black and white totally looks good and kinda funny.

Lately I've been doing the pan around of the environment over myself talking a few seconds into the video, I like that it shows the viewer what environment I'm in without slowing the content.

I remember watching you do the types of shit you walked about with the day2's in LA and it was fantastic.

In Hot Seat today I was telling the audience how one thing you do super well is just find a way no matter what, and you're totally shameless about it.

What you said here about how if a girl seems classy you just gotta pull and fuck her anyway is bang on, I've been sucked into this trap too many times and it SUCKS!

Tyler
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#6

Nj

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Join Date: 03/29/2012 | Posts: 250

Do you have examples which do not include drinks.....specially..girls that are too culturally conditioned..will they fuck without being drunk.
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#7

greentealover

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Join Date: 03/15/2012 | Posts: 571

 Is there any way that you can hook a girl by using drama if you don't know her too well? I mean the only way I know how to is by teasing her or calling her a dog but I don't really count that as drama...
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#8
deepBlue_

deepBlue_

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Join Date: 10/27/2012 | Posts: 141

Merci Julien! I got 3 day2s next week so could be gold for me.
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#9
Noe

Noe

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Join Date: 03/14/2011 | Posts: 42

Awesome vid and subject is totally where I am at right now!

In my model of reality it is not that she craves drama but is more a kind of status/value fight going on. She needs to know that you are legit. That you have values as a man that you do not compromise but at the same time acknowledge her as a (at least potential) part of your world. It is usually when you submit to her will that she gets bored and runs away or when you do not care at all about her so this fight is necessary for her to establish both you as a man and her role in your life.

The day two vid really helps me to push harder for the pull next time Im on one so thank you alot for that! Missed out on a HOTTY the other week cause I fell in to her "friendship" frame or whatever and didn't lead the interaction in a man to woman frame and could probably have been more creative about the logistics as well.
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#10
Stefanreal

Stefanreal

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Join Date: 12/05/2011 | Posts: 596

Julien!! see you in the Tel-Aviv Bootcamp! :D
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#11

kartman10

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Join Date: 06/25/2011 | Posts: 19

Hi Julien!
im sorry that a post here! i was ordered a free toure in Мoscow at december but date is change.
DO i need to re-order free tour again in January plz answer!-
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#12

CLove89

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Join Date: 04/21/2009 | Posts: 45

 I dig your new relationship material

more would be dope.  Most of the content is on the approach and first 5 hours of interaction.
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#13

MKC

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Join Date: 07/20/2011 | Posts: 28

Lol, i loved the ending of the video, "...and i fucked tons of girls in this disgusting public bathroom. Until next time :) " Haha.
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#14
Ronn Paul

Ronn Paul

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Join Date: 09/14/2012 | Posts: 120

 Perfect day 2 advices. Thanks Julien.
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#15
VisionsDivine

VisionsDivine

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Join Date: 03/09/2009 | Posts: 280

Haha, love the Christian Troy frame

[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bS0Wk-oKoEk[/youtube]
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#16
Kaleidoscope

Kaleidoscope

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Join Date: 09/20/2006 | Posts: 2063

It all makes sense now..

I always wondered why I could keep a one and a half year relationship in 2008 quite easily while I was a fucked up emotional wreck who threw tantrums, while now I'm more balanced I struggle to keep a girl, whether it be dating, friends with benefits or an open relationship,  for 3 months haha

Also makes sense why this hot girl I knew came and ate dinner with me at random.....just after she was saying she was shocked because I'd blown up all angry (long story). She'd never shown me much attraction until this....
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#17
Jonathan Browne

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Join Date: 03/09/2011 | Posts: 153

 I kind of look at this whole idea as being sort of like conservative and liberal partisan politics.

The safe comforting lifestyle is conservative. The going out hardcore striving to aspire to a passionate life fucking tons of chicks lifestyle, is liberal.

The problem is that there are certain blindspots in both the liberal and conservative idealogies.

The major problem in the world today is really the partisan viewpoints nearly everyone has. 

You rsd instructors are just as susceptible to that type of groupthink because you are actually part of a groupthink community yourself. 

Obviously, far less so than the majority of society, but I think there is a subtle groupthink to rsd for sure.

I mean let's be real.... not every person out there can live an rsd instructor lifestyle, or wants to.

There is a middle ground where a person can wake up happy, pursue a passionate lifestyle, and get women while still feeling comfortable. 

You don't have to go out every single day to have a happy and passionate life. 

I'm not saying you shouldn't, but its UP TO YOU. I think you guys are creating a huge sticking point in guys games by sort of implying that if they aren't living the life of an instructor (going out constantly) they can't really have great game and their girlfriend will get fucked in the ass by some random dude hahaaa.

What if a guys goal is to become a great novelist or a politician or something highly intellectual? What if that's what he is passionate about?

Should he go OUT 7 night a week or should he put that time into his passion and go out when he feels like it?


I guarantee you that if you become a great novelist or a politician or a musician or whatever it is your passionate about, it will naturally bleed into your personality and make you charasmatic and attractive to women. You will have incredible value as a natural result.

It's not at all neccessary for that proccess to involve some kind of painful struggle as you guys are implying here. 

If guys just watch these videos and think oh wow he's describing me I just work at a boring job and watch movies all day when I have free time.... and the prescription being given is to go on some painful pressure filled struggle that seems distant and hard to accomplish, you can sure as hell bet the less than 20% number will be true.

On the other hand, EVERY guy can imbue passion into their life by just finding something they find exciting and pursuing it. When you do that you AUTOMATICALLY get lead into a life of purpose and you automatically get higher and higher value.

It's not painful that way. It's actually pretty comfortable, but ALSO exciting. 

This whole duality of a life of struggle against mediocrity vs settling in and living a bland ass boring life.... its a false paradigm.

You guys should realize that as instructors you have made your life purpose and passion social interaction and getting with women and teaching other guys about it. 

It's the sense of purpose and drive that is the REAL REASON you are all attractive to women. Success with women is actually kind of just based on that passion for your life. That's the thing that throws the ball in the air. Everything else is sort of just like describing how a ball IS flying through the air and the scenery around it.

A guy can be a fucking fanatic for physics on the same level you guys are fanatics for social dynamics, and get just as many bad bitches.

Richard Feynman and Einstein made a lot of high caliber hot really wet haha.
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#18

keyboard_jockey

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Join Date: 07/14/2012 | Posts: 1

 Yeah, I loved the ending of that Budapest vid. "fucked a lot chicks in really disgusting bathrooms".
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#19

mikiliniz9

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Join Date: 12/22/2012 | Posts: 31

 really good one!
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