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Yo, yo, yo!

Auckland... Check! ;)



And I'm now headed off to... TOKYO!!!

I'm extremely excited about this part of my Tour, as I've never been to Japan before and I've heard nothing but good things... 

I'm going to running a Free Tour THIS THURSDAY with none other than Alexander~, so if you're located anywhere nearby *THIS IS YOUR CHANCE* to be part of a LIVE event!

Sign up HERE!!!

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UPCOMING PROGRAMS
 
Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat / Bootcamp dates... 
 
November 14 – 16, 2013: Tokyo, Japan
November 21 – 23, 2013: Kuala Lumpur, Malaysia
December 19 – 21, 2013: New York, New York, USA (taught with Tyler)
January 2 – 4, 2014: Chicago, Illinois, USA (taught with Tyler)
January 16 – 18, 2014: London, United Kingdom
January 23 – 25, 2014: Amsterdam, Netherlands
January 30 – February 1, 2014: Munich, Germany
February 6 – 8, 2014: Stockholm, Sweden
 
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CONTENT


So, I've got TWO brand new videos for you today... ;)

The Obama Game Trifecta: 3 Things That Make You Irresistible To Girls (And Possibly The Masses)

How to pick up girls by acting like you're the President of the United States?

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT BREAKS DOWN THE THINGS TO FOCUS ON WHEN YOU'RE TALKING TO A GIRL:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=jLwYcMVB5lo)

And... 

The ONLY Reason Why Girls Will Forgive A LIE And THANK YOU For It (Up To Sleeping With You)

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT TEACHES YOU HOW TO GENERATE MORE TIME WITH THE GIRL TO ALLOW HER TO EXPERIENCE YOU (AND HOW IN HER MIND THIS IS COMPLETELY ACCEPTABLE AND MOST OF THE TIME WELCOMED):


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bzkrcYSS7DA)

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EXTERNAL RESOURCE OF THE WEEK


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=X42SZ2Oyq00)

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PODCAST


Well, it's official, my very first Podcast episode is LIVE!!!

Pull O’clock #1 - Q&A: The Big Urban Myth Of MIXED SETS DEBUNKED: Step-by-Step Guide To Pulling Girls That Come With Guys

http://traffic.libsyn.com/pulloclockwithrsdjulien/podcast1.mp3 (Right Click, Save As!)

iTunes: https://itunes.apple.com/us/podcast/pulloclockwithrsdjuliens-podcast/id741522115

Enjoy!

PS: Had to record this one at 6am right after Bootcamp, so forgive the potential "Late Night Spastic Ramblings", the content is still all there! ;)

PPS: If you want to be featured on NEXT WEEK's episode, please post your questions in the "COMMENT SECTION" here below and I'll be sure to answer them! 

***ONLY QUESTIONS RELATED TO THE TWO VIDEOS HERE ABOVE WILL BE ANSWERED***

“Until next time!”

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#1

TedyB

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Join Date: 09/08/2012 | Posts: 55

First
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#2

Hashi

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Join Date: 03/01/2013 | Posts: 10

In the first video, you look super intense and it doesn't look like you're even blinking. It also looks like there's a new urgnecy in the air or something. Quite a cool effect. You going to do more videos like this?
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Zer0.Point

Zer0.Point

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Join Date: 02/06/2012 | Posts: 488

What if we hate obama? Can I be the Putin of game? =D
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#4
Waffler

Waffler

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Join Date: 05/10/2013 | Posts: 523

Oh Jesus, the kids in the background... those boys look like they need some RSD
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Leo-~

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Lol, this is incredible
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#6

Capo-

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Join Date: 04/08/2013 | Posts: 11

Hi, the podcasts are an awesome idea!
Also a good way to advertise your product later on.

Can you give some advice on how to be more fun especially at the beginning of the night, when you are not in state?

Is there a good exercise to become more fun in general, when you´re normally a very logical serious person?

 
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#7
Starno

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Join Date: 03/25/2013 | Posts: 652

So the 3 things :
- Add to the fun
- Challenging vibe
- Dominant vibe
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#8
RezznT!

RezznT!

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Join Date: 04/06/2010 | Posts: 188

Great videos julien, love the content. Here's some questions for your podcast this week:

-Do you have any ways to know when you should use any one of the three vibes? like for instance "in this situation I challenge her and in that situation I command her", or do you tend to just cycle through the different vibes to prevent the girl (and yourself) from getting bored?

-If you had to guess, how often would you say you use each expression/vibe? so like, "50% of the time I add to the fun, 30% I challenge and 20% I command"
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#9
padawanlearner

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Join Date: 03/16/2013 | Posts: 146

Regarding the 2nd video :
This has to do with shy girls(girls who've never been in a relationship or virgins for instance).
What are some of the things they want to hear about you and how do you project yourself ? For instance, I've heard you say in the hotseat preview "I've never done this with anyone before", can you expand on that frame ?
Also they may refuse compliance because they are shy or inexperienced. Yet if you fall too much in her frame "oh she's shy so I guess I'll build more comfort" she will have the upper hand in the interaction. How do you calibrate to shy girls overall, what's the balance between imposing yourself/leading and giving her freedom ?

 
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#10
Get_Intuit

Get_Intuit

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Join Date: 09/13/2013 | Posts: 105

Julien please go on the Jerry Springer show....
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#11

Mr. S

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Join Date: 09/05/2013 | Posts: 50

that first video Julien is fucking intense! Love this way of teaching.
You know I was thinking about how sometimes I get girls by connecting with them by saying some unusual and sometimes lame things but somehow it sparks their interest. I think it was Todd or Jeffy who said that you just keep talking until something hits them, and when that hits them you keep using it. I know this because  after sex they say - oh I loved it when you said - blablabla.. or they ask me about it, or they just say it to the air.  THis is my interpretation of the Obama of game... to throw things that girls can easily connect with and identify with, this is particular to every girl.  But the Fun, challengin and dominant IS aces as a general rule. 
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#12

IDontbreak

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Join Date: 10/09/2013 | Posts: 114

First video at 6:40 youre wrong.
He maybe does not need anything from them in order to keep doing his thing no, but he DOES need something from them IF he wants them in his reality/get votes.. which is approval/positivity/good reactions to his offering of value. Same with girls if you want them to comply ;)
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#13

Elamanopiskelija

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Join Date: 11/08/2011 | Posts: 345

Second video is kind of back to the basics. Reminds me of a conversation between some girl and a friend of mine who was quite good at picking up girls, it went like
-"which day will you stop lying already?"
-"the day when you stop putting on makeup before going out"
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#14

Jamal

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Join Date: 12/02/2008 | Posts: 196

Great video! seeing the kids in the background fucking hilarious...
You mention how you spit little blurbs and she usually gives you little response in between in the beginning when you go in...

For me, what i only do  really is make short observation statements like "you look bored, your eyes are distracting, you should buy me a drink.." I find she is vested in interaction by responding more cause its more engaging and i can just flow with that.
Im just a little confused when you say you ask questions  like where you from, what you do in the beginning and she gives short responses ...isn't it taking value and not showing your personality? it seems like its not adding to the fun..

Although, I do ask interview questions later on and say obnoxious things in between or challenge like you mention in other videos, is that what you mean when you say you do that in beginning?
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#15

kant_810

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Join Date: 08/05/2013 | Posts: 12

1. when you add to the fun "where you from" is that trying for rapport tonality ? and when you're commanding you use breaking rapport tonality ? maybe you can expand on that

2. tell girls what they want to hear - this also goes with doing what she asks for like if she says "have a drink with me" don't be like "NO i don't drink" - ?
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#16
BitchLips

BitchLips

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Join Date: 04/02/2013 | Posts: 29

sweet stuff Julian!

I've began youtube Vblogging, and I really like rewatching my videos and focusing on where I need to improve upon delivery. I've posted four videos so far, and I am proud to already see results. 

RSD is the hugest inspiration for me.

You've got ruthless eye contact and flow in this video. It's badass, I must continue to practice, I want to be this captivating as a public speaker.

Much respect,

Spenny.
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#17
Resmat

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Join Date: 06/10/2012 | Posts: 2013

With regards to "obama game" video, you mentioned that building comfort is for AFTER sex.. wouldn't that be problematic for girls you want to day2 and can't pull the same day/night?

For example approaching a girl on the street / school campus and going obama mode and not building comfort and getting her number for a day2.. if you haven't built any comfort.. is she necessarily going to want to see you again..?
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#18
Mark Francis

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Join Date: 07/06/2012 | Posts: 269

Hi Julien,

 

I'm really liking this new podcast. It's a great concept :) What I've always wanted to ask you is...

 

How do you, personally, spike a girl's emotions? Can you give some examples of different emotional spikes and the various things you need to know when you start spiking a girls emotions?  

 

I know that you want to hit on different emotions such as happy, sad, etc...Which ones do you go for more and which ones do you stay away from? This is a topic I really want to hear you talk about in the next podcast.

 

Thanks,

Mark

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#19

Jack Rogers

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Join Date: 04/17/2013 | Posts: 43

Hey Yo Julien :)
 
Awesome Vblogs!

This podcast system is dope aswell! 

Wanted to ask about the concept of push pull and how you can become incongruent while having a boring convo. And the topic about making the girl invest. I've seen your v blogs about these topics but it would be cool if you mention it in the next podcast. 

Please try to elaborate about your "Drama" concept I promise I won't cry......lol!
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#20
Anax

Anax

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Join Date: 07/07/2009 | Posts: 227

It's interresting to see you guys talking while people are watching / in the camera and not giving a fuck.

But tbh it's super distracting and takes away from the content.
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#21
RSDD

RSDD

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Join Date: 01/27/2013 | Posts: 244

The podcast is awesome mate, love it.
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#22

Nicklaus

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Join Date: 10/17/2013 | Posts: 9

As always great videos and the podcast is very useful keep it up.So in your first video you talk about focusing on the sub communications so my question is how to properly do it and does this have a big effect in the process of building attraction? And can you use it to create DRAMA and make the girl even more attracted to you?
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dave7-

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Per the second video on calibrating after the fact. Can you talk about how to see or sense how the girl is feeling about what you said? Or even just see how the girl is feeling in general? I think many dudes might have trouble with even understanding how the girl is feeling and thus they never calibrate accurately at all at any point and this leads to "blowouts" or whatever. I've recently "rediscovered" that the girl's eyes can tell tons and tons about how the girls feel. Like you can tell if the girl is just kinda bored and is not aroused and is just kinda waiting for something fun to happen.....or the girl is kinda in a more logical/focused role if she's working or whatever....or the girl is aroused and is basically DTF so you could go up and try to makeout with her and it would be pretty congruent to the situation. 

So I know you said that you don't filter yourself and you just go up and "express yourself" and then calibrate after the fact....but what about being "present to the situation" and expressing yourself while at the same time understanding what's going on around you including how the girl feels.....including looking in her eyes to tell how she feels. And is all this part of the "elite congruence" that advanced guys have?

Your pal
Big Dong
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#24

Full_intent~

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Join Date: 03/28/2009 | Posts: 1094

awesome!!! even the little girls were getting aroused and excited lol
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#25
jlaix

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^^gross
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#26
YeahAlex

YeahAlex

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Join Date: 09/29/2013 | Posts: 5

Hello, Julien, and thank you for 2 awesome videos. 
Btw, podcast is great idea, liked it  a lot (30 mins of Julien answering your questions for free - mastermind - light edition, isn't it cool?)), but you should really think about new logo for iTunes cover.
Time for questions.
My very first question  is: how to make leading (commanding) the girls easy and lose that annoying fears, holding you back? Maybe some examples? Expand on that one, please.
My 2 question is: how to always keep in mind the 3 important things you mention in first video and never forget them? 
How did you game changed after you realize this things? And when they came to your head?
Thanks, -YeahAlex-

 
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#27
MarriedGuy

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Join Date: 08/09/2012 | Posts: 34

You teach by example.  Your vibe teaches volumes.  It´s great when you have to deal with bullshit in the videos. 
RSD is real life.  If you want a sophisticated, predictable, and calculated monologue go watch Brad... Not at all (Rap video).

For the podcast:
How do you come up with the videos? 
Do you just feel you should do one and just do it or do you kind of plan it before?
I guess both, but I´m curious about your process because you seem to treat everything in an artful way.
I think you would dig Neil Cassidy and Rimbaud.  They are famous for living to the max.
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#28

Standard1

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Join Date: 11/15/2013 | Posts: 1

Your vid shows a really great example of remaining grounded despite distracting elements in the background. Could you expand how you got this way? Aside from gaining reference experiences and meditating, what else do you find is crucial to getting to this level?

And if you could expand more on being grounded, how do you remain so despite the massive amounts of drama that you create with multiple girls? You mention not "identifying" with the emotions, but have you ever found yourself getting caught up in it all during a time of stress where you're more "vulnerable" to things?

Long question but I think you have a lot of info on this topic.
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#29
0bbi

0bbi

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Join Date: 11/29/2012 | Posts: 1137

Podcast was good. Keep it chill just like you did. Don't get energetic on the podcast. It's good to listen to normal/calm voice. 

QUESTION: Do you consciously cut girls's threads when they start "connecting" ?? Every girl asks similar questions to get to know a guy. A lot ot times I've had girls persisting to get their answer when I avoided or kept it very vague. It was easier to just tell them what they wanted to hear and move on.
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#30

Zparty

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Join Date: 09/27/2013 | Posts: 10

Full_intent~ Wrote:
awesome!!! even the little girls were getting aroused and excited lol


Holy shit wtf?
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#31

Gingnamstyle

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Join Date: 11/12/2013 | Posts: 10

Michael, what do you wanna be when you grow up?  "Julien."
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#32

Callum_

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Oh shit that video kills me when all them girls run off once he starts with the F words.
Their expressions haha.
That one girl stuck around lol
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#33

Naro

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Join Date: 10/26/2013 | Posts: 11

Salut Julien 

Can we have your point of view about self-reliance in game and life ?

Thank you.
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#34

no bullshit

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Join Date: 10/18/2013 | Posts: 46

but what happened to 'being polarizing'?
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#35

gagner5

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Join Date: 05/09/2012 | Posts: 35

Julien-

A few weeks ago I saw you write on your facebook wall that "Alex might be the best in the game right now."

Why do you say that (assuming you really meant it)?  

Perhaps you could answer this in your podcast.
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