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"How's it going?!"

"Greetings from Montreal!"


It's my very last day here in Canada... As well as on this side of the globe, actually.

As I'm going to be based out of Europe, the Middle East and South Africa over the course of the next five months where I'm also going to teaching Live Programs on a weekly basis!

So, if you're located anywhere nearby or if you're looking to visit a new city and making it even more memorable, then I highly recommend that you DO NOT missing out on any of these events...

Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates…

September 20 – 22, 2012: Frankfurt, Germany (taught with Alexander~)
September 27 – 29, 2012: Stockholm, Sweden (taught with Alexander~)
October 4 – 6, 2012: Oslo, Norway (taught with Alexander~)
October 11 – 13, 2012: Edinburgh, Scotland
October 18 – 20, 2012: Dublin, Ireland
October 25 – 27, 2012: London, United Kingdom (taught with Ozzie)
November 8 – 10, 2012: Rotterdam, Netherlands

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com


You can also check out all of the cities that I'm going to be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.

As a side note, I also highly recommend that SUBSCRIBE to both of my YOUTUBE CHANNELS as soon as possible, if you haven't already! 

I always try to release my Youtube videos one or two days prior to the offical release of my RSDNation front page articles... So if you're interested in seeing my latest Youtube videos before their actual release date, then quickly take the time to subscribe RIGHT NOW!

Trust me, you will not regret it... ;]

Check them out RIGHT NOW!

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On that note, the first topic that I'd like to address today is something that I've noticed a lot in myself as well as in a lot of the guys that I know who have been going out consistently for long periods of time... which is:

THE ABILITY TO SEE THE SOCIAL MATRIX OF THE INTERACTION.

The more that you keep doing the same thing over and over again, the more that it starts to become something that is of second nature to you. 

The more that you keep going out and approaching women over and over again, the more that you start to become more familiar with the social dynamics of the interaction and the more that you start to operate in a more "autopilot" type of way. 

And when this finally happens to you, only then do you start seeing the true beauty of the Game...

The more that you start being able to operate in a more "autopilot" type of way, the more that your brain is going to have the ability to focus on the more advanced workings and dynamics of the interaction.

This is all very similar to learning how to play a new sport, for example.

Say that you decide to learn how to play basketball... And that you've never played any kind of sport before.

When you're first starting out, all of your mental faculties are probably going to be solely dedicated towards dribbling the ball properly and just getting around the court...

However, the more that you keep doing this over and over again, the more that it start to become something that is of second nature to you and the more that you're going to be able to shift your focus on the more subtle aspects of game. 

Every single time that you internalize something new, a new window opens up to you...

And the same applies here when interacting with women in general...

How To Be A Player: Seeing The Social Matrix Of The Interaction

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT REVEALS HOW TO BE A TRUE PLAYER BY SEEING THE MORE ADVANCED AND SUBTLE LAYERS OF COMMUNICATION WHEN INTERACTING WITH WOMEN IN GENERAL:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PKMndzXm44I)

Here's another video that I thought that share with you here today, that introduces for the very first time my "Plan A, Plan B, Plan C" way of doing things...

Why make things more complicated than they need to be?

The Art Of Keeping Things Simple And Straightforward

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT WILL TEACH YOU EXACTLY HOW TO DEAL WITH ANYTHING THAT'S THROWN YOUR WAY BY NOT MAKING IT MORE COMPLICATED THAN IT NEEDS TO BE:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7dd4CjPXhkg)


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PS: Let me know what you think of this video and if you have any specific topics that you’d like to hear me cover in any future RSDNATION article!

PPS: I've also recently been excessively updating my Twitter and Facebook accounts with all sorts of funny and interesting lines for you to use...

Check them out RIGHT NOW!

***WWW.TWITTER.COM/RSDJULIEN***

***WWW.FACEBOOK.COM/RSDJULIEN***


PPPS: And as always, don’t forget to check out the Hot Seat 2 event dates over at www.rsdhotseat.com as well!

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY SEEN THIS OFFICIAL PREVIEW FOR THE EVENT:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlWrFgIR6CU)

United States
September 22, 2012: Chicago, Illinois, USA
October 6, 2012: New York, New York, USA
October 20, 2012: San Diego, CA, USA
November 3, 2012: San Francisco, California, USA
November 17, 2012: Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA
December 8, 2012: Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
December 22, 2012: Orlando, Florida, USA

Europe
September 22, 2012: Frankfurt, Germany
September 29, 2012: Stockholm, Sweden
October 6, 2012: Oslo, Norway
October 13, 2012: Edinburgh, United Kingdom
October 20, 2012: Dublin, Ireland
October 27, 2012: London, United Kingdom
November 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain
November 24, 2012: Kiev, Ukraine
December 1, 2012: Moscow, Russia
December 8, 2012: Budapest, Hungary
January 26, 2012: Gothenburg, Sweden
February 2, 2012: Helsinki, Finland

Middle East
December 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel
January 5, 2013: Dubai, United Arab Emirates

South Africa
January 12, 2013: Cape Town, South Africa
January 19, 2013: Johannesburg, South Africa

www.rsdhotseat.com


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#1
Nerdsaver

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Join Date: 10/15/2011 | Posts: 144

 Good shit. 
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Tezer

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Strong shit.
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#3

Wolvenlied

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Join Date: 07/06/2012 | Posts: 7

Nice good stuff, especially the first vid.. Had a question regarding on how you approach though.. I understand that you need to be very high energy and demanding when approaching girls as far as in night clubs but as far as day game how would you go about there? Say I'm in the mall or someshit and I see a set of 2 or more I mean I would imagine I wouldn't want to go in so dramatic.. I would have all attention on me through out the whole mall and make everyone feel uncomfortable...? so how would to yourself go about doing an approach like that.. ?
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#4

Guido789

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Join Date: 07/02/2012 | Posts: 96

Nice cheat code. Us dudes are very logical. Little do we know, women have the attention span of an ant.
There doesn’t have to be any build up  or context to what you’re saying or doing, at all.
No need to be logical: “You have a good girl face, but every so often you make like these bad girl mannerisms.”
Just randomly blurt out “Bad girl mannerisms, bad girl mannerisms!” without any actual context behind it.
I love the plan A,B,C: E.g. if you try to move the girl and she resists: Plan A ("IRRELEVANT") Plan B ("Handle logistics e.g. 2 minutes, you're friends won't see) Plan C (VIBE build compliance and try again later)
This stuffs tight!
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#5

Guido789

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Wolvenlied wrote:
Nice good stuff, especially the first vid.. Had a question regarding on how you approach though.. I understand that you need to be very high energy and demanding when approaching girls as far as in night clubs but as far as day game how would you go about there? Say I'm in the mall or someshit and I see a set of 2 or more I mean I would imagine I wouldn't want to go in so dramatic.. I would have all attention on me through out the whole mall and make everyone feel uncomfortable...? so how would to yourself go about doing an approach like that.. ?
Dude wtf? Read http://www.bradbranson.com/the-six-modalities-of-directness-how-to-calib...
Remember whatever you feel, they feel. If you feel like making out is a big deal, she will think it's a big deal too.
All you have to do is get her attention. In a night club the enrionment is loud, so to get peoples attention you have to go in LOUD. If you approach in a library there's no need to be loud since you can get her attention in a conversational voice.
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#6

Wolvenlied

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Join Date: 07/06/2012 | Posts: 7

Lol nice that page cleared some things up and don't worry bro yelling in the mall was just an example... Was more referring to calibration but that page explained what I need to know..
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#7
startale

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Join Date: 09/10/2011 | Posts: 190

 Of course I'm subsribe to your channels.

I admire your dedication to do 5 months every weekend teaching programs. It's insane!
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#8
donston

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Join Date: 11/07/2011 | Posts: 40

Great stuff!

With these videos, you've gave me some clarity and answered some questions that I can unit with my knowledge from the Hot Seat 2.

Your videos are very aligned with the Hot Seat 2 content. 

Therefore, for people who has questions about the content ... attend the Hot Seat 2 ^_^.

Thanks again, Julien.  Hoped you enjoyed Canada and come back!

Donston.
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#9
dave7-

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Join Date: 05/14/2012 | Posts: 3510

 I think it'd be sweet if you did a video on the very beginnings ot the process that you went through to develop your emotional style. 

B/c I don't necessarily want to imitate total Julien emotional berating estrangement game, but I do really like the basics of your emotional style of game. 
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#10
Starchild.

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Join Date: 10/17/2011 | Posts: 458

 Amazing Julien, I got punched in the chest last night as I was so off, it was pretty funny but I dont want it to happen to many times. your vids always help
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#11

SEAN PUA

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TECHN9NE IMA PLAYA:

 http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fsrFIe0ZXTo  

Cool videos man :) It would be awesome if you could cover the SINGLE topic of dictating the rytham of the interaction and demonstrate the fuck out of it like you do in the beginning of the first video... but in a longer video... because in the beginning of the first video it started to hit me like damnnnnnn wait a minute, fuck, dictate the rytham of course the person is going to respond, like fucken OFCOURSE that's how it's done... like i had the concept of just being natural when going up so i was in more of a go with the flow mind-set....now im like WTFFFFF because where I had success i was dictating it.... and i allways feel it when I loose the rytham and everything just disintegrates into lameness... 
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#12
CoolAsPhuck

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Join Date: 04/01/2012 | Posts: 75

 The video on keeping things simple is so dope.
It was definitely needed for an over-analytical fuck like myself.

Thanks Julien, keep uploading stuff man.
You're my favorite.
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#13
jabbaworks321

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 You're taking requests?

INFIELD!
:)

~eugene
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#14

Tap

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Join Date: 02/19/2012 | Posts: 119

Definately one of my favourite videos.
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#15

Ocean2

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Join Date: 07/18/2011 | Posts: 698

So awesome!!! Lately I am doing stuff with less effort(less blabla talking) and more direct, and I was not completely sure if this was the right direction. Thanks so much for reinforcing my current believes and also the new insights of how to move her from spot A to spot B in the same manner.
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Brad

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Did your pants get tighter?
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#17
matt_c

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Join Date: 11/20/2011 | Posts: 471

Thanks Julien. I forgot your Plan A, B, C teaching from hotseat. Good refresher. I realised that to move a girl I'll do some retarded ("Hey, I'm gonna tell you friends that I'm going to you over there, just for 2 mins so they're ok with it. OK?" Then to freinds "Hey blah blah"....) NO! Plan A. Take her!
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#18

M. Shooter

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Join Date: 11/22/2011 | Posts: 7

Hey J, good simple and effective content.

Is there any city in Europe you would highlight for good nightlife and hot chicks? Planning a rampage.

And what was your experience like in Copenhagen last time you were here? 

Shooter, DK
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#19

M. Shooter

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Join Date: 11/22/2011 | Posts: 7

Hey J, good simple and effective content.

Is there any city in Europe you would highlight for good nightlife and hot chicks? Planning a rampage.

And what was your experience like in Copenhagen last time you were here? 

Shooter, DK
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#20

Knight.of.Nights

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Join Date: 05/18/2011 | Posts: 6

How do you make a girl feel like her friends are lame and you're the only cool one in the club.? And conspiracy theories are the shit! More teaching on that!
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#21
JamZx

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Join Date: 09/07/2012 | Posts: 274

The " Me and girl vs the world" frame, new shit for me, gotta try it hard. Much Thanks Julien
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#22

Turok

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i liked your 40 second oversell of those couches
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#23
Frank128

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dude the plan A, plan B, plan C idea is the best thing I've ever seen in a while. It's the elusive obvious ;)
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VisionsDivine

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Shock and awe yay!
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#25

morfoniolas

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 great videos!
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#26
Buffalo

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Join Date: 06/29/2011 | Posts: 37

One of the big things I learned in your freetour/hotseat was that you should not “value scan” for hot girls!!
I asked you how do you know if she’s hot right away, and you said that you didn’t, that you just approached without even knowing… I thought that was awesome and that you could talk more about it.

And also: solo game

Best regards...
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#27

cupshalfphil

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In Gestalt therapy, relating to your first video, there is direct/honest/I-Thou communication where you say exactly what's on your mind unfiltered , and it has a very powerful way of communicating from your being to another person's being rather than their image (which they can conscious control and stay logical).

There's also 'abouting' which is a form of communication where you talk 'about' things rather than to the person across from you; i.e. I-it communication: "So this weather..." (about) "Do you remember when we..." (about) vs. "I hate you for..." (I-Thou) and "I appreciate you for..." (I-Thou). One is emotional, real, and authentic, the other is safe, boring, and annoying.
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#28
Mark Francis

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Join Date: 07/06/2012 | Posts: 273

Hey Julien,

Great video. I'd like to hear you talk more about what exactly the "lower levels of the interaction are", and how to practice them effectively. Then I'd like for you to do the same for the intermediate and advanced levels as well.

So I'd like to your advice on getting good at this (whatever it may be) and then what the next step is and even the next step after that. I think it would be really helpful for everyone if you lay out a simple progression to work on.

Keep up the good work, it really helps!
Mark
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