Great article.THANK YOU AND HAPPY NEW YEAR;)

 Awesome article as usual. See you in Miami. Its going to be an awesome time.

 Thanks Julien, I'll check the book.
Happy new year RSD

PS: if you turn the audio off, it looks like he's going to rape you

On pickup stuff, I do think there should be greater emphasis put on the process and what it involves. Mainly because I've seen allot of guys get disillusioned a couple of months in when results don't go there way. If they had a deeper understanding of how this shit is learnt and why it takes time and effort to learn any new skill, they may put greater trust in the process and not drop out so soon.

Oh man. Love that book. Very eye opening. It lead me to this book on willpower:

Willpower: Rediscovering the Greatest Human Strength

Julien I feel your pain - you get so used to going to a new place every week where there's new sights, people, language, infrastructure and etc.. and you wind up back at home. It's like everything goes on PAUSE. 

Thanks for reminding me to stretch. Almost let it slide!

 Uh... what are your habits that get you laid consistently man? What are they specifically? 

I didn't actually watch the video first time, I'll have to check out the book. I'm not going out properly until I move to London which is after I go travelling as I got things on this end. Looking forward to it though.

I loved the video, it sort of smashes the idea into your head.  One of my favs from you, the parts where you zoom in are hilarious.

I saw the feedback on Youtube suggesting to spew out a few more personal examples and a few specific habits as far as how they're implemented.  I don't think that was your point in the video -- IMO your point was simply to consider how going out builds specific habits and therefore creates the critical mass of a good skillset -- but I could see how to a typical viewer it would strenghten the video.

Read the book "Tell To Win" by Peter Guber -- just a good hour skim would do the trick.  I STRONGLY recommend you check out this book cause it will set it in your head how people learn through story telling.

http://www.amazon.com/Tell-Win-Connect-Persuade-ebook/dp/B003F3PK9K/ref=sr_1_2?ie=UTF8&qid=1357054879&sr=8-2&keywords=peter+guber

btw seeing your hometown, it's pretty amazing you and your siblings didn't turn out totally fucked up like having sex with sheep and shit like that lol.

I wonder why Americans who grow up in isolation fuck sheep whereas Swiss people turn out all normal?

The fields were amazing as well!  FINALLY we can all fully visualize the sad march home of all those girls!

Tyler

I see. 

It's funny because I'm listening to a Tony Robbins program and it dawned on me right after he explained how to change your 'rituals'  what I had been doing to get myself to over approach anxiety as one of a million other little stream lined mindsets and consciously chosen reactions. 

Some examples for me are like when I first see a chick I've accoicated feelings of comfort and fun by immeditaely picturing that kind of interaction. My default way to get physical by clawing the girl. My first impulse to lead the girl and conversation. The habit of laughing in the face of bitch behavior. The particular way I take chicks numbers.  Or when I get a chicks number who was super fucking fine and she doesn't respond I pump myself up instead of getting bogged down. Or when her fat friend drags my girl away after I just made out with her or whatever instead of thinking "those fucking stupid fat bitches should come to clubs with a vibrator and fuck off" and being all jaded I think "how can I get this to work next time". Asking those questions is a habit. Then the next habit I have in response to that question is that I interact with both girls equally and gradually break off with the girl I want so that her friend is happy for my girl. 

Another one is how I think about how pumped I am to find new girls when the current girl I'm talking to expires. Like sometimes I'll think how if I fuck it up it'll only benefit me because then I'll have the pleasure or going out and finding new girls. So I kinda keep my edge longer. 

A lot of the reactions I've learned to have were taught from RSD actually. Like, that's kind of what the front page is. It's like you guys figure out some cool new way to look at things and then you make a video about it. 

You did that 'adventure!" one, and I forget who talked about "Make taking action your criteria for success, not the result" which is particularly powerful for me, and exactly something Tony Robbins talks about. I pump myself up every time I take action and I feel great about it, so it keeps me going. 

I think Ozzie or Alexander say something like "If she's still there talking to you then she wants you". 

The vid with Todd on clawing as a default reaction to being friendly and dominant... 

That video of you where you come on super strong with some chich and you can tell she's not ready for it, so you take a step back and start again...

I think a kind of RSD theme that was going on for awhile was the habit of "moving towards your fears" or something reincarnation of that idea. Which, has become a reality for me and is very liberating in every area of my life. Now I'm more than willing to dive into the unknown to learn faster...whether is be business, sports, chicks, networking...etc

Why do you have an American accent if you grew up in Switzerland? Just curious.
 

At the end. Were those..THE FIELDS?

lol that's what you call NORMAL?

haha the best story was when he watched them walk through the fields using binoculars while eating a sandwich!

 There is only one problem with having your thoughts words and actions aligned and showing the girl what you are really feeling and who you really are.

What if you're a very negative person?

Love your vids Julien!


Didn't know you were from Europe. When are you going to have that "Weihnachtsmarkt Bootcamp" or something in Switzerland? It would be my pleasure to bang some of those girls you went to high school with.

Enjoy the new year bro.

nice video............