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 So I just completed yet another glorious weekend of Bootcamp instruction, this time here in San Franmotherfuckingcisco. That of course means the van was rolling the streets, and in fact on Saturday evening one of the students pulled a lovely young lady to this amazing vehicle for some romance in the mist. 

This weekend I'm staying here in SF and after that down to LA with my buddy Julien and then off to Canada for CALGARY STAMPEDE! Check it out:

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So today's video is on the topic of PREMATURE EJECTULATION.

This, simply put, is when you are interacting with a woman, it's going well, and then for apparently no discernable reason, you decide to just POOF! Cut the fuck out of the set and eject. 

BUH BYE

Why do we do this, and how can we prevent it from happenening in the future? The answers lie within:



And there you have it. 

As for me, I'm really stepping up my workout schedule these days, which means I'm in a perpetual state of mild fatigue. In a good way. Seeing as how I have a romantic date scheduled for later this evening, I'm going to go ahead and take this opportunity to have a bit of a nap. 

See you next time.

-j

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#1

Shawnn

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 Mature Ejackkkulationnn 
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Kaladyn

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I forget people still are uncomfortable with RSD and studying seduction. I talk about it all the time to a bunch of dead ears. I pretend the masses will catch up after a few years -_-

nice shirt btw jeffy.  how do they fit on a smaller guy? orange and blue definitely my favorite colors
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Analog-Kid

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Thats a nice cock you got there Jeff!

Good points! I love how honest and real you can deliver these lessons. I like how you can dumb it down for the least common denomenators. At the same time, still be engaging to a condescending, high and mighty prick like me.
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 Nice video, good stuff Jeffy
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SpaceMonkey993

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Great video man, one of your best. 
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Ryan

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Best video you've put out IMO.  Smooth start to finish.
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#7

JohnnyCanada

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Damn that was good!...All killer, no filler from Jeff!

Great job on explaining approach anxiety in a clear and consise way, not only that, you've explained how to exactly overcome it, both before the approach and after.

I've had many times where Ive turned away from good interactions because I wanted demonstrate being non-needy and cool. I now realize thats a bunch of crap and I was only doing it to protect my self  image instead of being  honest with my intentions and putting my chips on the table.

It takes time to deeply internailze that NOTHING BAD HAPPENS when you approach a girl. Just realize that if a girl rejects you, that won't cause you to starve to death and it won't cause WW3. It will only affect something that isn't even real, your ego.

Thanks for the great content..Keep up the awesome work!
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in a strange way this was one of your best videos.. i cant explain it
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la leuce

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Cause he's home. Nothings sexier than a Jeffy at home.
Kid_Ink wrote:
in a strange way this was one of your best videos.. i cant explain it
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Ra6115

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1st thing that caught my eye was the weed plants
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Matrim

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 Awsome and deep.
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Dr Feelgood

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 With the sound scientific content and the academic language of this lecture, it should be taught at Harvard as "Socio-Sexual Economics I"!
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Shayne

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Quote:

Kaladyn wrote:

nice shirt btw jeffy.  how do they fit on a smaller guy? orange and blue definitely my favorite colors

I'm 5'7" and got the pink small size one. It's too long so I have to fold it down but otherwise it suits me OK.
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#14

myrwy

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Nice one! I would have liked to hear more about ejecting from a good interaction since that was the title of the vid... However I got the point. If I eject from a good set it's because I'm scared that the interaction suddenly turns bad somehow. My ego wants that validation of girls liking me and I can always fantasize afterwards how I could have fucked that girl. So like you said it's like approach anxiety after the approach.


I've had some problems with this "premature ejectulation" recently. This definitely helps. I have to let go of my self image and stay with the set even though my mind wants otherwise.
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Holland

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Very good perspective. Recently my wing was like, dude, I realized that actually a lot of guys we're impressed and thought it was cool that I was recently approaching and pursuing my interest in attractive girls. Although this was an external observation and was exclusively to fairly intelligent guys (he was referring to guys he was relating to at University), as I've also encountered the opposite (low self-esteem guys stuck in self-image paradigm that hate on you because they don't have the balls to approach massive amounts of girls and like to see you fail because it affirms that being passive is the way to go), but the perspective very much holds.

We started coupling it when Tyler's idea of pumping your own state by celebrating for the sake of you having taken the right action after every approach. Before I would get validated by a make-out or fucking a girl as another notch in the belt strap, but I decided to shift that perspective around and apply the same pride to the act of approaching itself.
We'd see a girl and be like: Fuck yeah, another opportunity to get an approach and reference experience under our belt and give ourselves massive props at the end of the night for every right action taken as we are breaking away from what hordes of chodes were doing (or should I say not doing) and taking our lives in a more pro-active direction. We focus on getting the reference experiences and reward ourselves regardless of outcome as having the courage to approach a lot means you're a fucking man, instead of crying when the results don't come after one approach (aka self-image paradigm of 'if-you-don't-fuck-her-you-failed-and-you-suck'. We're having so much more fun now.
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Astore

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Awesome content and brilliant delivery! Thanks man for bringing this concept to the table, i caught myself ejecting from sets so many times that i can't even explain it. Very interesting point . Thanks again Jeffy!
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great vid. really had that "higher consciousness" aspect to it, I felt like a "psychological shift" WHILE watching it
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For real man, smooth talking, no ummmms, and on topics..... good shit
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Ra6115 wrote:
1st thing that caught my eye was the weed plants


Riiiiiight...
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 nice video about the distinction between approaching and identity mate!
make a video about closing dysfunction 
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#21

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 dudes you dont need to even learn game to get wenches you just gotta buy a beastmode tshirt and your gravy baby
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I was trying to imagine you without the mustache. I know you are care enough about my opinion to not ignore it. So shave the fu**ing mustache so I can look at you. Just kidding.

You are prettey :)) As always.

And yes the beard without mustache is cool Jeffy. You know it.
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Kaladyn wrote:
I forget people still are uncomfortable with RSD and studying seduction. I talk about it all the time to a bunch of dead ears. I pretend the masses will catch up after a few years -_-

nice shirt btw jeffy.  how do they fit on a smaller guy? orange and blue definitely my favorite colors


They fit fine, just get the small. The one I'm wearing is medium
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Analog-Kid wrote:
Thats a nice cock you got there Jeff!

Good points! I love how honest and real you can deliver these lessons. I like how you can dumb it down for the least common denomenators. At the same time, still be engaging to a condescending, high and mighty prick like me.

It's definitely a skill I've taken long years to develop.
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Ra6115 wrote:
1st thing that caught my eye was the weed plants

The plants in the video are Sansevieria Trifasciata and a variegated Dracaena.There are no weed plants in my home.

I keep them in the backyard.
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jlaix

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Shayne wrote:
Quote:

Kaladyn wrote:

nice shirt btw jeffy.  how do they fit on a smaller guy? orange and blue definitely my favorite colors

I'm 5'7" and got the pink small size one. It's too long so I have to fold it down but otherwise it suits me OK.


I prefer my shirts a but longer otherwise I'm always worried people will see my ass crack when I'm sitting at the bar.
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myrwy wrote:
Nice one! I would have liked to hear more about ejecting from a good interaction since that was the title of the vid... However I got the point. If I eject from a good set it's because I'm scared that the interaction suddenly turns bad somehow. My ego wants that validation of girls liking me and I can always fantasize afterwards how I could have fucked that girl. So like you said it's like approach anxiety after the approach.

Yes, you just talked yourself through your own question. Premature ejecting is basically the same as approach anxiety. This same phenomenon can even be seen further down the line of the seduction, where guys get her back to the bedroom and are then afraid to pull the trigger, etc etc.
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V-necks suck. They look ugly:) 
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Todd

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That was a really excellent psychological breakdown...  Very deep and very educational!
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Thanks Jeff
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Mitizaro

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 Hey Jeffy... first of all despite that at a moment there it sounded like you're pumping words you don't understand yourself :D... 

OTOH this video was a killer. You really struck it deep there and it sounded like you've got sooo much variety of experience in this game... that it's kind of nostalgic, isn't it? I've been around here and went out for MASSIVE action since you're made the Transformations stuff (or at least when i found it - around 4-5 years ago) and i remember i couldn't watch you negative rants...
But later on you made it to be amazing dude, very beasty and funny -- we all loved your stuff, mate.
It's like i'm watching some old legend and i can't help but feel very sad because i've always dreamed of meeting you personally, and i dunno if you're gonna be in the game for too long and what's gonna happen. Interesting stuff..


Now i'd like to make a proposition. I (and i believe others) would LOVE  to see a video on how to act/deal with shit if this whole RSD game stuff (not the classic pua but exactly THIS lifestyle) has become your identity.
I remember first hearing about RSD and Tyler at the age of 15. I went through SO MUCH... just my first 3-4 months were massive day-game action - 20-30+ approaches a day. I basicly slept, ate, trained and picked-up and had dates. EVERY SINGLE DAY (workouts were 3xweek, pick-up was 6-7 times a week).

But in time i've started to "defend my own natural-rsdness" which is in fact other way of keeping the inflated bubble when the right action is needed instead.
So as you've said in other video - learning game at youg age and being identified as Natural, or PUA, or RSD Gamer or w/e... can be QUITE problematic.
I'm STILL 2 years away from becoming 23 - the perfect age to start this, and i've already lost my virginity with pick-up, all of my fuck buddies have been there, have MASSIVE amout of experience and i keep on going out to this day, i've had amazing personal life-changing drama, have even gotten beaten the sh*t out during going out (mostly because i was an idiot, it was VERY AVOIDABLE!!!)... and it's nostalgic for ME to watch the veterans age. 
But game should be an expasion to yourself - like an addon, not the basic building/structure itslef, right?
Soooo... i never thought that i would have THIS kind of problems. Have always believed that if i just man up, take the right actions and be at least a little smart about how i tackle this - that EVERY actions is a positive in my bank account... but i begin to realize that i face something very unfamiliar.

Maybe i haven't seen this vid. Or maybe this is a new chance to create some value for us, the yougsters who got too early on the vagon of the rollercoaster.


Anyway - you're still the boss, i'd love to meet you in person. And to see Gary pull his pants on IN LIVE! 

:)
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 cool vid
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