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"What's up!"

I'm in Miami right now and I just finished wrapping up the very first MODEL SEASON BOOTCAMP with none other than Owen AKA Tyler from Real Social Dynamics!

This is the very first Live Program that we've been able to run together this year, and it's been OFF THE FUCKING HOOK!

Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates...

February 19 – 23, 2013: Miami Beach, Florida, USA (taught with Tyler and Jeffy)
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March 5 – 9, 2013: Miami Beach, Florida, USA (taught with Tyler and Brad)
March 21 – 23, 2013: Medellin, Columbia
March 28 – 30, 2013: Rio De Janeiro, Brazil
April 4 – 6, 2013: Buenos Aires, Argentina

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If you're located ANYWHERE in South America, I HIGHLY recommend that you DO NOT miss out on this unique opportunity to take a Live Program with me, as I won't be going back there for a LONG ASS TIME!!!

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Coming Up With Gold Out Of Thin Air: How To Spark Up The Set When It Fizzles Out

So, as I've previously mentioned, I've been hanging out a lot with Tyler these past couple of weeks, talking about the future of the company as well as various projects that we've been planning on undertaking for quite some time now... One of them being the brand new video blog format!

Which, as a side note, is going to be heading in the direction of becoming actual DOCUMENTARIES! ;]

Now, what ended up happening, is that after all of this talk I actually found myself having trouble coming up with new video blog topics as well as the motivation to actually go out and record something in the old/regular format...

I wanted to be taking things to the next level as of RIGHT NOW and I wanted everything to be perfect...

I forgot about an important principle, that I'm going to be sharing with you in this video here below...


CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT REVEALS HOW TO KEEP TALKING AND TALKING AND NEVER RUN OUT OF THINGS TO SAY:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qNKIC-NRbVg)

PS: In case you've missed it, I've just released my very own PICKUP MANIFESTO that reveals everything that you need to know about attracting the women that you want into your life...

Check it out RIGHT NOW!

Real Social Dynamics Julien Manifesto -- How To Pick Up Girls From Open To Close: The Heart Of The Game

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW TO LEARN HOW TO ATTRACT THE WOMEN THAT YOU WANT INTO YOUR LIFE:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w65qBE-5fWg)

"Until next time!"

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#1
jlaix

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Bomb vid sir love the message.
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#2

Adel69

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fucking sick .. love it!
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pringles

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great vid mate
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2ndcoming

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Bomb vid sir love the message.
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#5

Amsterdamn

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Why did she hit you? tounge
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#6

luppin

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Fuck YEAH! Who gives a shit, say whatever. Girl mean nothing, have fun do whatever.heart
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shaun_deeb

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great value
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Frank128

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Excellent video man, really liked the idea. That was a very natural and congruent speech
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#9

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How to build massive value and attraction in the set? Should you just assume it or what?
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makumbs

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I wasn't paying attention to what he said..
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major10

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try new staff.. shave your head and your barbe , it might looks better.. new look maybe brought new ideas in life..
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LethalLex

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Nice haircut lol
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Kid_Ink

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that girl wanted the D
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#14

Elamanopiskelija

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Depends on what you have inside, right? I pretty much always say what I have to say when I feel like saying it, even though it's often positive, I am not really the most loved guy out there, if you know what I mean
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Snakeeye

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some times is it easy and other times really hard to be that free floating in a conversation,
it help me a lot if the girl say some thing i can talk about, thats why i often use a statement or a question when i open, but when the girl give me nothing, then it often ends with i need to walk a way,
this video give me lots of ideas about how to plough,

i been out for 5 month 3 days a week, and game start to make sense, i start to see how the parts fit together,
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Snakeeye

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paneksshops wrote:
How to build massive value and attraction in the set? Should you just assume it or what?
 yes,,, thats it
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besserwisser

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smile


http://upload.wikimedia.org/wikipedia/en/d/d7/Julien_donkey_boy_poster.png
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Xandercage

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Amsterdamn wrote:
Why did she hit you? tounge
because when men tell lies to women they froth from their utters and violently attack all testosterone bearing organisms in the immediate vicinity.
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Julien,

I don't agree with much of what you said in this video, please feel free to rebuddle. Offering value is not in the form of speaking and sharing funny stories with the women, offering value is about sharing and transferring your positive and present ENERGY to the women and the people around you. This is what makes woman addicted to being around you. This whole frame and mindset of "talking and talking" is FALSE, I would like to clear that up...the person talking is the person qualifying! Take for instance a manager asking a potential employee a question about his skills at an interview, the employee speaks and the boss stays silent, after the employee is finished speaking, the boss stays silent and continues making eye contact with him with a blank facial expression, the employee is going to feel the need to go into his head and qualify himself even MORE, this is how you stifle a chick and how you make her react!! Not by using shock humor or any other unneccessary bullshit.

Also, your idea about sharing stories with the woman and telling her all about yourself is also quite false, even in that short clip of infield footage you exemplified a mysterious vibe and used brevity within the interaction. This is key, the women wants to experience your sexual and playful vibe while keeping the tension, that tells her more about you than any story you have about yourself. My way of thinking: She only has the priveledge to know more about me in depth after I sleep with her. You also talk about the girl looking at you waiting for you to say something....fuck that! Thats backwards! Students should be stifling the girl and making her react so that shes the one who feels the need to go up into HER head and qualify herself to you. Some of these concepts that are being discussed within RSD I find is coming more from an inferiority frame of mind...just a lot more subtle and hidden.

Kal
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#20

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How can it be that actually saying the stuff that are in your mind be inferior?
Kal55 wrote:

Julien,

I don't agree with much of what you said in this video, please feel free to rebuddle. Offering value is not in the form of speaking and sharing funny stories with the women, offering value is about sharing and transferring your positive and present ENERGY to the women and the people around you. This is what makes woman addicted to being around you. This whole frame and mindset of "talking and talking" is FALSE, I would like to clear that up...the person talking is the person qualifying! Take for instance a manager asking a potential employee a question about his skills at an interview, the employee speaks and the boss stays silent, after the employee is finished speaking, the boss stays silent and continues making eye contact with him with a blank facial expression, the employee is going to feel the need to go into his head and qualify himself even MORE, this is how you stifle a chick and how you make her react!! Not by using shock humor or any other unneccessary bullshit.

Also, your idea about sharing stories with the woman and telling her all about yourself is also quite false, even in that short clip of infield footage you exemplified a mysterious vibe and used brevity within the interaction. This is key, the women wants to experience your sexual and playful vibe while keeping the tension, that tells her more about you than any story you have about yourself. My way of thinking: She only has the priveledge to know more about me in depth after I sleep with her. You also talk about the girl looking at you waiting for you to say something....fuck that! Thats backwards! Students should be stifling the girl and making her react so that shes the one who feels the need to go up into HER head and qualify herself to you. Some of these concepts that are being discussed within RSD I find is coming more from an inferiority frame of mind...just a lot more subtle and hidden.

Kal
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Sorry Julien but I need to call bullshit on this one. If saying whatever you feel like saying and the girl will love it were true then the 'Seduction Community' would not exist.
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#22

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Saying whatever is on your mind is not inferior...its actually a good thing. The problem starts when you feel the need to talk and talk simply to improve the interaction (pumelling) which is very inferior. Why do you guys feel the need to talk so much! Why don't you focus more on being able to produce more positive emotions? Why don't you focus on becoming more present? When your present you won't run out of SHIT to say. Girls love to talk!! Let them. You make her react by getting her to invest. Creating the vacuum. How the fuck are you going to do that when all your doing is talking and talking. What I'm saying is focus on your vibe, not your mouth.
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#23
René

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Cool video Julien. It resonates with the concept I have in my mind for a few years now: NOT talking to girls IS egoistical! (‘Egoistical’ in a negative way, that is.) You owe it to the world to express yourself. Or else you’re withholding people from something of value.
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#24

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great video to start a documentary. the following scene  I would add this song and have  julien walking around making girls laugh, play, and kiss him. Nothing but good times.



FUck that! the following Scene It will be me getting the girls.
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#25

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I agree with undisclosed. According to RSD its not the seduction community but the social community, I never hear RSD discuss seduction or sexual tension which is how guys get LAID! However I digress... this talk about what you "say" shouldn't even be discussed, focus on your presence, seductive and playful vibe, this should be where the base that everything flows from. On another note, I salue undisclosed, atleast he challenged the opinions of an instructor, every post I see on rsd nation is another dick rider, the guys who get laid the most, the guys who are amazing in the field simply see these guys as equals...you have to understand that when you watch a video and blindly believe their advice your basically adopting the reality of someone else, theirs always going to be dissapointment when you try to align their view with yours, i.e. Newbie calling girls dogs and sluts. Use independent judgment for fuck sakes. Stop living through other men. Start challenging redundant and obsolete mindsets.

Kal
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what I've learned the last week?

daygame in the wintertime sucks ass...
but in the matter of staying consistent, practice, preparing for the spring and realising that you can still have a nice interaction with a cutie on the street and get her number while heavy snowfall freezes your both asses...
it's still worth it.

Juliens short circuit mindfuck techniques infield revealed^^

almost as funny as...

the drama kings quote that Jeffy revealed last week: "I'm so good looking, I feel like I can say everything I want"  LOL!  that's the best line since making out with a girl and say to the bystanders: "she's my sister!"

don't lose your cool and don't get jealous when you realise that another competitor tries to pick up the same girl as you in the nightclub. I guess I fucked it up with this cute spanish girl with this bullshit last saturday, but who cares... mental note done, on to the next one;-)

and last but not least, reminding yourself that a wedding is a good panty dropper also. not only in this hilarious movie, but also in reality as I remember an incident on a wedding that I attended a couple years ago. I don't go into much details here, but basically one smart ass guy spotted a single-mother brides maid and nailed her in a bush next to the house were the wedding party went down. that was way before I knew what pick-up is. how does that help us in daily life? I don't know actually...



I'm not sure about the funeral thing though^^
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Kal55 I see what you're saying, but I think Julien's point was more aimed at those people who say "I ran out of things to say".

Bypass your whole argument about who is inferior in the interaction. If a newbie's brain goes blank in the middle of an interaction, and he "runs out of things to say", he'll start looking inferior pretty quick.

Julien's whole point is stop striving for perfection, which is precisely what you're trying to do here. In many cases, near enough is good enough. We're not *striving* for mediocrity here, but merely at peace with the freedom to do so, every once in a while.
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What's interesting is that I explained the concept of 'sharing' who you are to my gf a few days ago and now we watched your vid together. Good stuff, a lot of David Deida in there, too.

Friday
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Expression not impression - that's it.
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164,

I'm not advocating perfection, the complete opposite actually. I'm saying that your enough, completely, I've said this before and I'll say it again, the fact that a company like RSD even exists is proposterous considering how EASY the game is and how natural this really should be. Do you see the sexual/seductive vibe that Julien exuded within that short clip? RSD's actions and what they say are in complete contradiction. Being social does NOT get you laid like being seductive does, I'm the most social guy in probably my whole college campus but that doesn't get me laid, being seductive does...ofcourse be social, but maintain the seductive vibe and build sexual tension which is crucial. Rsd misses the boat completely on these concepts and builds up the idea that you have to be witty, social, funny as fuck, ultra positive, charismatic, and a super hero alpha male to pull...when in reality all you need to do is be seductive, sexual, and build tension. The other stuff comes second and should only be done because YOU want to implement those traits into your personality, not because you think you will get laid from it. Best advice you can give to the newbie rsd dick rider is: be calm and get a boner, the rest will take care of itself.

Kal
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Kal55 wrote:

Offering value is not in the form of speaking and sharing funny stories with the women, offering value is about sharing and transferring your positive and present ENERGY to the women and the people around you. This is what makes woman addicted to being around you. This whole frame and mindset of "talking and talking" is FALSE, I would like to clear that up...the person talking is the person qualifying! 
Kal,

Props for sticking your neck out for the constructive criticism.  

However:

You: "Offering value is about sharing and transferring your positive and present ENERGY ..." 
You: "Offering value is not in the form of speaking and sharing funny stories"

Dude, it's the same thing.  You have to speak, most of the time, to share value.  It's not just in the form of funny stories, but it's in your positive and energetic vibe via your speech (the most basic and used form of our communication) that you share value.  The "talking and talking" mindset is true in the beginning of most interactions because in cold approach the guy has to usually take 90% of the conversational burden in the first 5 minutes.  As she sees you're a cool guy and becomes more interested, then she starts to take on her half (and qualifies herself to you then too).  

Additionally, and this line addresses your second paragraph here, when you're talking to self amuse yourself, you're not qualifying.  You're talking because you have to take the conversational burden for the first few minutes.  In this whole conversation, youare gaming yourself, making yourself laugh, while simultaneously making her react to you.  That's really the basis of attraction.  
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#32

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Gagner5,

I'm not saying don't talk...I'm saying that its not necessary, I'm also advocating brevity. Talking is one of the various forms that reduces sexual tension. Fuck that old school bullshit about talking for 90% of the time. Nerds created that rule! From a naturals perspective who's been doing this since he was 13 yrs old I know for certain that brevity and creating a vacuum by having her talk is the most effective route. Talking 90% of the time? Really? Fuck that. That's advanced qualification. If you assume your value then why feel the need to talk the entire time...its not your JOB! Its a subtle form of putting the on a pedestal...all the advanced guys know exactly what I'm talking about. Why do you feel you need to take the burden?! Do less! She's already attracted to you! You don't have to talk 90% of the time to create attraction, there's no such thing as creating the attraction. It already exists! You have to move up to a different paradigm of thinking brother. Its that simple.
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#33

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I love all the instructors videos and I aint no fan boy, but this is the best video of the year so far!
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#34

greentealover

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yeah but Julien if you keep talking about "fluff" won't you take away the interaction from being sexual and showing interest? I mean how can you show attraction by talking about google earth ... she might just peg you as one of her friends.
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#35

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nice video

- If anyone is under 21 and lives in the St. Louis area (I'm in West County/Kirkwood and 19) who wants to go out then send me a message if interested. Thanks
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#36
Miško

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Thanks to your manifesto  Julien, I got laid last night In Prague.
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