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YO!!

So I've just arrived back here in Los Angeles, after being away for over a year!

The end of my very first "World Tour", also known as the "Daddy's Home" tour...

It's been such an amazing experience and I'm going to be sharing some of the more "personal" and "unofficial" side of it all in the new podcast that I'm going to be launching THIS SUNDAY!

So be sure to check back for that, and be sure to check out the new Free Tour / Hot Seat / Bootcamp dates that I've just put up for round two! (I'm not sure what I'm going to be calling it yet, any suggestions?)

February 12 – 16, 2013: Miami Beach, Florida, USA (taught with Tyler)
February 19 – 23, 2013: Miami Beach, Florida, USA (taught with Tyler and Jeffy)
February 26 – March 2, 2013: Miami Beach, Florida, USA (taught with Tyler and Jeffy)
March 5 – 9, 2013: Miami Beach, Florida, USA (taught with Tyler and Brad)
March 21 – 23, 2013: Medellin, Columbia
March 28 – 30, 2013: Rio De Janeiro, Brazil
April 4 – 6, 2013: Buenos Aires, Argentina
May 9 – 11, 2013: Oslo, Norway
May 16 – 18, 2013: Copenhagen, Denmark
May 23 – 25, 2013: Munich, Germany
May 30 – June 1, 2013: Amsterdam, Netherlands
June 6 – 8, 2013: London, United Kingdom
June 20 – 22, 2013: Moscow, Russia
June 27 – 29, 2013: Boston, MA, USA (taught with Tyler)
July 4 – 6, 2013: Washington DC, USA (taught with Tyler)
July 11 – 13, 2013: New York, New York, USA 
July 25 – 27, 2013: Honolulu, Hawaii, USA (taught with Tyler)
August 15 – 17, 2013: Los Angeles, California, USA
August 22 – 24, 2013: Seattle, Washington, USA (taught with Tyler)
August 29 – 31, 2013: Vancouver, Canada
September 5 – 7, 2013: Calgary, Canada
September 12 – 14, 2013: Toronto, Canada
September 19 – 21, 2013: Montreal, Canada
October 3 – 5, 2013: Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, USA (taught with Tyler)
October 10 – 12, 2013: Brisbane, Australia
October 17 – 19, 2013: Perth, Australia
October 24 – 26, 2013: Melbourne, Australia
October 31 – November 2, 2013: Sydney, Australia
November 7 – 9, 2013: Singapore
November 14 – 16, 2013: Hong Kong
November 21 – 23, 2013: Tokyo, Japan
December 5 – 7, 2013: Berlin, Germany
December 12 – 14, 2013: Paris, France
December 19 – 21, 2013: Cairo, Egypt

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So, as I'm currently JET LAGGED out of my mind, I'm going to keep things short and simple. (That's what she said...)

How To Make Her Believe You're Awesome + How To Make Yourself 1000% More Interesting

"What's the right thing to say?"

"What's the right thing to do?"

"What's the right way to look?"

"How can I fit into the mold of a guy who's naturally attractive to women?"

Well...

What if I told you that the right thing to say is whatever you decide to say?

What if I told you that the right thing to do is whatever you decide to do?

What if I told you that the right way to look is the way that you already look now?

What if I told you that you already are the mold of guy who's naturally attractive to women?

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT REVEALS THE ART OF REFRAME AND HOW TO MAKE ANY REFERENCE EXPERIENCE POSITIVE:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W9kOMn5kwII)

Check it!

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#1

rsdvasco

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Join Date: 10/03/2012 | Posts: 100

Hurray, I made it to an RSD video. By the way, I never said doing the Gangnam Style was retarded, Gangnam Style is probably the best thing ever invented. Ooop ooop. On that bootcamp I wanted to game hot chicks in London and we spend a third of it, the entire first day, in a shitty club with no hot chicks and the rest of it doing the Gangnam Style to old ladies on the street. I wanted more that's all. You should have fun regardless, I get that and I do have fun, I just don't want to pay for it. Peace
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#2
Icy

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Love the vid, this is my favorite of yours.
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JoeySoprano

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Julien is the Sweet Jones (Anthony "Baby" Bell) of the pickup world...
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#4

Gulisos

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Great Video. I like the part with lowering you bar for what is fun. Many guys don't get this because they feel like they lower their standards. The like to spend time only in best clubs with best music and etc. and that's fine we ultimately should pursue progress. At the same time this attitude make them outcome dependent. They are really dependent from external sources how the will feel, while the definition of guy good with women is the one who can CREATE party everywhere And who is curious and happy like a child.
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#5
RezznT!

RezznT!

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Awesome shit julien. The part about lowering the level of stimulus you get addicted to was definitely insightful.

However, I'd just like to link this book here because Im not sure everyone knows exactly HOW to go about doing what you're advocating and it helped me out a shit ton.

http://www.amazon.com/Seven-Steps-Inner-Power-ebook/dp/B006Z0MYUS
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#6
orangedynamite

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Agreed on the lowering the standards and bar insight, such good information. If your trying to go the intellectual route this usually just ends up being around certain people and you can sabatage potential lays by being to uppity.

Even the smart chicks like the stupidity.
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#7
Juliuss

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juliennnnnn email me you cunt!! i'm broke and live in a bath tub i will through soap if thats what it takes to get your attention!! i want a job at RSD!!!
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#8

Bobs

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Join Date: 12/03/2012 | Posts: 67

Every time I finish watching a video from Julien I'm like, "Fucking genius...." It's like the guy ALWAYS has something eye-opening for me 8D
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#9

Astore

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Join Date: 12/16/2012 | Posts: 34

 Love the idea of  "addict yourself to a lower level of stimulus", since there's a unconscious resistant to being pulled to a lower levels of anything.
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#10
justindark

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there's no reason why I am not enough. There's no reason why I shouldn't be a god haha.
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#11
Kool Kane

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that's an interesting point... with lowering your criteria for having fun.
I've noticed that I keep myself pretty self amused recently. As I'm naturally a pretty critical thinker I tend to have a mean face expression. I always make sure that I smile a lot when I'm in the field. First of all when you smile a lot, it set certain chemicals in your brain that give you a positive vibe. Basically, when you smile a lot you are getting happy. The other thing is, that your environment is reacting more positively towards you. People are out to having fun. So, when you are fun they even start to approach you, cheer with you, party with you. It's easier to approach a girl when you had good eye contact with her and smiled at her.

I've read a book a while ago, it's called "No More Mr. Nice Guy!" from Robert A. Glover. He's a paarship psychiatrist and in his book he talks about the self destructive traits from so called nice guys. One trait that is pretty common for this archetype is hiding your flaws with intellectualism. Guys who don't get laid often try to compensate with intellectualism. That's the reason why these guys are so serious. Gangnam style is stupid, but who cares? Girls just wanna have fun...
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#12

Elamanopiskelija

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Although usually most of the videos that I watch from you are applicable, this one I consider one of the "nice in theory, impossible in practice" type. I personally use some really heavy artillery to become optimistic in the first place, and then 'SOME' good reframing happens naturally as a consequence.
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#13
BerlinCity

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 Bootcamp in Cairo....awesome shit!  I am there, dude!
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#14

Vulpess

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 Julien, why on earth theres no Poland on your world- tour map again?
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ProjectLongBeach

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 I am the fat CEO haha... Awesome post! Most of us automatically go negative which hurts our growth tremendously, when by just reframing our references to the positive would help us tremendously.
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#16

Knoxville

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 I've reallllly liked your last 2 articles. I've been listening to your last video through out the day over and over to mind fuck myself into believing in find fucking myself. 
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#17

rsdvasco

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It's not impossible
http://www.inc.com/jessica-stillman/4-ways-to-train-your-brain-for-posit...
there is a TED video where they actually show the brain rewiring itself
http://www.rsdnation.com/tyler/blog/game-odyssey-mind-weird-entitlement-...
Elamanopiskelija wrote:
Although usually most of the videos that I watch from you are applicable, this one I consider one of the "nice in theory, impossible in practice" type. I personally use some really heavy artillery to become optimistic in the first place, and then 'SOME' good reframing happens naturally as a consequence.
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#18

Hamilton

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Join Date: 11/12/2012 | Posts: 144

Awesome to see you are going to some new places like Colombia, HK and Cairo.
I will be very interested to see how you get on in Egypt!
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#19
rOrO_thugin

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 damn brah your vids have been on point!!

and your public speaking is becoming amazing ! 
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#20
RollsLikeSocrates

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Thanks Julien, going to own my fat-ness. You only live once and you are the center of your Universe so who gives a fuck.
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#21
Ideastools

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 That's what i see in guys who get girls all the time, on the point video ! :)
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#22

Fuck_taxis

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 awesome
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#23

Ocean2

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 One of the best video's I have ever seen from RSD!
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#24
Rockefeller

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Good video on self-amusement and developing good blindspots. I like the bootcamp anecdotes.

Definitely going to say this in set "I'm giving you the opportunity to sleep with Christ"
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#25

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rsdvasco wrote:
Hurray, I made it to an RSD video. By the way, I never said doing the Gangnam Style was retarded, Gangnam Style is probably the best thing ever invented. Ooop ooop. On that bootcamp I wanted to game hot chicks in London and we spend a third of it, the entire first day, in a shitty club with no hot chicks and the rest of it doing the Gangnam Style to old ladies on the street. I wanted more that's all. You should have fun regardless, I get that and I do have fun, I just don't want to pay for it. Peace
Were you unsatisfied enough to ask for a refund? If you did, I'd be really interested in the outcome. Haven't really looked for it, but I have never heard of someone demanding and getting a bootcamp refund. I have not heard of anyone demanding and not getting one, either. I figure there must be some people, with the amount of students and all. I don't suspect there's any banhammering of unsatisfied customers involved, because I am a brainwashed disciple believing in RSD's goodness. Maybe not Papa's though, the guy's too business-savvy wink

I myself am a satisfied alumnus, and am planning on increasing the client retention rate, but I'd be really interested in that.

@Julien: Great video! You're speaking style is really improving, it's very noticeable in the 2013 videos. The content is better, and there's more humour. the delivery is a little off sometimes, there were A LOT points where I thought "This is really funny", but didn't lough, and neither did the audience. I can't really pinpoint why, I'm not an expert. Maybe some well placed pauses? With your current speed of improvement, the issue will probably disappear in a month or two :)
Another thing: Tune down the "like" a little.

Still, your videos are my favorites after Tyler.

Gonna hit the Cambodian beach bars now with the lessons of this video in mind!
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#26

Elamanopiskelija

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I have quite a big database of all 4 exercises described in the article (I mean I keep a record of what I write each day) and in the last 2 years I have done those (which are very effective indeed) and many other ... there are also many other things you can do every day to become more positive. The conjuction of all those practices made consistently is what I mean when I wrote "heavy artillery".
Don't want to brag but at this point I think I know much more about the topic than whoever wrote that article :P
rsdvasco wrote:
It's not impossible
http://www.inc.com/jessica-stillman/4-ways-to-train-your-brain-for-posit...
there is a TED video where they actually show the brain rewiring itself
http://www.rsdnation.com/tyler/blog/game-odyssey-mind-weird-entitlement-...
Elamanopiskelija wrote:
Although usually most of the videos that I watch from you are applicable, this one I consider one of the "nice in theory, impossible in practice" type. I personally use some really heavy artillery to become optimistic in the first place, and then 'SOME' good reframing happens naturally as a consequence.

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#27

rsdvasco

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 @Chris-
At the end of day 1, Alex and Julien suggested that I should leave the bootcamp and ask for a refund, so that's what I did. I got a full refund.

@Elamanopiskelija
Awesome that you're doing that, but just because you didn't get there yet, it doesn't mean it's impossible.
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#28
irishrogue

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 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QK8mJJJvaes Check it
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#29
d3tale1

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"You spilled!"

Such a subtle point but SO fucking huge in terms of keeping the frame.
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#30

ThespianRex

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 Yo Julien, Interesting perception of humor. I never thought of it like that, having too high or proud standards. So I tested out converting my perception into ridiculous imaginings. Laughed all the way to the bank. That's good shit man.
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#31

king_kickass101

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 awesome vid. couldve used this tonight as I ended up getting blown out of a set I couldve easily had by a girls shit test. oh well. I am now armed with knowledge and experience.
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#32

Zack_Brawler

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 Watching this video last night had a great impact on my success of today. Thanks a lot.

Keep us up to date on the release of your podcast though! I'm really looking forward to it.
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#33
The Natural Game

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So simple yet so effective
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#34

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you can also view the "blindspot yourself" as "keep the girls blindspots". A girl thinks that intelligence is measurable? Ok! Then you have the biggest intelligence!
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#35

The Hawk

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Great vid man
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#36
RSDANDREW

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Baptized a  girl after this video ... Told her I'm the new fucking god in town 
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#37

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#38

alamarish

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so informative ...teeth
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#39
macbeth777

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I thought this video was so helpful Julien

Thanks bro!

the whole "addiction to lower level of stimulus" was mind-opening.
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#40

Ocean2

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A video, not directly related to pick up but the guy's frame control is funny as hell. It's about a guy who had a little car exident, still staying in the car and denying to the police what happened, while still inside his broken car lol:

http://www.flabber.nl/linkdump/video/man-in-gecrashte-auto-ontkent-alles...
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#41

kapo

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great vid, only issue is that it has developed even more narcissism within myself, ...which is awesome
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#42
ToniCalvo

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haha kapo
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#43

Dumbo-jet

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I can't get few things about this video
1) how can you feel like you're 10000 better than others and not treat them like idiots and not become arrogant? For example, how can i spent few hours of my priceless time to help my friend with something? How can you even think you're 10000 better and still pay attention to what he's saying?
2) In one vid Tyler says that he makes girls to bring other girls if they want to be with him which is kinda humiliating imo. And in the other one he says that he goes to the club thinking about how to make all these girls happy.

To me it's like having empathy and not having empathy at the same time. How do you combine this things?
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#44

hogansc0602

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wow!
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