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 Yo yo jeffy here, it's Tuesday and that means it's time to update my little corner of the blogosphere. Kickin it here in SF this week, hitting the gym hard and cutting my own hair while drunk. After this short respite it's back to the motherfuckin grind with two bootcamps here in SF, and then back on the road for more love and magic. Check it:

April 19-21: Calgary (w/ Alexander) 
April 26-28: San Francisco
May 3-5: San Francisco
May 10-12: Toronto (w/ Alexander)
May 17-19: San Francisco
May 23-25: Dallas
May 31-June 2: Austin
June 6-8: Las Vegas


As you can see, I haven't really planned out my summer schedule yet, so if you would like me to come to your city, I'm totally open to travel to YOU and make your dreams of come true. 

It's what I do. 

So anyway, about to break my "intermittent fasting" in a minute here, but before that, I'd like to share with y'all a little video I shot at the Bay Bridge last night, with its quite impressive new light display. The topic of today's video is...

DURRRRRRRRRRR

Yes, DURR. Many have wondered what this simple, guttural word means over the years, and it has never really been adequately explained. Hopefully this video will change that... FOREVER. Check it:



And there you have it. 

Of course, take note that this "method" REQUIRES a basic knowledge of game mechanics. As I stated in the video, you are LETTING GO and having faith in your PREVIOUS TRAINING, in combination with your INSTINCTS. If you are not already massively familiar with the mechanics of game, say for example how to orchestrate a pull, then the DURRR method may actually do you more harm than good, as you passively stand by and watch the set go to shit. lol

This should go without saying, however we all know there are many people who simply read forums and watch videos endlessly without taking the necessary action in field to give context to the advice and thus make it ACTUALLY USEFUL. 

Ok, well I'm off to take a free tour of the Anchor Steam brewery here in San Francisco, which shall constitute my breakfast. Experiment around with this, and I'll see you in the comments section.

-j 
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#1

Zack_Brawler

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 FIRST!!! ARghhhh.

There we go, now that I've got that taken care of, I can read Jeffy's article.
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goldenbird

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who was flying the helicopter?! haha anyway so true. I have the most success when my mind is blank and I am just in the moment. I usually have a constant stream of thoughts running through my head. Meditation and yes dude... also Tolle has done miracles to me. I experience more gaps of no-thought. Thanks for the practical tips sir, very useful to me. 
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Kris-

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 HADOUKEN!
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Vinreaper

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I like to talk nonsense and mess around . Haha , thanks for reinforcing it ! 
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Doge~

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Fuck man. Always get mad jealous of your beard. #asianproblems
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@Kris- SHORYUKEN!!!!
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#7

Gulisos

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Very good video.
It's really core of the game:)
Tyler's focus on the process, Julien - lower your standards for what is fun and now this- that seems to be bible of what mindset you should have. Once I really integrated this I have so much fun during going out it's crazy. I also like the part of passing shit tests. That's sometimes tough part but at the same time ultimate chance.
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Noronha

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Awesome jeff! 
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The Hawk

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Jeffy.. Jeffy.. Jeffy.. dede.. Jeffy!

Cool stuff man.
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SebastianValmont

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You and your fuckin big ass words, THIS IS AMUURRICA. Funny how your post is called what it it's called when you clearly have the best vocabulary of the bunch. Anyway...

COME UP TO PORTLAND, OREGON THIS SUMMER! Seriously, there are pacific northwestern hipsters who are in much need of tooling by you. Or even go to Seattle. 

Luke
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#11

Dynasty90

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Come to Cleveland, Ohio this summer Jeff lol. It's really not as shitty as everyone thinks it is.

Ok I lied...it's not the greatest, but the bars on West 6th St are pretty fun.
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Anthony John

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 Hadoken!
I wish I would have known about this whole 'nonsense' concept 10 years ago.  I would have kept on doing it after highschool.  Time to relive those years!
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Zer0.Point

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DAMN DUDE your videos are getting more and more legit! So fucking potent spot-on!

One of the hardest things prolly for you guys to communicate to people is how to not think, how to not be logical. Yet the means to communicate this IS most often on the level of logic. So I feel your videos are a lot more in tune with being able to communicate WHY non-logic works on a non-logical level! DOES THIS MAKE SENSE ???
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jameslotham

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 Hey Jeffy! Really been getting a lot out of your videos recently. Awesome quality and look forward to new ones! 
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garrett

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"The power of utter stupidity cannot be overstated."

Can I use this quote in my blog? Thank you.
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justindark

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jeff always says shit that seems trivial but so powerful at the same time. i have a friend who's really popular with girls and he does silly and stupid shit like making chciken sounds to random people all the time. i used to think that hurt his game, it wasnt smooth like james bond. now i know how wrong i was.
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smack_attack

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dude jeff, thank you so much for posting this vid. I didn't even watch it yet lol, but Ive been coding for like 8 hours straight and literally just ur fucking smile put things in perspective and reminded me how stupid it is to be stressed. And now I get to watch a video of you talking about shit I love. Fuck yeah.
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Theres this part in GLODT where jeffy drives a girl to his place and realizes her state is dropping, which he immediately encounters with yelling "PLASMA BABY WHOOOP WHOOOP!!" at the top of his voice and singing to britney spears

a true hero
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Mindfullness is the shit!
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Kool Kane

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Wow, shoving a guy in his head through politely asking him logical questions is pretty evil.
I gotta make a mental note on that one. That's the definition of being a troll^^
To be emotional, instead of logical wasn't a new concept for me (especially as I wrote something similar in my last comment on Tylers last video). But I've never thought about it that way. I've never thought about it, that women unconciously push us in a logical mindset by shit-testing us. That makes a lot of sense. Everytime you try to explain or defend yourself you go into your head and become logical. It kills the fun and light-hearted vibe that you've had with the girl just a minute ago. That's what I like about your and Juliens style of passing shittests. It's not to witty or to clever. So, you don't have to think about it too long. And you treat it the way it should be treat it. You don't pay too much attention on it. You recognize shittests as what they are: irrelevant bullshit. It's nonsense and so you respond with nonsense. 
Be emotional not logic. That's the reason I try to avoid speaking about topics like work for example. I always skip such topics as fast as possible, I don't want to be in a logical headspace and talk about boring things. I like to speak about emotional stimulating topics such as movies, music, pop culture, gossip, travel. Things that are exiting and fun or just be stupid. I want to express myself in an engaging way. To use my Rap analogy a second time here: don't pay attention on your lyrics, pay attention on your flow.


Regarding being present. I enjoyed Tolle's material, but I've never got obsessed with it. It was actually pretty mindblowing the first time I read it and I can spiritually relate way more to buddhism and new age concepts than to common religions, but I didn't want to become enlightened in this stage of my life. I just want to get laid, so I accept a few concepts that I think are helpful. I accept the fact that I will die some day and that I shouldn't take anything to seriously because everything is just a moment that passes by. It's your movie so try to live your life to the fullest. Regarding meditation, I don't really take my time to meditate on a specific time in the day. I meditate on a more practical way, I meditate right before going to sleep most of the time. Did you ever notice how you can't fall asleep as long as you keep thinking about something?


I shut my head off in order to get a rest and fall asleep. No matter which problems I might struggle with at that particular moment. I shut my head off and fall asleep. Another good moment to meditate is while sarging during the day. When I feel butthurt about a rejection and I feel that my state begins to crumble because of that, I start focusing on the presence. I shut my head off and concentrate on the moment and of course on all the cute honeys passing by. Another good moment to meditate is while waiting on something for example the bus, the subway or while standing in a queue. Something that would normally annoy you, because let's face it: waiting on something is fucking boring.
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 06:34 I SAW YOU JEFF
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Clou

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" Enter the stupidety for your own amusement"  it´s called flirting and not rocked science, your eloquenceand fun vibe in putting your thougths together make those important points realy imprint on me .thanks Jeff
come to Germany man ;)
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#23
JohnMickens

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 YO Jeffy, try to hit new orleans this summer, I went to the free tour, but couldn't make it to the regional conference. And I am in need of some of your expert training. plus I have a plethora of knowledge about the city and its many entertainment venues as I am from here.
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Reloop

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Dude the Harry Potter thing so fucking hilarious hahahaha laughing my balls off....

Great video btw Jeff, really improving and hitting good topics,
Thnx!
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420Horsewhisperer

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Dude! I've been experimenting with the IF too and kinda liking it! I have a question though. Judging from the timestamp on this post it seems like you're breaking your fast late in the day, which would be at odds with the conventional nutritional wisdom. Have you found that to be a detriment at all, or is it as I suspect in that it doesn't matter so much the time of day you're eating so long as you're eating during the window of time that you're more active (which in both our cases, seems to be later in the evening as a matter of habit)?
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#26

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 Quality Jeffy
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#27

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This explains why I get better results when I am drunk.  Unfortunately, the beer goggles don't help me to select the hottest girls and being drunk can cause me to not bother with details like figuring out logistics and shit.  .  Any advice on how to get yourself in to the type of state that allows your mind to let go like that?  
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 06:34 nice!
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I feel enlightened.  Jeffy basically says that just do it whatever #not-thinking-my-reply lol
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 "Because you my homie"
Gave me a chuckle.
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Nikola the Strong

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 It is a nice lighting, indeed. No need for television, it kills creativity. Hope that the truck is ok . :-)
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 I love this
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Brendan

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 If you think long you think wrong. 
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#34

Leo386X

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 Great Stuff, My biggest weakness so far is THINKING TOO DAMN MUCH prior to approach. ANyways this vid helps alot!
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 Nice!
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 Perfect
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cool :)
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IronLion

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Found out the hard way that you need experience to do this haha got blown out pretty hard.
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 Good stuff!
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Hey Jeff, how do you avoid being treated like a big dorky idiot when you do this shit? Every time I launch into some silly shit song and dance girls might giggle, but it's always the "Omg! What a dork. That's so embarassing." giggle. I know you said congruence, but how do you get congruence with things like that?

I remember a while back I tried your old "I'm a douchebag. Wanna be friends?" opener, and the girls laughed, but they were just like "no leave us alone" every fucking time like 30 times in a row.... Wtf..
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Wow!
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Mr. Matthews

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Hey Jeff, in the video "The 27 Rules of the Pimp Game part 1", what's that song you play at the end?
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