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What's up!
It's now 7 am as I'm writing this article down here in Miami South Beach.
Yet another amazing night out...
I just finished the second night of the Real Social Dynamics MODEL SEASON BOOTCAMP that I'll be running down here over the course of the next three weeks with Tyler and Jeffy, and all that I can really say about it is:
Woah...
I was able to make it all the way out here last year for just a couple days of it but I really have to say that being able to stay here for a longer period of time is what really makes all of the difference, in my opinion.
As a side note, if you're also interested in taking a program with Tyler and I while we're still doing them together in the United States, we've decided to stay down here an extra week and open up a third program that will run March 6 - 10, 2012 for anyone who's interested in joining!
www.modelseasonbootcamp.com
After that I'll be heading directly to Europe for 'Hot Seat 2 World Tour' that I'll be doing and that's starting in March.
My next dates for Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp are going to be...
March 15 - 17, 2012: Amsterdam, Netherlands
March 22 - 24, 2012: Munich, Germany
March 29 - 31, 2012: Berlin, Germany
April 5 - 7, 2012: Paris, France
April 19 - 21, 2012: London, United Kingdom
You can also check out all of the cities that I'll be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.
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On that note, what I'm excited to be sharing with you in this article is a video that I recorded a couple of weeks ago in New York City and that I think really illustrates some of the most important realizations that I've had as well as some of the most important lessons that I've learned over the past five years that have drastically helped me improve my results with women in general.
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED A FEW WEEKS AGO AT THE NEW YORK FREE TOUR THAT REVEALS SOME OF THE MOST IMPORTANT REALIZATIONS AND LESSONS THAT I'VE LEARNED IN GAME:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-27aYpgJoIM
And what I really think that you should take out of this video is most importantly the place that I was mentally coming from as well as some of the certain patterns of thought that I had going for me when I was first getting into all of this, as well as when I was continuously progressing at it throughout the years.
Really taking note of the certain mental shifts that one will ultimately have to make and adapt to over time in order to make that Deep Identity Level Change the that we so often advocate here on RSDNATION.
Being willing to take right action no matter what you’re feeling and no matter what the circumstances are at the time...
Being willing to be open minded to all of the mental paradoxes that you'll encounter and accepting the unknown...
Being willing to be continuously expanding your comfort zone by challenge your current blind spots, your limiting beliefs and your sense of self...
BEING WILLING TO ACTUALLY MAKE THAT DEEP IDENTY LEVEL CHANGE...
CONTINUOUSLY CHANGING AND CHALLENGING YOUR SENSE OF SELF ON A REGULAR BASIS.
What you're looking to accomplish here is changing and challenging most of the current views that you have of the world that's around you as well as eliminating all of your blind spots as well as all of your limiting beliefs on a regular basis.
And I think that this is probably one of the hardest things that one can actually achieve as well as one of the main reasons why most people tend to stagnate or even end up giving up at all of this.
Developing and strengthening that emotional muscle that is willpower.
"What would be the right thing to do if I had a gun pointed at my head right now?"
You will always know what the right answer will be.
And that is the definition of TAKING RIGHT ACTION.
And this is one of the most important realizations that one will have to have in order to make that Deep Identity Level Change within themselves.
Differentiating your mind from the feelings that you have inside of you and taking right action no matter what while simultaneously reinforcing that by getting the right positive reference experiences associated to you doing so.
<>==========================================<>
Here's another video that I recorded in New York that really puts an emphasis on some of these points as well as the fact that one should constantly be being true to himself by acting through his own intentions regardless of what the external circumstances are and only then dealing with what happens after the fact by being responsive to the people that you're interaction with.
It's the difference between being emotionally invested and reactive as opposed to being responsive to the situation at hand.
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED A FEW WEEKS AGO IN NEW YORK FREE TOUR THAT EXPLAINS HOW YOU CAN ACT THROUGH YOUR OWN INTENTIONS AND STILL "GET THE GIRL"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6T9MeHV3dzY
<>==========================================<>
And how I'd like to conclude this article is by leaving you here with yet another video that I recorded at the RSD Free Tour that I did two weeks ago while I was in Chicago this time that encompasses all of the elements that you should constantly be focusing on and addressing at all times during the interactions that you’re having.
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED AT THE CHICAGO FREE TOUR AND DISCOVER THE TACTICAL SIDE OF PULLING A GIRL BACK HOME AS WELL AS SOME OF THE MENTAL OBSTACLES THAT WILL STAND IN YOUR WAY SO THAT YOU CAN LEARN TO SURPASS THEM AS WELL:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNQLMygC98o
You can also check out these two articles that are associated with this video and that I wrote a few months back that are entitled:
The Secrets to Pulling, A Complete Breakdown (Part 1) – What Exactly Do You Want?
The Secrets to Pulling, A Complete Breakdown (Part 2) – Having The Paradoxical Mindset
Let me know what you think of all of the videos as well as of the articles.
I hope that you enjoy!
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http://www.youtube.com/JulienFreeTour
It's now 7 am as I'm writing this article down here in Miami South Beach.
Yet another amazing night out...
I just finished the second night of the Real Social Dynamics MODEL SEASON BOOTCAMP that I'll be running down here over the course of the next three weeks with Tyler and Jeffy, and all that I can really say about it is:
Woah...
I was able to make it all the way out here last year for just a couple days of it but I really have to say that being able to stay here for a longer period of time is what really makes all of the difference, in my opinion.
As a side note, if you're also interested in taking a program with Tyler and I while we're still doing them together in the United States, we've decided to stay down here an extra week and open up a third program that will run March 6 - 10, 2012 for anyone who's interested in joining!
www.modelseasonbootcamp.com
After that I'll be heading directly to Europe for 'Hot Seat 2 World Tour' that I'll be doing and that's starting in March.
My next dates for Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp are going to be...
March 15 - 17, 2012: Amsterdam, Netherlands
March 22 - 24, 2012: Munich, Germany
March 29 - 31, 2012: Berlin, Germany
April 5 - 7, 2012: Paris, France
April 19 - 21, 2012: London, United Kingdom
You can also check out all of the cities that I'll be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.
<>==========================================<>
On that note, what I'm excited to be sharing with you in this article is a video that I recorded a couple of weeks ago in New York City and that I think really illustrates some of the most important realizations that I've had as well as some of the most important lessons that I've learned over the past five years that have drastically helped me improve my results with women in general.
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED A FEW WEEKS AGO AT THE NEW YORK FREE TOUR THAT REVEALS SOME OF THE MOST IMPORTANT REALIZATIONS AND LESSONS THAT I'VE LEARNED IN GAME:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-27aYpgJoIM
And what I really think that you should take out of this video is most importantly the place that I was mentally coming from as well as some of the certain patterns of thought that I had going for me when I was first getting into all of this, as well as when I was continuously progressing at it throughout the years.
Really taking note of the certain mental shifts that one will ultimately have to make and adapt to over time in order to make that Deep Identity Level Change the that we so often advocate here on RSDNATION.
Being willing to take right action no matter what you’re feeling and no matter what the circumstances are at the time...
Being willing to be open minded to all of the mental paradoxes that you'll encounter and accepting the unknown...
Being willing to be continuously expanding your comfort zone by challenge your current blind spots, your limiting beliefs and your sense of self...
BEING WILLING TO ACTUALLY MAKE THAT DEEP IDENTY LEVEL CHANGE...
CONTINUOUSLY CHANGING AND CHALLENGING YOUR SENSE OF SELF ON A REGULAR BASIS.
What you're looking to accomplish here is changing and challenging most of the current views that you have of the world that's around you as well as eliminating all of your blind spots as well as all of your limiting beliefs on a regular basis.
And I think that this is probably one of the hardest things that one can actually achieve as well as one of the main reasons why most people tend to stagnate or even end up giving up at all of this.
Developing and strengthening that emotional muscle that is willpower.
"What would be the right thing to do if I had a gun pointed at my head right now?"
You will always know what the right answer will be.
And that is the definition of TAKING RIGHT ACTION.
And this is one of the most important realizations that one will have to have in order to make that Deep Identity Level Change within themselves.
Differentiating your mind from the feelings that you have inside of you and taking right action no matter what while simultaneously reinforcing that by getting the right positive reference experiences associated to you doing so.
<>==========================================<>
Here's another video that I recorded in New York that really puts an emphasis on some of these points as well as the fact that one should constantly be being true to himself by acting through his own intentions regardless of what the external circumstances are and only then dealing with what happens after the fact by being responsive to the people that you're interaction with.
It's the difference between being emotionally invested and reactive as opposed to being responsive to the situation at hand.
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED A FEW WEEKS AGO IN NEW YORK FREE TOUR THAT EXPLAINS HOW YOU CAN ACT THROUGH YOUR OWN INTENTIONS AND STILL "GET THE GIRL"
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6T9MeHV3dzY
<>==========================================<>
And how I'd like to conclude this article is by leaving you here with yet another video that I recorded at the RSD Free Tour that I did two weeks ago while I was in Chicago this time that encompasses all of the elements that you should constantly be focusing on and addressing at all times during the interactions that you’re having.
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT I RECORDED AT THE CHICAGO FREE TOUR AND DISCOVER THE TACTICAL SIDE OF PULLING A GIRL BACK HOME AS WELL AS SOME OF THE MENTAL OBSTACLES THAT WILL STAND IN YOUR WAY SO THAT YOU CAN LEARN TO SURPASS THEM AS WELL:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tNQLMygC98o
You can also check out these two articles that are associated with this video and that I wrote a few months back that are entitled:
The Secrets to Pulling, A Complete Breakdown (Part 1) – What Exactly Do You Want?
The Secrets to Pulling, A Complete Breakdown (Part 2) – Having The Paradoxical Mindset
Let me know what you think of all of the videos as well as of the articles.
I hope that you enjoy!
<>==========================================<>
WWW.JULIENLIFE.COM
http://www.twitter.com/RSDJulien
http://www.facebook.com/RSDJulien
http://www.youtube.com/RSDJulien
http://www.youtube.com/JulienFreeTour
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1. slow down when you speak. SLOOOW THE FUUUUCK DOOOOWN. you got a lot of moments where you accelarate like you we're escaping from someone. that well known suggestion which says that speaking faster stems from being stressed and afraid of not being listened to.. that's exactly how it looks like in your videos. doesn't mean you are stressed but that's just how it sounds. learn:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iuf26HorC3c&feature=related
see how both of them speak clearly and really deliver. it's very pleasant to listen to them. form takes over the content
2. your speeches tend to be messy. take this video for example. "How To Act Through Your Own Intentions And Still "Get The Girl". you talk and switch topics out of nowhere. from expresion to leading to girls checking your pupils etc. divide your speech to few segments and explain your shit before changing topic or thread. put things in some order cause right now it's a mess
take it or leave it
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But is so funny to watch you speaking almost completly calm and than see you in field getting 2 girls at same time and doing crazy things.
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1. slow down when you speak. SLOOOW THE FUUUUCK DOOOOWN. you got a lot of moments where you accelarate like you we're escaping from someone. that well known suggestion which says that speaking faster stems from being stressed and afraid of not being listened to.. that's exactly how it looks like in your videos. doesn't mean you are stressed but that's just how it sounds. learn:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iuf26HorC3c&feature=related
see how both of them speak clearly and really deliver. it's very pleasant to listen to them. form takes over the content
2. your speeches tend to be messy. take this video for example. "How To Act Through Your Own Intentions And Still "Get The Girl". you talk and switch topics out of nowhere. from expresion to leading to girls checking your pupils etc. divide your speech to few segments and explain your shit before changing topic or thread. put things in some order cause right now it's a mess
take it or leave it
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See you in London!
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Looking forwaard to seeing you fools out on Miami Beach all week. It was to cool to run into Julien and Jeffy randomly while out and about after the Free Tour!
PS
I was rocking the Tiger T and sport coat and threw Julian into one of my sets as he just happaned to be right there. Y' all is some Major Dudes.
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At what point specifically, do you hit her with the Lazer Love Eyes??
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