Good stuff, Julien

do you continuously injure your wrists btw?

damn you have been giving so much good value lately you are awesome
i just want to say thanks a lot

Friday Night Lights: The Draw

here I am...
Friday night at one of my favorite places. sippin on some beer, still licking wounds after dumping Friendzone Fiona and try to figure out how I go about this situation I got right here...

Two girls facing each other across the bar. What they don't know is that I'm hustling both at the same time. In some way or the other...

Do I choose the teacher that I have been kissing recently or do I go about this 23 year old economics student that I was hitting on the last time. Both girls are surrounded and locked in with their peer group. The dynamic isn't favorable at all, potential cockblockers left and right. And also if I pimp one of them and fail at it, I probably lose the other one too.

After banging my head against the wall with this issue I just said to myself: fuck it I'm here to have fun. why keep worrying about some girls, I just go party, have fun and look for another girl anyway. there is no reason to stress the process, how could I not get involved in a nice encounter with a cute girl this night? it will happen just by my nature. Abundance son…

Guess what happend, minutes later I find a cutie... make fun of her dancing style, she loves it. And she keeps giggling. I spike her emotions, talk about random things and ask her questions interview mode. She's just here for the night and doesn't have a boyfriend (if I would care anyway…^^)

Romance time, I stack the physicality, slowly but surely. I give her a little pecker. She likes it…

Boom! makeout

and what's the moral of this story?

when two people quarrel, a third rejoices^^

Pain

I do believe what Tyler said about facing painful experiences. That you will learn from it, that it will strengthen you, that it adds depth to your personality and character. and gamewise it makes you a tougher pimp. I really liked the last video from Tyler, even though the concepts are not new and maybe bore him a little. It's just fun and exciting to watch him when he rambles about his pimp shit. I'm not the kind of person who drowns in self-pitty, but I'm not holding my frustrations back any longer. This was a problem I had in my past. I was always holded back my emotions. I was a pretty cold dude at least from the outside. Nowadays, when I'm pissed at something I just vent for a minute, I curse, get mad, get myself together, stand up, brush my shoulders off and go ahead.
I liked this one video from Tyler were he talked to guys who are in a bitter place. Where he came up with this dark knight metaphor. You can literally feel how passionate Tyler is for his job. I didn't had an easy upbringing myself without a father, a sick mother and growing up in a more deprived area. But somehow I always believed in myself, I always fought for what I wanted and I never pitted myself too much. I always felt proud that I had it a little bit harder than some other people and still made it. I always had this die hard mentality. My upbringing gave me some edge. This never give up attitude. And I also feel like there are many people on this planet who has it muuuuch worse than me. there is no really a reason to feel upset. I just be thankful for what I already have while keep striving to become the person that I want to become.

However, as the great cinema-fan that I am, I've watched a lot of oldschool movies from the 50's and 60's recently. Mostly Hitchcock, but I also found this jewel right here…

what I really like about this movie is how the main character is a charismatic, talented hothead in the beginning, but also fails to win because of his lack in character. He has to go through some awful experiences in order to get "character" (as they called it in the movie) and to beat his nemesis. There is also an awesome scene where he picks up a girl. I thought while watching the scene: damn Paul Newman is a mack he should have released some infield footage back in the day, lol

there is also a great sequel to this one…

against the perception that might could occur when looking at the cover. it is not really about Tom Cruise, this is not some kind of coming of-age top gun story about an upcoming pool hustler. It seems so in the beginning, but then the story shift towards Newman who plays the retired hustler from the first movie. It is about an extraordinary comeback. He won an award for his performance and he's just so smooth and badass in this movie...


The film is maybe not as good as the first one, but almost... and hey it's a Scorsese;-)

Comfort

for me it's basically sharing stories, spending time together, experience emotions together. Creating the us against the world mentality. But I also think creating physical comfort is a huuuge and important part. No physical contact, no sexy time.

Comfort is sometimes a problem during daygame, the reason why is that you usually just have these kind of short interactions where you don't have enough time to build a strong and solid connection. Especially the physcial part is a problem at times... I see this often on other guys doing daygame... they're just standing too far away from the girl. there is too much space, no touch. this is usually not going anywhere. I mean there are exceptions, but this is definitely a way larger numbers game this way. That is the reason why my goal is always an instant date. Actually my goal is a same day lay. I didn't acchieved it yet, but I'm already knockin on the door^^ On the other hand being to physical without spending enough time together can be counterproductive too. If it's not official kissing and holding hands together, no romance so to speak. It doesn't look good for a second meeting. Jules told once there is no difference between Daygame vs. Nightgame. I think this is partially true, it is somehow different in the means of that people are busy during the day, it's more difficult to find single girls and sometimes it is perceived as weird. Although I have to say that a huge number of girls are just flattered, compliment me and encourage me to keep approaching other girls.
Daygame is the same, in the way how you get the girl. You have to create a situation where you spent enough time together. Mentally and physically.

I had recently an instant date with a hot chick from Atlanta. she works as an au-pair in my city. It was awesome just to walk around the town holding hands together, chillin by the river and sipp on some cold beer. Unfortunatley, I fucked up the kissing part and I also refused to pull her home. I just not tried it. I don't know, it was Friday afternoon after work, I just had other plans for the night and also this incident catched me red-handed somehow. I didn't saw this coming. But who cares... I did it once. I can do it again.

BTW: I will go watch the Joaquin Phoenix movie. Looks like an interesting mockumentary.
This movie right here looks interesting too. A tale about a guy who pulls ten's constantly and is addicted to porn. A movie about objectifying people and putting unrealistic expectations on relationsships catered mostly from the media.


JGL is a smart dude and I'm sure he did a good job with this.

Springbreakers was awesome too. The critics didn't like the movie too much, but I think it's mostly because it is something different from what they expected. And also a lot of editors are not pullers, lol
this is an awesome interview from the director. It just makes fun to listen to him. I especially love what he answers on the question at 21:26

Awesome filming

She was probably being polite, and didn't want her kid to get in the way.

Great blog. Great topic.

Create the 'bubble' and connection.

Good question!

Reinforcing Togetherness. Im wondeing if I apply Reinforcment of Togetherness to my game, how will change how my sets go down. I was just posting about how my sets go well in all, but the girls will run for it if they have a chance. Will creating more comfort to my sets, spark the interest that keeps my girls from making a run for it. Great video. I like the idea of reinforcing togetherness with the girl. I have seen that it has helped create a moment of realness with my last pull. Thanks for the practical ideas.  

The "no matter what," makes this blog sound a little too ominous.