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"Hey there!"

So, I've decided to take the week off to fly down to MEXICO! 

What a place... ;]

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On that note, let's dive into today's concept... And it's a CRUCIAL one!

Every Elite Player Has This Quality: How To Get Yourself To Take MASSIVE Action

I thought that I'd spice things up a bit, by illustrating this particular concept through one of my recent FIELD REPORTS from my brief stay in Cancun...

In this video, you're going to learn:

- How to become a MASSIVE ACTION TAKER (who gets laid)...

- How to get into state on a CONSISTENT basis (even sober!)...

- And lastly, how to become your own authority and take your own advice...

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT REVEALS HOW TO GET YOURSELF TO TAKE MASSIVE ACTION AND NEVER HAVE A SINGLE BAD NIGHT OUT:


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SYFRTXCJ67I

Another important point that I'd like to add to this video is that BEING AN ACTION TAKER is one of the best ways to MAKE YOURSELF INTERESTING.

Why is it that I never run out of things to say when interacting with women?

Why is it that I constantly hear girls telling me that I'm one of the most intriguing and interesting guys that they've ever met?

BECAUSE I TAKE ACTION.

And by taking action, I put myself in interesting situations.

"Make your life like a movie." (Cf. Tim)

I know that noo matter what happens, there's always going to be an interesting story to tell from the experience at hand.

If you stay passive in life, your life story will stay passive.

I really believe that this is one of the biggest strengths in my game and one of main reasons why I was able to achieve such success with women in a such a short period of time.

Because really, what is game?


REFERENCE EXPERIENCES. 

That's all that it is. 

Reference experiences and the lessons that you take from them. 

And if you're able to cultivate this type of mindset for yourself, like I was able to do for myself, then there's really nothing stopping you from achieving everything that you want in life.

"Getting good at game is getting as many reference experiences as possible, in the shortest amount of time possible."

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT EXPLORES THIS TOPIC INTO FURTHER DEPTH:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4GPSfH9F1Ug)

"Until next time!"

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#1

tpt

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VoltA

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lol best first comment ever
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Kid_Ink

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 hahaha ^^
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VoltA

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Super solid topic. Super solid explanation. I have "TAKE MASSIVE ACTION" written on my mirror in erasable marker so it reminds every morning. Helps get the mind focused for conquering each day.
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 You're like Quetzalcoatl reborn. If Quetzalcoatl pimped.
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Katalyst

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Perfect Timing @ 3:28 - as four fat adults trot along the field. 
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As far as I am concerned I had an issue where I could only reach the "state of mind" with small alcohol assistance. But I soon realized that it was just a bad habit and all I had to do was to approach (sober) unapologetically.
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 Plz Julien come to Madrid!!! Loved it btw. Thanks
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 Great content, also like the short view of the environment!
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 Haha laughing my ass off at 3:29
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Tyler

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Video looks super sick and the content is fantastic1

You're right that people lose the ability to listen to their best mentors over time.  This is actually why whenever you tell me to do something in the field I listen to it -- I've seen people who won't take my advice over time and I think of how much they lose out.

It's interesting how you made the "link" between that and not being able to take authority over YOURSELF.

Tyler
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Anthony John

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 Go out to get more reference material, Amazing!  Change things up a bit.  You want it to go bad because you will learn from it and become even more of a stunner!  "I'm the number one stunna, wh-what wh-what what?!"
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André Jr.

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lol indeed. And sometimes when we are on the corner, not taking action, we look around, and try to get that authority or inspiration from your friends/wingman, but most of time, nobody do it. Yes someone can spike inspirations, but piority is the authority that comes from ourselfs. We choose to take or not to take action.

I have a doubt though, when i m in sets, my mindset is always to get laid at the same night, i don t let myself believe in day2 or numbers, and i push thingss to extreme. Now, my friends tells me i gotta fall back a bit and be more pacient, bring things to the other day etc. My question is, should i ? Doubts comes cuz of the lack of success, only, cuz if i was pulling and closing consistenly i would be sure that what i m doing was rightt!

Like, there are girls who are not prepared for one night stand, should i get flexible and compreensive or i should stand centred in my reality that "she s coming home with me" till she get sucked in by it ?
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 when u say in the first video 'stop being a bitch' when u say to the student to re-approach, it doesnt affect the viewrs that much...

but when u say that u approach with all those obstacles in the second vid to get to the girl related with the band... yeah, now 'stop being a bitch' makes sense ;D
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 great vid
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When I was starting out at this as a teenager my idol used to be Mystery. I imagined that I'd be able to take so much more action if I was in field with him as my instructor when it actually hit me that the distinction I was making was bogus. Why can't I be my own authority? The day I got that epiphany you better believe my game hit a new level.

But over time I lost sight of that. This is why the game is about continuous wake-up calls. Time and time again. Until you start questioning deeply why it is you fall asleep in the first place.

(By the way, I had started growing tired of people saying "First!" in posts until I saw this one. Laughed my ass off.)
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okay...it been like 8 months! i guess k stew is safe form rsd's drama king now.
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Great Vid and content playa!!!
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 solid vid.  Gotta start taking more action..
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 how does it feel?
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 good vid as per usual!

great message too, works across the board for all levels of game!

"stop being a bitch!" & "take action"
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#22

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LOL @ the second video.

Still, you are so intense dude for newbies like me... I found that from watching your videos and trying your humor I'm getting the results exactly like that supposedly army dude you described. So I'm choding myself down to get some "empathy"... 

Maybe I'm misinterpreting the vibe as I'm watching a video, after all.

Taking action is a good advice, though.  Range of emotions, too.
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solid advice.
it caters for guys who go out with their wings as well as for loners.

take massive action. get experience.  this was actually the best advice from Jules I've grasped on the last year. and the success part 2 video from Tyler.

sometimes when I read questions from other guys here, I know exactly from where these questions coming from. I had the same, you can actually see in which stage they are in their development. what is the cure for those questions? stop the mental masturbation and overtheorizing everything, go out and take massive action. take the advice here, go out implement, get your motivation frome embracing your little victories, learn from your mistakes and make your own realizations about game.

time to hit the next level, as I went on this crazy three day rampage causing havoc in my homespots nightlife. the biggest lesson I've took from this weird odyssey so far: cut the booze!

after the third night of hardcore partying, smoking cigarettes and poetical binge drinking, I've realised two things. first you only have one liver and second you can't last long enough to really feel anything else than pain and exhaustion. besides that you behave like a manical idiot with pick-up skills who is too tired to even wanting to get laid, even if you would pull... ok, that's rubbish. I would still hit that^^ at least I would try. u get the point.

second lesson, embrace the awarkdness!
that is a huge one. when you are able to let lose, you are able to do everything. fuck your ego and your stupid thoughts about awarkdness and how other people perceive you. make awarkdness your friend. one of my favorite thoughts in  field recently is W.W.J.D. What Would Julien Do? when you see a set or a girl that you hesitate to open. what would he do? he probably would go over and call her slut, whore, bitch, cunt and last but not least a dog. I can't do anything else than start smiling about this nonsense and to think about creative ways to troll me into the set.
as I was drunk from several liters of highly potent beer that tasted like shit. I stumbled over a bench and fell on the ground right next to my target. I stood up, climbed over the benches to the table where this cute swedish girl was sitting and said to her: that was fucking awkard, but you are fucking cute. then I managed somehow to kiss close her in front of another guy who was hitting on her as well, just to lose her minutes later as she slipped away with the other guy that magically managed to pull her away in a blink and they both disappeared into the twilight zone, while I was busy talking shit to some random idiot. again the booze...
in the third night, I've felt sick and tired. So, I hit this two set and start to complain about how my stomach and my back hurt and how shitty I feel (RSD Ryan like). and all the other rubbish that happened to me, like shamelessly hitting on my favorite waitress to discover that she is already married or throwing up in a subways trash can. then all of a sudden the ugly one start to shittest me: why are you telling us this stuff? are we your dreamgirls yet? well, actually I like her I said, while pointing towards her friend. but you cute too, I added. just to disarm this fugly. then awarkd silence... is this conversation over I ask? this is awkard. then I started to laugh and went to dance^^ somehow I was happy as fuck. you see awarkdness is funny and endure it can help you to get massively confident.   

another realizations... anime eyes do exist. I actually don't take to much effort in reading signs, I try to escalate anyways (and often fail at it^^, I wish I had a compilation of all my failed kiss attempts). but it's a nice detail to know.
when a girl look at you like this...



you probably on the right track. this is the point of stop talking, pull her in and make out with her. just like in this old infield clip from Brad. somehow I failed at it, the conversation went well, so I probably didn't want to kill the interaction by doing something intense. although, she was obviously attracted and only stayed in my city over the weekend. but I didn't escalate and we parted aways, duhh! the perfect one night stand. maybe... who knows. but as Jeff once stated fuck "what if..." play to win, not to not lose.

that get me to another point: CLOSING
I don't know if anybody reminds the rant of Ozzie about the mindset of a closer. but CLOSE!
true story. if you want to become a normal, cool, grown alpha dude who is good with women overall follow Alex advise.
but if you want to pull one night stands, you have to close. you have to kiss the girl and pull her out the venue. I love this endure shittest advise, but I just don't get this time is your ally thing. from my experience it isn't. girls talk to each other and don't pay to much attention for a long period of time to a random stranger they've just met. unless, you have something sexual going on with them. to be fair, I've seen two incidents in field were this chill several hours in set before number and kiss close the girl mindset worked. but it just doesn't work for me. I don't see how I chill the whole fucking night in the club to pull the girl for a breakfast at mcdonalds and then pull her home to fuck her afterwards. or to get the number and get flaked. fuck numbers anyway.  they way I think about a night is just like this movie



if I can't get her till the end of the day. I wake up alone, starting from scratch. there is no morning, there are no numbers. all you have is a bunch of flaky digits. of course I exaggerate somewhat, but most ot the times it's pretty much the case.

I come from a different frame.I believe in windows. you have an opportunity to make out, if you miss it. you're done. I would say if you can't make it within ten or twenty minures you probably spin the weels and are on the path of a dying interaction. after kissing the girl, you can still chill back and talk about random and pointless shit for a longer period of time. but it's on. for both, the only thing that really matters. being chill and just get the phone number is nice during the day. but if you want to pull in the night, you have to go for it. not every guy is a chode, there are many naturals outhere that go into a venue and pull. they don't overthink it. they don't care about, if you try to convey that you are a masculine and confident guy. they're more fun when getting sexual. they are more arousal to the girl as your witty lines. they makeout with the girl you've just bored to death with your pointless get to know each other talk. and there some other things too. like filter girls out that are already taken and have a boyfriend. that's the reason why I dig more Tylers, Juliens and Ozzies stuff.

so, my plans for the next weekend. cut the booze, at least for the half amount. at my current stage, it's an unncessary crutch anyways. try this sentence out, that I came up recently:  you can't have enough of me. I'm like chocolate, a guilty pleasure^^

and maybe get it handled to hook with some girl to take her in front of a hotter one, then threw her away and get the hottie. that would be deluxe, we'll see.

and maybe watch this movie.
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And convert to mp3 and listen to everytime on the way out!
Thanks
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 Easy to want to start taking notes
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#26

Incriminate

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I just hate on myself every time I don't take action.

Then I go into Tyler MA MA MA MAAAA mode and laugh it off.

But seriously, I need to get out of the taking no action thing. 
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i have a question for Julien or Tyler

  i'm in the game since a few years, i had pretty good results since (~50 lays) also it helped me to develop other aspects of my life.

most of my game i did it in quiet bars, some club game here and there and some day game too. i can go solo and also social circle.

i find that quiet bars help me more to develop social skills and work on my technique. from clubs i only pull random sluts by luck.

i'm a one night stand guy and i feel very related to the jeffy style of game, maybe alex too. in general i found rsd material very good.

what surprise me sometimes is why rsd emphasizes so much cold approach club game as the "golden" way to work the game

there is some deep reason that makes cold approach in clubs a better way to drill the fundamentals? or is only the quantity of girls?

in some clubs you can't even go full cold approach. game is more a deal of network to get your access and female friends to get in
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Holy shit. This idea of knowing what to do, but losing authority over yourself is deep as fuck. I think this may be THE best advice i've ever had (so far). 
Everyone always tells you how to game, it's like when you fuck up.. and you know you've just fucked up.
I think subconociusly, even a chode who doesn't know shit about game actually knows what he needs to do, but has no authority over his life (which is why he is a chode).
TL;DR 
MIND=BLOWN
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This is pretty interesting. I've noticed that over time it's harder to do what I need to do when I'm out. At least the past few weeks I haven't been taking as much action as usual when I'm out, I guess because I let barriers get in the way of my "authority". It's also interesting the kinds of barriers that can get in the way that resurface or come in new forms, such as thinking that pickup isn't "normal" anymore or is too weird or w/e. And then I realize that taking lots of action during a night is what gets me to feel awesome, and it's not some given for just being out. 
Tyler wrote:
Video looks super sick and the content is fantastic1

You're right that people lose the ability to listen to their best mentors over time.  This is actually why whenever you tell me to do something in the field I listen to it -- I've seen people who won't take my advice over time and I think of how much they lose out.

It's interesting how you made the "link" between that and not being able to take authority over YOURSELF.

Tyler
Btw, I wonder if people can walk up the steps of the pyramid?
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I like this share。As a long time journalist and broadcaster, I’ve learned to sort out the real stories behind the news, and I’d like to share my knowledge and news about city real estate with you.
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