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I really have to say, it's been one crazy last couple of weeks...

Adventures...

Epiphanies...


But most importantly, INSANELY AMAZING Live Programs taught by none other than Alexander~ and myself... ;]


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PKJ_4KGeIV0)

We're going to be running one last program together in London this year, so if you're located anywhere nearby and if you're interested in getting in on all of our latest pickup technology than I highly recommend that you DO NOT miss out on this unique opportunity!

Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates…

October 11 – 13, 2012: Edinburgh, Scotland
October 25 – 27, 2012: London, United Kingdom (taught with Alexander~)
November 8 – 10, 2012: Rotterdam, Netherlands
November 15 – 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain
November 22 – 24, 2012: Kiev, Ukraine
November 29 – December 1, 2012: Moscow, Russia
December 6 – 8, 2012: Budapest, Hungary
December 13 – 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com


You can also check out all of the cities that I'm going to be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.

In other news, I also have the pleasure to announce the official launch of our brand new RSD UNDERGROUND website!

A collection of all of your favorite videos by all of your favorite instructors... Just one click away!

Check it out RIGHT NOW!

www.rsdunderground.com


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So...

On that note, let's crack into today's topic of discussion...

How To Create Massive Amounts Of Drama And GET AWAY WITH IT!

I've been working on this particular segment for quite some time now; really polishing it down and trying to make it as best as it can be.

And this is really what allows me to do all of the things that I do infield.

This is what allows me to bend the rules of the game.

I would never be able to get away with any the things that I do without these understandings.

This is probably one of the most potent Youtube videos that I've released so far...

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT REVEALS THE SECRETS TO MAKING EVERY GIRL CHASE YOU EVEN AFTER SAYING THE MOST OUTRAGEOUS LINES:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qBkXWTWAyJc)


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The last video that I thought that I'd leave you with here today is on a topic that I just see too many guys get caught up on: 

"TAKING THINGS TOO GODDAMN PERSONALLY!"

Give me a fucking break... ;]

Letting Go Of The External Results To Achieve Internal Results

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW AND NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT FEELING BAD AFTER ANY REJECTION, EVER AGAIN:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=T-E3XM2ISv8)


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PS: Let me know what you think of this video and if you have any specific topics that you’d like to hear me cover in any future RSDNATION article!

PPS: And as always, don’t forget to check out the Hot Seat 2 event dates over at www.rsdhotseat.com as well!

United States
October 20, 2012: San Diego, CA, USA
November 3, 2012: San Francisco, California, USA
November 17, 2012: Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA
December 8, 2012: Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
December 22, 2012: Orlando, Florida, USA

Europe
October 13, 2012: Edinburgh, United Kingdom
October 20, 2012: Dublin, Ireland
October 27, 2012: London, United Kingdom
November 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain
November 24, 2012: Kiev, Ukraine
December 1, 2012: Moscow, Russia
December 8, 2012: Budapest, Hungary
February 2, 2012: Helsinki, Finland

Middle East
December 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel
January 5, 2013: Dubai, United Arab Emirates

South Africa
January 12, 2013: Cape Town, South Africa
January 19, 2013: Johannesburg, South Africa

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#1

Kash.TO

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 Awesome! Awesome!
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#2

Jamal

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Getting away with drama video is my favorite video. The examples help soo much and finally gives me a better understanding on how to self amuse and not giving a fuck about material contexts while focus on strong emotions. I want to create my own stories and will deff refer back to this. Thanks!
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timmilicious

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the truth, still not too easy to execute :)
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#4

PerelAlon

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Hahahahaha, son, you just got GUNGNAM STYLE'd!
Last video, 00:41 to 00:53 or so, check the statue space - GANGNAM STYLE!!! hahahahahaha EPIC WIN. EPIC. Fuck.
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#5
moltess

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Join Date: 05/13/2012 | Posts: 22

Inspirational - Great stuff man! It is so entertaining and so much fun to try out!! 

I opened up a chick saying - im looking for two things (speaking v slowly, and authoritatively): 1) cigarettes, 2) a girl that wants to fuck. then started the 15mins conversation...so much fun! I need to try the new stuff now. 

Cheers to making things fun and entertaining...testing the limits. Makes me excited to go out every night :)

Julien - Tyler says that to get girls you need to spend time w them that makes them feel comfortable to be with you. How does your method of switching emotions fast relate to his thought.  It almost seems that your method would make her less comfortable and get to know you least...which still makes her ready to get down.
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#6

roadrally

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Join Date: 10/12/2009 | Posts: 2031

 Julien, this drama part2  video is amazing.

As you release more content, im fully able to understand your game even more and more. 
As the source of strong emotions you become high value and the focus of the girls RAS.

I watched your hotseat for the first time, and then starting using your push lines and stuff because they were funny and it was funny to me saying dumb stuff to the girls. But I was kind of just doing it to do it. Now i understand they why behind it.

I am going to re-attend hotseat again in a few weeks in san diego, going to see your videos a second time but this time with a new perspective of using strong emotions to get her RAS on you, and then scrambling and confusing her to get away with the shenanigans you say.
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#7

taipan

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Join Date: 04/13/2012 | Posts: 317

Julien is evil and I love it! haha.

I think julien should really work hard witht recording his Skype conversations, I am sure that will be golden material to really learn "spiking emotions"


peace
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#8
moltess

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 Mad props for how funny the video is...

Julien and others - lets remember that the audience is from Norway.  

Man, lets just imagine how ecstatic and the level of laugh that we would hear from the video had it been shot somewhere warmer hahaha.  Ive been laughing soo much!!
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babylonAD

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 anyone notice the guy dancing at 50 seconds?
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#10

Waginator

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 Hey Julien! Today i rolled up on a 5 set in the mall, approached the hottest girl and said "Who the Fuck are you?" I said very confidently and just enjoyed the entire experience lol at first she was like what??? and i just said it again. and then quickly said just kidding just kidding...point being that even though i didnt fuck this girl it brought me out of my head and into the realization that i am the shit in the enviroment and nothing bad is going to happen! very helpful Very Awesome!
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NDN-Steve

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hahaha THese... are not the droids you are looking for... 
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#12
Julien

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moltess wrote:
Julien - Tyler says that to get girls you need to spend time w them that makes them feel comfortable to be with you. How does your method of switching emotions fast relate to his thought.  It almost seems that your method would make her less comfortable and get to know you least...which still makes her ready to get down.
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#13
Julien

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Thanks, man!

Haha, funny enough this actually isn't the "How To Make Women Fall Psychotically In Love With You -- Part 2" video...

I'll probably release that one in a couple of months with blasts of INFIELD FOOTAGE, SKYPE CALL RECORDINGS AND TEXT MESSAGE EXCERPTS! 

;] 
roadrally wrote:
 Julien, this drama part2  video is amazing.

As you release more content, im fully able to understand your game even more and more. 
As the source of strong emotions you become high value and the focus of the girls RAS.

I watched your hotseat for the first time, and then starting using your push lines and stuff because they were funny and it was funny to me saying dumb stuff to the girls. But I was kind of just doing it to do it. Now i understand they why behind it.

I am going to re-attend hotseat again in a few weeks in san diego, going to see your videos a second time but this time with a new perspective of using strong emotions to get her RAS on you, and then scrambling and confusing her to get away with the shenanigans you say.

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#14
Fred E. Rick

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Julien, great shit, homie.

You said the story in the mall is from a movie...the one about the "wife" being hit by a drunk driver and the drunk driver pissing in her mouth as she's dying, lol...what movie is that from?
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#15

Hellion

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Join Date: 02/23/2010 | Posts: 157

Julien wrote:
Thanks, man!

Haha, funny enough this actually isn't the "How To Make Women Fall Psychotically In Love With You -- Part 2" video...

I'll probably release that one in a couple of months with blasts of INFIELD FOOTAGE, SKYPE CALL RECORDINGS AND TEXT MESSAGE EXCERPTS! 

;] 
roadrally wrote:
 Julien, this drama part2  video is amazing.

As you release more content, im fully able to understand your game even more and more. 
As the source of strong emotions you become high value and the focus of the girls RAS.

I watched your hotseat for the first time, and then starting using your push lines and stuff because they were funny and it was funny to me saying dumb stuff to the girls. But I was kind of just doing it to do it. Now i understand they why behind it.

I am going to re-attend hotseat again in a few weeks in san diego, going to see your videos a second time but this time with a new perspective of using strong emotions to get her RAS on you, and then scrambling and confusing her to get away with the shenanigans you say.

Looking forward to that. This is probably the best video I've seen on game, ever. I've always found it very vague when people say things like "use push/pull" "act through man to woman intentions" etc. but I feel this this is the most clear outline of 'game' I've ever seen. When do you know when to use this and be normal? I think a video on that would be good, as obviously you don't want to be the dancing monkey thats constantly telling all these crazy stories to spike her emotions without actually going any deeper and getting to know her.
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#16

sklu

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This is interesting but it may come to haunt RDS in the long run.
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Rockefeller

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 Good video that addresses the main sticking point of my game.. getting her to experience the full range of emotions. I usually just focus on the positive side and to the negative side it's tiny spikes like "I hate you" etc. Great to know how to push it to the limit without blowing up the set. Excellent video!
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#18

SEAN PUA

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 Amazing videos :) Can't wait for the part 2 of psychotic love. lol BTW love the Academy Award Winning Moment concept of dealing with it after the fact... brilliant :) I know exactly that frame where you slow down and explain, do all the frame-control shit, etc and then she becmes even more invested... The more they let you get away with, the more you can get away with... because she thinks "oooo i let him get away with that, i guess i'll let him get away with this". until you're in the frame of the guy who gets away with everything in her mind and she becomes a complient sheep to your shepparding. lol got it :) i have a friend who is fucken amazing at this, even though he's very douchey... he's gotten away with shit along the lines of what you said lol a couple years ago when I met him i was amazed... this guy would tell girls to go give thier dad wood, if a girl bought something new, he would be like, i bet you had to blow your dad to get that... and then he would apologize, change topics, and every time that item came into view, he would like fire the anchor off, and he doesnt even know bout the game lol, but it was fucken amazing, and girls would respond to his dumb shit with very strong emotions... he had so much leverage because he was such a fucken spike-monster lol this video beautifully describes the whole concept of how to do that lol definitely gonna watch this video repeatedly... 
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#19

FirelightX

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drama video 8:10 "and the guy was so drunk that while she was telling him those last words,last wishes, he took his dick out and start to ^%$^%$?"
what's the words?sorry I can't hear it clearly.
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#20
AssEatingOwl

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paused vid to post that i am fucking creasing at that part about the story with the drunk guy pissing in the girls mouth.
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#21
AssEatingOwl

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stuff just keeps getting better and better. Wish i had money for bootcamp with you and alex, will be at free tour bringing about 5 of my chode mates, a few of them are naturals and can get girls alot more than most of my freinds but they are still kinda chode. I call them alpha chodes.
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#22
Dr Feelgood

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The drama video is genius, one of the most important videos RSD has put out over the last year!
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#23
Kool Kane

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I'm kind of wondering how you would amp up the "dying mom" story for a girl who actually liked it and getting aroused by it. Something in the means of... and then he beat his dick like a drummer stick on her face, and then he started gagging her, and then he busted a load in her throat, till she suffocated. That's actually the reason why she died... yadda, yadda, yadda^^

and then you look over the shocked girls face, that you're telling this nasty story to, and say something like:
Ohh, you like that story? Ahhright, here we go, you little pervert fuck. You like get golden showered yourself, don't you!

Jus kidding...^^

I make a mental note on that one. I've already noticed this trollish comment in your twitter and facebook quotes.

The reason why J is so "infamously" known for his push/pull tactics, is that he put much emphasize on it and he actually go into graphic details how to do it properly. I've never seen a guy in this community who ever push it that far. It's not only about talking crazy shit, it's more about beeing aware of the emotional world of a woman and how to juggle with it in a fun and effective way. Always coming of the frame of having fun for both parties.

I remember how almost every PUA guy had one specialty back in the day. Seems like spiking emotions, push/pull and giving the girl the emotional ride, that she always dreamed of, is his specialty. Looks like some advanced evolutions later of "Swingcats - Real World Seduction" manifesto. Although, Tim said something about it too, back in the day. He said something about, how he always paid attention on her emotional level like an electrocardiogram or something like that.
But overall people have to realize that's just one aspect of Game. I don't even think it's necessary to go this far to get a girl, but as he has perfectionized this kind of approach it got highly effective. I bet he pulled a lot of girls that he might not would got if he didn't pushed it that far. I think this is one of the aspects of game were the "game is like learning/playing an instrument" analogy perfectly fits. I'm sure a lot of guys including me, will using this stuff a little uncalibrated in the beginning, but with all things in game practice makes perfect. Further videos on this topic, are much appreciated in the future.

When I recall it right, Juliens first video for RSD was about comfort. About connecting with a girl on a real level. Time for realness as he call it. Actually getting to know her. So, I've never saw Julien as this crazy sociopath who emotionally buttfuck his girl victims. I just like his over the edge humor. He reminds of a good friend of mine. He said to me once: "The only movies that really make me laugh or that I really consider funny, are those who get someone upset or pissed it the end". That might sounds fucked up but I know exactly what he meant by that.
We've always laughed in the cinema at certain points in a movie that other people considered offending, points that were actually not even meant funny by the director. But I think my cynical humor is just a poetic way of dealing with Life. Life is not a pony farm as they say. At least not always...

BTW:

LOL, at this sweden guy who got paranoid that Julien and Alex are using NLP. Like NLP is this mystical, mind controlling tool you can't fight back or something. I don't care if any RSD instructor is using NLP or not. There is nothing wrong with that, it's just a tool to communicate in a effective way. In sales that's actually common practice for many companies. And many aspects of NLP are bullshitt anyway.
I don't get it how some people blame RSD for marketing and selling their stuff or getting more female audience. In the end of the day, that's their job, that's their living. There is nothing wrong with earning your bread. RSD isn't a non profit organization. They try to make a living out of their passion, nothing wrong with that. Also, they giving a LOT of valuable stuff outthere for free anyway. Although, a little more infield footage here and there wouldn't be bad. Maybe some kind of watered down/defused versions for public purposes or so. 

PS: JEFFY post more Girls!!
 
PPS: The "dying mom" story somehow reminded me of this scene...
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Brucefast

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Very amusing and fun video Julian; is this your answer to the question that I shot you about negative contrasting side of push pull ?? Some of this stuff is so over the top-I have to ask if you really use it ?? or is it for entertainment purposes here>> Like calling a girl a and then recovering from it. ??

From my experience with my crazy italian law partner as well as some of my friends from Rhode Island -I ve seen this shit, and even more intense stuff. 

For instance, today my law partner talked about me jerking off to the thought of my secretary-; he added the hand movements and facial expresions and all, in her presence. -intense........ but she stayed and took it.!!!!

I think this over the top stuff can DHV a guy-shows that he doesn’t’ care, and that he has abundance.  

Bruce
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Brucefast

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Elements of Randomness, out of your control”, awesome insight, particularly salient to my state crash that I experienced tonight. Thanks Buddy!!! Not taking it personal is very profound and I try to live this, however sometimes I get into a state where I feel like it 's me and not the randomness totally taking the whole thing personal.

To the contrary, when I do a lot of approaches the randomness becomes very pronounced, some girls smile, are down, some girls are fucking btiches despite my smile, game, ECT.

I remember last October when i was with you on the bootcamp doing street approaches on 9th ave in NYC, you opened this set of tall hotties, one girl in these crazy heels, and they didn't want to hear it from me; and then one minute latter I opened that super hot blond, who gave me her number and called me the next day. Randomness had its hand in that for sure.
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#26
Don Juan

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 It works cuz it comes from a place of higher value and as a consequence she rationalizes. If i go out and start saying this stuff it wont work cuz i dont feel comfortable with it. Im not used to manipulate these kind o emotions and she will see it as coming from a place of low value. As I can see nothing amuses you more than this stuff, so for you its like me say "hi". I understand what u say but i believe it must come from a place, a mindset far away in the journey or how D. Deida calls it the superior man. I cant understand how can it work from scratch, but tell if im wrong.
cheers
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tommyhighlifer

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Great video, love the way you create the drama by telling them some fucked up story and then simply backing out of it if you need to.
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