Ya really liked the message, the speaking seems more free flowing and natural too, really enjoyed it

great vid mate

Why did she hit you?

great value

How to build massive value and attraction in the set? Should you just assume it or what?

try new staff.. shave your head and your barbe , it might looks better.. new look maybe brought new ideas in life..

that girl wanted the D

some times is it easy and other times really hard to be that free floating in a conversation,
it help me a lot if the girl say some thing i can talk about, thats why i often use a statement or a question when i open, but when the girl give me nothing, then it often ends with i need to walk a way,
this video give me lots of ideas about how to plough,

i been out for 5 month 3 days a week, and game start to make sense, i start to see how the parts fit together,

Julien,

I don't agree with much of what you said in this video, please feel free to rebuddle. Offering value is not in the form of speaking and sharing funny stories with the women, offering value is about sharing and transferring your positive and present ENERGY to the women and the people around you. This is what makes woman addicted to being around you. This whole frame and mindset of "talking and talking" is FALSE, I would like to clear that up...the person talking is the person qualifying! Take for instance a manager asking a potential employee a question about his skills at an interview, the employee speaks and the boss stays silent, after the employee is finished speaking, the boss stays silent and continues making eye contact with him with a blank facial expression, the employee is going to feel the need to go into his head and qualify himself even MORE, this is how you stifle a chick and how you make her react!! Not by using shock humor or any other unneccessary bullshit.

Also, your idea about sharing stories with the woman and telling her all about yourself is also quite false, even in that short clip of infield footage you exemplified a mysterious vibe and used brevity within the interaction. This is key, the women wants to experience your sexual and playful vibe while keeping the tension, that tells her more about you than any story you have about yourself. My way of thinking: She only has the priveledge to know more about me in depth after I sleep with her. You also talk about the girl looking at you waiting for you to say something....fuck that! Thats backwards! Students should be stifling the girl and making her react so that shes the one who feels the need to go up into HER head and qualify herself to you. Some of these concepts that are being discussed within RSD I find is coming more from an inferiority frame of mind...just a lot more subtle and hidden.

Kal

Sorry Julien but I need to call bullshit on this one. If saying whatever you feel like saying and the girl will love it were true then the 'Seduction Community' would not exist.

Cool video Julien. It resonates with the concept I have in my mind for a few years now: NOT talking to girls IS egoistical! (‘Egoistical’ in a negative way, that is.) You owe it to the world to express yourself. Or else you’re withholding people from something of value.

I agree with undisclosed. According to RSD its not the seduction community but the social community, I never hear RSD discuss seduction or sexual tension which is how guys get LAID! However I digress... this talk about what you "say" shouldn't even be discussed, focus on your presence, seductive and playful vibe, this should be where the base that everything flows from. On another note, I salue undisclosed, atleast he challenged the opinions of an instructor, every post I see on rsd nation is another dick rider, the guys who get laid the most, the guys who are amazing in the field simply see these guys as equals...you have to understand that when you watch a video and blindly believe their advice your basically adopting the reality of someone else, theirs always going to be dissapointment when you try to align their view with yours, i.e. Newbie calling girls dogs and sluts. Use independent judgment for fuck sakes. Stop living through other men. Start challenging redundant and obsolete mindsets.

Kal

Kal55 I see what you're saying, but I think Julien's point was more aimed at those people who say "I ran out of things to say".

Bypass your whole argument about who is inferior in the interaction. If a newbie's brain goes blank in the middle of an interaction, and he "runs out of things to say", he'll start looking inferior pretty quick.

Julien's whole point is stop striving for perfection, which is precisely what you're trying to do here. In many cases, near enough is good enough. We're not *striving* for mediocrity here, but merely at peace with the freedom to do so, every once in a while.

Expression not impression - that's it.

Kal,

Props for sticking your neck out for the constructive criticism.  

However:

You: "Offering value is about sharing and transferring your positive and present ENERGY ..." 
You: "Offering value is not in the form of speaking and sharing funny stories"

Dude, it's the same thing.  You have to speak, most of the time, to share value.  It's not just in the form of funny stories, but it's in your positive and energetic vibe via your speech (the most basic and used form of our communication) that you share value.  The "talking and talking" mindset is true in the beginning of most interactions because in cold approach the guy has to usually take 90% of the conversational burden in the first 5 minutes.  As she sees you're a cool guy and becomes more interested, then she starts to take on her half (and qualifies herself to you then too).  

Additionally, and this line addresses your second paragraph here, when you're talking to self amuse yourself, you're not qualifying.  You're talking because you have to take the conversational burden for the first few minutes.  In this whole conversation, youare gaming yourself, making yourself laugh, while simultaneously making her react to you.  That's really the basis of attraction.  

I love all the instructors videos and I aint no fan boy, but this is the best video of the year so far!

nice video

- If anyone is under 21 and lives in the St. Louis area (I'm in West County/Kirkwood and 19) who wants to go out then send me a message if interested. Thanks