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Julien
 
"Well, hello there..."

"How are YOU doing?!"

Things are going quite well over here on my end...

I've just finished successfully wrapping up one hell of a Live Program here in Rotterdam and I've FINALLY started working on my very own PICKUP MANIFESTO!

I've already recorded the very first draft this past Thursday and it's looking very, very promising... ;]

Be sure to check out my Blog these next couple of weeks for it's official release!

Here are my next Free Tour / Hot Seat 2 / Bootcamp dates…

November 15 – 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain
November 22 – 24, 2012: Kiev, Ukraine
November 29 – December 1, 2012: Moscow, Russia
December 6 – 8, 2012: Budapest, Hungary
December 13 – 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel

www.rsdfreetour.com / www.rsdhotseat.com / www.rsdbootcamp.com


You can also check out all of the cities that I'm going to be traveling to after this in the "Where I'll be next..." section at the very bottom of this article.

NORTH AMERICA (Toll Free): +1 (888) 546 7286
EUROPE: +44 (0) 2079 934 034
AUSTRALIA: +61 280 155 522
ASIA: +81345789305

I've also been EXCESSIVELY updating my Twitter and Facebook accounts with all sorts of funny and interesting lines for you to use and that I highly recommend that you check out RIGHT NOW!

***WWW.TWITTER.COM/RSDJULIEN***

***WWW.FACEBOOK.COM/RSDJULIEN***


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So...

Let's keep things simple and straightforward...

Definitive Guide To Sleeping With Girls The Same Night (May Be Too Advanced For You)
 
CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT REVEALS EVERYTHING THAT YOU NEED TO KNOW ABOUT SAME NIGHT LAYS:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KjJfYc8lJj0)

RELATED ARTICLES:

The Secrets to Pulling, A Complete Breakdown (Part 1) – What Exactly Do You Want?

The Secrets to Pulling, A Complete Breakdown (Part 2) – Having The Paradoxical Mindset

The Secrets to Pulling, A Complete Breakdown (Part 3) – Outer Game And Inner Game



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Everything You Know About DAYGAME Is Wrong: The Mindset That Gets Me Laid During The Day

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW THAT REVEALS THE TRUTH ABOUT DAYGAME: 


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bVbYRdiugyc)


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"That's all folks!"

Let me know what you think of these two videos and if you have any specific topics that you’d like to hear me cover in any future RSDNATION article!

PS: Don’t forget to check out the Hot Seat 2 event dates over at www.rsdhotseat.com as well!

CLICK ON THIS VIDEO RIGHT NOW IF YOU HAVEN'T ALREADY SEEN THIS OFFICIAL PREVIEW FOR THE EVENT:


(http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tlWrFgIR6CU)

United States
November 17, 2012: Albuquerque, New Mexico, USA
December 8, 2012: Las Vegas, Nevada, USA
December 22, 2012: Orlando, Florida, USA

Europe
November 17, 2012: Barcelona, Spain
November 24, 2012: Kiev, Ukraine
December 1, 2012: Moscow, Russia
December 8, 2012: Budapest, Hungary
January 19, 2013: Vienna, Austria
February 2, 2013: Helsinki, Finland

Middle East
December 15, 2012: Tel Aviv, Israel
January 5, 2013: Dubai, United Arab Emirates

South Africa
January 12, 2013: Cape Town, South Africa

www.rsdhotseat.com


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www.youtube.com/RSDJulien
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#1

PickupHero

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Join Date: 10/15/2012 | Posts: 99

Thank you!! :)D 


PickupHero :)D
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Zer0.Point

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Thanks mate.
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mikevick07

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"realistical" lmao.......great videos though
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Tyler

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Nice I like how your Free Tour vid basically explains that WOMAN ARE NO DIFFERENT THAN MEN!

They want sex and frankly would fuck practically any warm body that feels good on top of them / inside of them, but they get judged for it by both their peers and YOU.

The vBlog is solid and expands on ideas from a past Free Tour vid which had some good infield to back up your points.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hYO3aHfn8M0&feature=plcp

Rotterdam looks like an interesting place, I've done Amsterdam a whole bunch of times but never Rotterdam, envious!

Tyler
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#5

El_Diego

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Join Date: 07/29/2009 | Posts: 146

Its so cool how you can synthesize so many powerful concepts and lay them out in a very straightforward clear way.

Since hotseat ive been focusing on neutralizing on girls heads:

No pressure
No responsibilities
and No repercussions

Covering the exits FTW!

Thanks for the video
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#6

Hamilton

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Join Date: 11/12/2012 | Posts: 144

Un Categorized
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#7

financebro

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 Come back to Portland!
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#8
Brucefast

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Hey Julian; you did a nice job presenting the video addressing extraction, getting girls to have sex; however I can not say that I agree with any other the content; of the video;  RSD culture claims that girls want sex even more than men; however everything that I have seen and experienced my entire life contradicts this; if girls wanted sex so much wouldnt they find a way and just have it??

It s hard to believe girls like sex, as much, as RSD claims; Girls, in my experience go to such great lengths to create tremendous obstacles to sharing sex; most often obstacles such as indifference or games, . Even attempting to meet a girl her attraction frequency often seems so oppressive and abstract; to the extent that it would rival accomplishing a feat such as Luke Skywalker’s, when he used "the force", magic to move matter from across the room or on another planet.

Wouldn't “hammering away”, that is covering all possible objections to an extraction - sex; make the guy "outcome dependant" in the eyes of the girl???. Nevertheless, I do still remember the outstanding instruction that you provided for me on my bootcamp and for that I am very grateful; and I still bring your guidance with me to this very day, it was very valuable on the bootcamp and still is to this day.

Hope your having a great on trip,

Best Personal Regards,

Bruce
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BeWater

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Hey Tyler, the Sun is only shining on half his face in the second video and there's some sort of black rectangle on the right side of the screen. Not as bad as a black square but still pretty distracting. Time to nuke this video as soon as Julien does another day game video to replace it...........trollface.jpg

Naw, but for real though, good content! I especially like the SNL video. There were several times in the last few weeks were I could have pushed the interaction further and overcame objections better. Still need to improve that part of my game and this video is a great reminder of those concepts that help make that happen.
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#10

Bowss

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Brucefast wrote:
Hey Julian; you did a nice job presenting the video addressing extraction, getting girls to have sex; however I can not say that I agree with any other the content; of the video;  RSD culture claims that girls want sex even more than men; however everything that I have seen and experienced my entire life contradicts this; if girls wanted sex so much wouldnt they find a way and just have it??

It s hard to believe girls like sex, as much, as RSD claims; Girls, in my experience go to such great lengths to create tremendous obstacles to sharing sex; most often obstacles such as indifference or games, . Even attempting to meet a girl her attraction frequency often seems so oppressive and abstract; to the extent that it would rival accomplishing a feat such as Luke Skywalker’s, when he used "the force", magic to move matter from across the room or on another planet.

Wouldn't “hammering away”, that is covering all possible objections to an extraction - sex; make the guy "outcome dependant" in the eyes of the girl???. Nevertheless, I do still remember the outstanding instruction that you provided for me on my bootcamp and for that I am very grateful; and I still bring your guidance with me to this very day, it was very valuable on the bootcamp and still is to this day.

Hope your having a great on trip,

Best Personal Regards,

Bruce
Hi Bruce.
Girls do in reality love having sex (if it's good sex they can have like a 10 second orgasm). Pretty hard for a guy to enjoy it as much as that. True this doesn't always happen and girls aren't ALWAYS actually looking for sex, but as Julien says in another vid it's helpful to your game that you're developing a selected blindspot that 'they always want sex' (and they ARE thinking about it a lot: I've had girls complain to me that they haven't had sex in like 1 week or 2...) So actually when you do end up with them it's a massive win for them, you've just gotta make it happen. If you do get past the objections and have great sex they think you're amazing, they're not thinking: 'asshole tricked me!'

BUT the problem for them is that they are massively judged for liking sex (not always, but often) and this is because society as a whole says that having casual sex is wrong (not so much anymore, but still definitely enough for a girl to worry a fair amount). If a girl's friends and even the guy she's with think she's a slut, then her whole social situation can be compromised, she might have people bitching about her etc. Also a lot of guys judge girls for having sex too early and may not see her again, so she needs to realise you're non-judgmental about it too. So the idea is remove all responsibility from her so that she can feel comfortable with it happening.

So the fact that girls may often hold off on having sex with a guy (and giving resistance) EVEN IF THEY DO ACTUALLY WANT IT is because of this 'anti-slut defence' ; OR because the guy's behaviour is not attractive: he's not centred, he doesn't give a range of emotions and isn't comfortable being physical. If she sees you as more of a 'provider', she may well hold off on sex.

I used to think similarly about not being outcome dependent but actually, persistence is GOOD. This is persistence, not neediness: the difference being that you don't need her to make yourself feel good, but you want her and push hard to make it happen! You want to be the most inspiring person you can be, i.e. be awesome, but at the end of the day, not many girls want to take the responsibility of sex for the above reasons.

Potentially the best thing I learned from hotseat2 is how hard Julien and Tyler persist, but all from a frame of assuming their value. I had a girl run off last week (about 15 mins in) cos I made fun of her in a harsh way (she was more insecure than I realised). I left it and had some other fun, but then went to find her a bit later and reopened, because the initial interaction was awesome otherwise. She came home with me 15 mins later. If I'd been thinking 'this is needy', then that wouldn't have happened.
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#11
Tyler

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Hey Bruce here's a video about what you were asking about on the forum!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_U8yhu3f548&feature=plcp

As for girls liking sex, as your game gets better you'll see it more.

In my last 2 video blogs you see me pulling both those girls pretty quickly -- that's DAY TO DAY REALITY for me!

But when you're not at that point in your game, it definitely doesn't seem to be the case.

Be patient.  Take your time.  It took me nearly 2 years to get my first lay.

You're also an older guy so you gotta expect that some girls will get all kinked out and turned on by that, whereas others will feel attraction but won't be willing to actually have sex.

Now that I'm 33 that's happening to me the odd time as well (in smaller cities as opposed to NYC/LA/Miami/Vegas), which is one of the reasons I keep myself lean as possible so that there's as little of a mental gap as possible for the girl to ACT on her desires for me and actually want to fuck.

(Bare in mind I get laid so much this has no actual effect on my sex life, so if the girl won't fuck me I'm onto the next within seconds...)

Regardless though I know many girls who only want to fuck older guys, particularly HOTTER women who can only get aroused by a guy who can stay centered around her and doesn't want "boys".

Many of these girls say "I don't date boys, I don't fuck boys" and want that older guy, so make sure you're approaching the hottest women possible to increase the chances of that happening -- it's always HOTTER girls who are most open to threesomes and older dudes etc, cause they  have more confidence than the semi hot girls who aren't as centered in their self image.

(It's also always usually the 8.5+ girls who are attracted by male/female polarity, whereas the 7's are more into the guy being "cute" cause they think that's' what a hot girl would fuck when in reality they have no idea what a hot girl would fuck.  Hotter the girl = more attraction to POLARITY over looks.)

Tyler

Brucefast wrote:
Hey Julian; you did a nice job presenting the video addressing extraction, getting girls to have sex; however I can not say that I agree with any other the content; of the video;  RSD culture claims that girls want sex even more than men; however everything that I have seen and experienced my entire life contradicts this; if girls wanted sex so much wouldnt they find a way and just have it??

It s hard to believe girls like sex, as much, as RSD claims; Girls, in my experience go to such great lengths to create tremendous obstacles to sharing sex; most often obstacles such as indifference or games, . Even attempting to meet a girl her attraction frequency often seems so oppressive and abstract; to the extent that it would rival accomplishing a feat such as Luke Skywalker’s, when he used "the force", magic to move matter from across the room or on another planet.

Wouldn't “hammering away”, that is covering all possible objections to an extraction - sex; make the guy "outcome dependant" in the eyes of the girl???. Nevertheless, I do still remember the outstanding instruction that you provided for me on my bootcamp and for that I am very grateful; and I still bring your guidance with me to this very day, it was very valuable on the bootcamp and still is to this day.

Hope your having a great on trip,

Best Personal Regards,

Bruce
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Novatoast

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So basically what you're saying is that the only "advantage" of being a "naturally" born "good looking" guy is that 5s, 6s, and 7s will be throwing themselves at us left & right, but the "average" looking dude has to "work for it" and can just focus on process and polarity to get the 8s, 9s, and 10s?

Thanks Tyler, ...THANKS
Tyler wrote:
(It's also always usually the 8.5+ girls who are attracted by male/female polarity, whereas the 7's are more into the guy being "cute" cause they think that's' what a hot girl would fuck when in reality they have no idea what a hot girl would fuck.  Hotter the girl = more attraction to POLARITY over looks.)
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Novatoast wrote:
So basically what you're saying is that the only "advantage" of being a "naturally" born "good looking" guy is that 5s, 6s, and 7s will be throwing themselves at us left & right, but the "average" looking dude has to "work for it" and can just focus on process and polarity to get the 8s, 9s, and 10s?

Thanks Tyler, ...THANKS
Tyler wrote:
(It's also always usually the 8.5+ girls who are attracted by male/female polarity, whereas the 7's are more into the guy being "cute" cause they think that's' what a hot girl would fuck when in reality they have no idea what a hot girl would fuck.  Hotter the girl = more attraction to POLARITY over looks.)
You lost on me the second part of your sentance nova, please eleborate haha
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Tyler

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It depends.

If you have good intentions towards people and interact genuinely, but also know for example that showing a girl "honest signals" (like calling her a with total congruence) will trigger comfort and attraction in her brain to bring the two of you together, it's all good.

(Cause she would have noticed how pimp you are eventually ANYWAY, so may as well give her an example NOW before she's ripped away by her friends to go dance.)

But if you're coming from a bad place internally and think you can avoid fixing this with tricks and gambits, it's useless and rarely works.

People smell a weirdo a mile away.

Tyler
John Cusack wrote:
You can't go through life treating humans as hypnotizable chickens. That's a miserable thing to do, wacked like NLP. It's not NATURAL
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#15
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 thanks jules. just came home from a date, where there was a gay Michael watching. Happened to me the other day also. A lot of gay Michaels ruining my sets
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John Cusack wrote:
You can't go through life treating humans as hypnotizable chickens. That's a miserable thing to do, wacked like NLP. It's not NATURAL
I wouldn't look at it like that. would you consider it a miserable thing if someone "tricked" you into pursuing your life dreams by playing into your desires and natural "triggers" leading you to do what you truly wanted. sure they may have "manipulated" you or "hypnotized" you but it was what you truly wanted. Girls want to have sex, they want to have sex with someone awesome. I like to think im pretty awesome and I want to give them what they want. And there is lots of ways to do that but using peoples triggers is one of those ways.
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Holland

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I really enjoyed your talk, Julien. I was afraid it was going to be a lot of marketing crap like it was a few years back with Papa running a free tour back in Amsterdam (no offense, but it was pretty lame), but this one was really solid. RSD, me and my friend even made it into some newspaper article about the event xD
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#18

Zack_Brawler

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 Maaan ! I love how you thought up that huge analogy in the first video! 

I was always aware of the anti-slut defenses and how girls come up with millions of objections not to "have sex", but I never really understood why or how it felt like being in her skin.

With the Starbucks and Fat girl analogy, I can perfectly see why leading and taking off all the responsibilities will make sex that much more easily attainable. And it goes to show how girls really are the more "social creatures". It's crazy how they rely and apply so much importance to social influences and norms. And how dependent they are to having friends as a sort of support group, no matter what.
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shua

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 Nice job with the specific examples Julien. Work of art.
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