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CONTENT
 
Today’s topic…
 
The Big Urban Myth Of MIXED SETS DEBUNKED: Step-by-Step To Pull Girls That Come With Guys
 
Mixed sets… Such a head trip for most guys…
 
“How do I deal with mixed sets?”
 
“How do I AMOG a guy?”
 
“How do I deal with guys coming in and talking to my girl?”
 
Well…
 
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT TEACHES YOU THE TECHNIQUES TO SUCCEED AT PICKING UP A GIRL OUT OF A GROUP OF GUYS:
 

(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uDaI9iGPejs)
 
GO DEEPER — CLASSIC VIDS
 
“How do I deal with girls who have boyfriends?”
 

(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a9jC2uYMySM)
 
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FROM THE ARCHIVES
 
DRAMA!!!
 
That’s right, folks… D-R-A-M-A…
 
So, for the past couple of years, I’ve been recording quite a few “dramatic” phone / Skype calls… I know, pretty sleazy… But, hey… Don’t tell me that you're not interested in listening in! ;)
 
I still have to sort through them all and decide what I’m going to be doing with them all but, until then, I thought that I’d throw up a couple of snippets…
 
PS: Now don't worry, these aren’t the worst ones... They’re actually quite “light” and “comedic” if you ask me!
 
Strong emotions. What else?
 

And...
 

- How To Create Massive Amounts Of Drama To Make Women Fall Psychotically In Love With You!

The Practical Way To Hook A Girl For LIFE! (+Text Game Examples)

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PODCAST
 
Today’s OFFICIAL ***PODCAST*** ANNOUNCEMENT!
 
BIG NEWS… I’m going to be starting my very own *WEEKLY* Podcast Series… 
 
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Well, all of that's about to change! 
 
From now on (AKA starting this week!), I’m going to be answering every single *relevant* question in a weekly Podcast!
 
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#1

greentealover

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Join Date: 03/15/2012 | Posts: 539

From watching students in field and from your own experience, what advice can you give someone to get out of the intermediate or good beginner stage where you're able to get numbers easily but still get flakes. I know Tyler has said that for his students, being congruent has helped them get out of that plateau. Just curious about your opinion.
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#2

alexlopes

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Fucking amazing video!
Thanks.


About the podcast:

Tell us about the beginning of your journey. How was your development in the game back in switzerland.

And how do you deal with 'don't touch me' girls. The type of girl that is ok with talking to you, but when you try to iniciate some type of physical contact, she is like 'no'.
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Raigeki

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What do you do with a guy who actively goes against the girl and you when the set is going well? Like some may drag the girl away against her will and don't seem to give up that fast.
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dave7-

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How do you do physicality without it being a tactic? Because when you don't do it as a tactic, then you can kinda forget how important it is for the girl to get aroused.


One quick answer that you could elaborate on?: standing close to the girl will help the interaction be more physical...I know that sounds dumb but it makes sense rather than standing further away. Either way, I'm trying to figure out how to be more physical without thinking about it or having to rely on remebering to do it.


Kombucha 4lyfe
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#5
RezznT!

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Thanks for talking about mixed sets and amogs Julien. It seems like a topic that most people don't really want to touch, so I'm glad you gave your opinion on it. I definitely found it helpful.

Also thought the drama video was funny. I was like "how the fuck is this girl buying this shit" haha. The podcast idea is absolutely invaluable as well.

-Any advice for how to win the guy/friends over?

-Whats your opinion on winning the friends over vs not giving them any rapport at all like manwhore advocates?


Thanks Julien
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I've heard advanced guys tell me that one huge difference between intermediate and advanced is having really good social calibration. Can you expand on that, and what really good social calibration actually means and how it would be in practice?
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#7

Singleheart

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Good value and I like the drama on phone, kinda motivated me to create my own as well. My question is, how to stop slipping back and commited yourself to the journey?
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#8

Clearner

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I was thinking recently, "What if RSD had a podcast?"

Boom, Julien is doing a podcast.

Awesome! :)
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#9
Resmat

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I'm a newbie who is primarily doing daygame in college, some of your material might seem a bit "out there" in terms of learning pickup in college.

How would you approach sets as a newbie in college?

Granted you don't "shit where you eat" but College is still a decent place where there's enough sets to go around where you can learn from but you can still make a bad name for yourself if you go on a rampage or something.
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Julien

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***REMINDER***---> The Podcast will ONLY feature questions RELATED TO TODAY'S VIDEOS...

If you're questions are "off topic", they will unfortunately not be answered this time around. 
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#11

kant_810

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1. If i see a guy that talks to a girl and tries to pick her up usually i go in next to her look at him and just try to see if i can put him on the spot just by saying "are you trying to pick her up lets see if you do a decent job" and just see if he starts to become reactive to that cause girls smile and play along and stare at the guy with the "what you gonna do now" frame of mind; i had situations where two guys tried to game one girl and i went in did the "are you trying to pick her up" to the guy that was the most physical with the girl he stepped aside tried to talk to me while the other guy tried to game her - what do you think about this when you deal with more than one guy - if they try to mock me i simply shrug it off and be like "your clever your funny such a smart guy" and just laugh                                                                                                                                                                                        
2. when it comes to drama - i'm a very intense individual by nature so a lot of my interactions are like that - if i try to recover from a failed escalation, when the girl is being unresponsive, by creating drama to some extent can that be overbearing to her and just too much ?            
Thanks Julien for every insight and i can't wait to meet you in person in the near future
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#12
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Welcome to the Murder Mitten! Deeetroit!
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#13
Resmat

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Alright, let me try again:

1. If an alpha in the group is giving you shit, how exactly do you remain UNREACTIVE? Do you make a few comments to him or do you just ignore him and let him tool on you?

2. What would you do in a scenario where your target is clearly into you but her friends aren't, how do you win them over?

3. How do you pull a girl who came with her friends? I realize one answer is isolate her from her friends but what if she constantly is getting texted by her friends, how do you address that?

Thanks for doing the podcast Julien. I think it's a great idea to expound on the topics you covered in the video some more in case the vblog wasn't clear enough. I only hope more instructors take the time to do this like you have!
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#14

james123

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LOL at the first phone call.. hahaha

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#15

genius2005

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Pretty powerfull video Julien.

I like the part about "reacting less then the guy around her".
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#16

AlexV

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haha

most guys are such chodes
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#17

Took

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Am I the only one that lol'd at the part where he was saying most guys don't approach mixed sets 'Unless they take an Ozzie bootcamp' hahahaha?

Nice vid man btw, also loved the very subtle key element 'Leading not chasing'.
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#18
Lovebelow

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lol those phonecalls, julien u sleazebag! haha :P
 
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you're awesome!
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#20
bartoon

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Not giving a fuck indeed.
Also I found it helpful to do a push by literally pushing the girl a little towards him as she is talking to him. Now this causes immediately and almost every time the girl to step back to me lol.
Do you think that's because of her defense mechanisms? I am just curious.

First I just found it just amusing, now I'm using it more often.

Its interesting because when I think about it, my wingman used to push me that way towards a set and I would immediately step back and not approach for some reason. I guess I got a similar feeling.

Btw, the 12/1/12 vid is hillarious.
Ps.: We want to see the other video with the 20 girls!
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#21

Luis5

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Hey Julien, about the phone calls: not only i don´t see the fun on them but I think you are being a total dick to them. (I love you anyways)                                                                               Q: Is it necessary to be a senseless bastard to be good with women?                             Thanks for the Podcast!
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#22
Noronha

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What about when you already isolate the girl, the interection is on, but her friends (most female) wants to steal the girl from you, and she just accepts because of the pressure os her friends?   thank you! 
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#23

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what to do if someone attempts to laugh ( considering himself more dominant and strong) over you in front of the girl with whom you communicate? whether to answer or ignore? does it seem to ignore is reactive?
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#24
MakeItHappen

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Now THAT will get you a SHITTON of views, because you are answering a question that is actually discussed on forum!

Thanks Julien!
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MakeItHappen

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Now THAT will get you a SHITTON of views, because you are answering a question that is actually discussed on forum!

Thanks Julien!
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#26

Ocean2

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I opened that type of scenario twice two days ago of the same set ^^ To get out of my comfort zone I opened a mixed couple twice who where almost making out. I have to admit I used alcohol that night though. The guy was getting a bit pissed and the girl started to giggle and was on my side behind his back hehe. Thought it was hilarious that I kept stopping them from making out and the girl also thought it was funny.

When I am sober I can also do stuff like this, but not this extreme that I go back into this kind of set twice lol. But yeah, I am a cheater because I know RSD :P
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#27
Cleavage

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The first phone call. I've seen some extreme rationalizing in the dating world, but the way she's in denial is of a whole new level for me. Did a girl ever go further then flying over? Like buying you a car so you can pull other girls easier? Asking to be part of threesomes so she can still have sex with you when you pull? 
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#28
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poor julien now he has to answer all this questions :)
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Thanks for showing off our beautiful city. =)
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#30

SSam

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loved the DRAMA videos
btw how do you open and follow up with multiple girls set?
brad seems to just directly open 'the girl' and game her, while alex opens and games the entire group. I wonder what the 'julien style' is
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#31
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Great videos mate and great advice.
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#32
G-Money

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Lmao at those videos.

julien: "Toying with women's emotions since 2006."
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#33
maxaj

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I like how toned down Julien is here. Not putting much pressure or high energy.
I can resonate with this one, and love the drama files
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#34

Nicklaus

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Nice videos Julien.So do you think for a new to the game is important to open mixed sets from the start of his development in the game and back when you were in your town in Switzerland did you aproached mixed sets?
P.S. Were can i find those nice wooden sunglasses??
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#35
Hody Jones

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Well this is nothing new, but most frequent situation in opening mixed sets is that girl you want to opet is on the opposide direction from you, so you must practically get into middle of a group and open.. and that sucks...  but thats the only way to open such situaion... you can't open a group if you cant hold if because of loud shitty music(its practically impossible... this is more fucked up that most people think...

too much ''open'' haha
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#36
Climax

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Hi Julien,
Great to hear about the podcast.
Here is my question on today's video

How do you prevent a guy from physically picking a girl up on his shoulder and run away with her?

You say in your video that people won't interfere if they see you having a man to woman vibe with a girl. I was in a club the other day, walked straight up to a girl on the dance floor and stopped right in front of her, full of masculine intent. That gorgeous girl smiled at me and gave the "fuck me" eyes. I paused to increase the tenstion a bit more and kept strong eye contact, she was loving it.

Out of no where, Captain save a swooped by, picked the girl up by the waist and vanished on the dance floor. 
That dude was 3 meters away dancing with some chick on a busy dance floor and litteraly dropped his girl to pick mine up when he saw her facial expression from my approach.
By the time my brain processed what was going on they were gone. I looked at her reaction when he picked her up, she didn't do a double take on the dude, rather giggled and smiled at me as she was being dragged away.

I was that guy put in a position where she was complying and I couldn't go against it or it would've been against her, like you mentionned in your video.

Based on her reaction he was probably her friend or a dude that had built enough comfort for her to be perfectly at ease with his un-announced move. I didn't know the girl myself and wonder how I should have reacted.

I couldn't chase after them like a dog afer a bone, it would have made me look weak and potentially started a fight once that dude's little crossfit marathon was over. The guy clearly picked her up to take her away from me in the first place. Everything went really fast too which didn't give me time to do anything but stare.

And stare I did. I stood there like a dumbfound and it lowered my value for the other girls dancing around. 

Hard to open a girl that just saw you get tooled by some dude. The only alternative I can think of would have been to play tug-of-war with that guy until he drops the girl and playfully act as if it's a game to avoid the situation to shift to a fight. This would have been really hard to calibrate since I didn't know anything about the guy, the girl and their relationship, but could've also risked the girl to fall off his shoulder and break her fucking face on the floor. Not exactly the smoothest situation. 


I know sometimes you just have to let it go but given AMOG is the topic of the day I'm wondering if there's something else I could've done in that situation. 

thanks for your time,
Julien
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#37
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Nice vid as usual, psyched RSD finally has a video shot in D Town lol.

Cool shot of Eminem's old house as well.

Tyler
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in da D!
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eminem - get bitches ft julien (hidden track)....rsd in the hood lmaooooo, I love detroit
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Good content as always.
I think you described the dynamics in mixed groups pretty well. Also, how to handle a situation when somebody flirts with your girl. That's actually how I behave. I don't get really paranoid about it. I just let have her the fun of meeting new people in the course of a fun night and let him run out of ammo. Don't get me wrong, I do what's necessary. But usually it doesn't take too much to get rid of another dude if your interaction with the girl is already solid. Often times they just leave on their own. If it gets too much and the interaction does take too long. Join the party, stay in a leading frame overall, stare at him and listen to him eagerly, force the pressure of the interaction on to him. You just listen, be silent, stare at him judgemental and don't give him any reaction. Then he starts to get uncomfortable, he runs out of ammo, starts to crumble and he's done. Also I don't leave the set. If this is my girl, I stand by her side like a siamese twin. There is no point where he gets quality one on one facetime with her in such situation. There is no point where I would ever leave the set. I can make those situations so uncomfortable and awkward that any sane person will leave asap. I don't care, even if he tries to amog me or come up with shit like: is this your girlfriend? I say stuff like: I'm already working on it, bruh. I never lose my frame. Awarkdness is my comfort zone. Even in case he's not bouncing (because he's drunk, really persistent or whatever...) in the worst case scenario I just literally grab the girl and take her somewhere else. Done.

I was never cheated by a girl. Most likely, because I was never long enough in a relationsship that this could ever happen^^ I dumped the girls beforehand or they dumped me.
I cheated once... somewhat, but ended this "relationsship" the day after. However, I got dumped by girls. Girls I was really obsessed with. I did get jelaous when they posted pictures with other guys or changed their relationsship status. That's why you should never stalk her Facebook profile^^ You know the dilly. Did anybody of you ever think about it how your Ex-Girlfriend get fucked by another dude? How he's doggystylin her from behind or how she sucks him off? Terrible thoughts somehow... there are dudes who are into this, but I'm not cool with this cuckold shit. I'm not wired like that. I got mad about these stupid thougts in my past. I got over this when I started to become more successful in Game and I also realised that we are all human and we all have a crave for love and sex. Every girl has a past and she will have a future with you or without you. Deal with it. I don't think about this stuff anymore.

However, in case I would ever get cheated I probably would handle the situation somewhat like this^^



I saw this movie recently. "Closer" was one of the movies I put on my list a while ago. Really great! A brutal and honest view on nowadays relationsships. Some people say this movie is too dark and pessimistic, but I think the superficiality and selfishness portrayed here is actually pretty realistic. When I'm honest, I have to plead guilty for this stuff myself in some ways.

There is also a stripscene of Natalie Portman, if you wanna check out her amazing ass, lol



DRAMA

There you go, nice to see this stuff again^^ As I said earlier Jules brought an emotional awareness to RSD that wasn't really around before. It's not so much that you have to behave in this extreme way to be successful with women. It's just good to be aware of their emotional world. To understand how women perceive the world and their environment. Stuff like emotional temporary truths for example. How to be more playful and hook them emotionally and romantically. I must say since Julien's drama videos I'm more aware of the emotional perception of a woman. I understand better how to stimulate her on this level. This is stuff you probably knew on some intuitive level somehow before, but you get more effective with this when you are really aware of it. And also it's just extremely entertaining. My favorite youtube comment in a Julien video was: Julien is like the bad guy in movies you root for^^

I laughed my ass off listening to the first drama phone call. I already listened to it a couple times.

You saw the video?
YOU SENT IT TO ME!!

Priceless, just epic...
Now your drama videos make even more sense. I also dig the black and white pictures^^
You can really sense Juliens emotional pain, lol

Keep it coming, spread the Drama Puppetmaster!


Best move on the week before last:

I caught myself recently how I used some instructor inspired lines. Remember how I wrote a couple months ago that I'm pretty picky and I pursue hotter women. By the way, I even passed on some probable lays for this. However there is this chick running down the street who looked like a mixture of Rose Byrne



and Emma Fitzpatrick, the chick I posted a couple months ago.



So, I immediately ran to her. By the way, intent is pretty necessary in daygame. Your sets become better when you go for the women that you really want. You must know why you stop a girl, otherwise you're wasting your time. If you are uncertain, if you don't know why you stop her, why you do it actually? Ok, there is a point with warm-up sets... but I don't really need them any longer. Sometimes I do. However, I have this saying: I know it, when I see her. I get this little crush and then I know I have to do something.

We talked a bit, she was a bit confused and in a hurry to run errands. but it seemed that she was also curious and attracted from my persistent approach to take her for a coffee right at this time. She refused, but said she will be in a club later this night and that I should drop by.

She probably didn't really thought I would do it, but the persistent fuck that I am I really headed to this club. I just sit down next to her while she's partying a friends birthday party in this snoby club. She looks at me surprised and I started to hustle her in front of her friends. Do the whole thing: lead her around, talking, touching, "failed" kiss attempt^^ (I just can't stop doing this,lol)

She looked gorgeous(!) in her classy outfit that night, pretty, confident and she had pretty solid eye contact. The kind of girl who just doesn't give you too much reactions while flirting with her. I looked her dead in the eyes, not phased at all, and asked her: are you superficial? 
She starts to qualify herself, blah, blah, blah... while she keeps talking, I thought to myself: Wow, this was pretty button pushy, but it works, lol.

And then I told her, I want to kiss her and convinced her that kissing is not fucking and so forth. So we kissed, lol^^ However she still seems to be lukewarm about me to this day. I couldn't pull her that night and she only texts with me via FB from time to time. I don't know if I get this chick and if I can lay her in the near future. However it was still an amazing experience.

I also pulled spontaneously two finnish girls last week, from a queue in front of a club to another bar. I fucked up somehow and didn't hook up with them. Actually, they weren't exactly my type, but still very cute. It would have been the perfect opportunity to go for a three way makeout with two early twens. Although I actually flirted pretty much with one of them, but it was somehow difficult for me to go for this chick while occupying her friend also. However I like the ref-point for pulling them to the other venue.

And I also met a chick last week, with whom I was making out in a bar. It got hot... we're sending us ambigious text messages since then and we will meet the upcoming weekend. We'll see...

Facebook

another thing, I changed my view on not collecting girls on facebook. Now I do the exact opposite, I collect them on Facebook^^ Even if I'm not fucking them. I think it's just funny to collect alot of hotties, it's good for your self esteem. Sometimes you have to remind yourself that you're awesome. Jeffy was right with this advice. Sometimes you have to ackknowledge that you can handle certain situations. You already did it in the past, you can do it now...
You have the possibility to game chicks a little bit better in the long run I guess, because you have more social proof over a longer period of time. Even when you are not chatting with someone, they get the feel like they know you with time. The stuff that you post, friends who mark you on pictures and stuff... I mean this is not solid game in the means of that you can't really expect that this will result in lays later. Especially with a fast timeframe in mind, but I think it's possible and it's still better than collecting phone numbers that would probably flake otherwise. Girls flake you with FB profiles also, but less.
And also... you create a lot of drama and jealousy with this. There are constant girls who unfriend me because I add new girls almost every week, lol. I also noticed how some girls that I knew longer before, are unfriending me now because they get a little bit desperate for a husband and children as they are getting older now. Too bad, I'm not interested any longer. They could have had me in the past, but they didn't want me then.

Well, my credo on this is like...


 

to be continued
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#41

no bullshit

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Join Date: 10/18/2013 | Posts: 46

"you have me"

hahaha
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#42

Makati Mac

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Join Date: 11/06/2013 | Posts: 2

Great energy Julien.  One of the things I pciked up from Tyler is the use of a clear back-off...BUT only to the minimal "space" that allows the girl to recapture her balance...before re-engaging the up and down energy exchange.

IF an AMOG breaks into your energy roller coaster...backing way off to non-reactive space seems to give him 1) too much credit and 2) too much space to create his own energy momentuum.

My instinct would be to back off minimally for a just a few seconds...and see if he has any real chance or he can just be blown out with a push from me.  If he has created any real spark, I would offer I need some air...ask her if she is all right here (giving her exit route if she has a bad vibe with him) and I would move my party in a non-reactive way letting him have some time to burn out into his own needy space.

With just a few minutes alone the chances are he hangs himself without an ability to keep her on the emotional rollercoaster set I have established.  If he actually has game, after a fair time for their interaction ( 15 minutes), I will interrupt his set with new energy again (perhaps bringing others along with my party) and force him to a reactive spot.  I'll break in with start up energy and assume leadership off the top again.  I'll have momentuum again and he will have to wiggle around the non-reactive game.  If he wins from there, too good.

Move the party and twirl a new girl.

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Makati Mac

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Join Date: 11/06/2013 | Posts: 2

RSD 101...annoying chick friend needs to be dominated away.  If you have the Hot Babe, she will stick with you...and a couple firm "go away" commands or similar will chase Miss Annoying away.  If Hot Babe is non-reactive as you push Ms Annouying away...Ms Annoying will get the non-verbal HB message "I'm fine"...and retreat.  This is just solving the first logistics challenge for your girl...the initial break from her friends.  Your the leader for all logisitics...solve it!
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#44

garlin

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Join Date: 08/10/2013 | Posts: 17

awesome, drama!
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Kaleidoscope

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Join Date: 09/20/2006 | Posts: 2063

At a party last weekend, this cute chick turned up with some random dude by her side. Turns out he wasnt her boyfriend, just an hanger-on I guess, so I went for it. Made sure I was nice to the guy, thought I would discreetly bang her in the nearest open bedroom without drawing too much fuss. She ended up being a screamer, and the whole house heard and cheered me when I came upstairs. Oops.
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