I do not know about the concepts, man. They feel part of the let things happen and go with the flow narrative and not part of the make it happen and be it every step of the way narrative. 

I think I am missing your point though.

Oh damn, liked this. I've always wondered when I will ever "let go" of trying to control life. It still hasn't "happened", but I'll "let go or die tryjng". I think a lot of it has to do with seeking approval in subtle ways.

I think a lot of people just don't want to deal with the stress of taking personal responsibility, so they give up when it gets hard or stressful, not realizing that they need to plow through those times and keep going.

Otherwise it's a start and stop motion, where a guy would never really progress, and would not get to the next level of results.

Also, I've found that the harder it is to learn game, the more that you have to learn! So you gotta figure it out especially if you really suck balls!

???? Where the fuck is the video!! I want my fucking video!!!!

It's true. I resist outcomes sometimes. Like the other day, a guy I know, no longer became friends with me because I approached his ex gf and I didn't immediately acknowledge him when he saw us (although I was planning to after I was done talking to her). As soon as I was done talking to her, he was already gone. I had to contact him since he was being passive aggressive about it. I ended up being called "shady" by him and he thought I was "playing dumb". I wanted to explain to him how insecure he was being, but instead, I just felt like I was trying to control his behavior by doing that, so now, I simply have to accept that I'm going to do what I want to do and accept the collateral damage that comes with that.

It comes with the territory.

Has this happened to you Julien?

JULIEN WHAT THE FUCK WHERE IS MY VIDEO

fuck let go,             LET S GO.

One of the most unattractive qualities in a person is someone who has struggles in life engaging in unproductive complaining.  Certain people go out into the world expecting everyone else to adapt to their needs/desires - a false sense of entitlement based on a lack of empathy, while others expect no one to adapt to their needs/desires and see it as a positive when someone does, rather than seeing it as totally neutral.  After this happens enough times, the person gains a REAL sense of entitlement based on a strong foundation within themselves, independent of others.

Acceptance doesn't mean complacency with the way things are, it means you are not emotionally wrestling with your circumstances, and have that energy freed to actually solve your problems.

is this an article?

don't get me wrong, i don't mind a "missing" video at all, but a coherent text would be nice? because if there really is some content julien intented to share, it would be a shame if it got lost due to bad delivery....

I was psyched for a new video, but you gave us 1hour+ video last week that was too awesome and to quote the blueprint, nobody owes you shit!

Good concepts in the article, but you do a way better job sharing them in person/video(giving practical examples and conveying them emotionally, -Fuck Yeah!). I'd do lots of small articles focusing on one or two concepts at a time and go more indepht.

                                                                  


I m going to write  some shit       AS IF I didn t like RSD or Julian TOP ELITE STUFF ..


Promote letting go,      Like truly let go , everything : possessions , labells,money, crappy  jobs ,health....

, fight club style lol... just like that. RIght now, those days I think it s totally teenager retarded bullshit. Or you don t TRULY KNOW WHAT YOU ARE TALKING ABOUT.

I did that, I let go, everything, for real,    and I almost became a bum .  I fucking did. I just said Fuck it,  and I almost died, I almost became a bum, I was taking an dealing drugs to survive,   sleeping on people floor, skating , partying , playing bball,  doing some esoteric  automatic writting shit, meditation, having several relationships, and ONS.  almost 10 year.                          

     .. some of the girls I ve met during that time were intrigue by so much bulls on the table, so much intensity of course. But on the long run, if no one in your TRUE environment is supportive to truly do it .. you can t. it s impossible.  And people who have the true bulls to do it are rare, and strange, and most of the time they are not attracted by you and you are not attracted by them, because you gat to deep into your own perspectives.

what happened , with the fucking  let go concept that you repeat fromthe fight club moovie ,    

                                 I fucking crashed on the ground; hard.  All the people around me , peer pressured my ass all the time  in order to""""" get back on track"""""          , start back a training, start back in the system , start back.

You can do let go,               if you work for a team like rsd to get pussies, or if you are in a moovie : fight club, and you want to destroy capitalism and start back a new civilisation. or IF you have a fucking talent that can sell your stuff, or if you have  friends to support you.  Or if you have MONEY along the ride for the basic necessities . Or if you have the bulls to truly let your self in emptyness around people who don t have the bulls and judge you consistently.


You can let go in a supportive environemnt. or at least you don t give a fuck and then you met someone who tells you lets push this shit further, as you did with owen?


But if you are a rsd nation reader, you probably have to pay for a  rent, have a JOB,   handling  the financial aspects of stuff.     SO you need to BALANCE       NOT GIVING A FUCK WITH      CONTROL      . Be in charge.  deal with  the system.   If you HAVE THE BULLS TO TRULY  LET GO, You must understand,  the peer pressure level is extreme if you do are solo.

You , julian, you can do that because you are in a supportive environement reinforcing that LEt GO FUCK IT DON T GIVE A FUCK FOR REAL..

Do that TRULY , alone, is almost impossible unless you are a psychopathic dude, who can take a shit on his old friends and family trust and respect. say fuck off to your mum who is sick and need help, go and game like tyler when his new baby is born.

I did LET GO ,  and I fucking CRASHED , fucking HARD. Maybe it s just me, maybe I m wrong. Maybe nobody around me wanted to go that far at that time, and I had to do that solo.

Now I view this shit let go here  as a FAKE LET GO  to get pussy like you do,

Concerning being selfless, again dude lol... DUDE,
you are a talent at picking up girl and having a speech about picking up girl.

 you think you are what? generous?  Your giving value stuff is the most sophisticated form of egoism.        Your selfless stuff is the most sophisticated selfishness! YOU KNOW THAT.

True generosity ?

, but look, man deep inside you know , you are just another hore in the capitalist gang bang. 
Too cool for school?      

You use mix signal and paradoxes, to create  confusion and more compliance in the consumer head , YOU KNOW  THAT HORE.

In fact, you sell your confusion.       It s not even an expertise, it s vague confusion, vague shit. vague or let s be vague . 

         You are confused, like every human is confused about his life. Or he is not really human... and you sell  and promote THAT.               

Hey I m not above you, I m not below you, I m behind you fucking you in the ASS little HORE.

PS : as if I didn t like your stuff, and RSD Stuff....

Hey julian, I love your shit dude. keep it up, keep it up!! 

peace!!

Dude, why would you approach your friends ex. There are thousands of chicks to approach, and you approach the one who can fuck up things between you and your friend. Then you put him on hold while you finish talking to her.

One of my best friends, have let go of several of his old buddies, it just takes them talking slightly off to one of his girls, and he fucking leaves them forever. He realizes what little creeps they are, unable to approach girls on they own, and latching on to those of his - and that's not a friend in his opinion.  

Man it's like you take his words literally. It's kind of philosophical concept of letting go. Its not really mean you have to lost everything in your life, not care about anything. 
Beside most guys here have other problem. They try to control to much.
And even guys who on first sight let go - like surfers withouht job. Some bartenders with no plans and so on - they still try to control how people react to them and what impression they make.

Loved the "passenger" analogy, SO TRUE!

Just. Let. Go

Be like water.

this is money <3

Great article! It's quite daoist. There's some really good stuff there.

I have actually been wrestling with this for a while now I'm getting closer all the time but I still feel like I'm not fully throwing myself at it 100%.

There's a little part of me that's too scared to go all out, like if I give up control I'm gonna have something bad happen... But I can't come up with a logical reason why, so I think it's bullshit!

It's good to hear your encouragement!

Julien, do you think it is just totally irrational to hold back at all? I'm starting to feel that way and having to apply it persistently in my game, but like I said always a slight struggle.... Is it really "ok" to just let rip lol? I can't seem to convince myself it will all be good

Nice article.

Love your videos dude but I dunno exactly what you're trying to say here

Makes sense. We can do what we can with the resources given to us but if it doesn't work out it is what it is. Enjoy the process. Shit happens and it will always will happen so just accept it for what it is. That's what I got out of this at least. 

Luke

Awesome concept! Being immersed in the process (intent) plus freedom from outcome (letting go). The Olschool crown Jewel of pick up knowledge. it cannot be hammered on enough, its so important for all aspects of life! I could apply your article to any skill besides pickup and it would have just as much value. Kickass, thanks! P.s. I was thinking of the car scene in fight club throughout this whole article, I think you probably intended for that lol.

great concepts, i like the idea of letting go. You cannot control everything so why even try

Stop judging yourself and the results that you're getting and simply start focusing on the process.

This has been my stumbling block lately, constantly wondering when will i get laid next and forcing myself to go out with these negative thoughts.

Need to step back, step out of the tunnel vision and see things from a different perspective, a light hearted perspective

Guys without field experience don't resonate with this article hahah

Great summary of the well-being in general, not just with woman.
Many people can't manage to understand thins and end up complaining about everything during their whole life.