Julien's Blog
"Oi!"
"How's it going?"
I'm about to head up to New York right now where I'm going to be spending the rest of the week running Bootcamp as well as doing a special RSD Free Tour with none other than Todd next Monday July 16, 2012!
So if you're located anywhere near the Big Apple and if you're interested in hearing about all of the latest concepts and new gems that I've been working on then I highly recommend that you DO NOT miss out on this FREE event that's happening near you. ;]
Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates...
July 12 - 14, 2012: New York
August 2 - 4, 2012: Honolulu (taught with Tyler)
August 9 - 11, 2012: Portland
August 17 - 19, 2012: Las Vegas
August 23 - 25, 2012: Vancouver, Canada
August 30 - September 1, 2012: Toronto, Canada
September 6 - 8, 2012: Montreal, Canada
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
You can also check out all of the cities that I'm going to be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.
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So...
What I thought that I'd take the time and share with you here today is a concept that, once fully broken down and understood, is going to DRASTICALLY improve your actual results with women in general by getting them to start chasing YOU!
And not the other way around...
THE POWER OF INVESTMENT.
Ask yourself:
"Who is investing more in the interaction at hand?"
"Who is actually CARING more about the interaction at hand?"
"Who would ultimately be more EMOTIONALLY AFFECTED if the interaction ended or not?"
In every single social interaction there's always going to be one person investing more in the interaction at hand than the other.
There is always going to be one person who is more emotionally attached to the outcome of the interaction at hand than the other and it's your job NOT to fall into that role.
What you have to realize is that there is always going to be a constant "battle of investment" in every single interaction and that it's important that you start attuning yourself to that sub layer of communication as of right now in order to achieve true success with women in general.
And realize as well that this is something that can either be very obvious, but that othentimes really tends not to be...
It's subtle!
Really take the time to think about all of this and start asking yourself:
"Who is currently taking the role of investing more in the interaction at hand?"
I was recently in São Paulo with a friend of mine and I remember one of the women whom he was interacting with saying to him something along the lines of:
"I'm afraid that if I kiss you, you'll leave..."
And of course, what's the natural response that most guys will tend to say to this?
"No, I won't. I like spending time with you and talking to you, and I won't leave if you kiss me. I promise."
And then of course... BOOM!
INVESTMENT.
This probably wasn't even something that was done consciously on her part, but yet it still put him in a certain role of caring more about the interaction at hand that her.
He's now more invested in the interaction at hand and he's now ultimately no longer coming from a place of being free from all outcome...
SO, HOW DOES ALL OF THIS APPLY TO YOU?
What's important to realize whenever you're approaching and interacting with women in general is that for her to actually go out of her way and go home with you, she's ultimately going to have to be somewhat invested in the interaction at hand.
If she isn't investent then she won't have that emotional leverage to do so and trust me...
The interaction is not going go anywhere, at all.
For her to actually go out of her way for you she's going to have to actually take part in the interaction at hand.
If you're the one who's constantly leading the interaction that you're having and not letting her be a part of it, then she'll have no reason to go out of her way in order to keep it going, at all.
You have to actually start letting her speak.
You have actually start letting her EMOTIONALLY INVEST.
If you don't, then trust me...
You are fucked!
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED IN SAO PAULO THAT EXPLORES THIS TOPIC INTO FURTHER DEPTH AND THAT REVEALS HOW THIS AFFECTED ME DURING MY BRIEF STAY THERE AS WELL:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KriZHsiiYPg
As a self-actualized and naturally attractive man, it becomes very easy to get lost by solely focusing on your own actions, as those are what ultimately pump your state up, and forget about this important aspect of the interaction.
It's easy to forget that you have to actually slow down at times and let her partake in it as well.
Start giving her that same feeling that you tend to get when you're put into that role in order to further the interaction together.
Start giving her those opportunities to invest as well.
She can't just be experiencing you without any attachment to the outcome of the interaction.
And as a side note, this is also something that goes hand in hand with a video that I released quite a while back, entitled:
How To Create A “Moment Of Realness” To Get The Girl
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zxZfHTafSKo
Realize as of today, THE POWER OF INVESTMENT...
And start making the women that you're interacting with actually chase YOU!
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Incase you've missed it, I thought that I'd also include this recent video that I recorded at the RSD Free Tour in São Paulo as well!
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED IN SAO PAULO THAT REVEALS EXACTLY HOW TO GET THE GIRLS ATTENTION BY BRINGING BACK OLD SCHOOL CONCEPTS SUCH AS “BUTTON PUSHING” AND “NEGGING”:
How To Get Her Attention: Penetrate Her “Wall Of Politeness”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_2reDG7UwO4
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PS: Let me know what you think of this video and if you have any specific topics that you’d like to hear me cover in any future RSDNATION article!
PPS: I've also recently been regularly updating my Twitter Feed with all sorts of funny and interesting lines for you to use... Check it out RIGHT NOW!
PPPS: Don’t forget to check out the Hot Seat 2 event dates over at www.rsdhotseat.com as well!
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY SEEN THIS OFFICIAL PREVIEW FOR THE EVENT:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlWrFgIR6CU
United States
July 14, 2012: Denver, CO, USA
August 4, 2012: Honolulu, HI, USA (Julien running day 2)
September 1, 2012: Los Angeles, CA, USA
Europe
September 22, 2012: Frankfurt, Germany
September 29, 2012: Stockholm, Sweden
October 6, 2012: Oslo, Norway
October 13, 2012: Edinburgh, United Kingdom
October 20, 2012: Dublin, Ireland
October 27, 2012: London, United Kingdom
November 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain
December 1, 2012: Moscow, Russia
December 8, 2012: Athens, Greece
February 23, 2013: Bucharest, Romania
March 2, 2013: Sofia, Bulgaria
March 23, 2013: Gothenburg, Sweden
March 30, 2013: Birmingham, United Kingdom
Canada
August 25, 2012: Vancouver, Canada
September 1, 2012: Toronto, Canada
September 8, 2012: Montreal, Canada
Middle East
December 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel
January 5, 2013: Dubai, United Arab Emirates
South Africa
January 12, 2013: Cape Town, South Africa
January 19, 2013: Johannesburg, South Africa
www.rsdhotseat.com
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WWW.JULIENLIFE.COM
www.twitter.com/RSDJulien
www.facebook.com/RSDJulien
www.youtube.com/RSDJulien
www.youtube.com/JulienFreeTour
"How's it going?"
I'm about to head up to New York right now where I'm going to be spending the rest of the week running Bootcamp as well as doing a special RSD Free Tour with none other than Todd next Monday July 16, 2012!
So if you're located anywhere near the Big Apple and if you're interested in hearing about all of the latest concepts and new gems that I've been working on then I highly recommend that you DO NOT miss out on this FREE event that's happening near you. ;]
Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates...
July 12 - 14, 2012: New York
August 2 - 4, 2012: Honolulu (taught with Tyler)
August 9 - 11, 2012: Portland
August 17 - 19, 2012: Las Vegas
August 23 - 25, 2012: Vancouver, Canada
August 30 - September 1, 2012: Toronto, Canada
September 6 - 8, 2012: Montreal, Canada
www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com
You can also check out all of the cities that I'm going to be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.
<>==========================================<>
So...
What I thought that I'd take the time and share with you here today is a concept that, once fully broken down and understood, is going to DRASTICALLY improve your actual results with women in general by getting them to start chasing YOU!
And not the other way around...
THE POWER OF INVESTMENT.
Ask yourself:
"Who is investing more in the interaction at hand?"
"Who is actually CARING more about the interaction at hand?"
"Who would ultimately be more EMOTIONALLY AFFECTED if the interaction ended or not?"
In every single social interaction there's always going to be one person investing more in the interaction at hand than the other.
There is always going to be one person who is more emotionally attached to the outcome of the interaction at hand than the other and it's your job NOT to fall into that role.
What you have to realize is that there is always going to be a constant "battle of investment" in every single interaction and that it's important that you start attuning yourself to that sub layer of communication as of right now in order to achieve true success with women in general.
And realize as well that this is something that can either be very obvious, but that othentimes really tends not to be...
It's subtle!
Really take the time to think about all of this and start asking yourself:
"Who is currently taking the role of investing more in the interaction at hand?"
I was recently in São Paulo with a friend of mine and I remember one of the women whom he was interacting with saying to him something along the lines of:
"I'm afraid that if I kiss you, you'll leave..."
And of course, what's the natural response that most guys will tend to say to this?
"No, I won't. I like spending time with you and talking to you, and I won't leave if you kiss me. I promise."
And then of course... BOOM!
INVESTMENT.
This probably wasn't even something that was done consciously on her part, but yet it still put him in a certain role of caring more about the interaction at hand that her.
He's now more invested in the interaction at hand and he's now ultimately no longer coming from a place of being free from all outcome...
SO, HOW DOES ALL OF THIS APPLY TO YOU?
What's important to realize whenever you're approaching and interacting with women in general is that for her to actually go out of her way and go home with you, she's ultimately going to have to be somewhat invested in the interaction at hand.
If she isn't investent then she won't have that emotional leverage to do so and trust me...
The interaction is not going go anywhere, at all.
For her to actually go out of her way for you she's going to have to actually take part in the interaction at hand.
If you're the one who's constantly leading the interaction that you're having and not letting her be a part of it, then she'll have no reason to go out of her way in order to keep it going, at all.
You have to actually start letting her speak.
You have actually start letting her EMOTIONALLY INVEST.
If you don't, then trust me...
You are fucked!
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED IN SAO PAULO THAT EXPLORES THIS TOPIC INTO FURTHER DEPTH AND THAT REVEALS HOW THIS AFFECTED ME DURING MY BRIEF STAY THERE AS WELL:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KriZHsiiYPg
As a self-actualized and naturally attractive man, it becomes very easy to get lost by solely focusing on your own actions, as those are what ultimately pump your state up, and forget about this important aspect of the interaction.
It's easy to forget that you have to actually slow down at times and let her partake in it as well.
Start giving her that same feeling that you tend to get when you're put into that role in order to further the interaction together.
Start giving her those opportunities to invest as well.
She can't just be experiencing you without any attachment to the outcome of the interaction.
And as a side note, this is also something that goes hand in hand with a video that I released quite a while back, entitled:
How To Create A “Moment Of Realness” To Get The Girl
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zxZfHTafSKo
Realize as of today, THE POWER OF INVESTMENT...
And start making the women that you're interacting with actually chase YOU!
<>=======================================<>
Incase you've missed it, I thought that I'd also include this recent video that I recorded at the RSD Free Tour in São Paulo as well!
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED IN SAO PAULO THAT REVEALS EXACTLY HOW TO GET THE GIRLS ATTENTION BY BRINGING BACK OLD SCHOOL CONCEPTS SUCH AS “BUTTON PUSHING” AND “NEGGING”:
How To Get Her Attention: Penetrate Her “Wall Of Politeness”
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_2reDG7UwO4
<>=======================================<>
PS: Let me know what you think of this video and if you have any specific topics that you’d like to hear me cover in any future RSDNATION article!
PPS: I've also recently been regularly updating my Twitter Feed with all sorts of funny and interesting lines for you to use... Check it out RIGHT NOW!
PPPS: Don’t forget to check out the Hot Seat 2 event dates over at www.rsdhotseat.com as well!
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY SEEN THIS OFFICIAL PREVIEW FOR THE EVENT:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlWrFgIR6CU
United States
July 14, 2012: Denver, CO, USA
August 4, 2012: Honolulu, HI, USA (Julien running day 2)
September 1, 2012: Los Angeles, CA, USA
Europe
September 22, 2012: Frankfurt, Germany
September 29, 2012: Stockholm, Sweden
October 6, 2012: Oslo, Norway
October 13, 2012: Edinburgh, United Kingdom
October 20, 2012: Dublin, Ireland
October 27, 2012: London, United Kingdom
November 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain
December 1, 2012: Moscow, Russia
December 8, 2012: Athens, Greece
February 23, 2013: Bucharest, Romania
March 2, 2013: Sofia, Bulgaria
March 23, 2013: Gothenburg, Sweden
March 30, 2013: Birmingham, United Kingdom
Canada
August 25, 2012: Vancouver, Canada
September 1, 2012: Toronto, Canada
September 8, 2012: Montreal, Canada
Middle East
December 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel
January 5, 2013: Dubai, United Arab Emirates
South Africa
January 12, 2013: Cape Town, South Africa
January 19, 2013: Johannesburg, South Africa
www.rsdhotseat.com
<>=======================================<>
WWW.JULIENLIFE.COM
www.twitter.com/RSDJulien
www.facebook.com/RSDJulien
www.youtube.com/RSDJulien
www.youtube.com/JulienFreeTour
Comments
dcampo3
Trusted Member
Join Date: 05/01/2012 | Posts: 1647
J Dilla R.I.P.
Senior Member
Join Date: 06/30/2012 | Posts: 126
Yo dude, all this drama stuff you've been posting recently, do you think one should get all the fundamentals down stone cold before experimenting with this, or should one experiment with it at the same time?
Cheers bud
Novatoast
Member
Join Date: 04/02/2011 | Posts: 42
Haha yeah that happened to me last weekend... I was with a great girl for like 20 minutes, then she left, and I was so invested that I couldn't get over her for like the rest of the night... any practical tips for quickly "flushing the investment toilet" to reset your emotions clean again?
Novatoast
Member
Join Date: 04/02/2011 | Posts: 42
Would you say that "her chasing you" is pretty much required for a one night stand (ie a game fundamental) or is it more of an "optional" aspect of game like adding "drama" (ie secondary skillset)?
In other words: is "getting her to invest" more the "spice" or the "steak"?
Tyler
Instructor | Trusted Member
Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 6897
btw for anyone in NEW YORK I highly highly highly recommend hitting up that FREE TOUR event with Julien and Todd on July 16th.
Spread the word about it because we just threw it up recently and it's going to be absolutely outstanding, and a rare situation where Julien is actually in NYC as he's almost always doing non USA events these days!
Even if you live within 3 hours from NYC I'd recommend hitting it up. There will be zero upsell or "pitching" at the Free Tour it's purely just good content and a good time, so take advantage of them putting this on for you.
Tyler
dave7-
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Join Date: 05/14/2012 | Posts: 1968
Sweet topic btw, this sounds like something REALLY valuable for me to work on.
Heisenburg
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Join Date: 04/08/2012 | Posts: 107
Dr Feelgood
Trusted Member
Join Date: 04/06/2011 | Posts: 1430
So with me, sometimes girls are ready to invest, but sometimes they aren't. I will just stop talking after a minute or two if nothing comes back from her. Then I just look at her firmly with a smile and wait, putting all to pressure to make conversation on her. Sometimes it works, but sometimes the girl won't just say anything, not make eye contact, etc...
How would you proceed? Or is this girl just not interrested enough?
Has the mistake already been made within that minute of talking?
Thanks, Jules!
El_Diego
Senior Member
Join Date: 07/29/2009 | Posts: 116
I think i fell into over-gaming mode too, got caught up in too much self-amusement (sort to speak) and forgot to pay much attention to how much investment girls were putting in the interaction.
I have a question though, this weird shit has been happening to me recently, lately i´ve had angry/bitter/hater chodes jumping on me and getting all violent and shit, in different situations (all nighttime when drugs and alcohol go around a lot) i just didn´t care and brush them off but i kinda noticed a pattern there or maybe i´m just focused on that since a friend got his nose broken because i approached some girl in the street (weird story).
I remember your advice to just drop the ego and walk away if i feel that i´m going to get in a fight or in some kind of danger, and that´s what i do in these cases, but why does this happen? just curious. In my head i rationalized it like a normal part of being extremely cool and alpha so chodes get all envious and shit so trying to get in a fight with me would be the only way to not to feel so low value. LOL
Thanks J.
Noronha
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Join Date: 04/27/2010 | Posts: 126
ALGERIANO
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Join Date: 12/23/2008 | Posts: 98
So with me, sometimes girls are ready to invest, but sometimes they aren't. I will just stop talking after a minute or two if nothing comes back from her. Then I just look at her firmly with a smile and wait, putting all to pressure to make conversation on her. Sometimes it works, but sometimes the girl won't just say anything, not make eye contact, etc...
How would you proceed? Or is this girl just not interrested enough?
Has the mistake already been made within that minute of talking?
Thanks, Jules!
Gift~
Senior Member
Join Date: 02/02/2010 | Posts: 157
Investment......!
I GET IT!!
Robert Paulsen
Member
Join Date: 05/25/2012 | Posts: 40
So what ur saying is that by comming from the buyer frame as a self actualized attractive man, the girl will be aroused; We should then allow her to fall into the seller dynamic so she can putforth an emotional investment towards me and my dick?
Waginator
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Join Date: 02/10/2011 | Posts: 247
gman3
Senior Member
Join Date: 06/13/2008 | Posts: 228
I wonder if this also applies to day 2s and follow up afterwards?
I think I may have lost a cute girl I was into who I fooled around it on a day 2 but did not sleep with. Maybe I texted her too much afterwards and invested more than her.
SEAN PUA
Member
Join Date: 11/08/2010 | Posts: 84
What are some ways you get her to be more in the role where she is investing the right kind of stuff into you, because sometimes it seems I am getting investment, me PLUS time with the girl, but I fail to put her in the role of being the woman or it feels like she is resisit ing letting that part of her personality out to invest... What do you do if this happens in a set, make a compliment? get more phsyical? how do you get her more in that role where she is investing the parts of her you want her to?
Thanks :)
elcharlo
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Join Date: 12/10/2009 | Posts: 7
TalhaK3
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Join Date: 07/07/2012 | Posts: 10
GoldenGun
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Join Date: 12/13/2009 | Posts: 227
Tyler
Instructor | Trusted Member
Join Date: 08/20/2006 | Posts: 6897
Not needint to "start back at ground zero" is a much, much deeper concept than just not wanting to walk away from the single girl.
THIS SHIT GOES DEEP.
There's a much larger issue going on here.
Tyler
H0wardR0ark
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Join Date: 03/23/2011 | Posts: 82
Jonnyjones
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Join Date: 07/25/2008 | Posts: 173
Not needint to "start back at ground zero" is a much, much deeper concept than just not wanting to walk away from the single girl.
THIS SHIT GOES DEEP.
There's a much larger issue going on here.
Tyler
You can also leave some bitches hanging for a year then call them up and they will still be emotionally invested to see you cuz of this type of shit.
Heart breakers...
Any thoughts?
Drama
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Join Date: 02/26/2008 | Posts: 3727
Cheers
archy
Junior Member
Join Date: 08/19/2009 | Posts: 12
Not needint to "start back at ground zero" is a much, much deeper concept than just not wanting to walk away from the single girl.
THIS SHIT GOES DEEP.
There's a much larger issue going on here.
Tyler
which i think relate to what julien is talking about !
Great stufff julien , solid and deep as always !!
paradox
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Join Date: 09/20/2006 | Posts: 180
The good thing now the responability is gone, I no longer need to do anything - which I won't.
I still remember Julien's old past video which I was trying to follow, but in the end couldn't.
http://www.rsdnation.com/julien/blog/new-video-article-do-not-trust-your-faculties-your-perception-reality-flawed
Off to Ibiza soon, can't wait :)
Chris
Pancake
Respected Member
Join Date: 10/12/2010 | Posts: 394
investment and gravity! Im impressed.
Who is paying more attention to whom. thats seminole.
Thanks for the top end stuff, its useful.
moment of release + shut the Flop UP! PERFECT!
THAKS AGAIN:p
Who are you?hmmmm ah" oxo "
Pancake
Respected Member
Join Date: 10/12/2010 | Posts: 394
So what ur saying is that by comming from the buyer frame as a self actualized attractive man, the girl will be aroused; We should then allow her to fall into the seller dynamic so she can putforth an emotional investment towards me and my dick?
SIGH! His name was planet BoBb Paulson :(
\ones dick is
as of yet
unframed,
Buffalo
Member
Join Date: 06/29/2011 | Posts: 35
One topic that i asked you on the freetour and that i would like to hear more from you is Building a social circle.
(I always wondered how to surround myself with successful people if i'm a chode…a big challenge for me.)
Tyler talked about how he went though a lot of trouble to do this in his ‘journey’ and he expressed the importance of doing so.
The answer the instructor gave me was; go through the process, get good
with girls, become someone who gives value, and then you’ll attract cool
friends… (but if you can I still wish you would cover more about this
in any future RSDNATION article…)
best regards from São Paulo
keep pimpin ; )
hope you read this..
champ
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Join Date: 06/19/2011 | Posts: 808
Not needint to "start back at ground zero" is a much, much deeper concept than just not wanting to walk away from the single girl.
THIS SHIT GOES DEEP.
There's a much larger issue going on here.
Tyler
You can also leave some bitches hanging for a year then call them up and they will still be emotionally invested to see you cuz of this type of shit.
Heart breakers...
Any thoughts?
I cant see any one constant. IME it was either because they felt really hard for you the first time meeting you and "interactin" or they were a little into you but you showed interest by talking to her or asking her num.
"They were a little into you but you showed interest by talking to her or asking her num. " This one I'm not sure if the girl already liked you a little bit but needed you to show interest OR she liked you because you showed interest. Its funny though when a girl is down for you for a year or more. When that happens is it because girls are experiencing a type of one-itis??? Any thoughts? Hehe.
champ
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Join Date: 06/19/2011 | Posts: 808
Not needint to "start back at ground zero" is a much, much deeper concept than just not wanting to walk away from the single girl.
THIS SHIT GOES DEEP.
There's a much larger issue going on here.
Tyler
champ
Respected Member
Join Date: 06/19/2011 | Posts: 808
Does a more chill type of game lead to more LMR??
Now I understand why you say to game sober so that you can take apart sucesses
So physicality isnt enough? Takeaways are good? Hoops. When I "bounced" girl to my house I did bait-hook-reel-release at my house and I think it worked well. Is that a good example? "Vulnerability" seems good. False dusqualifiers? Questions in form of statements?
LOL "If this worked well then more is better!" LOL. Sick article! This one was loaded and meaty! Stay up Julien!
~cavalheiro
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Join Date: 08/29/2008 | Posts: 118
I was *exactly* in this situation of those storys that u`ve mentioned.
I tried to isolate to pull, she always refuse, but always calibrate with some "u`re cute" everytime that i try something and she denies.
until the day i flip the script, put her in a high note and said 'ay i like u, i wanna be with u.' she got all red and run to the hills. just like i was specting.
next day she said nothing, but was givin me heavy kino, just k-closed.
p.s. funny to see u saying `avenida paulista` hahah i wish I was there to yell u AY! JULIEN! hah! - will meet u next time u appear on brazil
Walker12
Junior Member
Join Date: 09/20/2011 | Posts: 7
i RESPECT YOU BUT.......
WHAT YOU NEED TO REALIZE IS THAT MOST GIRLS, ARENT EVEN READY TO BE HIT ON/APPRAOCHED BY GUYS WHO HAVE THERE SHIT TOGETHER...MOST GIRLS DONT EVEN KNOW WHAT TO DO WHEN GUYS WHO ARE SELF ACTUALIZED ARE LIKE," AY YOU ARE ADORABLE, i JUST HAD TO MEET YOU..." SHIT NOTHIN WORKED TONIGHT...TRYED IT ALL...MAYBE I WANTED IT TOO MUCH...
i'VE READ, NINE BALL, SEEN TRANSFORMATIONS, JEFFY SHOW, BLUEPRINT, FLAWLESS NAT, OZZIES PHYS. GAME.....GO OUT 3-5 NIGHTS A WEEK... ATTENDED HOT SEAT TWO IN SAN FRAN...IM A GOOD LOOKIN GUY DATING A STRAIGHT 9 BECAUSE OF YOU GUYS....(thx!!!!) BUT A LOT OF THESE WOMEN CANT EVEN HANDLE FULLY ACTIVE BEAST MODE MEN WHO JUST LIVE IN THE MOMENT SINCE THE NORM IS MOSTLY A BUNCH OF FUCN NOOBS WHO CANT EVEN COME CLOSE TO US...SO ITS LIKE WTF... I'M SO FAR ADAVANCED THAT WHEN i APPROACH, GIRLS DONT KNOW HOW TO REACT...i HAVE NO OUTCOME.....NO APP ANX....LIVE IN A SMALL CITY NEAR MI STATE...PERFECT FOR C.A....WTF OWEN...u AND JULIEN ARE MY IDOLS AND I LOVE HOW YOU GUYS HAVE THIS ONGOING BATTLE OF BEST VIDEO/SCENERY/BACKROUND.....YES I CAN THINK FOR MYSELF, I KNOW WHAT YOUR THINKING RIGHT NOW....LOL...BEEN STUDYING RSD FOR 10 MONTHS EVERYDAY....
aPPROACHED ABOUT 10 GIRLS TONIGHT SINCE MY GIRL WENT UP NORTH, PROBALY TO FUCK SOME OTHER GUY SINCE SHES A 22 YR OLD STUNNER AND IM A RED 32 YR OLD (XACTLY LIKE YOU)...AGAIN YOU MADE THIS POSSIBLE SO THANKS....FUCK BRO, IT SEEMS MOST GIRLS CANT EVEN HANDLE A "REAL MAN" i EVEN HIT UP A FEW FAT CHICKS AND GOT REJECTED!! WTF IM FUCKIN A DIME PIECE....AND BTW IM NOT GOIN IN SETS LIKE," YA! IM FUCKIN A DIME PIECE... I CAN DO ANYTHING" I'VE TRYED THIS B4 AND EITHER WAY NOTHING WORKS 4 ME L8TLY.... BUT MY GIRL STILL LOVES ME SO WTF...CONFUSED....PISSED OFF....NOT TRYING TO GET MARRIED......WHY CANT I MAKE SHIT HAPPEN WITH SOME FAT CHICKS/ OR EVEN FINE CHICKS WHEN THEY MEAN NOTHING TO ME, SHIT SOME OF THEM MEAN A LOT AND I REALLY LIKE THEM...I'M COMIN CORRECT, AND GET DISSED....HAPPENED ALOT TONIGHT AND I FELT LIKE I WAS ON POINT..IN A ZONE...WIERD SHIT MAN...GREAT TONALITY, EYE CONTACT, ETC....
WHAT ARE YOUR THOUGHTS ON THIS BULL SHIT???
I think it was just a shitty night....
Guess I'll just keep hitting it up til I get it...peace
Slarfy
Member
Join Date: 04/15/2012 | Posts: 69
To me, it seems that rapport is a good thing because you connect to the person I guess. But seeking it too much communicates neediness which is obviously bad. Also, the rapport stages really don't do much to get her emotions going either.
Words of my natural friend... "First you get their emotions going, then you fuck em."
Lol. Hope you can make this into a good article!
nestea
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Not needint to "start back at ground zero" is a much, much deeper concept than just not wanting to walk away from the single girl.
THIS SHIT GOES DEEP.
There's a much larger issue going on here.
Tyler
but yeah when i heard this is stuck me pretty hard as well, especally hearing that the girl also does not want to "start over" with another guy. pretty crazy stuff...
mikiliniz9
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